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Your PAST doesn’t matter…

May 18, 2016 by Lamisha

photo credit: 148/365 clock watching via photopin (license)
photo credit: 148/365 clock watching via photopin (license)

Consider this your TRUTH BOMB for the day—>

Your ‪PAST‬ doesn’t MATTER…unless of course you wish to repeat it!

The mistakes you’ve made, relationships you’ve been in, the money mishaps, crappy careers, and horrific failures you’ve had in the past DON’T FREAKIN’ MATTER…

THOSE things are NOT you. They are merely reflections of the thoughts, beliefs, and emotions you had streaming at the time.

That’s it!

It’s like opening a book and reading one page and thinking the entire book is about what you saw on that one page…that’s now how it works folks.

UNLESS of course you WANT that!

If you want more mistakes, money mishaps, dwindling bank accounts, shitty relationships, crappy careers, then by all means keep ranting, raving, and revisiting the past and telling anyone who will listen about your story of how you’ve been STUCK for so many years. (By the way if you’ve been stuck for that long, it’s time to get some support and I have JUST the program for you. )

The ONLY thing that will get is you is back in the SAME sinking boat with more stories to tell in the future.

BUT…if you want to actual create a new reality and experience your NEW NORMAL then you MUST tell a new story or in the least focus on what you want.

Seems obvious right?

Unfortunately too many of us get stuck in the story of who were were, how we were raised and what has stopped us that we can’t actually SEE that we are in fact perpetuating the same thing over and over again.

If you want to change your ‪reality‬…both current and future…START NOW.

Consider this your action plan:

  • Make a list of ALL the things you LOVE right now.
  • THEN add to that list all the things you WANT in your life as if they have happened.
  • THEN go out into the world and focus on the stuff you enjoy, like, love, etc.

That is how you create ‪‎positive‬ ‪#‎change‬ folks…it’s not by focusing on the problem.

Focus on the problem = more problems.

Focus on what you want and stay in a high vibe ‪mindset‬ and emotional state =creating what you want.

For some it’s easier said than done…believe me, I know.  That’s why I DO this work.

In the past I allowed myself to get so caught up in the bullshit story in my head about why it wasn’t working, what had happened to me, and pointing the finger to everyone and every thing else that I lost my power completely!

I really, truly thought life was happening TO me rather than me LIVING it and thriving.  I thought this was just my luck and when asked, I’d gladly bring up all the old baggage, proof, and evidence that supported my claim.

Many years later, knowing what I know now…I was simply STUCK in the past and repeating it in my future.

Lucky for me, I didn’t wait too long before owning my power and allowing it to work FOR me instead of against me.

The truth is, we are only limited by what we think and choose to believe in our minds and if you desire a different outcome and you no longer wish to revisit, rehash, and regurgitate your past, I sincerely suggest you step up and focus on what you DO want. 

You don’t have to do it alone, but if you choose to, you can totally use the action plan above.

You’re more powerful than you realize and that POWER comes from THIS moment…not rehashing your past.

P.S. If you DO want support and help moving into the right frame of mind to create massive change in your life instantly, schedule a chat with me and let’s make it happen, just hit the link below.

Schedule FREE 30-Minute Consultation

Filed Under: Authenticity, Being, Blog, Coaching, Inspiration, Intention, Life, Stuck Tagged With: coaching, focus, future, inspiration, past, power, stuck

Inspiration & Impact: My Why

May 10, 2016 by Lamisha

photo credit: Diary: 23rd of September 2013 via photopin (license)
photo credit: Diary: 23rd of September 2013 via photopin (license)

Last Friday, I had the honor of being part of a monumental moment for one of my first mentors ever, my high school dance coach.

To paint the picture for you, when I was in school, I wasn’t the most positive person in the world.  I was dealing with a lot of personal pain from family junk of the past and finding it difficult to walk my true path.  I didn’t really know who I was or how I fit into the world.  All I knew is that I loved to dance.  It was my outlet, my passion, and the thing that changed my life forever.

By senior year, I had gone through 3 dance coaches (one per year) and after going a few months without a coach at all, we were lucky enough to find Mrs. Haggard.  The Universe must have known how much I needed her during that year because it was that moment everything in my life changed.

Her guidance, encouragement, and belief in not only me, but so many others on the team shifted the trajectory of my life.

When I heard that she was officially retiring from her long career in being an educator, uplifter, and dance teacher, I knew I had to be a part of it in some small way.  And while I couldn’t be there physically I did have an opportunity to write a letter to let her know how much she has inspired me and impacted my life for the better.  I even had my best friend FaceTime me from the event so I could “be” there.

It was an emotional moment for sure.  Seeing the woman who I haven’t seen in probably 10 years saying her goodbyes to the school that meant so much to her was a bit overwhelming, but it reminded me of why I’m doing what I’m doing.

It reminded me of my why.

I do what I do because I HAVE to.  It’s part of my soul’s calling and really, there’s no better way to put it than that.

This work…

Inspiring, uplifting, teaching, sharing, and helping my clients and tribe heal is a huge part of my path.  It’s how I am changing the world.  One soul, dream, desire, and beautiful client at a time and to be honest, it all began with Mrs. Haggard.

If someone would have told me 16 years ago what I’d be doing now, I’d say they were crazy.

Back then, there was no way I could ever imagine being at this level teaching and help clients create lives they loved.  I didn’t have the confidence or power or belief enough in myself and yet those are the very things I help women with.

It’s pretty amazing right?  How everything comes full circle in life.

The very thing that saved me and helped me build the confidence in myself is also the thing that set me on this path.

Simply put my why boils down to helping, uplifting, and teaching other women how to tap into their inner power that they may not know they have because I understand what it’s like to not understand the power you wield.

And now I know what’s it like to use that power consciously to create amazing experiences and that’s exactly what I want to help you do.

I’ve opened up some spots in my calendar through the end of May to invite in the souls who know they are ready to change their lives for the better, but aren’t exactly how to do that.  If you are ready to take the next step and uplevel your life and invest in YOU, click the link below and let’s chat.

Schedule FREE 30-Minute Consultation

 

Filed Under: Coaching, Inspiration, journey, Life, Life purpose Tagged With: impact, inspiration, life, my why, passion, power, purpose

How bad do you want it???

May 5, 2016 by Lamisha

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photo credit: sensitive noise / obvious 2 via photopin (license)

 

I’m going to shoot straight today and ask you flat out.

How bad do you want it?

It being…change, transformation, abundance, joy, peace, flow, love, compassion, adventure, etc.?

How bad do you want it?

 

Do you want it enough to get a little uncomfortable while you stretch outside your comfort zone?

Do you want it enough to look a the dark parts of your soul that feel a bit icky?

Do you want it enough to take BIG ACTION even when it scares the crap out of you?

Do you want it enough to NOT GIVE UP, no matter what your external circumstances tell you?

 

Well..do you?

If you said yes, then I have good news for you…you will get it.  It will happen for you and you will experience the sweet nectar that comes from standing out and taking ownership of what you desire.

If you said, “ummm, maybe”, I’ve got news for you.

It’s time to OWN it.

It’s time for you to step out and stand in your power for all that you desire and to stop pussy-footing around about what you may or may not be able to achieve.  There is no sugar-coating it friends.  When you want something and I mean REALLY want it…you keep going.

You get knocked down and you get up.  You keep writing, singing, acting, reaching, growing, evolving, living, sharing, and moving forward because you can’t not do it.

Your purpose is a part of you.  It IS you.  It’s who you are and what you were put here to do and if you aren’t owning it…I mean really owning it…what are you doing?

You have a God-given, Divinely inspired, Universally-assigned gift to be truly, magnificently, and unapologetically YOU.

Live it.  Love it.  Share it. Be it. And for the love of all things holy…OWN IT.

There is no one else like YOU and if you know anything about the state of our worldly affairs right now, you know we could use some kickass visionaries following their heart to make this world a better place.

If that is YOU…it’s time.

Your time to shine.

Your time to drop the excuses and step your game up.

And if you HAVEN’T been because you’ve been thinking all the crappy mind-mumbo-jumbo that has you playing small, it’s time for change.

Now.

Today.

Are you ready?

Schedule FREE 30-Minute Consultation

Filed Under: abundance, Authenticity, Challenges, Coaching, Inspiration, Life Tagged With: coaching, inspiration, life, mindset, own it, power, truth

Shift your life instantly with this!

February 24, 2016 by Lamisha

photo credit: Life Awaits via photopin (license)
photo credit: Life Awaits via photopin (license)

Over the past 3 years, I’ve seen some truly magical shifts happen in the lives of my clients many of which occurred, within days of working together.

One woman in particular was struggling immensely in finding a new job.  She’d been applying for job after job for months and couldn’t land a single interview!  After just 1 call with me and a bit of work on her mindset, she emailed me within a few days to tell me that not only had she put in an application and received an interview the same day, but she landed the job too!

Another amazing client of mine had been working on her music career only to find she had been hit with roadblock after roadblock for 3 full years.  Within the first few days of working together, she received an invitation for a musical project, connected with an old friend who sent her information to a producer, and found a partner for a project she’d been looking for, for months.

And the list goes on.

I’ve come to expect and rather enjoy the calls that begin with “Lamisha you aren’t going to believe this!” followed by the magic and wonder that has come from just one or two sessions together.

It’s no surprise to me of course, because I know how powerful this work is and today I’m sharing with you a very simple, yet powerful secret to shifting your life instantly.

In fact it’s so simple, many people overlook it entirely.

 

The secret:  When you believe and know that everything in your life can change instantly…it does.

It’s that simple.

Think about it.  The amount of time it takes for you to go from completely broke to having cash deposited in your account is moments.  Seconds even.

The time it takes for you to go from having no job opportunities to an incredible job offer…instantly.

The time it takes to go from no clients in your business to having multiple people reaching out to you to work together…it can happen in moments.

The key is your belief that it can.

The truth is, most of us are so busy telling the story of how stuck we are, how long we’ve been that way and how we don’t thinks will ever change, that we don’t even begin to think about things shifting instantly.

Regardless of how long it’s been that way or how much time you’ve put in trying, pushing, or forcing change, your situation can change instantly…if you believe it can.

That, my friends is the simple yet powerful truth of change.

It’s happening all the time and the only reason we think we are ‘stuck’ is because we are simply creating the same circumstances over and over again.

And if life isn’t what you want it to be right now, then it’s time to tap into the power of your mind and shift your beliefs about how long it will take your circumstances to change.

It’s the magic of mindset.

Believe it and it is so.

Trust it and it is reflected in your reality.

That is the truth.

So, today I ask you: What would you like to shift instantly in your life?

Do you want more money? A loving relationship? New career opportunities?

It all begins with the power of your mind friends.

And because I know how powerful mindset work is, from now until February 29th I’m offering Mindset Magic sessions to help you shift your beliefs instantly so you can experience a bit of the magic my clients have.

Mindset Magic Session:

-60 Minute Coaching Session

-1 Week of email support

-Magical shifts in your life seemingly instantly

Investment: $97

Want in?  Hit the button below and grab your spot and lets make magic happen in your life shall we?

Book your Mindset Magic session here

Filed Under: Authenticity, Coaching Tagged With: change your life, magic, mindset, mindset session, power

“Stuck” is just an illusion

January 27, 2016 by Lamisha

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If you would have told me that about 8 years ago, I would have very adamantly explained how wrong you were.

You see, before I knew what I know now, I played victim to my circumstances more often than not.

I thought for sure that being ‘stuck’ in a dead end job that made my mind numb was unfair and I couldn’t see a way out.

The truth is, I had a way out all along, but I was too afraid to do anything about it.  I was afraid to quit, to try something different and to go after what I really wanted in life.

I made excuses and argued for my limitations which only kept me in the comfort of complaining about just how ‘stuck’ I really was.  It took awhile, but finally I managed to see what was possible beyond the mental restrictions I had playing at any given moment.

That was the day I began to dream of something better and now I’m living it.

I know that when you are feeling ‘stuck’ it feels as real as a cut on your hand.  You FEEL it, talk about it, maybe even cry about how stuck you really are, but I’m here to tell you that you have the power!

In fact, that’s what the Break Free From Stuck: Group Edition program is all about.  Helping you see that you have choices and the power to break free once and for all.

I’ve been getting lots of questions about the program itself and decided to put together a little video to explain a bit more.

It all begins February 1st and I currently only have 2 spots open for participants to sign up and receive a FREE 1:1 coaching session in addition to the additional support you receive for the program.  If you are interested in learning more about the program and want to claim one of those spots, you can do so here.

If ‘stuck’ is how you feel, it’s time to break free and this program is just the thing you need!

Filed Under: Frustration, Intention, Life Tagged With: empowerment, frustrated, illusion, personal power, power, stuck

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