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Grow, Evolve, Become- Guest Expert Allison Moss

August 20, 2015 by Lamisha

I am so excited to share how our amazing Grow, Evolve, Become Membership Group is sharing, shining, and evolving. We have just had our first of many guest experts and I just had to share the scoop with you!

When I first connected with the lovely Allison Moss in my Love Your Life Tribe, I knew she ‘got’ it. Her spark and inspiration for manifesting, energy, and clearing out the things that no longer serve us was palpable and I knew she would be fantastic as an expert for our lovely tribe. Thank goodness she agreed!

After having her and her amazing knowledge in our fun-filled group for the last week, I can tell you with absolute certainty that she’s magnificent at what she does and everyone, I mean EVERYONE needs a bit of her magic in their lives. Not only did she share with us some awesome tips on clearing out the physical and emotional clutter in our lives to make room for the magnificence we are manifesting each day, but she also gave us a bit of her feng shui love bombs to help us lift the stagnant energy in our spaces.

Now, I know all about clearing out the mental and mindset clutter, but my physical space could always use an extra dose of clearing and uplifting, but Allison gave us so many awesome tips and tools to really create a space that looks and FEELS good. Simply put, she’s amazing and I’m so excited that she was our first guest expert!

Now, if you aren’t yet a member of Grow, Evolve, Become but are interested in all the amazing goodies that you can have instant access to as soon as you join, you can make that happen HERE.

When you sign up you will have instant access to:

111 Affirmations for Abundance & Success

Bonus Manifesting Money Audio

A Guided Visualization for Abundance

Belief Busting 101

Getting Clear on What you WANT

4 Steps to Bust Through Your Fear Factor

Free Abundance Audio

Monthly member’s only calls

Access to Allison’s Clutter to Clarity material

AND my latest Mini-Manifesting Toolkit loaded with bonuses

You can also connect with Allison and her awesome wisdom in a variety of ways. Check her out on Facebook, Twitter, her website, or her Facebook Tribe. You can also check out her Mastermind here.

A HUGE thank you to Allison for being our first guest expert and sharing all of your wonderful wisdom with the group!

There are lots of reasons you shouldn’t give up, but only 1 reason you should.

July 31, 2015 by Lamisha

In the last two years of my business there have been moments when I seriously thought about throwing in the towel. Moments when I thought I’d be better off dropping my dream all together and jumping back into the work force.

It wasn’t because I didn’t love what I was doing. Not at all.

It was because things got hard, I got frustrated, and I felt lost.

I felt stuck and instead of listening to my intuition, I ignored it entirely.

Instead of asking for help or allowing it in, I thought I had to do it all by my little lonesome.

In short, it sucked!

And as I write this I am getting ready to celebrate my 2 year anniversary in my business in just a few days and I couldn’t be happier! I can’t believe I made it this far and what was once only a dream is now my current reality.

I had a TON of reasons I could’ve quit before. I could’ve quit because:

Money wasn’t flowing
Potential clients were saying ‘No thanks’
Things got really hard
I didn’t know how to move forward
I was afraid I’d put all of my passion and it wouldn’t ‘work’

But despite it all, ultimately, I loved what I was doing.

When I get calls from clients telling me they took their big leap into something they never thought possible, I remember my why.

When I cry with clients as they have amazing breakthroughs and aha’s because I can relate to them so much, I remember my why.

And when I have that first call with a potential client who is sharing with me their hopes and desires for what they hope their life will become with my help, I remember my why.

The truth is this work that I do is far more than just a business. It’s my passion and purpose and despite the fact that things have at times looked as though they weren’t ‘working’, that passion has never ceased.

When you are moving in the direction of your dreams with passion in your heart and purpose in your soul, there will be lots of moments of learning, growing, and evolving.

There will be times when you want to quit. Times when everything on the outside looks broken and you wonder if it will ultimately work.

There will be many, many, many reasons to throw in the towel as you wonder if you are strong enough, smart enough, or if you are doing enough to make your dreams come true.

And the ONLY time you should quit, is if that passion and purpose have gone.

When your heart isn’t in it and the love for your vision transforms into something else as it may, that is the only time you should ‘quit’.

But honestly, that isn’t even quitting in my book. That is simply a transformation of a dream into another vision that lights you up and sets your soul on fire and that can never be deemed a failure nor are you a quitter.

Dreams unfold and transform as much as we do and while you may have many reasons to ‘quit’, don’t do it unless your heart truly isn’t in it.

Keep going. Keep reaching. Keep dreaming and trust in the passion in your heart. When you do…magic happens.

In other news, August is a HUGE month for me and my business. Not only is August 1st the second anniversary of my business, but my birthday is on the 13th and with that comes BIG celebrations & gifts for YOU.

Introducing the 13 Days & 13 Ways of Giving!!!

For 13 days I am giving gifts, services, paying it forward, and creating very special offers for my tribe and allowing that to filter over into the community. I’d love for you to be a part of this amazing vision and you can do that in a few ways.

Join my Love Your Life Tribe for exclusive gifts for my tribe members only
Sign up for my VIP List to get access to special giveaways for VIP’s only
Follow me on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram to stay up to date on how, when, and where I am gifting for all 13 days.
Share in the giving by posting your own 13 Ways of Giving using the #13WaysOfGiving on social media

Paying it forward, sharing the love, and really creating a community of love, joy, and good will has always been near and dear to my heart and I’m so excited to share what I am cooking up for you!

Major Epiphany & Life Lesson for You

July 20, 2015 by Lamisha

photo credit: Upward via photopin (license)

I’ve been a bit MIA lately and there’s a reason for that.

In the last 2 weeks I’ve felt a bit off kilter in my journey. I felt the shift happen after I came back from a wonderful vacation and started to feel like there was a transformation that I was indeed preparing for. What that transformation included, I wasn’t sure, but I knew something was coming.

And sure enough it was.

I’ve had these moments before when I go through a major life upheaval with emotions running high and lots of blocks and beliefs that need released. It’s a process for me and one that I understand very well even if it feels like shit while I’m ‘in’ it. But, what I always know is that on the other side of this upheaval there is always light, purpose, and expansion that I couldn’t have if it hadn’t been for the upheaval. For those moments I am grateful.

Last week I was in the throes of it and finally decided to announce it to my Love Your Life Tribe Facebook group because I wanted to be authentic, honest, and I wanted everyone to know that no one is perfect. EVERYONE goes through these moments and despite the discomfort of the process, it always works out in the end.

Thank goodness the fog is beginning to clear and I am finally being able to see the lesson here and I am passing it along to you.

My major epiphany & life lesson for you is in: Letting Go.

I am one of those people who tends to be a bit of a control freak. I like to think I am the one running things and making magic happen in my life (sorry Universe), when in actuality I am just following the nudges of my intuition and the Universe. However, in the moments when I am struggling with making something happen (i.e. meeting financial goals, figuring out how to do something etc.) I go into overdrive and try, try, try, until I can’t possibly try anymore.

And when that doesn’t work (which it usually doesn’t) I go into the mode of thinking I MUST be doing something wrong (because if not, then it would all be fine right) and then I TRY AGAIN.

Looking back I can see how it might be like me banging my head on a door that won’t open thinking that if I just bang on it hard enough, POOF it will magically open.

Yep, doesn’t work like that.

So the key in those moments (or in the less dramatic moments when you aren’t sure which way to go and you know how all of this works) you let go of the NEED for things to change right then and there and keep moving on your merry way.

Now, that’s hard to do if you are dealing with money because how exactly do you go on your merry way when bills are due?

I’ve learned the hard way that you just have to TRUST. LET GO & TRUST that it’s all going to work out and in actual fact it IS working out for you even if you can’t see how or when or why it is.

Trust is a funny thing because it means you have to simply let go of the thing you are worrying about and go with the flow of life. And what takes that up another notch is to be HAPPY & JOYFUL in spite of the given challenge.

Last week, that is the last thing I wanted to hear.

I was struggling (in my mind) and I didn’t want to hear any woo-woo message about letting go and letting the Universe (or God) take care of things for me. As much as I KNOW that to be true, I wasn’t in a place to hear that. I had to go through the frustration and the emotion of it all to finally get there….

And I finally made it this weekend when I was getting messages left and right on letting go and simply allowing life to unfold and being JOYFUL through the process. Funny how that works huh?

The one quote in particular that literally shifted everything for me was this:

“The dichotomy is that for true healing to occur, I must let go of the need to be healed and just enjoy and trust in the ride that is life.” Anita Moorjani from Dying To Be Me

The truth is you can enter just about any word in place the word “healing” and the statement would still be true. Abundance, love, peace, etc. all follow the same formula.

When you let go of the need to have something and just enjoy and trust in the journey of life, things transform and the very thing you let go of, comes back to you.

Letting go of the need is necessary to manifest your desires and being joyful in the process of life is what life is all about.

And that leads me to simply asking myself this, “How can I enjoy the moment right here, right now?” and then acting accordingly.

Simple truths with magnificent power.

My question for you is this…what do you need to let go of right now?

If what you need to let go of is the feeling of being stuck, check out my free audio 5 Ways to Break Free From Stuck below.

Food For Thought Friday & A Crazy Invitation~

July 10, 2015 by Lamisha

Ok friends, I am just now getting in the know with Periscope and recording fun chats about a variety of topics that you will definitely find helpful. And if nothing else, you may even have a laugh at my struggle with this new platform as I learn the ins and outs of it.

If you are on Periscope, I’d love for you to follow me @LifeOnceDreamt and if not, why not hop on over and get signed up? There are lots of great people on there already and you can have live interactions and chats which makes it so much fun! As I said I’m still getting used to it so forgive my fumbles, but if you want to have a watch you can check out my last video on What’s Too Good For You? AKA Are You Worthy? for the next 24 hours.

I’m also toying with the idea of hosting specific live Q & A scopes for you to join and ask questions during the scope as a way to help, so let me know if you are interested in that!

Moving forward I will be saving them and uploading them to my Youtube channel so you can view them there as well. 🙂

In addition to my lovely Periscope news, I am also starting a Mindset Makeover Challenge on MONDAY over in my Love Your Life Tribe on Facebook. The group is growing and I’d love to have you join us if you are interested. It’s going to be a ton of fun and I really look forward to the magic that is happening there. You can join us here.

AND

I am doing something I have wanted to do for a LONG time and that is offer a Pay What You Can option for working with me in some capacity & this time it’s for my newly released and reworked Grow, Evolve, Become-Membership Program. I’ll be updating the info page about it soon, but here’s the basic scoop.

When you join the Grow, Evolve, Become-Membership Program you will get instant access to:

–A Guided Visualization for Abundance (that has helped many of my clients manifest unexpected income, new clients, new jobs, and so much more!)
–111 Affirmations for Abundance & Success
–Money Manifesting Bonus Audio
–PLUS 1 Surprise gift to be revealed in the group when you join

Through out the rest of July (and every month after) you will also have access to:
–1- 90 Minute members only group coaching call
-Coaching and support around 1 topic each week that will help you break through your blocks and create a life you LOVE
-Customized audios, videos, PDFs, challenges etc. for the things you are struggling with most in the group
-Personalized intuitive guidance to keep you moving forward
-Guest teachers sharing their expertise for members only
-Hot-Spot Help Sessions providing individual support within the group
And so much more…

The total value for all of that is upwards of $400-500 a month!

But until Tuesday July 14th at 11:59pm you get to lock in at a rate that works for you.

Not sure what to pay? Here’s what we are seeing so far:

Low end- $10-20/month
Mid-range-$21-40/month
High end- $41+/month

I’d LOVE for you to join us for this journey so if you are interested please feel free to get signed up here: http://bit.ly/1HPXXqS
Once you have signed up and set your rate, we will set you up to lock in your “pay what you can” subscription rate for the rest of 2015.

This is a great option if the 1:1 coaching programs don’t quite fit your needs or you have budgetary concerns right now. If you have any questions at all, don’t hesitate to reach out. We already have an awesome group of amazing women and I’d love to add you to the group!

My word is FREEDOM…What’s yours? (Plus a free invitation for YOU.)

July 1, 2015 by Lamisha

photo credit: Sunset Hermosa via photopin (license)

It feels like forever since my last post and that’s because I’ve been on vacation and piecing together my next steps. The good news is I am back and I have a lot of GREAT things up my sleeve for you. But, before I share all of that with you (soon I promise), I want to share some of my most recent realizations.

All this traveling I’ve been able to do this year so far, I realized I have had a theme bubbling up my entire life and it is exactly the kind of life I want to create.

That theme is FREEDOM.

Many (many) moons ago, I wouldn’t have known what it was because I was dealing with so much turmoil and strife, but today I can honestly look at my life as a whole and say what I truly desire is freedom in ALL forms.

I want to experience freedom in love (thank you SCOTUS for making that possible in all 50 states in the US finally).

I want to experience freedom in my finances (thank you Denise Duffield-Thomas for helping me clear my blocks to be open to more abundance.)

I want to experience freedom in my time and how I choose to spend my time on a daily basis (thanks boss-aka me!).

And I am finally embracing the fact that I want to experience freedom in what I create and share with YOU.

You see over the years, I’ve tried to make all of my desires fit nicely into little square boxes even though the contents were hanging out in odd (and fun) shapes and sizes. I realized this weekend that the only thing clean, tidy, square boxes are good for are moving- you know when you have to pack a moving truck and feel like you are playing Tetris to make everything fit.

I don’t fit into one clean and tidy box and I bet you don’t either.

I’m a bit messy and oddly-shaped at times, but it’s what makes me unique. What I desire today may change form in a few months, but that’s the true beauty of evolution and growth isn’t it?

Your desires, wishes, and dreams are as diverse as your experiences in this life and I want you to know it’s OKAY to have all those (sometimes conflicting) desires because in the end it’s all a part of YOU.

You will at times drop the things that are no longer serving you. You will de-clutter your dreams, desires, and wishes and peel back the layers to reveal what is really important to you right here and right now. And despite what gets left on the editing room floor, life will feel amazing for you because in the end YOU get to choose what stays and what goes.

My biggest realization over the last 2 weeks is the freedom that I not only desire and am now totally embracing, but also the freedom I help my clients attain.

And let’s be clear, freedom means something different to everyone. For me it might be about time and money and for someone else it might be entirely about their career. But, what I want YOU (and every other woman walking this planet) to know is that YOU have the FREEDOM to choose the life you live. You have the FREEDOM to break free from whatever has you stuck and to choose differently. But most of all you have the FREEDOM to decide the kind of life you live and experience while you are in this blessed body of yours.

And I want to help you get to that FREEDOM, whatever it means to you because I know that you have an amazing life to live and it’s time to make your dreams come alive starting NOW.

The Facebook Tribe I created a few months ago is under construction and with it comes a new name (TBA) and lots of awesome tools, tips, and challenges to help empower YOU to live that amazing life you want…right now. And instead of waiting for all the new pieces to be in place, I’m inviting you to join us today, before everything is perfect and the new name is revealed.

In this group you will get access to free information, special offers, free coaching threads, inspiration, and lots of additional life-changing information that will empower you in truly beautiful ways. This is phase 1 of the amazing new things to come, so hop on over and be one of the first people to know about what else is coming down the pipe.