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Don’t Let Your Scotoma Kill Your Dreams

January 27, 2015 by Lamisha

photo credit: Giulia Bartra via photopin cc
photo credit: Giulia Bartra via photopin cc

There is an epidemic going on in the world and every single person reading this is affected.

I’m not talking about war or the epic flu that has been going around, I’m talking about something that in the world of magic, miracles & manifesting the life of your dreams, is far more deadly.

Your scotoma.

Sounds a bit like a disease, but instead of affecting your body, this affects your mindset and is deadly when it comes to you creating and enjoying the life you have always wanted.

Scotoma: a spot in the visual field in which vision is absent or deficient.  

(The Merriam-Webster definition)

So what does this definition of a visual blind spot have to do with your dreams? The easy answer is everything.

You see, so many times I chat with amazing women like yourself who have equally amazing dreams to create a life that works for them and brings them joy.  They are ready and willing to venture into uncharted territory and will begin taking steps to make big waves in the world and then BAM-their Scotoma shows up and causes them to retreat.

But the thing is they don’t SEE it.  It’s a silent but deadly killer in the world of your dreams and you very rarely see it coming.

You can be moving along happily with your plans, inspiration, joy, and passion until one day everything feels like it’s crumbling around you.

Your confidence flies out the window, you wonder why or how you ever started and you are triggered left and right.

Doubt, fear, and insecurities settle in and you begin to retreat, trying to fit into the comfortable and safe box that you just left.

But the box is broken and you no longer have a space there..so the only way to keep moving forward is to identify the scotoma (aka blind spot that blind sided you on your path) and to shift the shit so you can reset your mindset and be on your merry way.

So, how do you identify this thing that can’t be seen but has the power to throw you off your game faster than you could get your dream off the ground? By seeking the help of an expert.

The truth is you are too close to see what exactly needs shifting.  The gremlins in your mind are playing tricks on you and your Ego is negotiating with you so you will continue to play small, but you know something has to shift.

You may not know what it is, but you know that a change needs to be made.  It’s time to clear up your vision, shift the shit that needs shifting, and to send you onward on your path.

Lucky for you, I’m not only a master shit-shifter, but I am also a scotoma-ologist (if there were ever such a thing.)

I have a vantage point unlike any other and am able to help you see the thing that is holding you back and when you see how small it can be (sometimes the size of a splinter) and how easy it is to shift it for you, you will wonder why you couldn’t see it to begin with.

You will have better focus, more inspiration, and confidence in your abilities to create and craft the life of your dreams.  And the next time you find yourself sliding off your game, you will be better equipped to locate the culprit.

Creating & manifesting the life of your dreams isn’t an exact science and there isn’t a how-to guide because we are all different.

There are bumps, hurdles, and curves that we each must move through because there is a lesson in each one.  A lesson that we will build upon as we continue to grow and until you are able to shift it, change it and rearrange your mindset, you won’t be able to stand fully in your power.

But, you don’t have to go through those lessons alone, in fact that’s not how we are built.  We are here to help one another.  To encourage, uplift, share, and when it’s needed shift the shit that is holding you back. That’s what I want to do for you.

Got shit that needs shifting? I’ve got a Free 30-Minute Consultation with your name on it and an opportunity for you to work with me in a new way not yet listed on my website.  It’s an intro-offer set aside just for those that want help with their mindset junk. Interested?

Let’s chat!

Filed Under: Authenticity, Awareness, Coaching, Inspiration, Lessons, Life, Planning, Practices Tagged With: authenticity, Blind Spot, manifesting, mindset, mindset magic, offer, practices, scotoma

Trusting the Process

December 5, 2014 by Lamisha

Manifesting the life of your dreams can seem like a HUGE venture, especially when you are just starting out.  There are so many things you desire and so many beliefs to conquer that it’s hard to know where to begin and to trust that it’s going to happen.  I mean we do live in the ‘real’ world right? (I say that with tons of sarcasm.)

When you don’t trust the process, it makes things a whole lot more difficult than they have to be.  You doubt yourself, the Universe, and the magic-makers in the world telling you that you can have all that you desire.  But when you doubt yourself or the process, you slow things down.

So how do you trust the process?  I answer that question in the video below.

So, what is your little experiment you are going to try?  I’d love to hear in the comments below!

Filed Under: Authenticity, Goals, Inspiration, Intention, Life, Planning, Practices, Tips Tagged With: in between, Law of attraction, life coach, manifestation, practices, process, tips, trust, YouTube

You may not want to hear this…

October 31, 2014 by Lamisha

Over the last few days I’ve been getting tons of emails and comments asking a similar question.

How do you get started with the life of your dreams, when life feels really difficult in the moment?

Maybe your bank account balance is in the negative or your relationship is on the rocks or you can’t see your way out of the job that you hate.

There is a way out and it may not be what you want to hear.

Check out the video below to find out what to do and how to begin.

 

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Give these tips a try and let me know how it goes for you.  And if you are still feeling stuck, feel free to schedule a FREE 30-Minute Consultation to find out more about how I can help you take the necessary steps to get you to the life you deserve.

 

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Filed Under: Authenticity, Being, Coaching, fear, Frustration, Goals, Life, Practices, Tips Tagged With: Abraham Hicks, getting started, life, life coach, LOA, practices, start where you are, tips, visualization

Risks & Results

October 10, 2014 by Lamisha

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photo credit: symphony of love via photopin cc

I have a confession to make.

Over the last few months I realized I have had an underlying fear that I couldn’t quite put my finger on until now…

Being seen in a big way. 

Sure, I write, coach, and am pretty active on social media, but I realized I’ve been afraid of putting myself out there in a big way.

And it’s not so much about the being seen as much as it is me being potentially rejected or disappointed by being seen.

You’ve been there right?

Well, it’s time to change all of that.

I’ve decided that October is going to be my best month ever.

This is the month I stop being afraid of stepping out and being seen and as a result, I’m taking risks.

I’m sharing my business with people more and more.  Reaching out to women that are stuck and struggling that I know I can be of service to.  Leaving my card in local businesses so more people find me.  Guest posting like crazy and sharing my thoughts with a wider audience.  I also just signed up to attend a women’s empowerment luncheon where I won’t know anyone, but is a great opportunity for me to network and connect with other like-minded women.

I’ll be honest.  Doing all of these things is a bit uncomfortable.  It stretches me to my max in some cases and brings up a ton of blocks for me to work through…which is great.  I’m learning detachment in the face of fear and learning to let go of the worry of disappointment.

As they say, if you don’t ask the answer is always no.

We are about a 1/3 of the way through the month and I’ve already taken more risks with amazing results than I have in the last 6 months.

The results have been amazing!

I’ve been published again in Kind Over Matter with an article on Keeping Your Eyes On Your Own Path, and in The Magic Happens with a letter to the Dreamers of the World . I also wrote a post for Clear Calm Space on The Clutter You Can’t See  and just found out my post Stuck? Don’t ‘Try Harder’…Do This Instead  was just published on The Huffington Post!

I also have an article in an incredible book that is a #1 best seller called Empowered Women of Social Media: 44 Women found their “Voices” using the Power of Social Networking (Volume 1) that was just released last weekend!

photo credit: symphony of love via photopin cc
photo credit: symphony of love via photopin cc

And I’m not stopping there.  I’m looking for new ways to take risks, to be seen, to expand, grow, and reach beyond where I am so I can be of service to more women.  To help you amazing ladies make life the absolute best and help you live a life of freedom as you turn your dreams into reality.  I’m ready to finish the year off with a bang and I’m inviting you to do the same.

What have you been too scared to do so far this year?  Maybe it’s pitching some articles, sharing your business, or starting a new venture.  Maybe you have been afraid of taking the leap to ask for help, to hire a coach, or to take that next scary step.  Whatever it is, I invite you to make the commitment to take risks and embrace the results.

I’d love to be of support to you as you do this in any way I can and invite you take the leap with hiring a coach.  Schedule your 30-Minute Consultation to chat about how I can help you take big action to make your dreams a reality.  You deserve to live a life of freedom. So what are you waiting for? 

I also want to invite you to join my VIP list.  I’m creating a community of life-lovers and a freedom tribe that I would love for you to be a part of, but you must be on the list to join.  Stay tuned for the invitation to come your way. 

Have a fabulous weekend of risk taking and amazing results!!

<3

Lamisha

Filed Under: Authenticity, Awareness, Challenges, Coaching, fear, Inspiration, Life, Practices, Tips Tagged With: Being seen, big goals, practices, results, risks, start now, taking risks

Self-Care Tip #2

May 28, 2014 by Lamisha

Here is Tip #2 for you to begin implementing more self-care every single day.  You can check out tip #1 here.

Filed Under: Coaching, Life, Tips Tagged With: Balance, business, Life balance, life coach, practices, Self care, tips

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