Lamisha Serf-Walls

Mindset Monday: Before you react…Consider this

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Happy Monday!

Picture this…It’s January 1st and you’ve done all the planning, creating, envisioning, and intention-setting for your year ahead and you KNOW that this is going to be YOUR year to up-level and take over the world (insert evil laugh).

You’ve done the dreaming and scheming, the visualizing and meditating and you know like you know like you know that THIS YEAR is just going to ROCK…starting on day 1 of the year.  NOTHING is going to get you down…until…something does.

Your well laid plans go awry and you get hit with what feels like a boulder right in the gut of your big dreams and see all the cards come tumbling down before your eyes.  Communications get mixed up, plans you set forth fall apart, and you crumble…at least that’s what it feels like.

You have 2 choices.  You can either REACT in a fit of fury, depression and very dramatic “WHY ME!” (and go down the rabbit hole that it brings) OR you can choose to respond to the situation and adjust your mindset according to what you want to create.

Which do you choose?

Hit the video below to find out which to choose and why. (I know it seems a bit obvious, but do me a solid and hit the link anyway.)

Does the story above sound a bit too dramatic for your liking?  Well, it is and it’s 100% TRUE.

In January that’s exactly what I went through only I didn’t make the best choice in the end.  Instead of responding to the situation, I totally (over) reacted and in turn created a 6-week cycle of doubt, fear, frustration, and found myself thinking the very dramatic thought that my business was going to end in 2017. (Insert eye roll- I’m a Leo, drama is what we do.)

Since then, I’ve been practicing the art of managing my mindset and emotions and sharing my best tips and tricks with my clients.  Let me tell you…it is LIFE-CHANGING.

When you know that YOU are in charge of creating the very experiences that unfold next based on your response, why NOT decide that regardless of how things appear, things are always working out for you?

I guarantee that is one of the most empowering and uplifting things you can do for yourself.  Give it a try and let me know how it goes!

Big love to you!

P.S. Are you interested in transforming your mindset to one that supports you in creating the very powerful vision you have for yourself?  If so, let’s chat.  I am opening 3 spots for my HeadCase Program for June at the original beta-rate of $777.  After those spots are officially filled, I won’t be taking anymore at that rate.

If you missed out on that program before, this is a 1:1 Mindset Transformation program that includes 7-45 minute coaching sessions over 7 weeks for $777 (which is roughly 1/2 off what it would normally be to work with me for that long.)

If you’re interested, simply hit the link below to get scheduled for a free consultation and include a note about the HeadCase Program in the notes section.

Book FREE 30-Minute Consultation HERE

The Doubt Factor: The real reason other people doubt you

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It’s not YOU, it’s THEM.

That’s the easy answer.  But let me back up a moment.

Have you ever had an experience where you share your biggest, brightest, most expansive dream with a loved one only to have them crap all over it?

What started out as a celebratory conversation turns into a self-loathing, dream-crushing, doubt-filled experience that sends you back to the “logical” drawing board for your life.

I have had this experience more times than I can count and recently I had a client share with me her experience.

Hit the link below to find out what I told her.

 

Are you ready to build a solid, unshakeable belief system and mindset within yourself?  Schedule a free 30- minute consultation below and let’s chat about how we can do that together.

Book a FREE 30-Minute consultation here.

The biggest belief holding you back when life gets tough..

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Hey friends!

The other day I was in a total funk.  I couldn’t quite put my finger on what was going on, but I DID know that I didn’t like it!

 

As I sat with my feelings for what felt like forever, I did my normal routine of trying to shake this mood loose.  Unfortunately, nothing seemed to work and my mind was running wild with worry.

I found myself worrying about a particular “problem”, I’d been dealing with and after a few hours of trying desperately to shift that feeling a HUGE realization hit me like a ton of bricks.

Immediately, I jumped on a Facebook live to capture the moment and share with YOU my aha moment. Check it out below!

The biggest belief that is likely holding you back in the midst of a life struggle.

Giving you a peek behind the curtain…

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I want to be completely transparent and real with you (as always) and let you know that sometimes the path to the most amazing things you ever imagined isn’t all rainbows and unicorns.

At least that’s been my experience.

There IS ease, grace, flow, and beauty on the path, but there is also a fair amount of resistance, crunchiness, and “tests” that come up too.

And it’s during those “tests” that we need our mindset work the most!

I know there are a lot of people out in the world looking for the quick fix and the magic bullet to make life 1000% better and while working on your mindset and learning to LIVE by the #2 secret I shared on the webinar the other day (go have a listen if you don’t know what that is) will absolutely improve your life 1000%—> it doesn’t always feel easy.

Sometimes it feels downright HARD.

I know this because I live it…daily.

I am not perfect.  My mindset isn’t that of a Tibetan Monk and I have my share of freak outs (hello all of January and part of February), but I have experienced some truly incredible shifts by turning my focus to the ONLY thing I (we) have control over…my mindset.

  • I’ve overcome daily, general anxiety after suffering with it for years
  • I’ve consistently taken on new challenges that scare the bejesus out of me and succeeded in many of them.
  • I’m happier, healthier, and less of a control freak

And if I could name the greatest change of all it would be the fact that I actually have a framework and practice to get back to when I fall off the deep end.

  • When my son (who was recently diagnosed with ADHD) was kicked out of his private school last year due to some ADHD related challenges…my mindset work saved me from completely losing it.
  • When my mother in law had to move in with us unexpectedly due to some personal challenges…my mindset work saved me.
  • When I feel like I’m “failing” (yes, even coaches feel this) and like I may never recover…my mindset work saves me.
  • When I’m triggered by the uncertainties in life and business…my mindset work saves me.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that even as a coach, I have challenges and when I find something that works to help me rebound from those challenges and decrease the frequency of them…I want to share it.  It’s what I’m here to do.

So, if you are looking for a quick fix or a magic bullet…this isn’t that (and frankly there is no such thing).

However, if you are looking for a strategic plan to help you move through life with more ease, grace, and knowing-ness for miracles to unfold on your path…the Miracle Mindset Immersion Program is for you.

I promise it will transform your life…if you do the work. <3

It all starts May 1st and if you sign up in the next 48 hours you are still eligible for not only the early bird rates, but you are also eligible for the BONUS week on Money Mindset (which I have to say is pretty amazing).

If you are ready to adopt a miracle mindset in order to transform your life then I invite you to join us for this round (and likely the ONLY live round I am doing in 2017).  Find out more about the program here. 

If, however you are ready to dive in and snag the Early Bird rate + the bonus week on Money Mindset then make sure you click the links below to get signed up!

Regular Program + Bonus Money Mindset Week = $127

or

VIP (Includes 4 week program + 1- 45 Minute Coaching session) + Bonus Money Mindset Week = $227

I can’t wait to get started with you!!!

P.S.  If you missed the call the other night, check out the replay below and make sure you check out the details below regarding the BONUS that expires in 24 hours! (It’s a steal!)

5 Secrets to Unlock Your Miracle Mind AUDIO recording

I’m no good at this…

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To be honest, the past year and a half or so has been a bit chaotic in my life and while I’d LOVE to tell you I have all my shit together 9 times out of 10…I don’t.

Chaos is like my kryptonite. It throws me for a loop emotionally, psychologically, and energetically and it often takes me a while to get back on track which can be a bit of an issue when you are running a business and caring for your family right? (Believe me…it was a big issue at times!)

In fact in 2016 alone I worked my way through…

  • Packing up our entire house for a 500 mile move
  • Living in a nearly empty house with my son while he finished school for 3.5 months
  • Running a business from said empty house
  • Selling our house
  • Finally making the 500 mile move so our family could be together again
  • 2 School changes for my son and some pretty significant medical/behavioral challenges
  • And ya know…Life

And already in 2017 I have to look forward to…

  • My mother-in-law moving in with us
  • My wife going away for work for at least 6 months

Needless to say chaos is not new to me.

I wouldn’t quite say that chaos and I are the best of friends, but I’m learning to find my way through the trying times and considering the political climate and non-stop nonsense going on in the world…we need to tap into our power now more than ever.

So, I decided that since I know I’m not the only momma/wife/business owner/heart centered hippy/lightworker/healer/teacher/empath/woman/fill-in-the-blank who has had some challenges with chaosm I’d share some of what I have learned through it all.

The truth is “coping” isn’t really the correct word for what I have experienced. It’s more about harnessing your power during the chaotic times, but coping works too.

If we are honest, we all go through these massive tests of our faith, strength, and fortitude and on Wednesday night I’ll be sharing my tips for getting through the chaos.

This LIVE training will teach you…

  • How to manage your emotions
  • All about shifting your focus and why this is KEY
  • Going into flow
  • Understanding your energy
  • A few of my favorite tools for getting through the crud

It’s all happening over in the MindPower Collective group Wednesday night at 7:30pm EST. Join us!

This training is just the boost you need to get out of chaos and back into your POWER. I promise you won’t be sorry you joined us!

Got questions? Send them my way!