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5 Things You Need To Create A Life You LOVE

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Everyone wants a life they love right?

But, how many are actually willing to do the work that is required to make that life a reality?

Far too many people are sitting on the sidelines, wishing, waiting, and wondering when their time will come.

If you are one of those people-today is your day, but you have to be willing to do just a few things to create a life you love.

Below are 5 things you absolutely need to do to create a life you love.

  • Get honest with yourself.  Take an honest inventory of your current life and look at what is working really well and what isn’t.  Don’t just pigeon hole yourself into one area of your life.  Look at everything.  See how well your self-care is doing, your health, relationships, career, family life, hobbies, etc.  How are your finances? How are you feeling most of the time?  Take an honest look at it all and figure out where you want to make improvements that will make you FEEL better.  How you feel is the key to this inventory and make sure you don’t ignore what IS working.  That is incredibly important as we always need to see that there are things that are working in our lives.

 

  • Learn to say ‘no’.  As women this can be a difficult one.  We are naturally service-oriented and want to help, nurture, and care for others, many times leaving whatever is left for ourselves.  We will make sacrifices to no end and happily put others before ourselves even if that means we are doing things we really don’t want to do. Learning to say no is imperative to making sure you are focusing on things that light you up and keep your cup full.  If your cup isn’t full, you have nothing left to give anyone else.

 

  • Start small.  As they say: Rome wasn’t built in a day and neither is your dream life.  Don’t start making big swooping changes in every area of your life as it can be quite jarring and can create a ton of anxiety and overwhelm.  Start small with implementing more of what you truly love and enjoy.  Remember to focus on the things that make you feel good.  The more you do that, the easier the transition and changes will be.  As a side note if you were going to start anywhere first, I’d start with your mindset because your mindset is EVERYTHING.

 

  • Dare to take risks.  Once we reach a certain age, we tend to get comfortable with our lives even if they aren’t exactly how we want them to be.  We allow our comfort zone to become like a cocoon wrapping over us and keeping us safe from harm and disappointment.  But, all those things you desire for your dream life are right outside your cocoon.  You can’t get to them when you are all wrapped up.  You have to be willing to break free from your comfort zone and take risks every now and then.  Start now, write down 3 things that are a bit scary that will take you out of your comfort zone and will help create a life you love.

 

  • Take action.  This one seems a bit obvious, but there are so many women out there who know exactly what they need to do, but they aren’t.  Maybe it’s fear, worry, anxiety, or just plain procrastination that keeps them paralyzed, but they just aren’t moving in the direction they know they want to go.  It isn’t until we work together and they have the accountability and push that they really begin moving forward.  If you are one of these people, stop stalling and get busy!  Take action now.  Your dream life depends on it.

So there you have it.  5 things you need to do in order to create a life you love.  Which will you start with this weekend?

If you are looking for some support during this process to help you stay in action or to take the risks you need to move you forward, I’d love to chat with you more about it.  I have a few spots open in the coming weeks for you to schedule a FREE 30-Minute Consultation. Simply click the button below to get signed up.

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LOA Tip: Energy Shifts Before Your Manifestation Occurs

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What do you do when you are working on manifesting money, your dream career, your soulmate or maybe your dream house and despite doing everything you’ve been taught…nothing happens?

I get this question more than you think and to be honest, I’ve dealt with it in my own manifesting journey on more than one occasion.

I have my high vibe practice set up with EFT tapping, meditation, affirmations, visualization, and inspired action and I even lean back and let the Universe take over-but, there are moments when I just can’t help but ask where I am going wrong???

While there may be some things you could do to clear the way a bit more-mindset work, dropping the old stories about working hard etc., one thing you must know is this:

Your stuff is coming…right now.

I know, you are looking around and saying…but WHERE is it Lamisha?

It’s coming, in fact it’s already on the way and the best way for you to know it for yourself is to know this:

Energy shifts before your manifestation occurs. 

During the manifesting process, energy is in play all the time.  You have to have a vibration that matches that of the thing (or person) you are trying to attract and before your actual manifestation comes to you-energy has to shift first.

Here’s what that might look like in a real world scenario.

Say for instance you are trying to manifest your dream job.  You know how you want to feel in that job and you have been doing your mantras, taking action, and keeping your vibration high.

You take the logical route and apply for the jobs you find along the way, but they aren’t a very good fit.  However, you notice that you are making more contacts and “randomly” running into people who are doing the exact type of work you would love to do.

On the one hand you could see this as a chance to moan and groan about the fact that they have this amazing job and you don’t…OR you could simply see it for the amazing gift that it is.  The energy is shifting and you are seeing more of what you want in your reality.

You are meeting people who are working in a job you love and you are making connections, networking, and building relationships that will lead you to be notified as soon as a position becomes available.

Energy ALWAYS shifts before your manifestation occurs, so be aware of the shifts and be grateful.  It’s a sure sign that your desires are on the way.

Take a moment and look at what you are trying to manifest right this very moment and note the signs you have seen that indicate the energy is shifting and your stuff is on the way.  Celebrate!  The tides are shifting and you are on the right path.

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