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Top 5 limiting beliefs that may be holding you back…

April 28, 2017 by Lamisha

 

When it comes to our mind habits and limiting beliefs, there’s likely not a belief I haven’t seen or heard at this point.  In fact, there are quite a few that I hear over and over again and today I’m sharing them with you.

To be honest, many of these I’ve struggled with a lot over the years so I completely understand how difficult it can be to shift them…but it IS POSSIBLE.  I’m living proof and so are my clients.

Top 5 Limiting Beliefs (that may be holding you back)

  • I’m not enough.  This is your run of the mill belief that can stop any new venture, decision, opportunity, or potential success in its tracks.  It’s likely the one I hear the absolute most from people (many women in particular) and it runs DEEP.  The not enough-ness many times has no basis other than feeling like you aren’t good enough, smart enough, ready enough, strong enough, prepared enough, thin enough, rich enough…you name it.  It’s also the belief that keeps people playing small and ultimately paralyzed by fear of failure.
  • I’m not worthy.  This one runs a close second to the one above.  Somehow, somewhere along the lines many of us have internalized the message that we aren’t worthy of amazing things happening to us and for us.  We often believe that somehow we are ultimately flawed and thereby don’t deserve the riches, success, joy, love, excitement, adventure, ease, and flow that we desire.  And if by chance we allow a little bit of that into our lives…we feel guilty and shut that shit down, because who are WE to have all the good stuff?
  • It has to be hard.  Likely drilled into us from past generations, far too many of us struggle with the belief that anything worth doing has to be hard and if it comes easily, it’s just not worth it.  Easy feels like cheating.  Hard is where you prove to yourself just how strong, powerful, and worthy you are because isn’t that what life is all about? (Spoiler alert: No, it’s not.  Life is meant to be enjoyed.). Yes, there are times on your path that may feel difficult, but that’s not the way it always has to be.
  • It’s not meant for me. When it comes to success, love, money, and happiness, many people believe that they are somehow different from the next guy.  Sure they can have the success, adventure, and ultimately happy life, but it’s just not in the cards for me.  I’m meant to suffer.  (Wrong!) This belief causes us to believe that somehow we are so different in who we are that the miracles and magic of the world are set aside for a select few and we just aren’t a part of that crowd.
  • You can’t have it all.  This belief has been one of my biggest struggles by far.  For a long time I believed that “having it all” was a myth.  I thought that if you had the riches and success, you couldn’t have true love.  If you had a happy, humble home life, you couldn’t also have the powerful career and money.  You had to simply choose what is most important and allow that to be the “good” you allow into your life.  The truth is that is total BS.  You can have it all, the moment you nip this gnarly belief in the bud.
And let’s not even talk about the Money Beliefs we carry with us…actually, let’s talk about them for a moment!

Money is such a funny topic (not funny-haha, but funny as in weird) for people.

Whether you realize it or not, you likely are carrying some really heavy money-related junk with you from your parents, grandparents, and family.  We all have some money stuff (or had it at some point in our lives) and it has a direct effect on how we view, manage, receive, manifest, earn, and handle money today.

Here are a few common ones that you might resonate with…

  • “Money is hard to make.”
  • “Money doesn’t grow on trees.”
  • “No matter what I do, there’s never enough.”
  • “Rich people are jerks, selfish, and self-serving.”
  • “I don’t have enough.”
  • “Money isn’t important.”
  • “Money is the root of all evil.”
  • “To make a lot of money you have to sacrifice other things.”
  • “I’ll never be rich.”
Do any of these resonate for you?  (If so, I’d love to hear which ones, hit ‘reply’ and share a few that you carry around with you.)

If some of these resonate for you, I’d like you do a little experiment.  Take a look at your financial picture for a moment and notice what you see.  Are the numbers where you want them to be or do you find that you typically hover around a certain number?

Maybe you are like I was…struggling to make it from paycheck to paycheck or always feeling stress when it comes to money.  That was my reality for a very long time, until I started learning about my money mindset and changing the thoughts I was practicing within my mind.

The way you feel about money (and anything else) directly affects how money (or anything else) shows up for you in your life.

YOU have the ultimate creative power over your life when you accept that your mindset is what helped you to create where you are.  It’s nothing to be ashamed of, it’s just where you are now.  The key is deciding what you are going to do about it.

All of the beliefs I’ve listed above are things that have impacted my life and it was only when I was willing to do the work (the mindset work that is) to clear them out and began building positive habits in their place was I able to see the changes happening in my life.

Mindset work isn’t “magic”, but it sure feels that way once you begin.  You’ll ask yourself why you ever waited.

I don’t want you to wait anymore.
I don’t want you to struggle anymore.
And I certainly don’t want you to have regrets about not getting support when you needed it most.

So…if any or all of the beliefs above resonate for you then the Miracle Mindset Immersion Program is absolutely the program for you.
You’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain.

So what do you say?  Are you in? If so, hit the info below and get signed up!

Regular Program  = $197

or

VIP (Includes 4 week program + 1- 45 Minute Coaching session) = $297

Sending massive love your way!

Filed Under: Authenticity, Being, Challenges, Inspiration, Intention, Life, Mindset, Planning Tagged With: beliefs, coaching, limiting beliefs, mindset, money, program, truths

Giving you a peek behind the curtain…

April 21, 2017 by Lamisha

I want to be completely transparent and real with you (as always) and let you know that sometimes the path to the most amazing things you ever imagined isn’t all rainbows and unicorns.

At least that’s been my experience.

There IS ease, grace, flow, and beauty on the path, but there is also a fair amount of resistance, crunchiness, and “tests” that come up too.

And it’s during those “tests” that we need our mindset work the most!

I know there are a lot of people out in the world looking for the quick fix and the magic bullet to make life 1000% better and while working on your mindset and learning to LIVE by the #2 secret I shared on the webinar the other day (go have a listen if you don’t know what that is) will absolutely improve your life 1000%—> it doesn’t always feel easy.

Sometimes it feels downright HARD.

I know this because I live it…daily.

I am not perfect.  My mindset isn’t that of a Tibetan Monk and I have my share of freak outs (hello all of January and part of February), but I have experienced some truly incredible shifts by turning my focus to the ONLY thing I (we) have control over…my mindset.

  • I’ve overcome daily, general anxiety after suffering with it for years
  • I’ve consistently taken on new challenges that scare the bejesus out of me and succeeded in many of them.
  • I’m happier, healthier, and less of a control freak

And if I could name the greatest change of all it would be the fact that I actually have a framework and practice to get back to when I fall off the deep end.

  • When my son (who was recently diagnosed with ADHD) was kicked out of his private school last year due to some ADHD related challenges…my mindset work saved me from completely losing it.
  • When my mother in law had to move in with us unexpectedly due to some personal challenges…my mindset work saved me.
  • When I feel like I’m “failing” (yes, even coaches feel this) and like I may never recover…my mindset work saves me.
  • When I’m triggered by the uncertainties in life and business…my mindset work saves me.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that even as a coach, I have challenges and when I find something that works to help me rebound from those challenges and decrease the frequency of them…I want to share it.  It’s what I’m here to do.

So, if you are looking for a quick fix or a magic bullet…this isn’t that (and frankly there is no such thing).

However, if you are looking for a strategic plan to help you move through life with more ease, grace, and knowing-ness for miracles to unfold on your path…the Miracle Mindset Immersion Program is for you.

I promise it will transform your life…if you do the work. <3

It all starts May 1st and if you sign up in the next 48 hours you are still eligible for not only the early bird rates, but you are also eligible for the BONUS week on Money Mindset (which I have to say is pretty amazing).

If you are ready to adopt a miracle mindset in order to transform your life then I invite you to join us for this round (and likely the ONLY live round I am doing in 2017).  Find out more about the program here. 

If, however you are ready to dive in and snag the Early Bird rate + the bonus week on Money Mindset then make sure you click the links below to get signed up!

Regular Program + Bonus Money Mindset Week = $127

or

VIP (Includes 4 week program + 1- 45 Minute Coaching session) + Bonus Money Mindset Week = $227

I can’t wait to get started with you!!!

P.S.  If you missed the call the other night, check out the replay below and make sure you check out the details below regarding the BONUS that expires in 24 hours! (It’s a steal!)

5 Secrets to Unlock Your Miracle Mind AUDIO recording

Filed Under: Awareness, Inspiration, Life, Mindset Tagged With: coaching, mindset, miracle mindset, miracles, power, program

The cost of giving up…

July 11, 2016 by Lamisha

 

photo credit: It's all in the mind via photopin (license)
photo credit: It’s all in the mind via photopin (license)

There have been many times when I’ve thought about giving up, particularly when I couldn’t really see my way forward. 

You see, when I began this path, nothing was certain.

I made a decision to follow my heart and LIVE my purpose and 2 weeks later, I got laid off from my full-time job.

I had no clients, no money, and a dream.

A dream to help empower women to see their true brilliance so they could finally step into their power and LIVE the life they were meant to.

A dream to teach women to listen to their intuition, see and honor their truth so they could go out into the world and make a difference.

I had NO idea how this was going to take shape and while over time it began to get more clear, there were moments I thought of giving up.

But, you see the cost of giving up is much greater than just a hit to my ego.  The cost of giving up effects not just myself and my family, but the world.

The women I could be helping and the people they would then help as an extension from the support I gave them.

You see, it’s all about the ripple effect.

Giving up on my dream means I’m also giving up on yours and every single time I thought about throwing in the towel, I remembered the great cost of giving up.

But…recently I am seeing more and more women settling for ‘what is’ instead of digging deep and doing the work that is needed to move beyond where they are.

I SEE the dreams in their eyes, the inspiration in their soul, and the tired, worn out beliefs they carry with them that are holding them back.

Like heavy baggage, they slowly move forward, if they move at all while most simply settle for this moment, allowing their dream to be just that…a dream.

Let me ask you something…

When did you decide you’d never make it?

When did you decide the life you desire wasn’t meant for you?

When did you decide it would just never happen?

When did you decide that this is as good as it gets for you?

Do you know?

Was it when you got knocked down for a moment or when you thought that one little trial was the sign that THIS wasn’t meant to be?

I’m seeing a whole heap of incredibly talented, intelligent, powerful women throwing in the towel because of their current circumstance.  They’re allowing their current “reality” be the reason they lose hope and give up completely.

But, here’s what they don’t know (or in the least they have forgotten):

What you SEE in front of you is merely a reflection of the beliefs you hold in your mind and in your heart. 

What you SEE in front of you is NOT an indication of what you are able to do unless you give up.

We’ve already talked about the cost of giving up, so why on earth would you allow yourself to give up on your dream, your vision, your desires, AND the very people that need you most???

I think it’s pretty clear that right now we need all the positive change-makers we can get rallying together with their gifts uplifting, inspiring, and supporting others and you are no different.

We NEED your light.

We NEED your power.

We NEED YOU to step up and see what you bring to this amazing world and you can’t do that by thinking that this is as good as it gets!

If you don’t believe better days are ahead, then what’s the point of all of this?

It’s time.

It’s YOUR time.

It’s way PAST time for you to get your mindset together and make a difference not only in YOUR life, but in the lives of the very souls you were put here to change.

So, are you still willing to give up on yourself knowing what it costs?

If not, consider this your invitation to something that will transform your life in ways you never thought possible and set you on a path to BE the woman you know you were meant to be.

It’s the Miracle Mindset Immersion program and it is life-changing, reality-shifting, belief-busting goodness that will change your life for the better and it’s open for Early Bird Registration until 11:59pm on 7/17/2016.  Get all the details about the program and the limited VIP option by clicking the button below.

It’s time!

 

Miracle Mindset Immersion Early Registration

 

 

Filed Under: abundance, Being, Challenges, Coaching, Inspiration, Intention, Life, Mindset Tagged With: give up, mindset, miracle mindset, program, quit

I’m Afraid to Tell You This…

February 20, 2015 by Lamisha

photo credit: Nebel via photopin (license)
photo credit: Nebel via photopin (license)

There have been many moments in the last 2 years when I’ve wanted to share something with you but have been afraid of what you might think.  I’ve held back and decided it might not be the right time or a good idea for fear of how it might change what you think of me.

But, I know I’m not doing you or myself any favors by not sharing the not so happy parts of my journey and as I was thinking over the last few months, I realized it’s time to share this with you.

I’ve been afraid to tell you about the 5-month period in 2014 when I thought I was going to have to close my business and give up on my dream.  It was something I never thought I would do, but there were moments when I didn’t think I had a choice.

Lucky for me, I did.

From May – September last year, I struggled to make my business work.  I had a handful of clients and the number was slowly dwindling down to almost nothing.  But it wasn’t just that,  I was struggling with something far worse…my identity.

I knew I wanted to coach.  I knew I was meant for this work and I knew without a shadow of a doubt that this was my path.  The problem came when I couldn’t quite figure out what I wasn’t doing ‘right’ in order to make my business thrive.

Looking back it became completely clear:  I was allowing others to be my guru instead of listening to my intuition.

In fact, it got so bad at one point, I was questioning my skills, my coaching, and my dream of helping other women make their dream a reality.

On more than one night I cried out of fear, worry, and pure disappointment that somehow my entire path was being thrown off and I had somehow missed the mark.  What was true was I had missed the mark, but it wasn’t in my path, it was by allowing someone else to throw me off it.

My heart and soul knew exactly what I needed to do, but I didn’t trust it.  I allowed certain mentors and coaches lead the way because I was so new to it all, I thought they knew everything.  And the truth is, they did…for their own path, but not for mine.

It took 5 months of desperation, fear, and distracted worry to lead me back to what I set out to do in the beginning…change lives.

It took many tearful nights and a whole lot of doubt for me to get to a space of clarity to see that yes I did know how to make things happen and I could listen to that inner voice inside that was telling me all along it would all work out.

Turns out she’s pretty smart.

Looking back on those moments, I am so glad I didn’t give up.  I’m glad that I reached out to the right mentors that didn’t tell me what to do or try to convince me to do it their way.

I found people that would support me in my vision, who believed in me, and helped me tap into that power deep inside that helped me stay the course and not give up.

Did they question me when I became too fearful to fly?

Yes, but out of love and the desire to see me soar.  But what they did for me more than anything else is remind me that above all else, I have to follow my heart-the very thing I teach all of my clients.

You see coaching isn’t about leading you in one direction or another or telling you how to do something.  It’s a co-creative journey that when done well, will lead you back to the power you have had all along to create the amazing life of your dreams.  Coaching is about clarifying your desires, uncovering your fears and other blocks, and empowering you in a way that reminds you, anything is possible.

I learned early on with the right support, you can make anything happen and it’s exactly why I do what I do.

After those scary 5 months of uncertainty, I now stand taller and more proud of my decisions because I know I am making them from the heart and honestly, there is nothing better.

0001-23099893If you have a dream that you aren’t ready to let go of and you need someone to support you along the way, I have 2 spots left in my Breakthrough program for February before my rates increase March 1st.  Now is the time to make the commitment to yourself and the dream that has been following you for years. Are you ready to take that next step? If so, I invite you to sign up for a free 30-Minute Consultation to chat about how I might be able to help you.  If I am not the right coach for you, I promise to help you find one that is.

 

 

Filed Under: Authenticity, Awareness, Being, Coaching, fear, Frustration, Inspiration, Joy, Life, Life purpose Tagged With: authenticity, coaching, dream, fear, guru, inspiration, program, reality, support, worry

Coach’s Toolkit

October 14, 2014 by Lamisha

photo credit: giulia.forsythe via photopin cc
photo credit: giulia.forsythe via photopin cc

***DISCLAIMER: This post does include affiliate links to programs I have tried and highly recommend.  I never suggest any product or service that I don’t have first hand experience with. ***

 

If you know me personally or have worked with me you know that I am all about personal growth.

I am always looking for ways to learn, expand, and grow not only to provide the best service I can, but also so I can continue to reach to new heights personally.

In the process I have stumbled upon some amazing books, practices, & products that have changed my life.  They are things I often suggest to my clients because I like to share the love.  It’s that simple.

So, today I share with you a list of things I not only love, but things that have changed my life for the better.

 

All time favorite book….

Inspired & Unstoppable: Wildly Succeeding in Your Life’s Work! by Tama Kieves
It is the book I go back to over and over again when I need a little reminder to follow my inspiration & intuition.  I love it so much I actually ran a giveaway earlier this year to gift a copy to one lucky winner.  This book will change how you think of success and it will reinforce what you already know and what I have been sharing with you for as long as I have been writing and that is…Follow Your Heart. Always.  If you are just setting out on your journey to freedom and the living the life of your dreams, this is the book for you.

 

For setting intentions & tracking progress…

I adore Leonie Dawson for her creative brilliance & her authenticity and the moment I found her 2014 Create Your Amazing Year Life & Biz Workbook, I fell in love with it.  Everything in that workbook lights me up.  It is full of amazing artwork, insightful questions, practical tips, and magical rituals to help you make your year amazing.  She is making some upgrades to it for 2015 and I can’t wait for it to be available for purchase.  If you are looking for something a bit more creative and fun to use as you plan your year ahead, I highly encourage you to check it out.  (I’ll share reminders once the 2015 version is available!)

 

For money mindset & manifesting…

Another woman I simply adore is Denise Duffield-Thomas.  I have been following her for about a year now and when I was ready to learn a bit more about releasing my old worn-out beliefs about money, I jumped right into her Lucky Bitch Money Bootcamp.  To say that it changes your life is a gross understatement.  It not only changed my relationship with money, but how I think of it altogether.  She covers everything from upgrading your life to dealing with past money memories and releasing the money blocks that we all have.  I also have to say that the Lucky Bitch community has been amazing!  There are so many incredible people who have joined the program that makes this program so special.  This has been by far one of the best investments I have made in myself.  If you are considering a manifestation course, I highly encourage you to check this out & you can even get a taste of what she teaches in her Money in 24 Hours audio for free.

 

For clearing & releasing blocks…

This year was the first time I had ever done anything with EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique).  I had heard about it for years, but never tried it until early this year.  It might seem a little weird to you if you have never tried it, but the results are amazing.  I tap just about every day and it has changed my life.  I have used it for anxiety, frustration, fear, money mindset junk, and so many other issues I have dealt with in this last year and it instantly shifts how I am feeling.  If you are interested in some high vibrational ways to shift from fear to confidence or from lack to abundance, check it out.  I’ve included a few of my favorite EFT practitioners and their videos for you to take a look at.  Let me know your thoughts.

David Childerley & Brad Yates both have some awesome videos available.

 

0001-24026277I also want to offer you my free Overwhelm to Action audio to help you get through all the ideas you have so you can gain some clarity on how to start taking action today!  Simply sign up here to receive your free audio.

So what are some of the tools you have used to help you grow, evolve, and become all that you want to be?  Do you have a favorite book, practice, or program that you just love?  Share in the comments below, I’d love to check it out!

Filed Under: Blog, Coaching, Practices, Tips, Uncategorized Tagged With: books, EFT, free, inspiration, manifestation, money, planner, program, tools, workbook

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