Lamisha Serf-Walls

The difference between “acting” as if and “living” as if…

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I get this question a lot especially from my followers who are into the Law of Attraction like I am.

Traditional LOA teachings talk about raising your vibrations and ‘acting’ as if your desires have manifested, but I’ve found an even better way to do it and I explain the very distinct difference in the video below.

 

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When Life Gives You Lemons, Make Mindset Lemonade

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Mindset has been on my mind over the last month or so and it’s probably because I’ve had to do some MAJOR reframing in my own mind to deal with a massive life move I am currently going through.

Between balancing my business, the move, selling a house, and dealing with what feels like 100 other things at once, I have to admit, my mindset has not been the greatest.

The Universe so kindly reminded me of this and provided impeccable inspiration to write not one but two pieces on the importance of mindset work that I’m sharing with you today.

If life is currently giving you more “lemons” than you feel you can handle right now, some teachers will tell you to “think happy thoughts”, and while I would tend to agree under normal circumstances, I’m learning that that just doesn’t cut it sometimes.  Instead, I’ve found 5 other ways of handling these moments that are far more productive.

I even wrote a piece about it on The Huffington Post.  You can check out “Why “Thinking Happy Thoughts” Isn’t Enough: 5 Things You Should Do Instead here.

If instead, you are feeling a bit sick of your ‘lemon’ reality and are ready to fast-track your mindset and life, then you need this incredibly powerful mindset hack that changes lives.  I know it sounds dramatic, but I promise this is amazing.

Check out my article on MindBodyGreen: The Mindset-Shifting Hack That Gets You What You Really Want In Life

Rest assured knowing that if you are going through some lemon-like times, you’re not alone.  Many of us are going through incredible transformations right now and part of that means turning said lemons into mindset lemonade.

Remember this won’t last forever and that you have the power to shift anything in your life.

Onward and upward friends!!!

Shift your life instantly with this!

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photo credit: Life Awaits via photopin (license)

Over the past 3 years, I’ve seen some truly magical shifts happen in the lives of my clients many of which occurred, within days of working together.

One woman in particular was struggling immensely in finding a new job.  She’d been applying for job after job for months and couldn’t land a single interview!  After just 1 call with me and a bit of work on her mindset, she emailed me within a few days to tell me that not only had she put in an application and received an interview the same day, but she landed the job too!

Another amazing client of mine had been working on her music career only to find she had been hit with roadblock after roadblock for 3 full years.  Within the first few days of working together, she received an invitation for a musical project, connected with an old friend who sent her information to a producer, and found a partner for a project she’d been looking for, for months.

And the list goes on.

I’ve come to expect and rather enjoy the calls that begin with “Lamisha you aren’t going to believe this!” followed by the magic and wonder that has come from just one or two sessions together.

It’s no surprise to me of course, because I know how powerful this work is and today I’m sharing with you a very simple, yet powerful secret to shifting your life instantly.

In fact it’s so simple, many people overlook it entirely.

 

The secret:  When you believe and know that everything in your life can change instantly…it does.

It’s that simple.

Think about it.  The amount of time it takes for you to go from completely broke to having cash deposited in your account is moments.  Seconds even.

The time it takes for you to go from having no job opportunities to an incredible job offer…instantly.

The time it takes to go from no clients in your business to having multiple people reaching out to you to work together…it can happen in moments.

The key is your belief that it can.

The truth is, most of us are so busy telling the story of how stuck we are, how long we’ve been that way and how we don’t thinks will ever change, that we don’t even begin to think about things shifting instantly.

Regardless of how long it’s been that way or how much time you’ve put in trying, pushing, or forcing change, your situation can change instantly…if you believe it can.

That, my friends is the simple yet powerful truth of change.

It’s happening all the time and the only reason we think we are ‘stuck’ is because we are simply creating the same circumstances over and over again.

And if life isn’t what you want it to be right now, then it’s time to tap into the power of your mind and shift your beliefs about how long it will take your circumstances to change.

It’s the magic of mindset.

Believe it and it is so.

Trust it and it is reflected in your reality.

That is the truth.

So, today I ask you: What would you like to shift instantly in your life?

Do you want more money? A loving relationship? New career opportunities?

It all begins with the power of your mind friends.

And because I know how powerful mindset work is, from now until February 29th I’m offering Mindset Magic sessions to help you shift your beliefs instantly so you can experience a bit of the magic my clients have.

Mindset Magic Session:

-60 Minute Coaching Session

-1 Week of email support

-Magical shifts in your life seemingly instantly

Investment: $97

Want in?  Hit the button below and grab your spot and lets make magic happen in your life shall we?

Book your Mindset Magic session here

5 Things to do to start your 2016 off right

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The New Year is coming, are you ready?

Over the last few days I’ve been in hard-core planning mode.  I LOVE this time of year.

There is nothing better than the fresh feeling you get when a new year rolls around.  It makes you feel like anything is possible huh?

In addition to getting super clear on what I desire for 2016, I’m doing a few other things to start the year off right.  I’ve gone through a series of various ways to prep for the New Year over the last few years, but I’ve gotten to a point where I’ve found what works best for me.

Is 2016 YOUR year to kick ass and take names?

Is it the year you finally let go of the excuses and make your dreams a reality?

Ready to up-level?

Of course you are, but first…do these 5 things.

  1.  Release your beliefs.  There is no better time to get rid of the thoughts and beliefs that are no longer serving you than now.  In fact, it’s time to remove ‘can’t’, ‘lack’, ‘not enough’, ‘never’, and any other variation of those words that create a negative feeling for you.  YOU have the power to create your reality and you are, every single day, but first you must clear out your mindset to make room for the abundant and life-giving thoughts that will catapult your life to the next level.  Write down all the beliefs, feelings, memories etc. that you are ready to release on a piece of a paper.  Send them love and then burn that sucker.  Out with the old…in with the new.
  2. De-clutter your space.  I go through various fits and starts of de-cluttering throughout the year, but I love doing one big purge at the end of the year.  A little trick I learned from my good friend Lisa Sharp over at Clear Calm Space is to set a timer for each are of your home you are de-cluttering and then get to work.  Books you are no longer interested in or won’t read again, old papers and notes, clothes and shoes that don’t fit or you don’t wear anymore all must go.  Donate what you can and trash the rest.  Clearing out your space creates a physical peace that does wonders for your energy and paves the way for new opportunities and ideas to flow.
  3. Get clear on what you want for the New Year.  You’ve heard me talk about the 2016 Create Your Shining Year workbooks by Leonie Dawson and you know how much I love brainstorming brilliant ideas and this workbook is awesome.  In the past few weeks I’ve been getting clear on the feelings, opportunities, programs, offers, and experiences I desire for 2016.  I’m not talking about ‘how’ I’m going to do it just yet and you don’t have to either.  Just getting clear on WHAT you desire is a huge first step.  Whether you use these planners or something else entirely, it’s extremely important to decide what you wish to bring to fruition in the New Year.  (P.S. The Planning Party is still open so if you want to join us, you can purchase your workbook above and I’ll get you added to the group.)
  4. Choose your WORD for the year.  Every year I choose a word or phrase as a theme for the year ahead.  In 2014 I chose “Show up” and in 2015 I chose “Go Pro”.  This year I decided to go with one word and instead of thinking it through logically, it sort of chose me.  For 2016 my word is FLOW.  I desire more flow in abundance, ideas, creativity, and in fun experiences.  Being in the flow feels amazing and that is my guidepost for all that I do in 2016.  I encourage you to select a word for yourself.  Use it to make decisions for the year, to set your goals and to keep you focused on what is important for the year ahead.
  5. Take action.  So many people start with an amazing vision for what they want to accomplish for the year ahead, but fail to actually take action to move them toward their goals.  I encourage you to select a few things that feel a bit scary, but totally exciting to jump start your year.  Big action (in spite of your fear) is really what will make the difference between staying stuck where you are now and moving into the future your soul is craving for you.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on what you want to create for the year ahead.  Share your word of the year or your action in the comments below and let’s make 2016 magical and full of wonder!

I also encourage you to reach out for help with making your dreams come true.  Hiring a coach is hands down one of the best ways to take serious action and jump start your year.

If you have been feeling:

  • Stuck in a rut
  • Lost in life
  • Confused about what to do next
  • Frustrated with your lack of progress

It’s time to reach out for help.  Schedule your FREE 30-Minute Consultation below to chat about how I can help support you in creating the future your soul desires.

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3 Things I No Longer Believe About Money Thanks to Denise Duffield-Thomas

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Money is always a funny topic to talk about and for so many people it’s wiggle in their seat uncomfortable.

I used to feel the same way before I had done any mindset work around the topic.

In fact, for a long time my relationship with money was…well tumultuous.

I had a love/hate relationship with it.

Never really knowing what it felt like to always have more than enough, I was anxious at the thought of money for anything.  Spending it, making it, asking for raises, and dealing with debt made me cringe.  I thought having just enough to get by was a good thing and never dreamed that one day I would be an entrepreneur who’s only income was based on my gifts and talents.

(GASP)

Parts of me believed money was always hard to get and keep.  Growing up in a single parent household, money was tight most of the time and I learned never to ask for much more than what I actually needed because I didn’t want to add to the stress and anxiety of making ends meet.

As soon as I was old enough to work, I got multiple jobs because I thought that is what I had to do to survive and contribute in the world.

What I didn’t realize is that it was all in my head and that my thoughts were creating my reality.

Since then, I’ve made some big shifts to my mindset to really dig in and change my relationship with money and one of the BIGGEST things I have done is make an investment in myself by way of Denise Duffield-Thomas and her Lucky Bitch Money Bootcamp.

In the last year I have learned SO much about my money mindset and how to shift it and it’s changed everything for me.

Thanks to Denise the top 3 things I no longer believe about money are:

1.  Money is a limited supply and if I have more, you get less.  I used to live with the atrocious belief that if I have more it means you get less or vice versa.  I thought that somewhere there was a big vat of money that was in circulation and if I had more than my ‘fair’ share, then someone else had to have less because….math.  But what I have learned is that not only is there MORE than enough to go around, I have the ability and control to manifest as much or as little as I want…when my mindset is in the right place.

2.  Money is hard.  From the time I started working, I thought I had to work long hours and several jobs to make enough money to live.  I pushed hard and at one point was working 3 jobs just to have a bit of extra spending money.  It wasn’t fun and no matter how many hours I worked or how much overtime I volunteered for, it seemed like I could never get ahead.  After working through the bootcamp (and soon moving through it a second time), I found that money didn’t have to be hard.  That with the right mindset and focus, money could flow to me with ease and grace and it does on a regular basis.

3.  You can’t do what you love AND make a boatload of cash.  When I graduated college I didn’t know anyone who was doing what they loved and making money doing it.  Honestly everyone I knew (adults included) was working in a job they didn’t necessarily hate (though some totally did) to make ends meet.  They chose the path of least resistance so they could work, live, and save for retirement when they were finally ready to live a life they loved.  I followed suit until my passion became louder than my logic and I decided to follow my heart.  Starting my business I still had no idea how I would make enough money to replace a full-time income, but what Denise showed me is that it is not only possible, but 100% probable when your mindset is in the right place. (Do you see a theme here?)

Now, I’ve taken what I have learned over the years about money and mindset and I use it to help other women do the things they once thought were impossible.  And I openly and honestly share my journey because I want you to know that this didn’t happen overnight.  I made an investment in changing my relationship with money by investing in Denise’s Lucky Bitch Money Bootcamp.

It’s been a game changer for me as a woman, a mother, a wife, and an entrepreneur.  But the truth is you don’t have to be all of those things for this to help you.  The insight and support Denise provides in her program is unlike anything I’ve ever done and this month she is closing out the old program and will be releasing the new program at a new, higher rate.

If shifting your mindset around money is something you feel called to do, I encourage you to check her out.  (Full-disclosure: I am an affiliate for Denise’s program only because I 100% believe in what she is doing and I am a part of her amazing community.  So, any purchases you make through the links I share with you will result in me being compensated. )

And if this is the first time you have ever heard about Denise, she is hosting a FREE webinar tonight at 7pm EST to discuss Mindset Shifts You Need to Create Passive Income.  It’s free and if you can’t make it live, sign-up using the link so you will get the recording.

You can also check out more info about the bootcamp here or check out her amazing free resources that I share with all of my clients because they are awesome!

If you are looking for even more mindset help in general, I am hosting a FREE Mindset Makeover Challenge in my Love Your Life Tribe on Facebook starting Monday July 13th and I’d love for you to join us.  This group is full of amazing women like YOU who are looking to create an open, airy, love-filled life of their dreams.  You will be in amazing company. 😉

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