Being that I am in the business of uplifting and encouraging women to follow their hearts and go for their dreams, I find it extremely difficult to process when I see women (and people in general) poo-pooing on the dreams of others. It infuriates me because while I know that their comments are not about anyone but themselves, I also know words hold a ton of power and our dreams are like delicate flowers. Dream crushing comments (no matter how small) can easily cause dreamers to give up all together.
It is also why I created the Group Coaching Program for Business-Minded Women. I believe women can come together in support of one another without the catty competition and crass comments. Jealousy that someone has something that we want doesn’t have to be how we connect with one another. I have felt this sense of competition in a variety of ways and even in some groups I have been in. One person’s success doesn’t mean another person’s failure. It also doesn’t mean that two people doing similar work have to compete.
What happened to collaborating, community, and compassion for one another?
What about sharing, supporting, and uplifting one another in our desires? I want to celebrate everyone’s success because I know that we are all capable of creating the life of our dreams doing work we love. And each time I see another soul-sister’s dreams come true, I am inspired to keep going, keep dreaming, and keep following my heart.
I just wish everyone felt the same way.
The fire and passion I feel as I write this stems from reading a not so nice comment about an extremely talented and amazing woman (also one of our guest teachers for the group program) Crystal Davis. Recently one of Crystal’s amazing dreams came true and she published her book Azure Assurances. ( You can check out an awesome article about their work here.) This book is a collaboration with an equally talented artist Kylie Fogarty to create a masterpiece of poetry and art that is nothing less than gorgeous. I had the opportunity to check it out and as a poet myself, I can tell you it is simply fabulous.
Not only do I love their work, but I also am so incredibly inspired by the powerful collaboration between two talented women with an amazing vision. It reminds me why I am creating a space for community, collaboration, and support for business-minded women to come together. THIS is exactly the kind of thing we need more of in the world.
More sharing, celebrating, and supporting one another.
With that said I want you to know that there is enough room in the world for everyone to succeed. There are infinite possibilities of how your vision can come together and collaboration is the way of the future. We are not on our paths alone and surely aren’t meant to create the thriving life of our dreams by ourselves. They say it takes a village to raise a child and I say the same goes for cultivating a community of dreamers and achievers. Join me in celebrating the success of others and congratulate, connect, and commune with other like-minded souls.
I also encourage you to check out Crystal and Kylie’s masterpiece, Azure Assurances. Buy it, give it as a gift, and support two amazingly talented women who have made their dreams come true.
