Lamisha Serf-Walls

For when you are feeling lost in life…

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If you are feeling lost in life, this message is for you…

 

I’ve been thinking a lot about my journey that has allowed me to do the amazing work I do helping people who are feeling a bit lost in life.

Thinking back, I remembered that it wasn’t always so “great”.  In fact, there were MANY times when I thought I would never get to do any of the things I get to do daily.

There were times when I never imagined I’d have the ability and opportunity to work from home, build a thriving business, be available for my son in whatever way he needs, and still be able to contribute to my family.

Honestly, there were times when I wasn’t able to do all those things and I wondered if those dreams would ever come true.  Eventually, they did.

 

  • I remember times when I wanted to simply throw in the towel because the road was rough and all I could see was what was directly in front of me….a near empty bank account, no clients, no hope, and bills that needed to be paid.

 

  • I remember having really difficult conversations with my wife about how I just KNEW this could/would work if I had a bit more time because I could feel the desire and passion and I knew that couldn’t be wrong.

 

  • I remember wondering what the next steps were because I had literally tried everything that others were doing and none of it was working for me.

 

I was lost, scared, broke, broken, and tired.  

 

But…I had a dream, a desire, and a purpose that was much bigger than all those feelings that simply wouldn’t let me slink away and lick my wounds.  I had to keep getting up and trying again.

Was it easy? Nope.
Was it swift? Not always.
Was it worth it.  Hell YES!

Each time I got up and “tried again” I learned something new.

I learned to empower my mindset more everyday.  I learned to listen to my intuition and act on those ideas immediately.  I learned to take action after action after action and surrender when needed.  I also learned when to slow down and lean back when I was too attached to the outcome.  I learned to find my flow and always honor my truth.  I learned to ask for help and implement the help that was given.

But above and beyond all of that, I learned that everything I desire to be, have, and do is mine for the creating. 

And the same is true for you.

I know that there are many of you who feel lost, confused, and frustrated about where you are in your lives and you just want the blueprint, the map, and the guide to get you moving forward.

Some of you are feeling stuck about what you want, where to go, or how to break free from the limiting beliefs and circumstances that have haunted you for way too long.

And I get it.  I’ve been there.  But, I also know that YOU have the power to change your situation and at times that means taking what feels like a “risk”.

  • Doing something that scares you.
  • Taking action that feels right, but doesn’t necessarily “look” right.
  • Asking for support when you are usually the one giving support.
  • Investing money in yourself that to others seems “frivolous”.

No matter where you are or what you desire, you always have a choice and opportunity to make those desires a reality.

If fact, if you were looking for ONE thing to focus on at this very moment that would transform all areas of your life in amazing ways it would be to do the MINDSET WORK.

Shifting my mindset and learning mindset hacks to deal with worry, doubt, frustration, and feeling stuck has been paramount in my journey and the work I do with my clients.

It is at the core of everything we do and IT WORKS.

So, if you had one choice to make today that would move you forward on your path…get your mindset back on track. 

And if you need support in identifying what exactly is going on in that beautiful mind of yours and you want to explore what working with me is like, I invite you to schedule a free 30-minute consultation. 

 

You might also be interested in the HeadCase Program: 1:1 Coaching for Mindset Mastery that includes:

  • 7-45 minute sessions
  • Unlimited video messaging support
  • Incredible transformations in your life that you didn’t think were possible
  • FREE copy of my 21-Day Expansion Experiment Guidebook for additional support

Investment: $777 (Note: This program will soon become part of my signature offerings and the rate will be going up to $997)

The struggle doesn’t last forever, but you DO have to choose something different and you can start here. This is your chance to choose a different story.

What does your new story include?  You get to decide.

Aligned Action + Your BIG Vision

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Happy Thursday friends!

It’s been awhile since I last posted and I’m happy to be back!

Today I want to talk to you about Aligned Action + Your BIG Vision and why that is so important.

If you’re like me, you probably already know what you want in life.  You can see it pretty clearly in your mind, but when it comes to actually doing it…well that may be a different story.

You see MOST people are pretty clear on what they want, but are less clear on the action piece.

It’s time to get crystal clear on what your aligned action is and how to do it consistently!

Are your actions in alignment with your desires?

If after watching the video above you realized your actions are not in fact in alignment with your desires and you need a bit of support and accountability to help you, I want to chat with you!

For a very limited time, I am offering a 6-Week Shot Coaching Program that will give you a quick shot of coaching, mindset work, accountability, clarity, and a plan of action to continue to use beyond our work together.

What you get…

  • 3- 45 Minute Coaching Sessions to do the deep work
  • 6 Weeks of email and video messaging for support between calls
  • Unlimited daily support for accountability, questions, challenges that pop up, and anything else you need support around
  • A plan of action for moving forward beyond our work together

Your investment: $597

So, if this is something you’re interested in exploring, I encourage you to hit the link below to schedule a FREE-30 Minute Consultation so we can see if we are a good fit.  I can’t wait to chat with you!

Book a free consultation here.

4 Questions to ask when you feel stuck in life

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“I feel stuck in my life and I don’t know what to do!!!”

One of the things I see and hear way too often are people constantly, consistently, and continuously saying just how stuck and lost they feel.

They say it, think it, believe it, share it, tweet it, and write about it non-stop, all the while not realizing that they are actively creating more situations to feel stuck.  (I know it’s a viscous cycle.)

And believe it or not, I’ve found myself in those situations a time or two (or 10 if I’m honest) and it sucks.  I also know how absolutely real those feelings are and how you literally have no idea what to do.

But here’s the truth:

Your words matter.  They hold energy and they are actively creating your future!

(All day, everyday, no exceptions)

So, why not use more empowering language that will not only help you feel better, but also invite miracles into your life?

Here are 4 questions to ask yourself when you feel stuck in life.   The best part is that YOU don’t even have to come up with the answers!  How’s that for easy?

  • How does it get any better than this????  This very magical question can work in multiple ways.  When you are feeling amazing and life is unfolding perfectly, you can say it, write it, think it, chant it etc. and welcome in more awesomeness into your life.  You can also use it when things are tough and you feel a bit stuck.  By simply asking the Universe “How does it get any better than this?”, you are inviting the Universe to show you.  And believe me when I say, you will begin seeing the shifts almost immediately!  (Go ahead, give it a go!)

 

  • What would it take for me to _______???  This question is particularly useful when you find yourself at a loss for what to do next.  Posing this question in your daily mindset practice or whenever you feel stuck is just another way of asking for assistance and signs from the Universe.  I use this question for both seemingly big and small things and it works wonders.  Everything from “What would it take for me to get to my appointment safely and on time?” to “What would it take for me to have more than enough money for all that I want and need for the next 50 years?”–this question is powerful and can be used for virtually anything.  The key with this one is to pay attention to any and all ideas and nudges that come up for you after posing the question.  It’s very likely the Universe is giving you your answer.
  • What do I need to do to (be, have, do) ______?  Similar to the last question, this one asks specifically what do in order to fulfill whatever desire you have.  My suggestion for this question as well as the last is to work these into your daily journaling or mindset work consistently and see what ideas pop up for you.  Remember, you may not receive an instant booming voice in your head (you actually may never hear that anyway), but as you proceed through your days you will be guided.  Just listen and act.
  • How did I ______ so easily/quickly? This one is a bit different in that it plays a bit off of the affirmation idea and turns it into a question.  The idea is that you set up the question as if you have already received or experienced what you desire and you are asking how it happened so easily or quickly.  Again, the Universe is set up in a way that there are no questions without answers and when you ask this question, you will be led to the answers. Guaranteed.

I encourage you to use these questions for the next 7 days or so and see what happens.  Be playful about it and work it into your day through your mindset practice or have them pop up on your phone and then start noticing what you notice.  Become the observer in your life.

One more tip:  Try not to get too serious about this either.  At times we (ahem I) can get a bit too serious and start searching high and low for the answers which can stop the flow.  So, ask the questions and let it go, then watch the signs and synchronicities that unfold for you.

Want more help?  I’m currently only taking a handful of new clients for the summer and I’d love for you to be one if you feel moved to reach out.  Hit the link below and let’s see if we are a good fit.

Book FREE 30-minute consultation

Penny for your thoughts…

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Summer is upon us and I’m inspired to make some changes.

I’ve got some BIG plans for the summer and have a few ideas that are brewing about some ways I can really help you make some incredible transformations in your life in the next 6 months, but I’d love to hear from you first.

The worst thing in the world is to put something together that you *think* is a great idea only to find that it’s not helpful at all, so if you have about 3-5 minutes I’d love to hear your thoughts.

I’ve put together a quick survey to get a bit more info from YOU about what you need the most right now to help you live and create your best life.

The questions are fairly simple and only require a few moments of your time and in exchange for sharing your thoughts I’ll be giving away a handful (maybe more) of FREE 30-minute Mindset Power Sessions as a thank you.

I’ll be emailing the winners on FRIDAY June 9th so make sure you get your survey in before then to qualify.

Complete the survey HERE.

Thanks in advance for your time and I can’t wait to share what I’ve got on my mind for you for the summer!

Feeling a bit uncertain about life? Read this….

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One of the things I hear a lot from my clients is how often they find themselves in the place of uncertainty.

They feel stuck between a rock and a hard place (my mom’s favorite saying) and they can’t quite figure out how to move forward.

Are you feeling like you are living between worlds at the moment?

 

If so, I invite you to check out my latest article over on Purpose Fairy titled: 5 Ways to Break Free From a Life of Uncertainty.

This article is full of great tips on how to help you finally break free….