Lamisha Serf-Walls

#MassiveActionAugust: Are YOU in?

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If you caught my live stream on Friday you know I’m 100% utterly and completely DONE with the excuses.

Over the last few weeks I’ve been basically stuck in the rut of playing, thinking, and LIVING small.

In the name of being ‘busy’, just moving, not really feeling settled, traveling a lot and goodness knows what other excuses I’ve had, I’ve been SO LAZY about my vision.

I’ve been staying up late, sleeping in late, missing my work outs and just generally sabotaging my efforts left, right, and center.  I’ll be honest though, there was a part of me that felt like I was entitled to this indulging behavior because it’s summer and there are a lot of other personal things going on.

But let’s be clear…that too is just an excuse.

Everyday I share my message about the importance of tapping into your power and sticking to your vision and playing BIG and here I am playing small.  Teeny-tiny even!

I’ve not done anything to push my comfort zone limits and have been playing it way too safe.  And you know what?  I could FEEL it!

I had gotten a bit bored with myself.  Aside from my amazing client calls and my work in the Miracle Mindset Immersion program, I found myself feeling a bit blase about life and my business.

With no real energy behind my vision OR inspiration to fuel me forward, I was just kinda boppin’ along in my own world until I got a HUGE message from the Universe on Friday in the form of a podcast interview just ‘randomly’ popping up on my phone. (You know how I feel about coincidences right?)

Well this interview with Lisa Nichols was JUST the message I needed to wake me up from this weird fuzzy in-between space I’ve been living in for the past few weeks.

It helped me realize I’ve not only been playing way too small in terms of my message, my passion, and my purpose, but also that I’ve been making a shit-ton of excuses like:

  • I’m too busy. (Bullshit)
  • I’m too tired. (Go to bed earlier.)
  • I’m not sure what to do (Bullshit)
  • I’m not ready (So what?)
  • I’m confused (Bullshit)
  • I might fail! (You also might succeed!)
  • Oh but this is way more important…(Also bullshit)

Blah, blah, blah.

Now I am definitely not a hustler by any stretch of the imagination and I truly prefer to create from a space of flow as opposed to working 20 hour days, but the past few weeks have been just plain ridiculous.

I’m been playing it safe because…it’s comfortable? It’s easier? It meant I could binge on Netflix for more hours a day? (My guilty pleasure for sure!)

I’m not entirely sure the root cause, but what I can tell you is that I’m DONE.

You see, when I give up on myself and play (as Lisa Nichols put it) hopscotch with my comfort zone- in and back out, in and back out, I’m not only letting myself down, but I’m also letting YOU down.

I’m hiding my gift, my message, my vision, and I’m not helping nearly as many people as I know I am meant to help.  So for that I apologize.

So…as we enter this new month (also my birth month-woohoo!) I am making a new commitment to YOU and to myself.

I’ve decided that this month is all about the massive action!  #MassiveActionAugust if you will.

Starting TODAY I am setting the intention to show up and consciously, consistently, and continuously stretch myself outside of my comfort zone on a DAILY basis and I’m inviting you to join me.

It’s time to shake things up and get the energy and flow going again before we enter into the last quarter of 2016!  So, if you’re not willing to give up on the idea of making 2016 the best year yet for you and you are ready to SHOW UP for yourself…let’s do this!

I want you to take MASSIVE ACTION beginning today.  Actions that kick you out of your comfort zone, shake you up, and set you up for amazing success.  You don’t have to know what you will do each day, just go with your intuition and share it on Facebook with the hashtag #MassiveActionAugust so I can see what you all are up to.

I’m not allowing the bullshit excuses to stop me anymore.  My purpose, vision, and desires are too important and so are YOURS!

So what do you say?  Let’s make #MassiveActionAugust blow up!!

If you’re in hit ‘reply’ and give me a HELL YEAH and share with me your first massive action!

And of course, if you’ve been thinking, tinkering, and toying with the idea of working with me let this be the day you take MASSIVE ACTION and schedule your consultation to see if we are a good fit.

P.S. To follow along with me and my own massive actions, hop on over to Facebook and make sure you are part of my tribe there!

As good as it gets…

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photo credit: .163: Valle de Bravo via photopin (license)

Fact: You only grow in your life to the degree you THINK you are capable of growing.

You simply can’t hope, wish, and wonder your way there friends.  You must BELIEVE in yourself.

I’m seeing far too many people following the path of “This is as good as it gets for me.” all the while complaining about it.

They complain about their bank account, their weight, their loved ones, their car, their job and yet they do nothing about it.  It’s not that they don’t think there is something better out there.  Of course they believe that!  They just don’t think it’s available to them. 

You see, some of us have fallen into the trap of “It doesn’t work for me.” without ever trying to actually make a change.  They limit themselves by the labels they identify with and accept as truth.

  • They believe in lack because that’s all they see in front of them.
  • They believe in hopelessness because they haven’t given any creative thought to something better.
  • They believe in “this is as good as it gets” because no one told them otherwise.

Well I am here to tell YOU otherwise.

Take a moment to look around you.  Look at your job, bank account, relationships, self-esteem, home, car, community, and family.

Do you LIKE what you see?  Does it FEEL good to think about?  Are you HAPPY?

Let me ask you another question.

If you aren’t happy- have you ever expected anything more than what is directly in front of you?

Likely not.

Because if you did, the scene you are seeing before you would be different.  A LOT different.

You’d likely see more money and love, more joy and bliss, more confidence and support.  You’d feel happy, blissful, lucky, blessed, and you would know that you could have more of anything you desire because YOU are the creator of your own reality.

But you see the “this is as good as it gets” people don’t see it that way.  Instead they see themselves as victims.  Life just happens to them.  They point the finger, place the blame, and look to others as the reason they aren’t further than they want to be in life.  They feel out of control of their own lives without ever understanding that THEY are actually creating their own reality with each new thought they think.

Do you know how I know this?

It’s because I WAS THAT PERSON.

I blamed everyone for the wrongs in my life.  The shitty job, awful boss, the lack of money, the unsuccessful relationship, the friendships torn apart and the flat on the side of the road.  Life was happening to me and the statement I heard my mom say on more than one occasion range true for me.  “Life’s a bitch and then you die.”

THAT is the truth I expected and accepted for YEARS.

Until one day…I got curious.

I picked up one book after another looking for answers and wanting desperately to FEEL better.

Unfortunately, I was still looking for someone to come in and FIX my life.  Back then we didn’t have Iyanla Vanzant so, I was stuck, fed up, and repeating the same old cycle over and over and over again.

I wish I could tell you the moment that changed everything, but I can’t.  What I can tell you is that the moment I realized I was the cause of all of my pain, suffering, and negativity- I was a bit pissed!

Why didn’t I know this sooner?

Why didn’t someone tell me?

And better yet, how the hell was I supposed to change years of programming????

That is when my journey into mindset work really began.  It began by taking back my power and choosing to see the good around me.  Choosing to shift my thoughts on a daily basis and eventually create a mindset practice that would set me up for success in the long run.

I’ve been doing this work for years and each year I learn and grow more than before.  With each new belief I shift, I lay the foundation for more success, love, joy, adventure, and money to flow my way and it is not by accident.  It is by design.

I guess what I’m trying to say is no matter what you see before you, this isn’t “as good as it gets” unless you want it to be.

You hold the power to create your reality wherever you go and if you don’t know anything about shifting your reality by shifting your beliefs you MUST be a part of my mindset program.  Registration officially closes tonight at midnight EST and I’d hate for you to miss the chance to get in.  I will NOT be opening this program again until 2017 so if you want in, now is the time!

Hit the button below for more information and to check out the newly added payment plan option.

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Mindset 101: Create your new normal.

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photo credit: Napoleon Hill Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve via photopin (license)

 

Yesterday I did a quick talk on Facebook Live regarding this idea of what we deem as ‘normal’ in our lives.

Everyday we experience life around us and we have expectations of what is coming based on past experiences.

The way we deal with money, love, our loved ones, our bosses, our jobs, and other people are all based out of the past.

We expect, react, respond, and play a part based on what we are used to experiencing.

So, it stands to reason that IF we don’t exactly like our external circumstances, then all we need to do is shift what we expect.  I know it seems easier said than done.

But today, I want you to think a bit about what it is you have come to accept as your ‘norm’?  What is a common occurrence that you simply expect because it’s happened so often?

Maybe it’s that you always barely make it to your next paycheck.

Maybe it’s that you always have date the liars and the cheaters.

Maybe it’s that you always lose 10lbs and then gain it right back.

Whatever it is for YOU is simply a reflection of your mindset.

As human beings we tend to stay where it is comfortable, even if it the circumstances seem a bit uncomfortable.  If we are used to barely making it financially and we’ve allowed that to be our comfort zone then we will likely repeat those circumstances.

In order to shift that, we must first shift our mindset and what we expect.

I explain a bit more about how to do just that and how to create and live from your new reality in my live stream from yesterday.  Hop on over and check it out.

If you know you are ready to leave your old expectations and nonsense behind so you can embrace a new expanded life for yourself, I encourage you to check out the Miracle Mindset Immersion Program that starts on July 25th.  Early Bird registration is open now and rates jump by $100 on Monday July 18th.

MOST people aren’t willing to do this…are you?

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TRUTH TIME—>

MOST people aren’t willing to do what it takes to make their dreams come true.

I’m not talking about blood, sweat, tears, “hard” work and hours of sleep lost either.

I’m talking about breaking out of the safe, secure, and let’s be honest, a bit too predictable-comfort zones we find ourselves in just before we realize we MUST break free.

You see, most people FEAR the unknown.

I know I did…hell I STILL do!

I’m equally terrified by the thought of big changes and completely stifled when I don’t have enough change.

BUT, I’ve learned to DANCE with it. I’ve learned to get comfortable with the discomfort and TRUST that the path forward will always end up with something amazing, mind-blowing, and soul expanding for ME.

It ALWAYS leads to a greater lesson, bigger purpose, longer-lasting joy and alignment…always.

But it wasn’t always that way.

In fact, the more I fought the idea of change and leaping outside my comfort zone, knowing good and well that is exactly what I needed, the harder it got.

The very foundation upon which my identity was built began to crumble, one brick at a time.

I lost myself, my vision, my safety net and was all of a sudden blessed with this incredible desire that scared the shit out of me.

I was going to change the world and hadn’t the slightest idea HOW or WHY I thought I actually could do something so big.

 

Who the hell did I think I was???

I didn’t think I was anything special and yet, I couldn’t let this feeling go.

I tried to ignore it for years, but you see that’s the thing about your purpose…when it’s your purpose…I mean REALLY your purpose, you can’t hide from it, no matter how hard you try.

So, I had nothing else to do but step into the unknown one inch at a time and trust as much as I could.

NOW…well now taking risks and stepping into the unknown is a bit easier.

It’s definitely still uncomfortable, but now I know the reward that comes from what feels like a huge risk and I know it’s worth it.

The life you desire, the career you crave, the pure joy that you know is possible yet still slightly out of reach—> all of that lies just outside your comfort zone and you must be willing to take the risk to step into the unknown in order to experience the amazing expansion your soul craves.

That’s just how it is.

So…tell me what’s more comfortable for you?

Continuing on the path of certainty and settling for the mediocre experience you’ve grown used to?

OR

Stepping out, with maybe wobbly knees and butterflies in your stomach onto a path that is a risk, but the reward is oh so sweet you can almost taste it now?

I chose the risk.

What do YOU choose?

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Are YOU willing to do what it takes to step out of your comfort zone and into your zone of purpose and genius?

Are YOU ready to stop trying to hide from the inevitable and get on with it already?

Are YOU done settling once and for all and committed to making the rest of your life the absolute best?

If so, hit the button below and let’s connect.

Schedule FREE 30-Minute Consultation

 

Your PAST doesn’t matter…

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Consider this your TRUTH BOMB for the day—>

Your ‪PAST‬ doesn’t MATTER…unless of course you wish to repeat it!

The mistakes you’ve made, relationships you’ve been in, the money mishaps, crappy careers, and horrific failures you’ve had in the past DON’T FREAKIN’ MATTER…

THOSE things are NOT you. They are merely reflections of the thoughts, beliefs, and emotions you had streaming at the time.

That’s it!

It’s like opening a book and reading one page and thinking the entire book is about what you saw on that one page…that’s now how it works folks.

UNLESS of course you WANT that!

If you want more mistakes, money mishaps, dwindling bank accounts, shitty relationships, crappy careers, then by all means keep ranting, raving, and revisiting the past and telling anyone who will listen about your story of how you’ve been STUCK for so many years. (By the way if you’ve been stuck for that long, it’s time to get some support and I have JUST the program for you. )

The ONLY thing that will get is you is back in the SAME sinking boat with more stories to tell in the future.

BUT…if you want to actual create a new reality and experience your NEW NORMAL then you MUST tell a new story or in the least focus on what you want.

Seems obvious right?

Unfortunately too many of us get stuck in the story of who were were, how we were raised and what has stopped us that we can’t actually SEE that we are in fact perpetuating the same thing over and over again.

If you want to change your ‪reality‬…both current and future…START NOW.

Consider this your action plan:

  • Make a list of ALL the things you LOVE right now.
  • THEN add to that list all the things you WANT in your life as if they have happened.
  • THEN go out into the world and focus on the stuff you enjoy, like, love, etc.

That is how you create ‪‎positive‬ ‪#‎change‬ folks…it’s not by focusing on the problem.

Focus on the problem = more problems.

Focus on what you want and stay in a high vibe ‪mindset‬ and emotional state =creating what you want.

For some it’s easier said than done…believe me, I know.  That’s why I DO this work.

In the past I allowed myself to get so caught up in the bullshit story in my head about why it wasn’t working, what had happened to me, and pointing the finger to everyone and every thing else that I lost my power completely!

I really, truly thought life was happening TO me rather than me LIVING it and thriving.  I thought this was just my luck and when asked, I’d gladly bring up all the old baggage, proof, and evidence that supported my claim.

Many years later, knowing what I know now…I was simply STUCK in the past and repeating it in my future.

Lucky for me, I didn’t wait too long before owning my power and allowing it to work FOR me instead of against me.

The truth is, we are only limited by what we think and choose to believe in our minds and if you desire a different outcome and you no longer wish to revisit, rehash, and regurgitate your past, I sincerely suggest you step up and focus on what you DO want. 

You don’t have to do it alone, but if you choose to, you can totally use the action plan above.

You’re more powerful than you realize and that POWER comes from THIS moment…not rehashing your past.

P.S. If you DO want support and help moving into the right frame of mind to create massive change in your life instantly, schedule a chat with me and let’s make it happen, just hit the link below.

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