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Have You Identified Your B.S. (It’s not what you think.)

August 26, 2014 by Lamisha

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Hey Lovely!

I know you.

You’re the kind of woman who knows what she wants and has no problem making shit happen.  Your vision is clear and you are no stranger to putting in the effort to make your dreams come true.  That’s how you got to be where you are.

People look at you and are in awe.  Your power, energy, magic, and positive vibes make people come out of the woodwork to connect with you.

It’s no surprise really, I mean you exude success at every turn and people are taking notice.  You are a force to be reckoned with for sure and there are tons of people who admire you.  Truth be told, they want what you have so they can make that magic happen in their own lives.

Passion pours from your soul and whether you are writing, designing, coaching, crafting, singing, dancing, performing, selling, speaking, consulting, organizing, healing, teaching, or anything else that happens to be your gift, you are simply fantastic….

At least that’s how they see it right?

But you and I know the truth, we know the WHOLE story.

Beyond the magic, miracles, success, drive, passion, and purpose there is something that you just don’t want to think about (let alone discuss with your admirers).

It’s the challenge that keeps rearing its ugly head no matter what you do.

That area of your life that can at times cause you to forget about all of the other amazing things that you bring to the table because that one thing is off.  And try as you might, you have not been able to tick that box.

You’ve read the books, repeated the affirmations, and maybe even tried to wrestle that damn thing to the ground, but to no avail.

You know what I call that?

That my dear, is your BLIND SPOT (or rather a symptom of your blind spot) and before you worry your pretty little head about it, I want you to know that we all have one (or two or three).

Your Blind Spot is the thing you can’t quite see that is holding you back.

Have you ever wondered why life coaches have their own coaches?  It’s because of that dreaded Blind Spot.

When you are immersed in your own life or business, you are simply too close to see what you are unconsciously saying, doing, believing, etc. and you likely aren’t aware of what is holding you back.  And knowing what isn’t working in your life or business (i.e. the symptom) is the first step in identifying and clearing your Blind Spot.

The truth is this: Our Blind Spots bull shit us. 

They make us believe we aren’t good enough in some capacity and can leave us feeling frustrated, sad, angry, and at times worthless which causes us to ignore our greatness.

Tell me this: What is your Blind Spot costing you?

Happiness? Money? Clients? Bliss? Your dreams? Love? Romance? Adventure? Time?

Is it worth it?

I can tell you from experience it’s not.  Life is too short to go on with a block that can be illuminated and cleared with a bit of assistance.

Lucky for you, I am the Blind Spot Expert and have recently been through my own clearing that has taught me some amazing lessons that I will be sharing with you along with information on how I can help you identify and clear your own Blind Spot.

But for today I want to know this:

What is that thing that isn’t working in your life or business and what is it costing you right now? (I’ll give you a hint.  It’s the first thing that you thought of when you read that line.)

Share your answer in the comments below.  We are in this together because I guarantee we all have one! Let’s get it out in the open so we can clear it and take your life, your business, and your dreams to amazing new heights!

Filed Under: Authenticity, Awareness, Being, Challenges, Coaching, Frustration, Goals, Happiness, Inspiration, Intention, Life, Newness Tagged With: B.S., Blind Spot, Blocks, blocks to success, business, business women, coaching, dreams, Entrepreneurs, expert, Lamisha Serf, life coach, life coaching, unworthy, value

Confession Time: I Didn’t Listen To My Heart…and I Failed (sort of)

August 20, 2014 by Lamisha

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To be honest with you, I have been dreading writing this post.  Part of me knew I had to do some processing mentally and emotionally before I could put anything in writing and the other part of me was just plain embarrassed.

Embarrassed of looking like a fraud, a scam, a loser and my worst fear…a FAILURE.

So what did I fail at exactly?

I failed at listening to my intuition when it told me something wasn’t a good fit.

I failed at recognizing the signs that reinforced something wasn’t a good fit.

I failed at standing in my power to declare to myself and YOU that it’s ok to pull the plug on something that isn’t a good fit.

So what is this elusive ‘thing’ that isn’t a good fit?

The 90-Days To Biz Brilliance program.

Yep, the program I was so excited about (initially before the signs) and the same program I put off releasing twice for various reasons (because I clearly ignored the signs.)

The short story is this.  I fell into the trap of thinking that other people know me better than myself and while some of my clients are female entrepreneurs, I am not a ‘business coach’.  Here’s where it gets a little confusing even for me.  The biz brilliance program is actually full of amazing content, support, information, and practices to handle the stuff that comes up when you are creating a business, but it is also good for people NOT in business.

I was excited about the program.  I shared it with you and in various other networks happily.  I loved the feeling of the program, but something I couldn’t quite put my finger on felt off.  The more I shared, the more off it felt.  And when the feeling got to be too much, I knew that it wasn’t going to fly, but I was too afraid to pull the plug for fear of looking unprofessional.  I didn’t want anyone to think any less of me and to see me the way I was seeing me in that moment…a failure.

But despite all of that this is what I have learned:

  • I now know what the off feeling feels like in my body and I can use that in the future
  • I took a HUGE step to create a program that has good bones and can be used in another way…later
  • I am not a failure
  • I now have more clarity about what isn’t a good fit for me, which is equally as important as knowing what is
  • Life (and my business) goes on despite this bump in the road
  • Listening to my intuition and inner wisdom is always the best way

It is imperative to trust that tiny whisper within that tells you something isn’t right and the nudge you get to go in a particular direction.  Learn to listen to yourself and let go of the other stuff that doesn’t feel right for you.  Tap into your intuition on a daily basis and allow it to guide you forward.  It takes practice, I know especially when you are in business and there are so formulas for ‘success’.  Your success will come to you in a way that feels right and fits your path.

Another big thing this experience taught me is that trying is succeeding in its own right, so keep trying.  Keep experimenting and keep going.  Do you know how many times Albert Einstein ‘failed’ in his experiments before he got one ‘right’?  If one of the most amazing scientific geniuses in history can ‘fail’ a few times to get to something incredible, then don’t you think we can too?

Life is about experience, so remember that as you try and try (and try) again.  Don’t forget to trust too.  Trust is a big part of the process.  Knowing that you will get to where you are going as long as you keep going.

 

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P.S. We are entering the last 4 months of the year (where does the time go!) and I know there are dreams and goals that you have been procrastinating on.  It’s time to get a Jump Start don’t you think? My 1-month Jump Start package is available to help you take big action and get moving immediately toward your dreams.  Haven’t you waited long enough?  Get signed up for your free 30-minute consultation to get started for September. 

Filed Under: Authenticity, Being, Challenges, Coaching, Decisions, Goals, Intention, Lessons, Perfection, Reflection Tagged With: believe, coaching, failure, fear, frustration, inner voice, inner wisdom, intuition, keep going, lessons, listen, listen to your heart, listening, no failure, practice, reflection, success, trust, wisdom

An Epic Birthday Giveaway You Don’t Want To Miss!!!

July 30, 2014 by Lamisha

BIRTHDAY PARTY

I ALWAYS look forward to the summer because August is my birth month.  This time of year is so much fun for me and not necessarily because I do anything big for my birthday, but because I just feel special the entire month.  The energy is different for me with the sun shining, time with family, the more relaxed feel of the days and I love it!  This year August also happens to be the month I ‘officially’ launched my biz.  It was a very small launch, but I was officially open for business August 1st of 2013 and in celebration of that and my birthday, I have put together something very special for YOU.

This is the first:  EPIC BIRTHDAY GIVEAWAY!!!

Since my birthday falls on the 13th and 13 is my lucky number, I have teamed up with 12 amazing women to give you the opportunity to win 1 of 13 incredible gifts.  I want you to know I handpicked these women because I love what they are doing and I know you are going to love them too!

Can’t stand the suspense?

Here’s what you can win!

1 Follow Your Heart Stamped Adjustable Bracelet from Roots Revival Co.
1 Follow Your Heart Stamped Adjustable Bracelet from Roots Revival Co.

I am in love with unique jewelry with a message and this bracelet from Roots Revival Co. is a great reminder to follow the call of your heart.  You can check out more amazing handmade products including lip balm, art, and more handmade jewelry on their website or follow them on Facebook or Instagram: @RootsRevivalCo.

 

Warrior Love, A Journal To Inspire Your Fiercely Alive Whole Self
Warrior Love, A Journal To Inspire Your Fiercely Alive Whole Self

Warrior Love, A Journal To Inspire Your Fiercely Alive Whole Self is a unique and gorgeous new book of mindful poetry and dazzling artwork combined with blank journaling pages.  Its four female creators—poets, artists, authors and healers from across the US and Canada—have collaborated to bring you a feast for the eyes, heart and soul.  You will be inspired! To learn more about this beautiful journal, follow them on Facebook & Twitter.

 

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Basic Accounting for the Solopreneur eCourse

This gift is for my biz beauties who find themselves scratching their heads when it comes to the accounting side of business.  Clarissa Wilson has created the Basic Accounting for the Solopreneur eCourse just for you!  This course will teach you the basics of how to do the basic accounting for your business, exactly what you need to know to do it right the first time and possibly even be prepared to FIRE your accountant! Fret no more. Have the skills and confidence to handle this not-so-daunting task in a matter of a few hours worth of video! (Please NOTE: This course does not discuss any laws or regulations, therefore it is relevant to anyone in any country as long as you are a solopreneur. Solopreneur accounting is the same worldwide.)  Clarissa shares more tips and tricks for basic accounting for your biz on Facebook. Check it out!

 

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1-Hour Copywriting Mastermind Session

Another awesome gift for my biz beauties!  We all know that content & web copy are super important in running your business and Natalia Sarah is here to help you with a Copywriting Mastermind Session.  In this 1-hour Skype coaching session you can work on your business writing, blog, or content strategy to create smarter, more authentic content that will resonate with your audience!  This session is pure GOLD!  You can learn more about Natalia and what she does on her website or ‘like’ her on Facebook.

 

Dreamwork Healing Session
Dreamwork Healing Session

What is Dreamwork? Dreamwork is the art of lucid dreaming and working with your dreams, for both practical and spiritual guidance. Dreams are like having a map in another language, you already have the advice you need, you just have to remember how to read your map! Dreamwork Sessions typically include going over the dream, interpreting it, and discovering an action for the dream to express it and bring it into the waking world, which results in powerful self-transformation and healing. Sessions also include distance energy healing using the crystal reiki modality to aid in supporting the lucid dreaming process.  You can find out more about Karma and the amazing work she does by checking out her website or following her on Facebook & Twitter.

“Making sense out of nonsense, and inspiring transformation with the art of lucid dreaming, dream interpretation, and dream divination.” – Karma Dreamwalker

 

30-Minute Rock Star Reading
30-Minute Rock Star Reading

A straight up supercharged reading–a psychic reading–mapping out your journey and giving you actionable solutions to get you to where you want to be. In your reading, I’ll read each of your chakras, share with you your purpose and mission in life, lifetime themes, illuminate obstacles and tell you how to clear them.  Robin Hallett is a soul soother and a truth teller who helps people rock their lives like they really mean it. In her 15 years of helping people, she’s led those struggling on the journey to find what lights them up AND she’s helped those with already epic visions overcome their obstacles. Her straight to the heart approach is centered on love and compassion but with real, life changing results.

You can connect with her and find her messages of love and learning on Facebook and www.robinhallett.com.

 

coffeebreakAre you ready for a Coffee Break? Grab yourself a cup of heaven (your choice) and get ready to *Espresso* yourself. Imagine spending an entire hour talking about your goals, dreams, projects and challenges. Enjoy a 60-minute (1) coaching session/creative breakthrough via telephone with the lovely Tery Brouwer of Creative Soul Poetry; it’s a brewing session that will lead you towards self-awareness and creative dreams. Please choose one specific area. Take the Coffee Break Challenge!  You can find out more about Tery and all the wonderful things she does with Creative Soul Poetry on Facebook & Twitter.

 

How to Find Friends That Rock Your Socks eCourse
How to Find Friends That Rock Your Socks eCourse

Wanna focus on finding friends that feed your soul? Take this life-affirming 5-week e-course with other Big-Hearted Soulful Ladies. (expected launch after Labor Day – September)  We’ll cover goals, desires, self-confidence, communication, a reminder system to keep up with new friends, and targeting places to find a great match.  Ecourse + private Facebook group to keep things cozy.  Jenna Atkinson is The Friend Coach and she coaches women who are ready to focus on what they want in life and how friendships play a role in that vision..  You can learn more about what a friend coach does on her website or follow her on Facebook and Twitter.

 
1 Personalized Aluminum Bracelet
1 Personalized Aluminum Bracelet
Shai Ford is the incredible creator and owner at The Vagabond Studio and I am so excited to offer one lucky winner a personalized aluminum bracelet from her shop.  In addition to her amazing hand stamped bracelets she also has a variety of necklaces, rings, and key chains that you can check out in her Etsy shop.  To learn more about her story and the other amazing things she is doing in the world supporting small businesses and non-profit organizations, check out her website or follow her on Facebook or Twitter.

 

New Moon Ceremony e-Course
New Moon Ceremony e-Course

The New Moon has traditionally been honored as a time for starting new projects for the next moon cycle which is perfect time for setting intentions and creating actionable steps to help you manifest your dreams into reality.  This New Moon Ceremony eCourse will teach you how to use the new moon’s energy efficiently for your benefit.  You will learn to use your intent and actions to manifest your dreams and desires.

Full Moon Ceremony eCourse
Full Moon Ceremony eCourse

The Full Moon has traditionally been honored as a time to connect with friends and loved ones, creativity, celebrating growth and making the intentions you set during your New Moon Manifesting Ceremony a reality.  This Full Moon eCourse will teach you how to use the full moon’s energy efficiently for your benefit.  You will feel more connected, grounded, and sure of yourself and your actions.

To learn more about both of these ceremonies or to find out what Anne Hayman uses in her personal ceremonies or what else she has to offer (aromatherapy, crystal healing, & oracle card readings) you check out her website or follow her on Facebook and Twitter.

 

 

Love Up Your Wallet and Purse and Increase Your Money Mojo- Mini eCourse
Love Up Your Wallet and Purse and Increase Your Money Mojo- Mini eCourse

Are you repelling money because of the sad state of your wallet and purse? Do you cringe every time you have to pull out your wallet in the check out line because it is in such a sad state of affairs? Well I have a sure fire fix to get your Money Manifesting Mojo up and running in under an hour with my time tested tips! Love up your wallet and purse and feel instantly abundant!  Lisa Sharp with Clear Calm Space Organizing is a master of helping you clear your space both physically and energetically so you can feel the peace that comes with a clear and calm space.  To learn more about Lisa and the amazing work she does, check out her website or follow her on Facebook & Twitter.

1-Hour Blissful Breakthrough Coaching Session with Lamisha
1-Hour Blissful Breakthrough Coaching Session with Lamisha

We all have that one thing, that thought, that subject or area in our lives that seems to appear over and over again.  It feels like the singular thing that holds us back as we pursue or dreams. It’s our sticking point. Our “if only” thought.  It’s like our Kryptonite, but the truth is you can break through it and blissfully move forward with a bit of laser focus and honesty.  This Blissful Breakthrough session will help you gain some clarity on that one area that keeps reappearing in your life & give you some tools to continue moving through this specific area in the future.  Whether your issue has to do with your money mindset, thoughts on love, self-worth, self-acceptance, self-care, relationships or your career, this session will open the door to a major blissful breakthrough for you!

If you are new here and want more inspiration and insight you can check me out on Facebook and on Twitter.

Ok so now you know what is up for grabs, here is how you get signed up. 

Simply enter your information HERE and select any and all prizes you are interested in.  The giveaway will remain open from now until midnight EST on August 12th and I will announce the winner on August 13th.  May all the luck of the Universe be with you! <3

 

Filed Under: abundance, Award, Coaching, Inspiration, Joy, Planning, Practices, Tips Tagged With: Accounting, accounting couse, August, Basic Accounting, birthday, birthday giveaway, chakras, coaching, dream session, dreamwork, ecourse, Facebook, full moon ceremony, gifts, giveaway, healing, journal, life coach, money manifesting eCourse, money mojo, Natalia Sarah, new moon ceremony, oracle reading, rock star reading, Roots Revival Co., Tery Brouwer, Twitter, Warrior Love Journal

Re-Framing the Green-Eyed Monster

July 24, 2014 by Lamisha

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When we are growing into our dreams and taking action in the world to create the life of our dreams, there are times (sometimes many) when we come up against the dreaded green-eyed monster.  We see all these amazing people doing what we want to do and doing it WELL.

Some of us get discouraged and begin to feel ‘less-than’ that other person that is doing it better, faster, and more beautifully than us.  Others feel like giving up because they convince themselves that they won’t ever measure up.

Well I have a re-frame that will turn that green-eyed monster into a joyous, happy, and celebratory friend.

Check out the video below to find out how you can use this re-frame the next time you feel a bit of envy, jealousy, or ‘less-than’ someone else.

 

P.S. If you are interested in some FREE coaching hop on over to my Facebook Coaching Power Hour that I am hosting TONIGHT from 8pm-9pm EST.  I will have a special thread open for your questions and will be offering my insight and coaching for an hour.  Got a burning question about creating the life &/or biz of your dreams? Ask away!  All you have to do is be a fan of my FB page and come with your questions. 🙂 Talk to you tonight!

Filed Under: Authenticity, Awareness, Being, Challenges, Coaching, Frustration, Inspiration, Life, Tips Tagged With: business, challenges, coaching, compare, comparison, competition, dream, Envy, green-eyed monster, jealousy, joy, life, life coach, life coaching, Life Once Dreamt, re-framing, reframe

Mindset, Keeping Score, & How to Make Them Work for You!

July 21, 2014 by Lamisha

Just recently I decided to jump-start my fitness routine again in an attempt to get healthy and create a bit of structure for my workday.  I have to say it’s been pretty great…for the most part.

Growing up I was fairly active.  I danced from 8th grade through high school and into college so I never really had to worry about getting to the gym and making time to work out.  It just happened.  I took dance classes and loved it so it hardly ever felt like ‘work’.  Just a couple of hours a week doing something I love.

This time is a bit different.

I get up every morning and do the ‘work’.  Despite how much it burns in my abs or in my quads, I know that I will feel better having done it.  I just have to get through the 30 minutes.  The work out I am doing is a Beachbody program and it uses 1 minute increments for each exercise and I can’t tell you how many times I have looked at the time left and wished I hadn’t.  Just when I think I am close to being finished, I look up only to realize I am only half way there.  For some reason it makes the second half of the minute seem so much longer!

Well last week I decided to try something a little different.  I decided that instead of looking at the clock or counting the number of squats or mindsetcrunches I am able to complete,  I would just focus on a spot on the wall in front of me through the entire minute.  Funny enough, it seemed like the minute passed by so much faster AND it didn’t feel so hard.

This is a perfect example of how holding your vision while not ‘keeping score’ can help your mindset.

I will be the first to admit that when it comes to my goals or intentions, I am a score-taker.  I like to monitor where I am and how far I am from my goal and while that doesn’t seem like a bad thing, I find it to be discouraging at times.  It can often make it feel like I’m just never going to make it...there.

It’s like saying I want to go to California and all along the way being discouraged that I’m not there yet.  Or wanting to work with 100 clients in 2014 (a true goal of mine for this year) and feeling discouraged when I count I have only worked with 40.

It is ALL about mindset.

If you instead celebrate the progression from where you started to where you want to be AND keep your focus on your vision, something magical happens.  Things feel better, run more smoothly, and you get there much faster.

The same works for whether you are working out, wanting to lose weight, or make a certain dollar figure during the year.

3 Key Steps:

  • Know where you started
  • Celebrate your progression (no matter how small)
  • Keep your ultimate goal/vision alive through focus

startnowAs long as you are consistently taking inspired action and keeping your mindset positive, you will get there.  It just takes a bit of patience, focus, and sometimes accountability.  And if you are finding yourself struggling with getting started or need help to keep going, think about getting yourself a coach.  I have opened 5 individual spots for the month of August for my 1-Month Jump Start program and while I had previously decided not to run this program again until November, I changed my mind because I know how much can happen in 1 month.  I would love to help support you as you envision and create the life & business of your dreams so if this is something you are interested in you can schedule your 30-min. consultation here.  We have 5 months left in 2014 what haven’t you started that you wanted to do this year?  It’s not too late to get started, I promise working with me for 1 month can make all the difference in you creating the life of your dreams.  Are you ready?

Filed Under: abundance, Being, Challenges, Inspiration, Intention, journey, Life, Planning Tagged With: 2014, coach, coaching, dream business, dream life, dreams, fitness, inspired action, intentions, jump start, jumpstart, just begin, life coaching, life coaching program, mindset, offer, positivity, program, start now

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