Lamisha Serf-Walls

  • Home
  • Blog
  • Free Resources
  • Work with me
    • Raving Fans
  • Contact Me
  • My Story

Top 5 limiting beliefs that may be holding you back…

April 28, 2017 by Lamisha

 

When it comes to our mind habits and limiting beliefs, there’s likely not a belief I haven’t seen or heard at this point.  In fact, there are quite a few that I hear over and over again and today I’m sharing them with you.

To be honest, many of these I’ve struggled with a lot over the years so I completely understand how difficult it can be to shift them…but it IS POSSIBLE.  I’m living proof and so are my clients.

Top 5 Limiting Beliefs (that may be holding you back)

  • I’m not enough.  This is your run of the mill belief that can stop any new venture, decision, opportunity, or potential success in its tracks.  It’s likely the one I hear the absolute most from people (many women in particular) and it runs DEEP.  The not enough-ness many times has no basis other than feeling like you aren’t good enough, smart enough, ready enough, strong enough, prepared enough, thin enough, rich enough…you name it.  It’s also the belief that keeps people playing small and ultimately paralyzed by fear of failure.
  • I’m not worthy.  This one runs a close second to the one above.  Somehow, somewhere along the lines many of us have internalized the message that we aren’t worthy of amazing things happening to us and for us.  We often believe that somehow we are ultimately flawed and thereby don’t deserve the riches, success, joy, love, excitement, adventure, ease, and flow that we desire.  And if by chance we allow a little bit of that into our lives…we feel guilty and shut that shit down, because who are WE to have all the good stuff?
  • It has to be hard.  Likely drilled into us from past generations, far too many of us struggle with the belief that anything worth doing has to be hard and if it comes easily, it’s just not worth it.  Easy feels like cheating.  Hard is where you prove to yourself just how strong, powerful, and worthy you are because isn’t that what life is all about? (Spoiler alert: No, it’s not.  Life is meant to be enjoyed.). Yes, there are times on your path that may feel difficult, but that’s not the way it always has to be.
  • It’s not meant for me. When it comes to success, love, money, and happiness, many people believe that they are somehow different from the next guy.  Sure they can have the success, adventure, and ultimately happy life, but it’s just not in the cards for me.  I’m meant to suffer.  (Wrong!) This belief causes us to believe that somehow we are so different in who we are that the miracles and magic of the world are set aside for a select few and we just aren’t a part of that crowd.
  • You can’t have it all.  This belief has been one of my biggest struggles by far.  For a long time I believed that “having it all” was a myth.  I thought that if you had the riches and success, you couldn’t have true love.  If you had a happy, humble home life, you couldn’t also have the powerful career and money.  You had to simply choose what is most important and allow that to be the “good” you allow into your life.  The truth is that is total BS.  You can have it all, the moment you nip this gnarly belief in the bud.
And let’s not even talk about the Money Beliefs we carry with us…actually, let’s talk about them for a moment!

Money is such a funny topic (not funny-haha, but funny as in weird) for people.

Whether you realize it or not, you likely are carrying some really heavy money-related junk with you from your parents, grandparents, and family.  We all have some money stuff (or had it at some point in our lives) and it has a direct effect on how we view, manage, receive, manifest, earn, and handle money today.

Here are a few common ones that you might resonate with…

  • “Money is hard to make.”
  • “Money doesn’t grow on trees.”
  • “No matter what I do, there’s never enough.”
  • “Rich people are jerks, selfish, and self-serving.”
  • “I don’t have enough.”
  • “Money isn’t important.”
  • “Money is the root of all evil.”
  • “To make a lot of money you have to sacrifice other things.”
  • “I’ll never be rich.”
Do any of these resonate for you?  (If so, I’d love to hear which ones, hit ‘reply’ and share a few that you carry around with you.)

If some of these resonate for you, I’d like you do a little experiment.  Take a look at your financial picture for a moment and notice what you see.  Are the numbers where you want them to be or do you find that you typically hover around a certain number?

Maybe you are like I was…struggling to make it from paycheck to paycheck or always feeling stress when it comes to money.  That was my reality for a very long time, until I started learning about my money mindset and changing the thoughts I was practicing within my mind.

The way you feel about money (and anything else) directly affects how money (or anything else) shows up for you in your life.

YOU have the ultimate creative power over your life when you accept that your mindset is what helped you to create where you are.  It’s nothing to be ashamed of, it’s just where you are now.  The key is deciding what you are going to do about it.

All of the beliefs I’ve listed above are things that have impacted my life and it was only when I was willing to do the work (the mindset work that is) to clear them out and began building positive habits in their place was I able to see the changes happening in my life.

Mindset work isn’t “magic”, but it sure feels that way once you begin.  You’ll ask yourself why you ever waited.

I don’t want you to wait anymore.
I don’t want you to struggle anymore.
And I certainly don’t want you to have regrets about not getting support when you needed it most.

So…if any or all of the beliefs above resonate for you then the Miracle Mindset Immersion Program is absolutely the program for you.
You’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain.

So what do you say?  Are you in? If so, hit the info below and get signed up!

Regular Program  = $197

or

VIP (Includes 4 week program + 1- 45 Minute Coaching session) = $297

Sending massive love your way!

Filed Under: Authenticity, Being, Challenges, Inspiration, Intention, Life, Mindset, Planning Tagged With: beliefs, coaching, limiting beliefs, mindset, money, program, truths

Mindset Monday: 2 Beliefs To Transform Your Life for the Better

April 24, 2017 by Lamisha

Happy Monday Friends!!!

Today I’m bringing you another Mindset Monday episode and this one is POWERFUL as I’m sharing with you the 2 most powerful beliefs I had to adopt in order to transform my life for the better and how you can too!

Check it out below!

(P.S. There’s a special announcement about the BONUS offer for the Miracle Mindset Immersion Program.  Don’t miss it!)

2 Beliefs to Transform Y our Life for the Better

 

Got questions about the program?  Post them below!

Read to sign up and snag that amazing bonus?!  Click here to register!

Filed Under: Coaching, Inspiration, Intention, Life, Mindset, Planning Tagged With: Bonus, life coach, mindset, money mindset, thoughts

Giving you a peek behind the curtain…

April 21, 2017 by Lamisha

I want to be completely transparent and real with you (as always) and let you know that sometimes the path to the most amazing things you ever imagined isn’t all rainbows and unicorns.

At least that’s been my experience.

There IS ease, grace, flow, and beauty on the path, but there is also a fair amount of resistance, crunchiness, and “tests” that come up too.

And it’s during those “tests” that we need our mindset work the most!

I know there are a lot of people out in the world looking for the quick fix and the magic bullet to make life 1000% better and while working on your mindset and learning to LIVE by the #2 secret I shared on the webinar the other day (go have a listen if you don’t know what that is) will absolutely improve your life 1000%—> it doesn’t always feel easy.

Sometimes it feels downright HARD.

I know this because I live it…daily.

I am not perfect.  My mindset isn’t that of a Tibetan Monk and I have my share of freak outs (hello all of January and part of February), but I have experienced some truly incredible shifts by turning my focus to the ONLY thing I (we) have control over…my mindset.

  • I’ve overcome daily, general anxiety after suffering with it for years
  • I’ve consistently taken on new challenges that scare the bejesus out of me and succeeded in many of them.
  • I’m happier, healthier, and less of a control freak

And if I could name the greatest change of all it would be the fact that I actually have a framework and practice to get back to when I fall off the deep end.

  • When my son (who was recently diagnosed with ADHD) was kicked out of his private school last year due to some ADHD related challenges…my mindset work saved me from completely losing it.
  • When my mother in law had to move in with us unexpectedly due to some personal challenges…my mindset work saved me.
  • When I feel like I’m “failing” (yes, even coaches feel this) and like I may never recover…my mindset work saves me.
  • When I’m triggered by the uncertainties in life and business…my mindset work saves me.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that even as a coach, I have challenges and when I find something that works to help me rebound from those challenges and decrease the frequency of them…I want to share it.  It’s what I’m here to do.

So, if you are looking for a quick fix or a magic bullet…this isn’t that (and frankly there is no such thing).

However, if you are looking for a strategic plan to help you move through life with more ease, grace, and knowing-ness for miracles to unfold on your path…the Miracle Mindset Immersion Program is for you.

I promise it will transform your life…if you do the work. <3

It all starts May 1st and if you sign up in the next 48 hours you are still eligible for not only the early bird rates, but you are also eligible for the BONUS week on Money Mindset (which I have to say is pretty amazing).

If you are ready to adopt a miracle mindset in order to transform your life then I invite you to join us for this round (and likely the ONLY live round I am doing in 2017).  Find out more about the program here. 

If, however you are ready to dive in and snag the Early Bird rate + the bonus week on Money Mindset then make sure you click the links below to get signed up!

Regular Program + Bonus Money Mindset Week = $127

or

VIP (Includes 4 week program + 1- 45 Minute Coaching session) + Bonus Money Mindset Week = $227

I can’t wait to get started with you!!!

P.S.  If you missed the call the other night, check out the replay below and make sure you check out the details below regarding the BONUS that expires in 24 hours! (It’s a steal!)

5 Secrets to Unlock Your Miracle Mind AUDIO recording

Filed Under: Awareness, Inspiration, Life, Mindset Tagged With: coaching, mindset, miracle mindset, miracles, power, program

5 Secrets to Unlock Your Miracle Mind- Free Training

April 19, 2017 by Lamisha

 

To be honest, this post was supposed to go out to you on Monday, but as you can see that did NOT happen.

Yep, on the last day of spring break for my son- we got to spend a few hours in the local ER because he accidentally slammed his thumb in the car door. (YIKES!). Luckily it wasn’t broken and he’s fine now, but man alive it caused me to really lean on my mindset work in order to go with the flow as much as possible instead of worrying about what I needed to get done.

With that said, I apologize for not getting this to you sooner!

So, we just finished up the FREE 5-Day Mindset Challenge on Friday and I wanted to check in with you to see how it went for you?

I know many of you probably opted out of sharing your insights in the MindPower Collective group which is cool, but I do hope you took advantage of the free challenge in order to really see what’s lying within your subconscious mind.  If your mind is anything like mine, it can be a scary place to be sometimes.

One of the things I noticed during the challenge, is how many people simply felt like they may not be good enough in some way for the things they desired and how many people found themselves staying where they are (even if it’s uncomfortable) because it feels SAFE.

I gotta admit, I’m not all that surprised though.  That is one of the main things I see that is limiting my clients when it comes to mindset.

When you don’t feel worthy of your desires, you are shooting your dreams down before they even leave the ground. 
The crazy thing is that there is a vast majority of people in the world who truly feel unworthy of the very desires that are burning within.

So, what’s the only way to get around that?  It all begins in the mind. (Come on, you knew I was going to say that right?)

When we get down to the nuts and bolts of it all, it’s never about being worthy or not.  It’s simply a matter of our mind habits and how we’ve been trained to think and believe, and how we view the world.

When you understand that and are committed to shifting those old stories, miracles unfold. 
This whole idea of miracles got me thinking about how many people are so jaded by “reality” that they lack the faith and trust that is necessary for magic and miracles to unfold—> which by the way is a key piece of mindset work that so many people miss.

Instead of believing in what they can’t quite see yet, they speak their “truth” based on a limited focus of what is directly in front of them and cut themselves off from the magic.

And you know what? I used to be one of those people before I ever knew anything about what mindset is and how powerful it can be, which is why I decided to put together this free training that is happening tomorrow night at 7:30pm EST.

So, if you could use some more miracles in your life, I invite you to join us LIVE for this incredible training.  I will be sharing my secrets for unlocking your miracle mind as well as taking your questions on all things mindset and miracle related.  You do NOT want to miss this!

Let’s be honest, who couldn’t use a few more miracles in their life right?

To make sure you receive all the call details, please make sure you are signed up on my VIP list HERE. 

Filed Under: Coaching, Inspiration, Life, Mindset Tagged With: free training, mindpower, mindset, miracles, support, webinar

Losing Millions….

April 7, 2017 by Lamisha

I have a confession to make and it’s probably something you might not be able to guess about me, though after I share the whole story, it will make total sense.

My secret guilty pleasure is that I LOVE watching documentaries about where Lottery winners are now.

—> It’s not because I play the lottery, though I do on occasion.
—> It’s not because I want to be up to date with the latest high ticket items to purchase.
—> And it’s not even because I want to use it as a way to envision myself as a millionaire.

Honestly, I watch it because I am incredibly fascinated by the MINDSET behind each winner and how it ties into where they are now.  (I’m a mindset nerd, I know!)

I’ve watched a ton of these shows and what’s amazing is I can see a common thread in all of them as it relates to who still has their money (or even more) and who has squandered it away and is now broke. Can you guess what it is?

It’s all about their growth mindset and upper limit set point.

You see, every one of us has an upper limit set point based on our current mindset.  Based on our past experiences and the mindset work we have done (or not done) we have a certain amount of love, joy, peace, abundance, health, excitement etc. that we can comfortably allow in our lives.

Once we approach that upper limit, our ego gets a bit frightened and feels unsafe.  It immediately wants to bring us back down to our “normal” range, even if what’s been normal for us is incredibly uncomfortable.

Imagine for a moment you want to lose 50 lbs but in reality you only imagine that you can really lose about 25.  As you approach that 25lb marker or a bit beyond that, your ego gets a bit snarky and scared and you find some reason (usually subconsciously) to sabotage your progress to bring you back down to what is “normal” for you.

The same thing happens with money (or anything else for that matter).  The reason many lottery winners go bankrupt after winning millions of dollars is because their mindset didn’t change when they won that money.

Their reality shifted dramatically, but their mindset didn’t and so they had to go back to what was “normal” for them.

It seems a bit crazy, I know, but think back to your life for a moment.

Have you ever noticed that there are times when things are going really good for you, it feels a bit uncomfortable?  Or maybe when things get too good you find yourself sabotaging it in some way, shape, or form and before you know it you are back to where you started?

Maybe it’s with money, weight, relationships, your career, or something else entirely, but no matter what the topic is…the issue is the same.  You’ve hit your upper limit.

So what do you do to make sure you don’t lose your proverbial millions?

It boils down to these three things…

  • Become aware of your upper limit set point
  • Understand your sabotaging behavior when things get too good
  • Actively grow your mindset so as you approach that upper limit, it actually transforms to a new level

Believe me when I say that the upper limit problem that Gay Hendricks discusses in his book The Big Leap is a very real thing.  I’ve experienced it over and over again with each new level I’ve reached in my life and business and understanding how it works and actively working on your mindset is the key to limiting the effects of the ULP in your life.

And you know what?  It’ ALL leads back to MINDSET.

Yes, I know.  I talk about mindset until I’m blue in the face, but I promise it is more important than you know and it is where all your power lies.  It’s also why I decided to put together this FREE 5-Day Mindset Challenge for my tribe starting Monday.

Starting Monday, we are going to help you understand what is going on in that beautiful mind of yours and give you some tools to transform those thoughts so you can continue to grow and expand your life in truly magical ways with or without your upper limit.

If you sign up, everyday next week you are going to be receiving the challenge step of the day in your inbox with an exercise for you to complete that day.

If you choose, you can also join us in the MindPower Collective group on Facebook to share your experiences and enter yourself to win some 1:1 coaching and free entry into the next round of the Miracle Mindset Immersion group program coming soon!

The challenge kicks off on Monday!  Are you ready?

Join us over in the MindPower Collective group and remember to post your exercises in the challenge threads to enter yourself to win some awesome goodies!

Filed Under: Authenticity, Blog, Inspiration, Life, Mindset, Practices Tagged With: challenge, coach, free, mindset, planning, practices

  • « Previous Page
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
  • …
  • 9
  • Next Page »

Copyright © 2025 · Parallax Pro Theme on Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in

Grab your FREE Audio: STUCK: 5 Ways to Break Free!!
Feeling STUCK in your journey & finally ready to break FREE? I've got 5 tips for you to get you moving quick, fast & in a hurry toward your next-level life.
Your information will *never* be shared or sold to a 3rd party.