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2016 Planning Party & 6 Beliefs You Need to Release Right Now

November 24, 2015 by Lamisha

2016 is upon us and as we work our way forward to finish the year strong, I am setting up a fun and fabulous planning party for my tribe and I’m inviting YOU to be a part of it.

Last week I gave away 2 of the 2016 Create Your Shining Year Workbooks that I absolutely adore and the winners are also winning access to our 2016 Planning Party!

What is it?

It’s a private Facebook group where we get to connect, plan, share, and inspire one another to create the absolute BEST year ever! It kicks off in December and will run through the end of January (unless of course we are having so much fun we can’t possibly shut the party down).

In addition to the fabulous planning and fun, you also get access to FREE Coaching threads where you can ask questions, get guidance and support in whatever area you may be struggling in. It’s sure to be a free-flowing adventure for everyone!

If you are interested all you need to do is purchase your 2016 Planner HERE. Once you’ve made your purchase, please email me at (lamisha@lifeoncedreamt.com) and I will confirm the purchase and send you the link to join the party. Easy-Peasy!

If you want one of the physical planners you must purchase yours SOON. I got word that the business planners are just about sold out and once they are gone, they are gone! You can also purchase one of the digital planners if you prefer and have access to send one to a friend! What a great gift to give. 🙂

2016 here we come!!!

6 Beliefs You Need To Release Right NOW

I’m on a bit of a mindset rampage right now and beliefs are coming up BIG time in my 1:1 work right now. How you think and feel about life and yourself is everything when it comes to living a happy life and these are some of the biggest most hairy, scary beliefs that I find are holding folks back.

It has to be hard. Says WHO? Says us apparently. There are so many sayings that convince us that if we don’t work hard, try hard, or trudge through the tough stuff it’s not worth it, but I have seen a better way in action. The easy way. The way that feels magical and wondrous and so much fun! It only has to be hard if you THINK it has to be. That includes money, finding a career you love or finding your soulmate. Decide right now that you deserve ease and grace and flow and I promise you are one step closer to it.

I’m not enough. We all have these stories in our minds about how we aren’t pretty enough, smart enough, tall enough, rich enough etc. in order to achieve the life of our dreams. But, here’s a funny thing…you are enough. You are smart, funny, pretty, intelligent and any other thing you can come up with in order to ‘be’ enough. And if you don’t have all the pieces, you have the potential and capabilities of getting it so, this belief is just a bunch of BS and it’s one we all hold onto a bit. You are enough…period.

I don’t know ‘how’. This is a big one! The truth is a lot of people didn’t know HOW to do something before they figured it out. Thomas Edison and Albert Einstein didn’t know ‘how’ to do all they did, until they figured it out. The truth is you don’t have to know HOW to do it…you just have to follow the next step and trust. Sounds a bit elementary, but it’s the biggest thing I’ve learned in all of this work. Trust that you will know ‘how’ when the time is right. Always.

I’m not worthy. Another biggie I hear from my clients. So many people think they have to DO something to be worthy of their dreams. You don’t. You just have to have a desire and BOOM you are worthy of having it. Of course, thinking you aren’t worthy creates feelings of unworthiness which compound in our reality with reasons we are unworthy. Drop the story about why you aren’t worthy of living the life you desire and get on with living it already. You are alive. You are breathing. You are here now. You ARE worthy

It’s too late for me. It’s never too late to do the things you want to do or to be the person you want to be. I don’t care how old you are or how many jobs you’ve had or how many mistakes you’ve made. It’s never too late…ever. If you have a desire in your soul to create, experience or live a vision in your mind then you have the power and time to make it happen. Don’t let time be the limiting factor. None of us really know how much time we have left right? So hop to it already. What are you waiting for my dear?

It’s just not in the cards for me. So many people believe that when we are born we are given a hand of cards. Some get the really good cards like the Aces and Kings while others get 2’s and 3’s and whatever hand we are dealt is it. That’s all we get to play with. Looking at the cards they see their future. The possibilities or lack thereof and see what is limiting them in creating a life they love. But, here’s the thing. What if…you were the designer, developer and artist for your cards? What if you didn’t actually get a hand of cards, but you get to hand-craft the cards (and possibilities) in your hand with a mere thought? Good news! You do. You get to choose what is in the cards for you by the power of your focus and mind, so let go of the BS story that it’s just not meant for you. We are all cut from the same beautiful fabric and you are indeed the creator of your own reality. Isn’t it time you started acting like it?

These are just a few of the beliefs I hear over and over again in my 1:1 work and if you have similar beliefs, they are limiting your potential more than you know. Ditch them, dump them, and rebuild anew. It’s time to step into your power especially as we enter into a new year.

Interested in getting help kicking your sabotaging beliefs to the curb? Hit the button below and let’s chat.

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Why me? – Why NOT you?

September 24, 2015 by Lamisha

I shared this message with my newsletter folks this week and it was such a powerful message that I was inspired to share it (and the special offer) with you.

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There is a huge problem I am seeing lately and it’s stealing joy, spark, and the potential for dreams to come true from so many amazing women it makes me ill.

It’s an epidemic and I’m here to set the record straight.

The problem: Feeling unworthy of creating and living the life of your dreams.

Everyday I chat with women who somehow feel like they don’t measure up to the amazing visions they have in their minds about what they want their lives to be.

They make excuses about how they can’t have this or that because ‘Who am I to have the love, riches, community, joy, compassion, adventure etc. that I desire?‘

Who are you NOT to?

If there is one thing I have learned in the years I have been on this planet it is that we are here to experience life and enjoy it.

We are here to connect, serve, help, learn, love, and share our lives with others.

We are human beings for goodness sake! We have incredible senses that allow us to enjoy a multitude of experiences including food, sex, entertainment, and everything else life has to offer and yet there are far too many women denying themselves of the very dreams that keep them going because they feel unworthy.

I’ll give you that we often live in a warped reality where people think you must do something to earn your joy, but that’s a reality I’m not buying into.

I don’t believe in the idea that you have to work for 50 years in a job you hate to be able to spend a few years doing what you love.

I don’t believe that you must sacrifice your happiness now for more happiness later or that you have to work ‘hard’ for money to make a living.

I don’t believe you have to DO something in order to be worthy of the very desires that set your soul on fire.

Despite what you may have been taught by parents, teachers, society and the like, you are enough.

Let me say that again… YOU. ARE. ENOUGH.

You are worthy of your dreams simply by the air that you breathe and no I don’t particularly care about the past mistakes, mishaps, or misfortunes you’ve had because they don’t matter. What matters is your determination to move forward.

YOU get to decide what this life experience will be for you.

YOU get to decide when you take the leap and when you don’t.

And YOU get to decide if and when you are worthy to move forward and truly make a change in your life.

The truth is the only way you wouldn’t be worthy of being, having, and doing all the things you want to do in this life is simply by thinking that you are unworthy. That’s it.

Clearly this is a topic I am deeply passionate about and I know there are so many women dealing with this very issue that I want…better yet, I NEED to help.

So from now until the end of September, I am offering one-time single 60-minute sessions for $97.

These sessions are best used for one particular issue/struggle you have right now. If you need help around this idea of being ‘worthy’, a pep talk, uplifting, mindset work, need help making a decision, or you’ve been thinking of working with a coach and just want to give it a try, this is for you.

Now I don’t do this often and I’m not sure if/when I’ll do it again, so if this speaks to you then get on this before the offer goes away.

Want in? Hit the button below and grab your spot and I look forward to chatting with you soon!

Do something that scares you…

September 17, 2015 by Lamisha

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About a year ago I decided to take a leap of faith before I was entirely ready.

In September 2014 I submitted an article to the Huffington Post. To my surprise they liked my article and I became a regular blogger for their site.

(My latest article titled: 11 (More) Universal Truths that Will Change Your Life for the Better is here. Feel free to read and share it with those you think need to see it.)

The second article that I submitted got raving reviews and is still a HUGE hit on the site. A few weeks later it was such a big hit, they translated it to be published on Huffington Post Spain.

Talk about shocked!

Women from all over the world were reaching out to me after that article because they wanted my help. My words resonated deep within them and they wanted to create change in their lives.

I was in awe.

Amazed.

Humbled.

My words created a stir within so many souls and since then I’ve been writing, sharing, and creating programs from the heart to serve and inspire women like YOU.

Yesterday the sequel to the first article was published and I’m celebrating this huge moment by sharing the article with you in hopes that it inspires you to take a leap of faith of your own.

Your leap may look different than mine.

Maybe you decide to go back to school, start writing your novel, or reach out to a coach you’ve been wanting to work with.

Maybe it’s auditioning for a large (or small) role in a play or starting your own Etsy shop, or submitting your latest poems to be used on a greeting card.

Whatever it is…do it.

The truth is you may never feel 100% ready to take the leap. When I wrote the first article, I know I didn’t feel ‘ready’. I was inspired to do it and saw it as a challenge. Looking back it was exactly what I needed to do to continue to grow and evolve and I’m so glad I took the risk.

Today I want YOU to take your own risk. Don’t think about it, just do it.

Then let it go…

The truth is you are never truly ‘ready’ to do the big things, but when you feel it in your heart…you just know you HAVE to take the leap.

If you are looking for some inspiration and support for your very own leap, I’d love to chat with you. If you are READY to kick the doubts, fears, and other BS to the curb and make magic happen in your life & you are ready to invest in YOU. Schedule your FREE 30-Minute Consultation to chat with me about how I can help you make that happen.

Grow, Evolve, Become Guest Expert-Tracey McFadden

September 11, 2015 by Lamisha

Happy Friday Friends!

I am so excited to share our next guest expert for the Grow, Evolve, Become

Membership group, Tracey McFadden!

Tracey McFadden is a fabulous spiritual teacher and epic magic-maker who is sharing her gifts with our group starting next week. If you want to know anything about using Reiki, crystals, moon ceremonies, mantras, or are interested in oracle readings and spiritual support she is your lady!

I had the honor of chatting with Tracey a few months back and I can’t tell you how talented she is in all things spiritual. Her intuition is incredibly powerful and she is so tuned into Source and the power of the Universe that her readings are sure to knock your socks off!

She’s also got some new offers right now that YOU get first dibs on and not only that, but if you sign up for the Grow, Evolve, Become-Membership group now, you can experience her Soul Fire Energy Session which is a mixture of Reiki and communication with guides and angels about your goals and dreams. The focus is on healing, getting rid of blocks, activating the chakras, clearing negative energy from the aura, raising the energetic vibration and a gift from source. It’s going to be amazing!

If you join now, you get all this plus all of the amazing support, free coaching, tips, and tools we have covered in the last two months for $47/month (which you can cancel at any time).

And as if that isn’t enough, with Mercury Retrograde coming (again) Tracey has so graciously offered her Mercury Retrograde Survival Kit that you can sign up to receive for FREE here.

I can’t say enough about how awesome Tracey is, but really the best way to know is to experience her magic for yourself and whether you do so by signing up for the Grow, Evolve, Become Membership group or sign up to work with her 1:1 I highly recommend you check her out!

Thank you for sharing your magic with us Tracey! I can’t wait to experience your Soul Fire Energy Session next week. <3

Why are you settling??? It’s time to break FREE.

September 2, 2015 by Lamisha

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***Before I get into today’s post, I want to invite you to check out my latest article that has been a huge hit over at The Huffington Post titled : 6 Ways to Find Your Passion & Live Your Purpose. ***

Now for today’s post.

I’ve noticed something over the last few years and it’s really getting under my skin. In fact, it has become so prevalent and obvious in the last few months I want to set the record straight

Somehow, we have become a culture that believes that while you can have a mostly awesome life, you can’t have everything you want no matter how how hard you try.

There are many people who have come to accept that if you have a fabulous career you love, your relationships have to suck.

OR If you have an amazing relationship, you can’t have all the riches your heart desires.

OR If you have all the money you desire, you might have to enjoy it all alone. (The list goes on. )

It’s as if they believe they are undeserving of having it all and living the life of their dreams is some myth that only happens in fairy tales.

Well I call bullshit.

Who are you not to have it all?

Who are you not to have the love, the riches, the joy, the career, the family, the fame, and anything else your heart desires?

That is what life is all about. Living, loving, sharing, expanding, and experiencing all that life has to offer.

Do you know what happens when you believe that you can’t have it all?

You settle.

You settle for the parts of your life that aren’t working because you believe that if most of your life is going well, who are you to complain?

But I’m here to tell you this; You don’t have to settle and you certainly don’t have to accept that because 80% of your life IS working that the remaining 20% has to remain a struggle.

Now, I’ll be honest and say that I USED to think that way.

I thought that if my business was booming and money was flowing that my relationship had to take a fall. Or if things were really amazing in my love life, then my business and income had to tank.

And you know what happened? I manifested those very things.

When things were running smoothly in my relationship and in life in general, I somehow sabotaged things in my career. And when I had a really amazing month in my business, I’d start an argument with my partner.

It as as if I just couldn’t handle all the good at once and I had to have something to worry about.

It took a few years of learning, growing, and lots of life lessons to get to this point, but now I see it and can make changes in my mindset and in my beliefs when I start feeling myself settling.

The truth is, you CAN work through the BS that is holding you back no matter how long you’ve struggled with it…but it’s difficult to do alone.

Lucky for you, this is my specialty and is the EXACT reason I set up the 30-Day Break Free From Stuck program.

If you feel:

Like you are settling in your career, relationship, or life in general
STUCK in one area of your life that just isn’t working for you
Like you’ve done all you can and still can’t make that last 20% of your life work for you

It’s time we had a chat. I am a firm believer in reaching out and asking for help and I’ve seen amazing miracles happen when I’ve done that myself.

If you are ready to break free and make magic happen in your life once and for all, schedule a free 30-Minute Consultation to chat about what’s going on.