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Mindset 101: Create your new normal.

July 14, 2016 by Lamisha

photo credit: Napoleon Hill Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve via photopin (license)
photo credit: Napoleon Hill Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve via photopin (license)

 

Yesterday I did a quick talk on Facebook Live regarding this idea of what we deem as ‘normal’ in our lives.

Everyday we experience life around us and we have expectations of what is coming based on past experiences.

The way we deal with money, love, our loved ones, our bosses, our jobs, and other people are all based out of the past.

We expect, react, respond, and play a part based on what we are used to experiencing.

So, it stands to reason that IF we don’t exactly like our external circumstances, then all we need to do is shift what we expect.  I know it seems easier said than done.

But today, I want you to think a bit about what it is you have come to accept as your ‘norm’?  What is a common occurrence that you simply expect because it’s happened so often?

Maybe it’s that you always barely make it to your next paycheck.

Maybe it’s that you always have date the liars and the cheaters.

Maybe it’s that you always lose 10lbs and then gain it right back.

Whatever it is for YOU is simply a reflection of your mindset.

As human beings we tend to stay where it is comfortable, even if it the circumstances seem a bit uncomfortable.  If we are used to barely making it financially and we’ve allowed that to be our comfort zone then we will likely repeat those circumstances.

In order to shift that, we must first shift our mindset and what we expect.

I explain a bit more about how to do just that and how to create and live from your new reality in my live stream from yesterday.  Hop on over and check it out.

If you know you are ready to leave your old expectations and nonsense behind so you can embrace a new expanded life for yourself, I encourage you to check out the Miracle Mindset Immersion Program that starts on July 25th.  Early Bird registration is open now and rates jump by $100 on Monday July 18th.

Filed Under: Coaching, Intention, Life, Mindset Tagged With: coaching, expectation, mindset, normal

It can all change in an instant…

March 3, 2015 by Lamisha

photo credit: 很喜欢直接从树干上长出来的花朵, via photopin (license)
photo credit: 很喜欢直接从树干上长出来的花朵, via photopin (license)

Growing up I was keenly aware of the fact that life could change instantly, only then I expected it to change for the worse.  I was leery of moments that felt too good because it seemed like there was always something lurking around the corner ready to knock me off my high horse of happiness.

In fact, I grew so accustomed to seeing the bad things in life that I tried to plan for them before they ever happened.  You know the saying  “Plan for the worst, but hope for the best?”  Well I planned for and expected the worst and generally got it.

Looking back it’s a bit sad because while I had moments where I dreamed of it all working out the way I truly wanted it to, I never trusted that it could.

It took many years of growth, mindset work, and persistence to get to a place where I no longer expect the worst.  I now know that I get what I expect, thanks to my understanding of the Law of Attraction.

I am in a space in my life now where I know that everything can change for the better in an instant, but only if you are truly in the right frame of mind.

Everything we deal with in life is temporary.  The rain, sunshine, and cloudy days are all temporary and the same goes for the tough times.

There have been moments in the last year when my business wasn’t doing so well and I momentarily got stuck into my old way of thinking.  But, the moment I let go of that story and remembered that it could all change in the matter of one second, I lightened up.

I hold onto that thought to this day and I am always delighted to see how things change instantly for the better.

I want you to think about your life right now.  What are you struggling with?  In what ways are you expecting the worst and getting it?

What if you shifted your thoughts and remembered one simple fact that could change your life for the better?

It can all change in an instant, for the better so you better be prepared.

Having financial trouble that you just can’t quite see a way out of?

Hate your job, but don’t see any way out of it?

Living a life that is less than you desire, yet you don’t know what to do to move forward?

All of that can change in an instant and the good news is you don’t have to know how it will right now.  Simply know this to be true and follow your heart when the how appears.  That’s it!

Trust me when I say I have lived on both sides of this coin and knowing that everything can shift in a matter of seconds is an amazing feeling that provides hope for your future.

If you are looking for an opportunity to shift your mindset and begin taking steps to truly create the life you’ve always wanted, then hiring a coach may be your ‘how’.  I’m inviting you to schedule a free 30-minute consultation to chat about your situation and see if we are a good fit.  I have some exciting new ways to work with me coming up and I’d love to give you the inside scoop on our call.

Are you ready to change your life for the better?

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Filed Under: Awareness, Coaching, Happiness, Inspiration, Lessons, Life, Practices, Tips Tagged With: change, change your life, coaching, expect, expectation, instant, life coach, LOA

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