Lamisha Serf-Walls

What message are you sending?

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What risks are you willing to take to

You all know I am a BIG believer and teacher of the Law of Attraction and along with that comes the understanding that every thing we think and feel gets communicated as vibration.

We attract back to us what we send out and that is why our mindset, thoughts, feelings, self-talk etc. are SO important when we are manifesting the life of our dreams.

Garbage in=garbage out.

What you think about yourself and your life, you experience in your reality.

The concept is easy, but what happens when we start sending mixed signals to the Universe/God/Source (whatever you want to call it)?

You get mixed results.

You have to be super clear about what you want and make sure that your beliefs, thoughts, and experiences reflect those things.

I’ll give you an example.

Say you run a business and you have just raised your rates because you know you are worth more than what you currently charge.  You set your monthly goal higher and tell the Universe in very clear language…I am ready to charge what I am worth.

The Universe responds and sends you clients who are used to you charging your older rates.

You feel stuck and uncomfortable sharing the new rates so you give them your ‘old rate’ because…you need the money.

You’ve just sent a mixed message that could result in you getting only clients that are willing to pay your older rates or people that complain about your raised rates.

BUT…

What if you charged your new rates and that client couldn’t afford you?  I’ll tell you what happens.  You clearly define what you are worth and the Universe responds by sending you another client that is happy to pay your current (raised) rates.

Another example…

What if you want to manifest some additional money and are open to how it might flow to you.

But, when you are presented with some opportunities to make some extra cash doing what you love…you turn it down or decide to do it for free?

You might have a belief that it’s hard to make money or that when you do what you love you should only do it for free.

If so, you are sending mixed signals and pushing money away.

It’s not our job to determine HOW things will manifest…it is only our job to be clear about what we want and to take inspired action when the time is right.

If your manifestations are a bit mixed and aren’t exactly what you are looking for, it might be time for a check in.  What messages are you sending the Universe right now? Are they clear?

Action step: Take a look at all of your goals for the last month and the actions you have taken to get you to those goals.  Are your intentions and actions in alignment with each other?  If not, make some changes and ensure that you are sending crystal clear messages about what you desire.  When you do, your manifestations are not only faster, but are more of what you DO want and less of what you don’t.

We have 2 weeks left of February before my Breakthrough program pricing goes up.  If you have been thinking about coaching and are interested in what it can do for you, schedule your 30-Minute Consultation today.  March 1st things are changing for the better and I am announcing a new and exclusive VIP program that is limited to a select few people per year! (Can you tell I’m excited???)

Mindset Mastery: Why you need it.

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When I was growing up there was a quote that was very popular and it was this:

“You can do anything you set your mind to.” Benjamin Franklin

At the time it felt like just another after school special that was trying to get kids to do the right thing and never give up.

I was a teenager and didn’t really believe it all that much…until now.

Living the life that I have lived and with all the research and focus I have put on the Law of Attraction and living the life of my dreams, I know that those words are completely true, but something is missing.

It’s not just about putting your mind (and action) into something, it’s also about knowing without a shadow of a doubt that you CAN and WILL accomplish whatever you are striving for.

The action comes secondary to what you believe about what you can and cannot achieve.  If you don’t believe you can do it, the action is worthless because you won’t make it happen if you don’t believe you can.

“Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t–you’re right.” Henry Ford

How you think and feel about your dreams are the MOST important part of the puzzle, in fact it is where it all begins.  If you don’t think you can have the career, the love, the joy, the money, and the family you desire all at once…you’ll never have it.

If you don’t think you can make 6-figures in your creative business…you never will.

If you don’t think it’s possible for you to be happy doing work you love while traveling the world…you won’t even try.

If you don’t think that abundance and joy is for you (but apparently is for everyone else around you) then you will always attract the opposite of those things into your life.

Your mindset can be your biggest enemy if you don’t deal with the beliefs that are holding you back now.

One of the most important things I do with clients is to identify the beliefs and mindset issues they never knew they had.  In fact they rarely even see them! All they see is that they aren’t manifesting the money they want, the job they desire, or the love of their life.  They see the result of a faulty mindset.

That’s where I come in.  I not only help you shift the shit that lies in the dark corners of your mind, but I provide action steps to keep those corners light, bright, and dust-bunny-free.

We all have mindset stuff creep in every now and then, but if left unchecked it can and will sabotage every action you take to make things better.

You cannot achieve what you think is impossible.

So my question is what are you willing to do to shift your mindset so you can have all that you desire?  If you are struggling to make the shift alone and you have tried many times to make it happen to no avail, it’s time for help.

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There’s no reason to let your mindset issues linger and keep you back from everything you desire…it’s time to make a chance.

Don’t Let Your Scotoma Kill Your Dreams

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photo credit: Giulia Bartra via photopin cc
photo credit: Giulia Bartra via photopin cc

There is an epidemic going on in the world and every single person reading this is affected.

I’m not talking about war or the epic flu that has been going around, I’m talking about something that in the world of magic, miracles & manifesting the life of your dreams, is far more deadly.

Your scotoma.

Sounds a bit like a disease, but instead of affecting your body, this affects your mindset and is deadly when it comes to you creating and enjoying the life you have always wanted.

Scotoma: a spot in the visual field in which vision is absent or deficient.  

(The Merriam-Webster definition)

So what does this definition of a visual blind spot have to do with your dreams? The easy answer is everything.

You see, so many times I chat with amazing women like yourself who have equally amazing dreams to create a life that works for them and brings them joy.  They are ready and willing to venture into uncharted territory and will begin taking steps to make big waves in the world and then BAM-their Scotoma shows up and causes them to retreat.

But the thing is they don’t SEE it.  It’s a silent but deadly killer in the world of your dreams and you very rarely see it coming.

You can be moving along happily with your plans, inspiration, joy, and passion until one day everything feels like it’s crumbling around you.

Your confidence flies out the window, you wonder why or how you ever started and you are triggered left and right.

Doubt, fear, and insecurities settle in and you begin to retreat, trying to fit into the comfortable and safe box that you just left.

But the box is broken and you no longer have a space there..so the only way to keep moving forward is to identify the scotoma (aka blind spot that blind sided you on your path) and to shift the shit so you can reset your mindset and be on your merry way.

So, how do you identify this thing that can’t be seen but has the power to throw you off your game faster than you could get your dream off the ground? By seeking the help of an expert.

The truth is you are too close to see what exactly needs shifting.  The gremlins in your mind are playing tricks on you and your Ego is negotiating with you so you will continue to play small, but you know something has to shift.

You may not know what it is, but you know that a change needs to be made.  It’s time to clear up your vision, shift the shit that needs shifting, and to send you onward on your path.

Lucky for you, I’m not only a master shit-shifter, but I am also a scotoma-ologist (if there were ever such a thing.)

I have a vantage point unlike any other and am able to help you see the thing that is holding you back and when you see how small it can be (sometimes the size of a splinter) and how easy it is to shift it for you, you will wonder why you couldn’t see it to begin with.

You will have better focus, more inspiration, and confidence in your abilities to create and craft the life of your dreams.  And the next time you find yourself sliding off your game, you will be better equipped to locate the culprit.

Creating & manifesting the life of your dreams isn’t an exact science and there isn’t a how-to guide because we are all different.

There are bumps, hurdles, and curves that we each must move through because there is a lesson in each one.  A lesson that we will build upon as we continue to grow and until you are able to shift it, change it and rearrange your mindset, you won’t be able to stand fully in your power.

But, you don’t have to go through those lessons alone, in fact that’s not how we are built.  We are here to help one another.  To encourage, uplift, share, and when it’s needed shift the shit that is holding you back. That’s what I want to do for you.

Got shit that needs shifting? I’ve got a Free 30-Minute Consultation with your name on it and an opportunity for you to work with me in a new way not yet listed on my website.  It’s an intro-offer set aside just for those that want help with their mindset junk. Interested?

Let’s chat!

Get Your Mind Set for a Positive Mindset in 3 Easy Steps

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One of my super powers is helping women get really clear on the BS that is holding them back.  Let’s be honest, we all have some thought or belief that keeps us hiding in the shadows afraid to share our light with the world.

I’m not good enough…

I’m not smart enough…

I won’t do it as well as them….

I don’t have the money to….

Whatever lies you are hearing in your head every time you think about taking the BIG LEAP into the life of your dreams…they are wrong.

100% Bullshit.

So, how do you reverse them and get our mind ready for success?

You do it with these 3 steps.

  • Tell a different story. It’s time to let the old story go and rewrite it.  Instead of harping on the woes that you keep believing are true, tell the story as you wish it to be.  Affirmations work wonders so start there.  For instance, I’m AMAZING at what I do.  People love connecting with me! I have a set of unique skills that connect with the right people.  I have more than enough money to take care of all of my wants and needs.

 

  • Focus on the good…daily. You have control over your mindset every single day.  You decide what you focus on and that determines how you feel and what you create in your life.  Don’t like how things are going? Shift your focus to something better.  Develop a practice that feels good to you and do it on a daily basis.  Whether that is keeping a gratitude journal or writing a list of all the things you love about life, focus on the good and more good will flow to you.

 

  • Immerse yourself in inspiration. There is nothing more powerful than feeling inspired and allowing that feeling to take you away into the world of doing he impossible.  Surround yourself with people, books, quotes, movies, media, music, and anything else that inspires and uplifts your soul.  It will not only raise your vibration, but it will also keep your head in the clouds where anything you desire is possible.  Build on that every day and before you know it those gremlin thoughts will be packing up their stuff and moving out because they can’t live in the world of magic and miracles.

Your mindset is everything. It’s the breath of your dreams and the thing that will hold you back or catapult your dreams into another stratosphere and the best part of all is you get to control it.

Let your mindset be your greatest manifesting ally and enjoy every moment of your dream life because with a positive mind, you can do anything.

P.S. If your mindset junk is giving you trouble and you need help busting the BS so you can finally manifest the magical life you’ve always wanted schedule a FREE 30-Minute Consultation here.

My Biggest Fear…

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photo credit: the_exploratorium via photopin cc

If you are on my VIP list you know I’ve been thinking about fear and how it’s a f–king liar.

It’s true.  And even though I know this to be true, I have still struggled with fear myself in many ways.

The fear of being seen in my business was a big one for a long time that kept me playing small.

But, my biggest fear of them all has been…lack of control.

You see, for as long as I can remember, I’ve always tried to be 2-4 steps ahead of my current circumstances.  Trying to make sure all things go as planned and that I don’t end up blindsided by some crazy disappointment in life, I would work out all the outcomes in my mind and figure out how to avoid the bad ones.

Simply put I worried…a lot!

I developed general anxiety because I was always trying to stay ahead of the moment.  If I was making a decision about what to do, I would try to predict the outcome so I could strategize how to cope with it in advance.  Needless to say I wasn’t mindful or present in any moment.  I was always worrying about the future.

When it came to goal setting and setting intentions, I would torture myself!  I needed to know how it was going to work out and while I had some positive focus that it would, if I didn’t see the way, then I wasn’t convinced.

I had zero faith.

It’s taken a long time for me to get over that general anxiety and to stop worrying so much, but there are times when I can feel myself slipping back into needing to know how things are going to work out as opposed to just trusting they will.

The truth is, if we expect a specific outcome and we are open to how the outcome is manifested, there is nothing to worry about.  The perceived control I have over seemingly everything in my life is a bit misunderstood.

The only things we control are our thoughts & actions which in turn create our reality.

So, if being a control freak in how your dreams come true is something you struggle with, take a step back.  Take a deep breath and grab a pen and notebook.

I want you to write down all the ways your dream (or another situation) could manifest perfectly.  I’m not saying these are all things you might believe at the moment, but write down all the ways it could happen.  Get creative and remember that the Universe has every resource available to use and we only know a very small portion of that.  To expect that our way is the only way is a bit misguided and is the best way to lead to frustration and it may even cause a delay in manifesting what we want in our lives.

Be open to more than just the way you think is ‘realistic’ or ‘probable’.  The Universe doesn’t work with reality…it works with magic & miracles and I assure you as soon as you open your mind to ‘how’ it can happen and let go of the outcome a bit, more magic and miracles will find you.  It’s just how it works.

If you are still struggling with manifesting your deepest desires and want to learn about how to make that happen with ease, grace, and more flow, I encourage you to check out my 7 Secrets to Manifest the Life of Your Dreams.  In this free video series, I share with you my biggest secrets to manifesting.  Secrets I’ve learned after many years of trying to be realistic and logical.

Add subtitle text(3)Magical Manifesting is a wonderful way to create the life you have always wanted…not just in cash and things that you can buy, but in experiences, time, and freedom.  Manifesting the beautiful experiences and feelings you’ve always desired and inspiring others to do the same is why I do this work.

I would love for you to join us on February 1st for a journey of Magical Manifesting. This 6-week group program will give you the steps, tools, and secrets you need to create the life you have always wanted and provide you the practical experience that will infuse you with the faith you need to keep going.  Space is limited, so if you are interested I highly encourage you to reserve your place now!