***Before I get into today’s post, I want to invite you to check out my latest article that has been a huge hit over at The Huffington Post titled : 6 Ways to Find Your Passion & Live Your Purpose. ***
Now for today’s post.
I’ve noticed something over the last few years and it’s really getting under my skin. In fact, it has become so prevalent and obvious in the last few months I want to set the record straight
Somehow, we have become a culture that believes that while you can have a mostly awesome life, you can’t have everything you want no matter how how hard you try.
There are many people who have come to accept that if you have a fabulous career you love, your relationships have to suck.
OR If you have an amazing relationship, you can’t have all the riches your heart desires.
OR If you have all the money you desire, you might have to enjoy it all alone. (The list goes on. )
It’s as if they believe they are undeserving of having it all and living the life of their dreams is some myth that only happens in fairy tales.
Well I call bullshit.
Who are you not to have it all?
Who are you not to have the love, the riches, the joy, the career, the family, the fame, and anything else your heart desires?
That is what life is all about. Living, loving, sharing, expanding, and experiencing all that life has to offer.
Do you know what happens when you believe that you can’t have it all?
You settle.
You settle for the parts of your life that aren’t working because you believe that if most of your life is going well, who are you to complain?
But I’m here to tell you this; You don’t have to settle and you certainly don’t have to accept that because 80% of your life IS working that the remaining 20% has to remain a struggle.
Now, I’ll be honest and say that I USED to think that way.
I thought that if my business was booming and money was flowing that my relationship had to take a fall. Or if things were really amazing in my love life, then my business and income had to tank.
And you know what happened? I manifested those very things.
When things were running smoothly in my relationship and in life in general, I somehow sabotaged things in my career. And when I had a really amazing month in my business, I’d start an argument with my partner.
It as as if I just couldn’t handle all the good at once and I had to have something to worry about.
It took a few years of learning, growing, and lots of life lessons to get to this point, but now I see it and can make changes in my mindset and in my beliefs when I start feeling myself settling.
The truth is, you CAN work through the BS that is holding you back no matter how long you’ve struggled with it…but it’s difficult to do alone.
Lucky for you, this is my specialty and is the EXACT reason I set up the 30-Day Break Free From Stuck program.
If you feel:
- Like you are settling in your career, relationship, or life in general
- STUCK in one area of your life that just isn’t working for you
- Like you’ve done all you can and still can’t make that last 20% of your life work for you
It’s time we had a chat. I am a firm believer in reaching out and asking for help and I’ve seen amazing miracles happen when I’ve done that myself.
If you are ready to break free and make magic happen in your life once and for all, schedule a free 30-Minute Consultation to chat about what’s going on.
by Tama Kieves.
