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Spread a little LOVE today…

February 14, 2017 by Lamisha

I gotta admit, I’m a sucker for a Hallmark holiday (not to mention their sappy movies) and Valentine’s Day is no different.

Funny, enough what I’m sharing with you today is less about romantic love and more about the vibration of love and how it can heal our world…both inner and outer.

Over the last few weeks I’ve been feeling the massive shifts in our world in every fiber of my being. BIG things are happening energetically and if you are sensitive to the shifts you may have been feeling a bit cranky, depressed, sad, and at times hopeless. (I know I have.)

When I’ve been feeling like that and I managed to get out of the funk for a bit, I got busy creating. Not only did I create the Master Your Mind: Coping in Chaos training last week and the Back 2 Basics series starting tomorrow, but I also wrote an article that I hope will inspire people to lean into LOVE.

Today, I’m sharing that article with you and I’m asking you to send it to someone you think could benefit from it. Let’s allow the vibration of love to begin with US. After all, we are all connected.

Check out the article 4 Ways to Transform the World With Love on TUT here.

P.S. If you haven’t signed up for the Back 2 Basics series and you’d like to check out the first session tomorrow night on Vibration, Energy, & Law of Attraction Basics, you can sign up here.

Wishing you a fabulous day full of big love and lots of joy!

Guest Expert Highlight: Niki Tripp

November 18, 2015 by Lamisha

The more time that passes, it becomes more and more apparent that what we need more of in this world is LOVE.

The recent events across the world have created a reality that many of us never thought we would have to endure. A reality where in many places hate has become the norm and drawing lines in the sand to separate us even more than we already are as a world.

What we need is LOVE.

LOVE heals.

LOVE mends.

LOVE thrives.

LOVE creates.

LOVE brings people together.

And yet, what many of us don’t have is an abundance of self-love.

How can we move through the world loving others more than we love ourselves?

This, my friends is what Niki Tripp is sharing in the Grow, Evolve, Become-Membership group this week.

She is a down to earth, highly intuitive and nature-connected soul who thrives in Mother Nature and can tell you all about the symbols, meanings, and messengers that often come to us in nature. She is also a fellow creative soul with a gift for creating beautiful alter pieces and other nature inspired gifts that you can check out in her Etsy shop.

I have had the honor of meeting and chatting with Niki for a few months and I have to tell you what a sweet, sweet soul she is and I am SO excited to have her as a guest expert for our group this month.

If you could use a bit of self-love and want to check out how to create your own self-lovefest, you must check out her 7-Days of Self-Love– a self-guided e-book that will inspire and motivate you to create a bit more love in your life. And if you are interested in it, grab it now before I convince her to raise the price of this soul-centered gem! (Seriously, the current price is a STEAL for what you get.)

You can also check her out on Facebook and send a little love her way! Thanks Niki for being a part of my guest expert panel for the membership group. 🙂

Celebration Giveaway Winners!!!

The giveaway has come to an end and we have 4 fabulous winners! Thank you everyone who joined in the celebration and took a look at this new beautiful site!

The winners are….

2016 Create Your Shining Year Workbooks: Cheryl R. & Lauren V.D.

Freedom Intensive Session: Jill F.

30-Day Break Free From Stuck: Kelly P.

Thank you again for all your support and if you didn’t win, but would like to join the 2016 Planning Party-make sure you purchase your planners using THIS LINK (and do it fast because the physical products are selling quickly).

Also if you are ready to really make a change in your life and FINALLY live the life your soul craves, feel free to schedule your consultation below. I’d love to chat with you!

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My word is FREEDOM…What’s yours? (Plus a free invitation for YOU.)

July 1, 2015 by Lamisha

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It feels like forever since my last post and that’s because I’ve been on vacation and piecing together my next steps. The good news is I am back and I have a lot of GREAT things up my sleeve for you. But, before I share all of that with you (soon I promise), I want to share some of my most recent realizations.

All this traveling I’ve been able to do this year so far, I realized I have had a theme bubbling up my entire life and it is exactly the kind of life I want to create.

That theme is FREEDOM.

Many (many) moons ago, I wouldn’t have known what it was because I was dealing with so much turmoil and strife, but today I can honestly look at my life as a whole and say what I truly desire is freedom in ALL forms.

I want to experience freedom in love (thank you SCOTUS for making that possible in all 50 states in the US finally).

I want to experience freedom in my finances (thank you Denise Duffield-Thomas for helping me clear my blocks to be open to more abundance.)

I want to experience freedom in my time and how I choose to spend my time on a daily basis (thanks boss-aka me!).

And I am finally embracing the fact that I want to experience freedom in what I create and share with YOU.

You see over the years, I’ve tried to make all of my desires fit nicely into little square boxes even though the contents were hanging out in odd (and fun) shapes and sizes. I realized this weekend that the only thing clean, tidy, square boxes are good for are moving- you know when you have to pack a moving truck and feel like you are playing Tetris to make everything fit.

I don’t fit into one clean and tidy box and I bet you don’t either.

I’m a bit messy and oddly-shaped at times, but it’s what makes me unique. What I desire today may change form in a few months, but that’s the true beauty of evolution and growth isn’t it?

Your desires, wishes, and dreams are as diverse as your experiences in this life and I want you to know it’s OKAY to have all those (sometimes conflicting) desires because in the end it’s all a part of YOU.

You will at times drop the things that are no longer serving you. You will de-clutter your dreams, desires, and wishes and peel back the layers to reveal what is really important to you right here and right now. And despite what gets left on the editing room floor, life will feel amazing for you because in the end YOU get to choose what stays and what goes.

My biggest realization over the last 2 weeks is the freedom that I not only desire and am now totally embracing, but also the freedom I help my clients attain.

And let’s be clear, freedom means something different to everyone. For me it might be about time and money and for someone else it might be entirely about their career. But, what I want YOU (and every other woman walking this planet) to know is that YOU have the FREEDOM to choose the life you live. You have the FREEDOM to break free from whatever has you stuck and to choose differently. But most of all you have the FREEDOM to decide the kind of life you live and experience while you are in this blessed body of yours.

And I want to help you get to that FREEDOM, whatever it means to you because I know that you have an amazing life to live and it’s time to make your dreams come alive starting NOW.

The Facebook Tribe I created a few months ago is under construction and with it comes a new name (TBA) and lots of awesome tools, tips, and challenges to help empower YOU to live that amazing life you want…right now. And instead of waiting for all the new pieces to be in place, I’m inviting you to join us today, before everything is perfect and the new name is revealed.

In this group you will get access to free information, special offers, free coaching threads, inspiration, and lots of additional life-changing information that will empower you in truly beautiful ways. This is phase 1 of the amazing new things to come, so hop on over and be one of the first people to know about what else is coming down the pipe.

Joining is simple just click here and request entry into the group.

P.S. I have a super fun and life-changing challenge coming up soon for people in the group only so make sure you join!

What finding your purpose really means.

May 26, 2015 by Lamisha

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Everyone wants a life they love with money, abundance, joy, peace, and passion for what they do right?

Sure! Who wouldn’t want that?

BUT-there are far too many women settling for ‘good enough’ because they aren’t sure how to get to that passionate place and while I work with many women on finding what lights them up and sets their soul on fire…my work is really about helping you tap into your purpose.

What finding your purpose really means is finding the thing that you are meant to do right here, right now.

It doesn’t necessarily mean it will be forever, but it will be something that lights you up and something you do that brings you joy.

And guess what…finding your purpose doesn’t necessarily mean making it your career…that part is entirely up to you.

If you are struggling to figure out your purpose here are a few tips to get you thinking in the right direction:

What do you feel called to do? I’m sure you may be feeling the call to do something specific. Maybe it’s to spend more time traveling, to do more writing, start a blog, or go volunteer at a local shelter. What is it that is calling to you right now? (Hint: The first thing that popped into your mind is IT…write it down.)
What do you LOVE to do? What kinds of things do you love to do? What do you do because it simply brings you joy? What would you do for FREE? Think about it, make a list, and write it down.
What do you do with ease already? Think about the things people come to you for help with. What is it that you do without thinking? What are you good at? What comes naturally to you? (Hint: If you aren’t sure, ask the people who know you best.)
What experiences of especially molded your life? Think about your past and the BIG moments that really shifted things for you. What did you need in those moments? What were you looking for at the time? What kinds of things did you need that you didn’t realize you needed until you got it? Think about it and see what themes appear.

Once you have all that information together I want you to see if there are any common themes. What pops up over and over again? You may very well be thinking…”Why didn’t I think of that???”, because finding your purpose isn’t about locating it outside of yourself…it’s about recognizing what is already there.

And I want you to know that your purpose can change and evolve as much as you do, so don’t get stuck in thinking what you do now is what you will always do. The beauty of life is that we have an amazing gift of choice and free will. Use that freedom and enjoy the process because that is what it’s all about.

I want to hear from you. What is your purpose? Share in the comments below.

P.S. If you haven’t signed up for the Soul Desire & Reiki Session giveaway, there is still time to get signed up. Winners will be announced on June 2nd, so make sure you check out this post and get signed up here.

5 Things You Need To Create A Life You LOVE

April 17, 2015 by Lamisha

Everyone wants a life they love right?

But, how many are actually willing to do the work that is required to make that life a reality?

Far too many people are sitting on the sidelines, wishing, waiting, and wondering when their time will come.

If you are one of those people-today is your day, but you have to be willing to do just a few things to create a life you love.

Below are 5 things you absolutely need to do to create a life you love.

Get honest with yourself. Take an honest inventory of your current life and look at what is working really well and what isn’t. Don’t just pigeon hole yourself into one area of your life. Look at everything. See how well your self-care is doing, your health, relationships, career, family life, hobbies, etc. How are your finances? How are you feeling most of the time? Take an honest look at it all and figure out where you want to make improvements that will make you FEEL better. How you feel is the key to this inventory and make sure you don’t ignore what IS working. That is incredibly important as we always need to see that there are things that are working in our lives.

Learn to say ‘no’. As women this can be a difficult one. We are naturally service-oriented and want to help, nurture, and care for others, many times leaving whatever is left for ourselves. We will make sacrifices to no end and happily put others before ourselves even if that means we are doing things we really don’t want to do. Learning to say no is imperative to making sure you are focusing on things that light you up and keep your cup full. If your cup isn’t full, you have nothing left to give anyone else.

Start small. As they say: Rome wasn’t built in a day and neither is your dream life. Don’t start making big swooping changes in every area of your life as it can be quite jarring and can create a ton of anxiety and overwhelm. Start small with implementing more of what you truly love and enjoy. Remember to focus on the things that make you feel good. The more you do that, the easier the transition and changes will be. As a side note if you were going to start anywhere first, I’d start with your mindset because your mindset is EVERYTHING.

Dare to take risks. Once we reach a certain age, we tend to get comfortable with our lives even if they aren’t exactly how we want them to be. We allow our comfort zone to become like a cocoon wrapping over us and keeping us safe from harm and disappointment. But, all those things you desire for your dream life are right outside your cocoon. You can’t get to them when you are all wrapped up. You have to be willing to break free from your comfort zone and take risks every now and then. Start now, write down 3 things that are a bit scary that will take you out of your comfort zone and will help create a life you love.

Take action. This one seems a bit obvious, but there are so many women out there who know exactly what they need to do, but they aren’t. Maybe it’s fear, worry, anxiety, or just plain procrastination that keeps them paralyzed, but they just aren’t moving in the direction they know they want to go. It isn’t until we work together and they have the accountability and push that they really begin moving forward. If you are one of these people, stop stalling and get busy! Take action now. Your dream life depends on it.

So there you have it. 5 things you need to do in order to create a life you love. Which will you start with this weekend?

If you are looking for some support during this process to help you stay in action or to take the risks you need to move you forward, I’d love to chat with you more about it. I have a few spots open in the coming weeks for you to schedule a FREE 30-Minute Consultation. Simply click the button below to get signed up.