Lamisha Serf-Walls

Re-Framing the Green-Eyed Monster

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When we are growing into our dreams and taking action in the world to create the life of our dreams, there are times (sometimes many) when we come up against the dreaded green-eyed monster.  We see all these amazing people doing what we want to do and doing it WELL.

Some of us get discouraged and begin to feel ‘less-than’ that other person that is doing it better, faster, and more beautifully than us.  Others feel like giving up because they convince themselves that they won’t ever measure up.

Well I have a re-frame that will turn that green-eyed monster into a joyous, happy, and celebratory friend.

Check out the video below to find out how you can use this re-frame the next time you feel a bit of envy, jealousy, or ‘less-than’ someone else.

 

P.S. If you are interested in some FREE coaching hop on over to my Facebook Coaching Power Hour that I am hosting TONIGHT from 8pm-9pm EST.  I will have a special thread open for your questions and will be offering my insight and coaching for an hour.  Got a burning question about creating the life &/or biz of your dreams? Ask away!  All you have to do is be a fan of my FB page and come with your questions. 🙂 Talk to you tonight!

It’s Time To Come Clean…

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Vortex-ClarityI seem to be in the remedial school of life these days, learning and re-learning lessons that I thought I had mastered long ago (ok well some of them might be a few months old, but who’s counting?).  Last week I was going through a particularly emotional lesson and now I have reached the sunrise or clarity portion of that lesson.

Here’s what I have learned.

  • I have the POWER to create the life and reality of my dreams.  I believe in that so much that I built a business around this exact idea.  In fact it’s not an idea, but instead a truth.  A truth that applies to you too.  YOU have the power to create whatever it is you want.  You just have to decide what you want, hold the intention, and take inspired action.
  • I may not have the skills and connection that others have, but that does not discount my abilities to do the work I love.  I have unique abilities that allow me to connect to and with the exact people I should be connecting with.  Our differences are beautiful and our gifts are unique.  It’s what makes this world amazing.  And being my true authentic self is the best (and truly the only) way to serve my clients.  This article shares my lesson on being the authentic expert.
  • The intuitive guidance that led me to my business was not wrong and it is the same intuitive guidance that I have been discounting for the past few months.  Sure, there are many things I still need to learn, but if something doesn’t sit right with me intuitively, it’s not for me.  I’m ok with that and you should be too.
  • I am surrounded by amazingly talented women who are doing incredible things in the world.  I support them, uplift them, and celebrate their magnificence and I know that their brilliance has no effect on what I am doing or not doing.  Their success doesn’t cause my demise and vice versa.  We are connected. Period.  And the success of one creates a vortex of power for others.
  • When I am in my power, standing in my truth, and sharing who I really am, I have more of an impact on those around me.  This post is a perfect example of how passion, purpose, and authenticity can come together to create an amazing inspirational energy that can’t be denied.
  • I also know that this very moment with all of its lessons is completely perfect.  I am living the life of my dreams and everyday I am closer to more expansion, creation, and success.  The key to all of that is inspired action.  And the inspiration behind the action comes from intuition.  You have it too, so stand in that power and trust your gut to tell you who to hire, what to do, and where to go.
  • Last but not least, I am uncovering more and more of who I really am which is allowing me to reach more women, inspire change, and support the dreams of others.  This life of mine is amazing! Not because of money, numbers, or crazy success.  Not at all.  It’s amazing because I am doing what I love, making a difference, and learning lessons along the way.

Should you find yourself going through lessons you thought you learned, never fear.  A perfect life is not without lessons.   A ‘perfect’ life is the life you are living right now with lessons, love, connection, dreams, and a lot of growth. 

If you are ready to step into your power to create the amazing life or business of your dreams, now is the time to follow your calling.  I have opened up a few spots for my 1-Month Jump Start program for July 2014 that will get you moving in 30 days or less. 4 sessions in 4 weeks = major progress.  This offer expires June 30th so if you want in on this incredibly affordable and powerful opportunity, you can sign up here.

The Formula You Might Be Missing

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Untitled designMany of the heart-centered business owners I work with are so deeply passionate about what they do that they want to share their message with the world…some of them literally.  They KNOW how transformational their work is and they want to reach more and more people not just because it makes them money, but because they believe in what they do and they know they make a difference.  They also realize that we are moving into a world of collaboration, community, and compassion for one another.

As a whole, the world is beginning to step out of the reality that we have to fight, compete, and compare ourselves to one another in order to succeed.  Our new reality is one that allows us to combine our passions to create unique alliances that fulfill the equally unique needs of the world. 

But HOW do you do that?

It has taken many business-owners years to figure out how to expand their vision so they can reach more people AND feel comfortable collaborating and creating the right alliances to make a bigger impact in the world.  For most people it is a matter of trial and error while learning lessons along the way, but it doesn’t have to be that way.

You now have the opportunity to learn the FORMULA that will not only change how you operate and grow your business, but also how you interact with and contribute more to your community and the world.

On June 24th Creative Entrepreneur Crystal Davis is sharing her simple, yet powerful Formula for Collaboration + Expansion along with brief video on how to begin using it in your life and biz…and it’s FREE!

With this information you will understand how to:

• Create powerful collaborations in all areas of your life (business, friendships, love-ships + more)

• Understand how to use your strategic alliances to effortlessly contribute more to your family, community + the world

• Stop wasting time with alliances that don’t serve your highest purpose

• Honor your own truth whilst attracting abundance – the key to loving life!

This formula is too powerful to keep a secret and I am so honored to have Crystal share it with you lovely readers first! Sign-up now to get added to receive this exclusive, life & biz changing formula.  I promise you won’t be sorry!