Lamisha Serf-Walls

74 Days and Counting

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As of today, October 18th we have 74 days left in 2016!

How does that make you feel?

Excited? Terrified? Worried? Anxious? Feeling lost and left behind because all the things you wanted to accomplish for 2016 are still sitting on a dusty “To-Do” list that has never seen the light of day since you wrote it?

If that is you…RELAX.

74 days is PLENTY of time to make magic happen in your life and you are not behind at all.  In fact, what if you knew you were exactly where you were meant to be right this very moment?  What if everything that has happened in the last several months had to happen in order to deliver the most magical 74 days ahead?

This is 100% the truth.  Everything that has happened so far in 2016 no matter how tough, difficult, trying, and frustrating has molded who you are, what you think, and how you believe TODAY.  But, what you do moving forward doesn’t depend on the last several months at all.  What you do now depends on what you desire.

So, what is it?  How do you want to end 2016?

Do you want to end it the same way you entered with lots of dreams, ambition, desire, and motivation to finally change your life OR do you want to actually SEE those changes in your life before the clock strikes 12 and welcomes in 2017?

Chances are, you want to end this year with the massive BANG and BEAUTY that it deserves.  The excitement and expansion YOU deserve.  Am I right?

I’ll be honest, 2016 has not been the best year for me all the way around, but there have been a ton of high points and I’m determined to make the remaining 74 days high points as well and I’m inviting you to join me.

Here’s how:

For the rest of the week I am offering you the chance to work with me at a price YOU set.  So, if you’ve been thinking about working with me 1:1, but haven’t pulled the trigger for whatever reason, now is your chance!

Let me help you make the remaining 74 days of the year the best they can possibly be and set you up for success in 2017!

The best part is that I’ve created a no-brainer opportunity for you to get the coaching, practical support and mindset help in a way and at a price that YOU can afford.  But, I’m only able to offer this to 5 people total (and 1 of those spots is gone already!).

If you are ready to make the most of the remaining 74 days of the year and join forces with me to do so, all you have to do is apply for this crazy-brilliant opportunity by FRIDAY October 21st 2016.  Once your application is in, I’ll be reviewing everything and replying to your offer.

I’m calling this the Make Me An Offer offer!

All you have to do is click the button below and apply!  Easy-peasy!

Now, truth be told I’m not sure if I’ll ever do something like this again so, if this is something you are interested in, please put your offer in ASAP.  I promise I will get back to you as soon as possible!

Remember 74 days is PLENTY of time to create effective change in your life, so why wait until 2017? Let’s get started now.

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2016: Your Year to Get Actionable!

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Like many people, you probably said that 2016 was going to be YOUR year and that it would be the year that everything changes, right?

I believe you.  I know that to be true for you and so many other people, but only if you do this one very important thing.

You must get actionable.  In the video below I share what that means and how you can ensure your year not only starts off strong, but finishes strong too!

 

So, what are you waiting for friends?  Get started!

5 Things to do to start your 2016 off right

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The New Year is coming, are you ready?

Over the last few days I’ve been in hard-core planning mode.  I LOVE this time of year.

There is nothing better than the fresh feeling you get when a new year rolls around.  It makes you feel like anything is possible huh?

In addition to getting super clear on what I desire for 2016, I’m doing a few other things to start the year off right.  I’ve gone through a series of various ways to prep for the New Year over the last few years, but I’ve gotten to a point where I’ve found what works best for me.

Is 2016 YOUR year to kick ass and take names?

Is it the year you finally let go of the excuses and make your dreams a reality?

Ready to up-level?

Of course you are, but first…do these 5 things.

  1.  Release your beliefs.  There is no better time to get rid of the thoughts and beliefs that are no longer serving you than now.  In fact, it’s time to remove ‘can’t’, ‘lack’, ‘not enough’, ‘never’, and any other variation of those words that create a negative feeling for you.  YOU have the power to create your reality and you are, every single day, but first you must clear out your mindset to make room for the abundant and life-giving thoughts that will catapult your life to the next level.  Write down all the beliefs, feelings, memories etc. that you are ready to release on a piece of a paper.  Send them love and then burn that sucker.  Out with the old…in with the new.
  2. De-clutter your space.  I go through various fits and starts of de-cluttering throughout the year, but I love doing one big purge at the end of the year.  A little trick I learned from my good friend Lisa Sharp over at Clear Calm Space is to set a timer for each are of your home you are de-cluttering and then get to work.  Books you are no longer interested in or won’t read again, old papers and notes, clothes and shoes that don’t fit or you don’t wear anymore all must go.  Donate what you can and trash the rest.  Clearing out your space creates a physical peace that does wonders for your energy and paves the way for new opportunities and ideas to flow.
  3. Get clear on what you want for the New Year.  You’ve heard me talk about the 2016 Create Your Shining Year workbooks by Leonie Dawson and you know how much I love brainstorming brilliant ideas and this workbook is awesome.  In the past few weeks I’ve been getting clear on the feelings, opportunities, programs, offers, and experiences I desire for 2016.  I’m not talking about ‘how’ I’m going to do it just yet and you don’t have to either.  Just getting clear on WHAT you desire is a huge first step.  Whether you use these planners or something else entirely, it’s extremely important to decide what you wish to bring to fruition in the New Year.  (P.S. The Planning Party is still open so if you want to join us, you can purchase your workbook above and I’ll get you added to the group.)
  4. Choose your WORD for the year.  Every year I choose a word or phrase as a theme for the year ahead.  In 2014 I chose “Show up” and in 2015 I chose “Go Pro”.  This year I decided to go with one word and instead of thinking it through logically, it sort of chose me.  For 2016 my word is FLOW.  I desire more flow in abundance, ideas, creativity, and in fun experiences.  Being in the flow feels amazing and that is my guidepost for all that I do in 2016.  I encourage you to select a word for yourself.  Use it to make decisions for the year, to set your goals and to keep you focused on what is important for the year ahead.
  5. Take action.  So many people start with an amazing vision for what they want to accomplish for the year ahead, but fail to actually take action to move them toward their goals.  I encourage you to select a few things that feel a bit scary, but totally exciting to jump start your year.  Big action (in spite of your fear) is really what will make the difference between staying stuck where you are now and moving into the future your soul is craving for you.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on what you want to create for the year ahead.  Share your word of the year or your action in the comments below and let’s make 2016 magical and full of wonder!

I also encourage you to reach out for help with making your dreams come true.  Hiring a coach is hands down one of the best ways to take serious action and jump start your year.

If you have been feeling:

  • Stuck in a rut
  • Lost in life
  • Confused about what to do next
  • Frustrated with your lack of progress

It’s time to reach out for help.  Schedule your FREE 30-Minute Consultation below to chat about how I can help support you in creating the future your soul desires.

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2015 Lessons: The things I learned so you don’t have to

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As 2015 begins to wind down, I’ve found myself reflecting on some of the major life (and business) lessons I’ve learned this year, many of which have brought me to a new level as an entrepreneur and coach.  In fact, one of the things we are doing over in the 2016 Planning Party is taking stock of what we have accomplished and the lessons we have learned over the past year before we move forward into creating our vision for 2016 (using the 2016 Create Your Shining Year Workbooks).

To be honest it’s one of the most eye-opening exercises I’ve ever done.

2015 has taught me a variety of things but the most important lessons I’ve shared below.

  • All the answers I need lie within.  Now, this is an obvious lesson for many people, but it’s one I tend to learn over and over again.  While many of us want someone to tell us what we should do in life, we really have all we need to make those decisions for ourselves.  This year, I’ve learned to tap into my intuition a lot more than I have in the past and have really begun trusting that inner voice that tells me when to relax and when to take risks.  It’s not always second nature, but I think I have finally learned that whatever answer I am looking for…going within is always the first step.
  • I am a powerful manifest-star!  I’ve always known that manifesting is amazing and that we all have the ability to manifest our desires with ease and grace, but this year has shown me just how powerful I am.  In the last 12 months, I’ve manifested 4 of my best months, $3K in 5 days, $3K in 24 hours and so much more.  It’s really not about the money as much as it’s about understanding that we all have the power to create my own reality instantly and the power lies within our thoughts.
  • My mindset practice is non-negotiable.  As I teach my clients what we think and believe is directly related to what we manifest in our reality and on the days when I skip my mindset practice…all hell breaks loose.  My mindset practice is my anchor.  It’s all about building new beliefs and visualizing the future I am creating everyday and it’s imperative that I take that time for myself.  If you don’t already have a mindset practice, I highly recommend creating one asap.  It’s the most valuable tool I use.
  • There’s never just ONE way. We live in a world of infinite possibilities.  For a long time I tried to do the things that the ‘successful’ coaches and entrepreneurs were doing because obviously it worked for them, but after trying things and not getting the results, I realized there are so many other ways of doing things.  My way will always be more fun, in alignment with who I am and who I serve and that’s what matters anyway.  As long as I do what I love and keep moving forward.  It’s always going to work out.
  • It can always be easy…so let it be.   I often have a tendency to make things more difficult than they need to be and this year I’ve learned that everything can truly be easy…if I allow them to be.  By simply letting go and allowing things to unfold with faith and trust, I’ve seen miraculous things happen from helping amazing women all over the world to finding simple solutions to some of my biggest challenges.  And I’ve learned that if it starts to feel a bit hard or I’m ‘efforting’ too much, it’s time for a break.

I am deeply grateful for the lessons of 2015 and am looking forward to the insights and wonders that are awaiting me in 2016.

P.S. I have just a few more spots left to help women like you Break Free From Stuck and if you are ready to start 2016 with passion, purpose, and SOUL then schedule your FREE 30-Minute Consultation below and let’s chat.

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2016 Planning Party & 6 Beliefs You Need to Release Right Now

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EVERYTHING YOU'VE EVER WANTED IS ON THE OTHER SIDE OF FEAR

2016 is upon us and as we work our way forward to finish the year strong, I am setting up a fun and fabulous planning party for my tribe and I’m inviting YOU to be a part of it.

Last week I gave away 2 of the 2016 Create Your Shining Year Workbooks that I absolutely adore and the winners are also winning access to our 2016 Planning Party!

What is it?

It’s a private Facebook group where we get to connect, plan, share, and inspire one another to create the absolute BEST year ever!  It kicks off in December and will run through the end of January (unless of course we are having so much fun we can’t possibly shut the party down).

In addition to the fabulous planning and fun, you also get access to FREE Coaching threads where you can ask questions, get guidance and support in whatever area you may be struggling in.  It’s sure to be a free-flowing adventure for everyone!

If you are interested all you need to do is purchase your 2016 Planner HERE.  Once you’ve made your purchase, please email me at (lamisha@lifeoncedreamt.com) and I will confirm the purchase and send you the link to join the party.  Easy-Peasy!

If you want one of the physical planners you must purchase yours SOON.  I got word that the business planners are just about sold out and once they are gone, they are gone!  You can also purchase one of the digital planners if you prefer and have access to send one to a friend! What a great gift to give. 🙂

2016 here we come!!!

6_silver-line6 Beliefs You Need To Release Right NOW

I’m on a bit of a mindset rampage right now and beliefs are coming up BIG time in my 1:1 work right now.  How you think and feel about life and yourself is everything when it comes to living a happy life and these are some of the biggest most hairy, scary beliefs that I find are holding folks back.

  • It has to be hard.  Says WHO?  Says us apparently.  There are so many sayings that convince us that if we don’t work hard, try hard, or trudge through the tough stuff it’s not worth it, but I have seen a better way in action.  The easy way.  The way that feels magical and wondrous and so much fun!  It only has to be hard if you THINK it has to be.  That includes money, finding a career you love or finding your soulmate.  Decide right now that you deserve ease and grace and flow and I promise you are one step closer to it.

 

  • I’m not enough.  We all have these stories in our minds about how we aren’t pretty enough, smart enough, tall enough, rich enough etc. in order to achieve the life of our dreams.  But, here’s a funny thing…you are enough.  You are smart, funny, pretty, intelligent and any other thing you can come up with in order to ‘be’ enough.  And if you don’t have all the pieces, you have the potential and capabilities of getting it so, this belief is just a bunch of BS and it’s one we all hold onto a bit.  You are enough…period.
  • I don’t know ‘how’. This is a big one!  The truth is a lot of people didn’t know HOW to do something before they figured it out.  Thomas Edison and Albert Einstein didn’t know ‘how’ to do all they did, until they figured it out.  The truth is you don’t have to know HOW to do it…you just have to follow the next step and trust.  Sounds a bit elementary, but it’s the biggest thing I’ve learned in all of this work.  Trust that you will know ‘how’ when the time is right.  Always.
  • I’m not worthy.  Another biggie I hear from my clients.  So many people think they have to DO something to be worthy of their dreams.  You don’t.  You just have to have a desire and BOOM you are worthy of having it.  Of course, thinking you aren’t worthy creates feelings of unworthiness which compound in our reality with reasons we are unworthy.  Drop the story about why you aren’t worthy of living the life you desire and get on with living it already.  You are alive. You are breathing. You are here now.  You ARE worthy
  • It’s too late for me. It’s never too late to do the things you want to do or to be the person you want to be.  I don’t care how old you are or how many jobs you’ve had or how many mistakes you’ve made.  It’s never too late…ever.  If you have a desire in your soul to create, experience or live a vision in your mind then you have the power and time to make it happen.  Don’t let time be the limiting factor.  None of us really know how much time we have left right?  So hop to it already.  What are you waiting for my dear?
  • It’s just not in the cards for me.  So many people believe that when we are born we are given a hand of cards.  Some get the really good cards like the Aces and Kings while others get 2’s and 3’s and whatever hand we are dealt is it.  That’s all we get to play with.  Looking at the cards they see their future.  The possibilities or lack thereof and see what is limiting them in creating a life they love.  But, here’s the thing.  What if…you were the designer, developer and artist for your cards?  What if you didn’t actually get a hand of cards, but you get to hand-craft the cards (and possibilities) in your hand with a mere thought?  Good news! You do.  You get to choose what is in the cards for you by the power of your focus and mind, so let go of the BS story that it’s just not meant for you.  We are all cut from the same beautiful fabric and you are indeed the creator of your own reality.  Isn’t it time you started acting like it?

These are just a few of the beliefs I hear over and over again in my 1:1 work and if you have similar beliefs, they are limiting your potential more than you know.  Ditch them, dump them, and rebuild anew.  It’s time to step into your power especially as we enter into a new year.

Interested in getting help kicking your sabotaging beliefs to the curb?  Hit the button below and let’s chat.

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