Lamisha Serf-Walls

Do YOU have a Money Mind???

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I am so excited to spill the beans about this FREE event I’ve been cooking up for you.

As you may know, we just wrapped up the latest round of the Miracle Mindset Immersion Program and I have mindset on the brain big time right now!

In fact, as we were finishing the final few weeks of the program, I realized one thing that holds SO many people back from living the life they desire (and to be honest, it held me back for WAY too long) is something I haven’t ever really talked about.

It’s been such a huge part of my journey and yet, I’ve been pretty hush-hush about it until now.  To be honest, I suspect it’s because I have my own blocks around talking about it openly, even though it is something I work with about 90% of my clients on in some way.

What is it???

$$ MONEY $$

Now, just looking at the word can be enough to give people anxiety and stress.  Money is a word that brings up a multitude of emotions depending on your current relationship with it right?

Do me a favor right now and check in with your own emotions.  When you think about money, what do you feel?

Excited?
Anxious?
Worried?
Curious?
Scared?
Terrified?

I’ve felt all of those emotions and then some!  In fact, for most of my life I struggled to even think about money in any positive way.

To be honest, I didn’t like it, didn’t trust it, I never had enough, and I thought that’s the way it was always going to be.  In my mind it was just a fact of life.

I grew up to believe that money was hard to make, difficult to keep, and believed that if I got a ‘good job’ and worked really hard, I might eventually get ahead, but it wasn’t likely.

Talk about a shitty money mindset!  (It’s no wonder I always lived paycheck-to-paycheck and had a mountain of debt no matter how much money I made.)

Turns out, I was actually CREATING the lack in my life by what I thought.  Back then, I had no idea what mindset work was and never once considered that I had any control over the situation.  Other than working multiple jobs (which I did for many years) of course.

I didn’t know what I didn’t know. 

I wanted more money, but didn’t know how to make it happen.
I craved more adventure, but didn’t have the money to make it happen.
I hated my job, but felt bound by the pittance I was receiving because…hey a girl’s gotta eat!

It wasn’t until I began to really embrace this whole professional development work that I learned I had more control than I realized and it all started with what I THOUGHT.

My money journey has evolved over the years and each year I up-level my belief system around money, my income increases.

I’ve gone from working multiple jobs to (barely) make ends meet, to working in my own business (doing what I love) and doubling my income in the last year.

I’ll be completely honest, I’m not nearly where I’d like to be, but I’m a hell of a lot better off than I was before and it’s all because I up-leveled my money mindset.

Mindset is everything when it comes to anything, money included. 

Money mindset in particular tends to take mindset work to an entire new level.  We tend to have so many stories, truths, beliefs, and blocks weaved into our money experiences that it often requires special focus.  To be honest, it’s why I decided to put together a special FREE Money Mindset Masterclass for YOU.

I know what it’s like to feel limited by your bank balance and to feel completely stuck in creating the life experience you desire and DESERVE.

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So, if you could use a Money Mindset adjustment to bring in more cash and open yourself to more abundance in your life, mark your calendar for this THURSDAY August 25th @ 8pm EST. 

This Thursday I’ll be hosting a FREE Money Mindset Masterclass to help you shift your beliefs and stories around money so you can increase the flow of abundance into your life.

In this masterclass I’ll be sharing with you:
 

  • The simple TRUTH about MONEY that will change everything for you
  • The single most POWERFUL belief that will transform your money mindset (and bring you more cash)
  • My all time favorite TOOL for clearing out your old limiting beliefs around money & creating new ones that foster amazing wealth
  • PLUS an amazing exercise that has helped many of my clients attract unexpected income within days!!!

Mindset work isn’t magic, but it will certainly FEEL that way once we start shifting beliefs.

Join me on Thursday August 25th at 8pm EST for this fabulously enlightening masterclass that will change how you THINK & ATTRACT money forever.

And I’m doing this Masterclass a bit different.  Instead of doing the typical webinar style class, I’ll be hosting this masterclass in our very own private Facebook Group.  I’ll be going LIVE at 8pm EST on Thursday and I’ll be available to answer all of your questions & give you a bit of coaching leading up to the event.

Want in?  Join the group HERE.

It’s FREE and is guaranteed to shift how you THINK & ATTRACT money now and forever more, why wouldn’t you want in?

The 4 A’s of Abundance (and Anything Else You Want to Manifest)

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I often get some profound thoughts on my morning walks and today I’m sharing my latest with you!

P.S. Don’t forget the #13WaysofGiving is still happening and I’ve been giving lots of great stuff over in my Love Your Life Tribe on Facebook and I’d love for you to join us 🙂

 

LOA Tip: Energy Shifts Before Your Manifestation Occurs

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What do you do when you are working on manifesting money, your dream career, your soulmate or maybe your dream house and despite doing everything you’ve been taught…nothing happens?

I get this question more than you think and to be honest, I’ve dealt with it in my own manifesting journey on more than one occasion.

I have my high vibe practice set up with EFT tapping, meditation, affirmations, visualization, and inspired action and I even lean back and let the Universe take over-but, there are moments when I just can’t help but ask where I am going wrong???

While there may be some things you could do to clear the way a bit more-mindset work, dropping the old stories about working hard etc., one thing you must know is this:

Your stuff is coming…right now.

I know, you are looking around and saying…but WHERE is it Lamisha?

It’s coming, in fact it’s already on the way and the best way for you to know it for yourself is to know this:

Energy shifts before your manifestation occurs. 

During the manifesting process, energy is in play all the time.  You have to have a vibration that matches that of the thing (or person) you are trying to attract and before your actual manifestation comes to you-energy has to shift first.

Here’s what that might look like in a real world scenario.

Say for instance you are trying to manifest your dream job.  You know how you want to feel in that job and you have been doing your mantras, taking action, and keeping your vibration high.

You take the logical route and apply for the jobs you find along the way, but they aren’t a very good fit.  However, you notice that you are making more contacts and “randomly” running into people who are doing the exact type of work you would love to do.

On the one hand you could see this as a chance to moan and groan about the fact that they have this amazing job and you don’t…OR you could simply see it for the amazing gift that it is.  The energy is shifting and you are seeing more of what you want in your reality.

You are meeting people who are working in a job you love and you are making connections, networking, and building relationships that will lead you to be notified as soon as a position becomes available.

Energy ALWAYS shifts before your manifestation occurs, so be aware of the shifts and be grateful.  It’s a sure sign that your desires are on the way.

Take a moment and look at what you are trying to manifest right this very moment and note the signs you have seen that indicate the energy is shifting and your stuff is on the way.  Celebrate!  The tides are shifting and you are on the right path.

Interested taking your manifesting to the next level?  Join my email list where I share additional tips, tools & strategies to help you continue to create more of what you want.

My Biggest Fear…

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If you are on my VIP list you know I’ve been thinking about fear and how it’s a f–king liar.

It’s true.  And even though I know this to be true, I have still struggled with fear myself in many ways.

The fear of being seen in my business was a big one for a long time that kept me playing small.

But, my biggest fear of them all has been…lack of control.

You see, for as long as I can remember, I’ve always tried to be 2-4 steps ahead of my current circumstances.  Trying to make sure all things go as planned and that I don’t end up blindsided by some crazy disappointment in life, I would work out all the outcomes in my mind and figure out how to avoid the bad ones.

Simply put I worried…a lot!

I developed general anxiety because I was always trying to stay ahead of the moment.  If I was making a decision about what to do, I would try to predict the outcome so I could strategize how to cope with it in advance.  Needless to say I wasn’t mindful or present in any moment.  I was always worrying about the future.

When it came to goal setting and setting intentions, I would torture myself!  I needed to know how it was going to work out and while I had some positive focus that it would, if I didn’t see the way, then I wasn’t convinced.

I had zero faith.

It’s taken a long time for me to get over that general anxiety and to stop worrying so much, but there are times when I can feel myself slipping back into needing to know how things are going to work out as opposed to just trusting they will.

The truth is, if we expect a specific outcome and we are open to how the outcome is manifested, there is nothing to worry about.  The perceived control I have over seemingly everything in my life is a bit misunderstood.

The only things we control are our thoughts & actions which in turn create our reality.

So, if being a control freak in how your dreams come true is something you struggle with, take a step back.  Take a deep breath and grab a pen and notebook.

I want you to write down all the ways your dream (or another situation) could manifest perfectly.  I’m not saying these are all things you might believe at the moment, but write down all the ways it could happen.  Get creative and remember that the Universe has every resource available to use and we only know a very small portion of that.  To expect that our way is the only way is a bit misguided and is the best way to lead to frustration and it may even cause a delay in manifesting what we want in our lives.

Be open to more than just the way you think is ‘realistic’ or ‘probable’.  The Universe doesn’t work with reality…it works with magic & miracles and I assure you as soon as you open your mind to ‘how’ it can happen and let go of the outcome a bit, more magic and miracles will find you.  It’s just how it works.

If you are still struggling with manifesting your deepest desires and want to learn about how to make that happen with ease, grace, and more flow, I encourage you to check out my 7 Secrets to Manifest the Life of Your Dreams.  In this free video series, I share with you my biggest secrets to manifesting.  Secrets I’ve learned after many years of trying to be realistic and logical.

Add subtitle text(3)Magical Manifesting is a wonderful way to create the life you have always wanted…not just in cash and things that you can buy, but in experiences, time, and freedom.  Manifesting the beautiful experiences and feelings you’ve always desired and inspiring others to do the same is why I do this work.

I would love for you to join us on February 1st for a journey of Magical Manifesting. This 6-week group program will give you the steps, tools, and secrets you need to create the life you have always wanted and provide you the practical experience that will infuse you with the faith you need to keep going.  Space is limited, so if you are interested I highly encourage you to reserve your place now!

 

Manifesting My Dream Life

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I am all about creating a life you love, because seriously if you aren’t loving your life, something needs to happen.

Life is short and there is enough mediocrity, pain, darkness, and general negativity in the world that you don’t need to look at your job, relationship, business, career, family, or anything else in your life and feel more of the same.

It’s time something changed.

Over the years the concept of what my dream life actually entailed has changed.

I’ve grown up a bit and while I’m older (only in age, definitely NOT in spirit), I have bigger more wild dreams than I ever had as a child.

At one time I simply wanted a ‘secure’ life, with a stable job, and love…lots of love (I’m a Leo after all).  But as time wore on, I wanted more than that.

I craved freedom, family, love, passion, purpose, excitement, adventure, abundance, happiness, peace, community, creativity, support, inspiration…you know just a few things.

Through studying the Law of Attraction, I realized I could have it all…and I started manifesting the life of my dreams one piece at a time.

The first thing that came was love…I manifested my soul mate.  I didn’t know at the time I was manifesting a soul mate per se, but I knew exactly what I wanted in a partner and shortly after writing a list of all the attributes I was looking for in a woman, I found her.  Looking for love incidentally lead to a ton of adventure as I left my life at ‘home’ and moved 300+ states away…and never looked back.

A few years later, we had our son…which by a string of amazing synchronicities couldn’t have happened without clear focus and manifesting mojo for sure.  (I won’t go into details, but it was a series of perfectly aligned energy.)

Not long after that, I manifested an opportunity to work from home to spend more time with my family.  An opportunity that literally fell into my lap and it couldn’t have happened had I not made peace with my current position while focusing on what I was seeking, even though I had NO idea how it would happen.

9 months later, I manifested a brand-spankin’ new house (in 3 days)…in another state that we were moving too (and more adventures of course).

Then my dream career of coaching and did I mention money, connection, purpose, passion, and so much joy?

Yeah all that too…

When I write about living the life of your dreams, it isn’t some abstract idea or thought about what you might be able to achieve.  I’m also not blowing smoke up your rear.

I’m 100% serious about the fact that you can be, have, or do anything you want.

Every woman I speak with has a vision and I know it’s possible…but my knowing isn’t enough.  I teach you to actually utilize the amazing power you have within to create the life you’ve always wanted.

Want to sell everything off and live in a tiny house off the grid? Yes, you can do that.

Want a mansion with a staff to take care of you and your estate? Yes, you can do that too.

Want a business that provides financial freedom, joy, and passion for the rest of your days? Yep, you can have that too.

I’m not giving you the power, I’m just teaching you how to use it.  You already have the power…we all do.

And that’s why I created the Magical Manifesting group program to reach more women like you who crave something more.  A life that you aren’t just settling for…a life that you LOVE.

Manifesting is something we all can do..in fact you are already doing it in every action, thought, and feeling you have.  It’s time to harness that power and to truly create the amazing life you’ve always wanted.  This practical 6-week program does more than give you the steps to make it happen, it provides practical application so you not only know it works, but you have evidence in your own life.

Are you ready to manifest the life you’ve always wanted?  Give me 6 weeks and I’ll give you everything you need to make it happen. You can check out the program HERE.  If you aren’t sure about it just yet, but want to get a taste for what all this manifesting business is about, sign up to receive my FREE Video Series: 7 Secrets to Create the Life of Your Dreams.  I promise you won’t be sorry you did.