Lamisha Serf-Walls

Laying Down the Mask and Other News

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There are so many faces we can choose to show the world and often our online face is the most positive, brilliant, and empowering face of all.  But I am realizing more and more that showing your true colors through all the ups and downs of life is what really allows us to connect, commune, and truly support one another.  Just a few days ago I shared this on Facebook.

“Authenticity and vulnerability win out every.single.time. On days like today I remember that I don’t have to have it all together, slap on a smile, and pretend like I don’t have bad days, lazy days, or days when I’m not quite sure what the next step is. I don’t have to know it all, do it all, or learn it all right now to keep going. I don’t have to be the supreme, holier than thou coach to be of service to others. Nor do I have to get my hands all in the clay to end up with a masterpiece. On days like today, I can rest, relax, and give myself a day to just ‘BE’ and you can too. “

What I was going through in the moment was simply a day of  ‘Meh’ and feeling a little guilty about it.  The Dream Crushers were beginning to swarm and just as they were coming in for the kill, I realized I had a choice.  I could simply be with the feelings, share them with my tribe, and try again tomorrow or I could try and power through, fighting the feelings I was having only to create more resistance and frustration.  I chose the first of the two.  More specifically, I took a nap and gave myself a break.

The truth is, I have these moments far more than I usually share with you and while I am not trying to ‘hide’ them, I prefer to share the inspirational posts and

photo credit: Simon & His Camera via photopin cc
photo credit: Simon & His Camera via photopin cc

high moments with you. (Don’t we all?)  But, in doing that I am leaving out a HUGE piece of the story…my story, not to mention my expertise.

You see, I’m not just a life coach.  I’m a mother and now a wife and with that comes a whole barrel of extra challenges, insights, and opportunities to share with you what I know, experience, and learn so you can learn from it too.  It also gives me an opportunity to be real with you.  To show you that life happens no matter what you do, but when you are doing what you love, you CAN support a family, have time together, and experience the FREEDOM that comes with creating the life of your dreams. 

It is possible!

So, I want you to know that you aren’t alone and you certainly don’t have to travel this road without support.  You can reach out to other business owners, mothers, wives, parents, friends, colleagues, and you can be REAL.  You don’t have to wear the mask of ‘happy’ all the damn time because that is what people expect.

We are all human with good days and bad and I assure you that the only way it will hold you back, is if you fail to keep on keepin’ on.  Show the ups and downs.  Share them with your tribe.  Let people get to know YOU…all of you.  That is how we connect with one another in the truest, deepest way.  That is how we learn from one another and truly support each other and know without a shadow of a doubt that we are all connected.

Together, we are entering new territory.  Moving forward what I share with you will be more authentic, more balanced (with lessons, ups and downs, etc.) and my hope is that it will touch your heart in a way to inspire action for you to do that thing you have always wanted.  Start the business, write your book, and share your expertise with the world.

Now is the time!

In that same vein of authenticity, I want to tell you about a change I am making.  Last week I shared with you a vlog about my upcoming group coaching program.  As I moved further into this week, I had some feelings come up about the program and have decided to postpone the start of the program by about a month.  While I still wholeheartedly believe in the program and know that it is going to be magnificent, I wanted to take a bit of extra time to dig a little deeper and create even more goodness for you.  I wanted to take some of the lessons I have learned in the last few weeks and infuse them into the program so they are ready to go for you.  I also think the timing of it all was a bit off, so I am waiting.

And with that I am not judging myself for waiting.  I am consciously making a choice to produce better content, better information, and a more rounded program for you because you deserve that.  I want you to know without a shadow of a doubt starting today that this is the program for you.  That you are not alone on your path and there are other women in the world (myself included) who have fears, doubt, confusion, and frustration about business and while others may only show you the power, joy, free-flowing happiness, I want to show it all.

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Like these flowers we are all connect in our journey even while having slightly different experiences to share.

My words for this year were Show Up and that is what I am doing, with ALL of me.  The good days, the bad days, and everything in between.  So, I hope you will continue to follow along in this authentic journey and as we get closer to the start of the Group Coaching for Business-Minded Women in July, I hope you will be ready to join us in an amazing and uplifting journey.  A journey that includes ups, downs, and in betweens that we are all experiencing whether we choose to show it all or not.

I have also made some changes to the 1 month Jump Start coaching program.  It is still a 1 month program, however instead of 2 coaching calls, I am now offering 4 coaching calls for the same $347 investment.  This program is a great way to get a taste of what working with me is really like while still making progress toward your dream.  This is not an accelerated program as much as it is a great first step for anyone who is interested in coaching but isn’t sure they want to commit to a 3-month program just yet.  What is better than that is that by doubling the number of sessions you get in the 1 month program, you are getting 4 sessions for a really great deal.  If you are interested in getting started, hop on over and sign up for your 30 minute consultation and grab your spot to begin in June.  Since this program includes 4 weekly sessions, I am limiting how many I can take for June to 10 clients so if you are interested let me know asap.

With that said, I hope you have a magnificent long weekend and do something fun and as always thanks for reading!

<3 Lamisha

The Power of Collaboration & Group Coaching for YOU!

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A few months back I was working on the Unleash Your Personal Power e-course with 3 other amazingly talented women and it was one of the best experiences I have ever had.  In fact, since then the ladies and I have grown very close and have sort of developed our own little mastermind group of support as we move forward on other projects!

What started as a professional project collaboration quickly developed into a powerhouse of wisdom, care, and compassion from other women on a similar journey as me and it has proven to be invaluable!

I got the brilliant idea to create an opportunity like that for my tribe.  An opportunity to share, learn, grow, and reach beyond your boundaries with other like-minded soul sisters and that is just what I did!

The 3-Month Group Coaching Program for Business-Minded Women is a wonderful opportunity for you to gain support and learn from not only myself, but up20-women(1) to 19 other business-minded women who like you have been through (or are going through) the ‘stuff’ that comes with doing work you love.  Whether you are an artist with an Etsy shop or a healer with a Reiki practice or somewhere in between, this is a wonderful coaching opportunity is individual coaching in a group setting.

This program is catered to the needs of those in the group and will focus on things like breaking through the self-limiting beliefs, shifting your money mindset, how to untangle your web of ideas, and so much more!  The lovely Isis Arjeta and Crystal Davis will be coming in to do a masterclass at no extra cost to you and I assure you their expert tips and advice if implemented, will dramatically shift your mindset and how you do business.

While it might seem like this is a ‘business coaching program’, it’s not.  This is all about WHO you are, HOW you think, and WHAT you feel throughout your business experience, things that are all directly related to your success as a business woman. 

I know that when like-minded women come together to collaborate and communicate with one another in a supportive and understanding environment there is no room for competition.  Instead there is a community of caring, supportive, and incredibly understanding soul sisters who are powerful beyond belief!  That is what this program promises to deliver on top of the amazing creative ideas, collaborations, and relationships that will surely be built throughout the 3-month period.  It will also provide you with tons of insightful advice, actionable steps, and practical tools to help you level-up in your business and personal life.  Between our bi-weekly calls, emails, exercises, private Facebook group, and the invaluable nuggets of information you will receive from Isis and Crystal, this all-inclusive program is like a beacon of light to the business-minded woman looking for support, understanding, and practical tools to keep you moving!

Sound interesting?

Because I am limiting the group to a max of 20 participants and I am offering a money back guarantee for the first month I will be scheduling intake sessions to make sure this program is what you are looking for.  I trust that the right souls will come together for this amazing opportunity starting in June and if you want to be part of that, all you have to do is schedule your intake session below.  For more information on the program, the investment, and all the extra goodies that are involved, click here.

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I can’t wait to see what amazing women come together to share in this journey!

P.S. There is still time to get signed up for the Money Mindset Masterclass that is happening on May 22nd at 8pm EST.  If you could use a little (or big) shift in your money mindset to bring in more money, more prosperity, and more clients go ahead and sign up!  The call will be recorded and emailed to everyone after the call so if you can’t make it live, sign up anyways so you don’t miss the awesome info!!

 

Let’s Talk Money, Honey! Free Masterclass

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The month of March was AMAZING for so many reasons and while I didn’t share this info with you while it was going on, it’s important for me to tell you about a course I took that changed my life.  (I’m a Leo and can be kinda dramatic sometimes, but this is for real.)

The amazingly talented Isis Arjeta put together a money manifestation course that was entirely centered around loving your money and changing the dysfunctional story and relationship many of us have with money.  In short, it was the single best investment I have made this year!

And since it was a little woo-woo with meditations, hypnosis tracks, and lots of wonderful money-mindset practices it isn’t necessarily your typical money course.  We didn’t talk about budgets, income, numbers, calculations, or any of the left brain stuff you might hear from financial planners and bank professionals.

This course was all about mindset, emotions, and releasing all the negative programming we tend to have when it comes to money. 

This was such a powerful course that even before the course officially began, Isis shared a few very simple tips to bringing in more income and abundance and within 2 days I began seeing it in action.

Example:  One morning after I had just gotten my car fixed, I decided to stop for a cup of coffee.  In the drive-thru line I was feeling pure gratitude for having the money to get the repairs done and for getting to the shop safely (it was a pretty dangerous situation) and when I pulled up to the window to pay, the woman told me the person in front of me had paid for my drink.  Now, this has happened to me a few times over the last few months, but NEVER has it happened on a Saturday morning.  Sure, it was only a $3.00 order, but I received an immediate response from my pure gratitude and love for what my money did for me (paid to fix my car).  This was just the beginning.

A week later I received not one, but TWO unexpected checks in the mail that amounted to $1100 in unexpected income!!! That’s a lot of unexpected money to come in the mail.  I also received a gift card for $5.00 unexpectedly along with several other unexpected checks/payments.  Like I said, March was AMAZING!

So why am I telling you all this? 

I’m telling you because I talk to clients about money all the time.  Incidentally most of my clients are business owners or business-minded women who are looking for more freedom to do the things they love, so money comes up a lot.  I am not a financial adviser or a money manager, but I work with clients to help change their money story and open their minds to all the wonderful ways money can show up for them that is outside the traditional 9-5 job.  And with the experience I had in Isis’s money manifestation course, I just can’t keep this a secret anymore!

I am sharing the love and now YOU have an opportunity to get some of this amazing information so you too can have a better relationship with your money.  In fact, Isis has agreed to join me in a FREE Master Class for business-minded women (or anyone else looking to grow their money) on May 22nd at 8pm EST to share her expertise.  You will not only have the opportunity to learn how to change your money story and money mindset, but will also take away practical tips and tricks that will open you to more money, more clients, more customers, and a new way of loving your money.

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I know money isn’t everything, but it does provide us with certain freedom, joy, and adventure so why not change your money mindset and increase the flow of of prosperity and abundance into your life?

Interested?

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Sign-up for this awesome opportunity now and don’t forget to share the love with your friends! Everyone could use a little extra money right?

Life Coaching for Business-Minded Women

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***Just a gentle reminder (again) that today is the LAST day to get 4 coaching sessions for a mere $300.  At midnight tonight my rates are going up and you will only be able to work with me via purchasing one of the individual or group packages.  I still have a few spots open, so please contact me ASAP if you are interested. ***

Happy Friday!!!

This month is sure to be jam-packed full of exciting new things.  Not only am I offering my new individual packages, but I am also expanding a bit.  Beginning in June I will be offering a group coaching program for business owners or business-minded individuals (artists, writers, etc.) who are looking for some support, community, and coaching to help expand their biz and break through some of the blocks that come up with being a business owner.

I will be sharing more info about what this coaching program entails and all the awesome goodies you will get with it next week, but first I want you to know how/why I came up with this idea.

Anyone that has worked with me knows that I am not a business coach per se.  I don’t teach you how to set up a biz, select your niche, market your work etc. and at times find some of that to be a bit foreign to me, however I do work with a ton of business-minded women and business owners to clear their beliefs, follow their intuition, and take their businesses to the next level by challenging them to grow and evolve.  I hold my clients accountable for the action items we come up with and lovingly push them to move beyond what they think they can do.

Typically the number 1 thing holding people back is fear which we all know comes in various shapes, sizes, and disguises.  

So, I decided it was time to get my business-minded women together and offer a support system and coaching opportunity to clear out the icky, negative, limiting beliefs that hold us back to uncover the real, true, intuitive and magnificently abundant beauties that we are!  And this 3-month group coaching offer is going to help you with that, but we won’t stop there!

We are also going to discuss some of the practical things that come up in the business world like: What do I do when I have a million ideas and can’t seem to move on ANY of them?  or  What about pricing my services/talents/artwork? or How can I increase the flow of clients/money/customers to my business? (I’ll give you a hint: energetic marketing.)

Did I also mention I am offering a refund option for the first month of the program? If after paying for the first month of this coaching program, you do not see the value in it AND you have completed the practices/exercises we will go over in the program, I will happily refund you what you paid for the first month.  THAT is how certain I am that you will love this.

I believe that when you get a group of like-minded, driven, and passionate women together, magic happens.  Community, collaboration, and friendships are born and that is what I envision for this program.  Because I am only taking 20 people for this 3-month coaching journey and I am offering the refund option for the first month, I am not just taking anyone.

You see, I want all of the participants to be ready and willing to let go of the old baggage and beliefs that are holding them back so they can move forward with ease and grace, so this isn’t going to be a program you can simply buy into.  I will be holding 30-min individual intake calls to everyone who is interested in this program to ask a few questions, to get to know you better, and to evaluate if this is a good program for you.  My purpose here is not to simply fill my program, but instead to provide a quality, high-value experience for up to 20 women who will benefit greatly from it.  If that means we stop at 10 enrollees then so be it.

More details to come on the investment, the topics, the time involved, and information on a free call that will give you some nuggets of wisdom you can begin implementing before the course even begins!  If this is something you are interested in please sign up for my VIP list so you don’t miss any important dates or details! I am so excited to share this with you and can’t wait to give you all of the details about some guest teachers I have for this awesome program.

Have a wonderful weekend and as always thanks for reading!

<3 Lamisha

 

Shifting, Changing, and Rearranging Services and Prices

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Happy Hump Day Everyone!

While today is normally my day to post the Dream Changer post, I have decided to write a slightly different post for this week.  The Dream Changer series will continue next Wed, but with so much going on in my own journey and the journey of my clients, I wanted to share a little bit with you about change.

As you know, I have come out of the ‘woo-woo’ closet and am fully embracing the spiritual side of myself and my coaching practice.  With that comes a slight change in my content, a shifting of my pricing structure, and how I offer my coaching services to you.

My biggest concern in all of this is to be able to serve you better in all ways.  In personal coaching, group coaching, and new master classes that I will be sharing with you in the coming months.

This is a very exciting time my clients, myself, and I would venture to say you too.  It seems that the seeds we plant in the Spring are beginning to grow and burst through the soil to reveal fresh green ideas, solutions, and bigger dreams than ever before.

photo credit: Trenten Kelley Photography via photopin cc
photo credit: Trenten Kelley Photography via photopin cc

If you are experiencing this same unfolding, I want you to know you are not alone.  It feels like life and time are speeding up and as we try desperately to catch up to wherever it is we are meant to be, it can get a little overwhelming.  Should you find yourself in that same overwhelm mode, I encourage you to do a few things.

  1. Be still- Take time out of the ‘action’ to just be.  Take a nap, go for a walk, or just be outdoors without your phone.  Allow yourself to enjoy the beauty that comes from just being in the moment.
  2. Be easy-This means being easy with yourself, with your family and friends, and whomever else you come in contact with.  The world is shifting and we are all feeling the somewhat crazy feelings of overwhelm and big ideas and are being forced to stand in our power in ways we never thought we could, so be easy with yourself and know that you don’t have to do it all right now.
  3. Listen- Listen to your body, your mind, and most of all your inner voice that has amazing wisdom to guide you along your path.  Allow your intuition to guide you forward and make sure you pay attention to the feelings and inklings you get as you move forward.

I am seeing and feeling for myself a ton of energy that has the potential to launch us forward into amazing success and at the same time a fear of what is shifting, changing, and rearranging in our lives.  I want you to know it is ok.  It is perfectly ok to feel the uncertainty.  Feel it and allow it to be there for a moment, then move forward when you feel the time is right.  This is YOUR path and YOUR story and YOUR dream, so allow yourself to enjoy it as much as possible.  We weren’t meant to do it all in one day, so take a break, a breather, and relax a bit if it gets to be too much.

Part of the shifting and changing for me has to do with my work.  Who I work with, how I work, and what I charge are all changing a bit and since it is changing, I wanted to give you an opportunity to sign up to work with me at my current rates.  Now, here’s the deal.  I am willing to honor my current prices for coaching ($75 per session) for a period of 2 months IF you sign up for a 30-Minute consultation by May 2nd (that is next Friday).

I am doing this for two reasons, one is that I know there are many of you who have thought about working with me and just haven’t yet made the leap to do so and because this price increase came on a bit suddenly, I want to give you an opportunity to sign up under a lower price.  My new rates will be double what I am charging now per session so, if you are interested in utilizing this offer, I encourage you to contact me today!  Remember I need to hear from you regarding your 30-minute consultation by May 2nd to receive the current pricing.  

In the meantime, take it easy and allow these shifts and changes that are happening in your world to occur with ease and flow.  It’s all working out for you even when it feels like it isn’t…and remember if you need someone to chat with to move through the blocks and barriers you may be feeling, reach out.  We are moving into a space of collaboration and community so reach out and ask for help if you need it!