Lamisha Serf-Walls

Fault vs Responsibility: How to truly transform your life

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The things that have happened in your past are most certainly not your fault, but everything that lies within your future is your responsibility.

For far too many people, their past becomes a crutch that they have come to rely on.  A form of limitation from their past that holds them back from the clear and distinct potential of their future.

They reminisce on it, claim it, revisit it and use it as (in their minds) a perfectly good reason their present and future fail. The truth is, if you are ever going to transform your life into the magical place where your dreams come true (or anything close to it), then you MUST be willing to take responsibility for your future.

It all starts here….

 

Are you ready to truly transform your life and take responsibility for your year ahead?  Want some support?

Hit the button below and let’s have a chat about how I can support you moving forward.

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3 Things you need to make 2017 “your year”

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There is SO much excitement coming up for us around this time of year right?

There’s something about the idea of getting a clean slate and freshness of the new year that gets people motivated.  Unfortunately, most of the people who are full of excitement and wonder around this time of year don’t get very far past January before they get stuck in a rut again.

This year, I want it to be different for YOU so I’m sharing with you 3 things you need in order to make 2017 officially ‘your year’ as so many of us claim.  Check out the video below and if you do nothing else…TAKE ACTION.

Time waits for no one and neither does the future you!

 

Update + A few of my FAVORITE things

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Hey Friends!!

It’s been a pretty busy few weeks and I am SO excited to share an update with you of some exciting things that I’ve been working on and other things to come in 2017.

First, let me say that I am TOTALLY pumped about the fact that we are officially in planning mode and I am waiting anxiously for the last blissful week of the year that I have officially deemed my “planning time” to dig into my goals, projections, and intentions for the year ahead.

If you don’t know this by now, I LOVE all of the newness that comes with a new week, month, and the ultimate new year and while I have absolutely zero plans of going out partying to ring in 2017 in a few weeks, I am still super pumped with what’s to come.

Every year around this time, I get really excited about receiving one of my FAVORITE planners of all time- Leonie Dawson’s Create Your Shining Year planners.  She has been creating these beautiful pieces of art to help wildly creative and soulful souls like me, set intentions, get clear on what you want to create and embrace in the new year and this year’s edition is GORGEOUS!

In fact, I was so excited about getting these that when she launched the pre-sale option in the summer, I jumped at the chance to get these little gems in my hand sooner rather than later.  Now, to be honest, I have yet to crack them open and dig in (that’s what the last week of the year is really going to be used for), but I have been thumbing through them and I couldn’t wait to share these with you!

A few of my favorite bits in these beauties:

  • She has 2 versions! A Life & Biz planner so if you are just getting started with all this intention stuff and you don’t have a business, no worries- snag the LIFE Planner and be on your way
  • The added desk diary!  She added this piece last year and I have to say that I’ve NEVER managed to use the same calendar/diary for an entire year until I used this one.  It comes fully equipped with a gratitude section, goal setting for each month, money goals and extra doodling space.
  • 100 Things to do in 2017!  In each of the planners you can create a list of 100 things you want to do in that year.  There’s no thing too big or small to include here so think of it as your individual annual bucket list if you will.  I always have a ton of fun coming up with new things I’ve never done before.  So cool!
  • Lots of lists!  In addition to the 100 things list, there are also sections for books you want to read, new things you want to try, ways to shift/change your body, mind, and soul and so much more.  She really includes all kinds of fun stuff.
  • It’s totally balanced!  I love how Leonie really focuses on balance for your life.  While I lean more toward the business planner, both have a wide variety of topics in the life version including creativity, soul, mind, body, family, relationships, finances, and home.  The business version includes sections for finances, creating a shining team, systems, boundaries, education, customers, marketing etc.

So, I think it’s safe to say these beauties are by FAR my favorite planners.  I’ve used them consistently over the last 3 years in my business and I plan on continually purchasing them.

If you know anything about the MOST successful people around the world you know that they set goals, measure them, focus on them, and have some sort of system in place to set their intentions to begin with.  THIS is my secret weapon and I’m sharing it with you!

I highly recommend these to my clients and am currently offering a special bonus for anyone who purchases them through my affiliate link.  By doing so, I may receive a small commission and YOU get free entry into my 2017 Vivid Visioning course starting in January.

The truth is I love these planners and if you are in my tribe, I know you will too so take a look and grab yours NOW before they are all sold out!

Order by December 15th and get yours by Christmas.

Order by the 20th and get your BONUS 2017 Vivid Visioning program FREE!

 

Check out the Create Your Shining Year Planners Here

Ready to change your life? (Read this.)

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If you’ve never had a session with me, you may not know that during my calls with clients I am totally in the zone.  I’m asking questions, taking notes, and sharing insights and nudges I get from my intuition.  (Of course if you asked me ‘how’ I do what I do, I wouldn’t have an answer for you.  I just do it.)

Many times, amazing gems fly out of my mouth before I ever realize just how profound it is and last week I happened to catch this amazing wisdom I’m going to share with you today.

I was having a chat with one of my clients who is making some massive shifts in her mindset, career, and life in general and last week she was bumping up against her fear of the unknown.

With questions popping up all over the place like: “What if it doesn’t work out?  How can I be sure? But what if I fail?” (and many more), I asked her a question that changed everything.

It may not be a question you’ve thought to ask yourself, but here it is:

Are you willing to give up the HOPE of what can be, in order to stay in the discomfort of what is?

Basically, are you willing to stay where you are (even if you are uncomfortable, frustrated, pissed off, and just down right tired), in order to avoid the fear and incidentally the hope of what may be?

If so, then I can tell you exactly what will happen for you in the next 6 months (and I don’t need any oracle cards for this one).  You will stay exactly where you are because you are allowing FEAR to lead the way.

You see….

CHANGE happens when you are willing to take the next step forward and ACT on the inspiration you receive.

CHANGE happens when you exchange your frustration, anger, and discomfort for HOPE & the knowing that YOU have the power to create the life you desire.

CHANGE does not happen by you staying the same, being the same, and refusing to take responsibility of your future to make change happen.

Ouch!  (That’s some tough stuff to swallow, but you need to hear this.)

Where you are today and what has happened in your past is not your FAULT, but it is your responsibility TODAY to make a change if you want to see a different future.

YOU (and only you) are responsible for making the decision to leap.
YOU (and only you) are responsible for taking the next step, seeking support, investing in yourself (when needed) and doing the work to make your life what you want it to be.
YOU (and only you) are responsible for shifting your mindset and setting the wheels in motion for magic to unfold in your life.
YOU (and only you) get to make that decision.  Today and forever more.

So what do you choose?

Are you more fond of the fear that has gotten you nothing but the same, uncomfortable results or are you willing to take the leap (whatever that looks like for you) and do something different?

The truth is, you know where fear will lead you, but do you know where HOPE will lead?  I’ll tell you where.  To an amazing world of possibilities, opportunities, and CHOICES.

Believe me when I say this..I’ve been on both sides of the tracks and the HOPE side is much more comfortable.

Sure, there are times when I am really afraid of moving forward and my ego tries to convince me to stay in the cozy comfort of sameness, but the expanded part of me knows better, so I leap.  Consistently.  I walk my talk and own up to the work I teach because this shit works!

I’m sharing all of this with you because I don’t want you to move into the new year (it’s coming up pretty fast and furious) doing the SAME things over and over again with zero results.  You deserve better than that, and it’s time to step into the KNOWING of what WILL be versus the “fear” of what has been.

If you are ready to step into CHANGE with purpose, vision, and hope here are a few things you can do to get you started.

  • Make a list of 20 things you can do NOW to move you forward out of sameness and into the life you want to live.
  • Set a goal to do at least 1-2 things from that list each week from not until the end of the year (and beyond)
  • Shake things up!  Do something that is totally out of the norm for you to shake up your creativity and inspiration.  You never know what may come from it.
  • Invest in your personal development (when appropriate) with a coach, course, program, or books that will stretch your thinking and being.
  • Get an accountability buddy.  In addition to the coach I just started working with, I have a few mindset and accountability buddies I connect with almost daily.  It makes a huge difference.
  • Above all else, make a commitment to YOURSELF that you are worthy and deserving of creating change in your life.  It’s so important and goes a long way!

Last, but not least-I encourage you to sign up for my 2017 Cards & Coaching offer that is available for another 24 hours.  This is an incredible opportunity for you to get the inside scoop on what you can do starting now to pave the way for 2017 being the best year yet for just $111!!

It includes:
✨ 1-Oracle Card Reading (via email with pictures of the cards) that will provide insight into where you are now and how to use your intentions and energy to start 2017 strong.
✨ 1-45 Minute Coaching Session with me to clear the most prominent block that is holding you back as we head into 2017.

Your investment: $111 (love that magical number & it’s over 50% off what the regular rate would be!)

Interested?  Just click the image below and snag yours before time runs out (I guarantee I won’t be doing this again. )

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