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The Formula is Simple…

February 3, 2015 by Lamisha

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I have this very simple, yet extremely effective way of finding out what you are meant to do AND allowing that to lead you to the life of your dreams.

Are you ready for it?

The formula is simple…Do what you love.

This idea isn’t new at all and there are tons of professionals out there telling you to do the very same thing.

So why are there so many people NOT doing what they love?

The simple answer is that they don’t think they can.

They think that if you do what you love you are being lazy or you can’t make money and support a family doing what you love.  But, I am making it my life’s mission to show each and every client I work with that it not only IS possible, but it is also NECESSARY.

We are not given this amazing life to work crazy hours doing things we hate.  We aren’t meant to struggle and worry about getting up and going to a J-O-B we despise.

The fact of the matter is we all have gifts to share with the world and they are incidentally connected and directly related to the very thing you love doing.

This isn’t rocket science…the formula is just that simple.

Identify what you love to do…and go do it.

No excuses. No worries.  No wondering how you will make it happen.  Like Nike said…Just do it!

I have 100% faith in every single person that I chat with about what they want to do with their lives, sometimes more than they have faith in themselves.

The mere fact that you have a dream means it’s possible…it’s the law of the Universe.  My mom always used to say “Where there’s a will, there’s a way.” and I fully believe that.

If you want to live the happy, fulfilling, amazing, life of your dreams…do it.  It’s 100% possible and once you make the decision to make it happen, it becomes 100% probable.

I’m inviting you to .  We might be well on our way into 2015, but there is still time to make your year more amazing than you ever thought possible and I want to help you with that.

I am booking my calendar with FREE 30-Minute Consultations to help YOU make your dreams come true, because I believe in you, even when you don’t quite believe in yourself.  It’s time to turn those glorious dreams into reality.  The question is are you ready?

Filed Under: abundance, Authenticity, Coaching, Inspiration, Joy, Life, Life purpose Tagged With: coaching, dreams, formula, gifts, happy life, LOA, love what you do, offer

Ho-Hum Life to One That Makes You Scream…Hell Yeah!

November 14, 2014 by Lamisha

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Happy Friday lovely Dreamers!

I just wanted to remind you about an awesome call that I have put together for Tuesday November 18th at 8pm EST.  If you have been feeling like life is a bit ‘ho-hum’ and you are starting to wonder where all the fun went, this call is for you.

If you have been here awhile you know that I believe life is meant to be enjoyed not at some arbitrary point in the future, but right now. So, I wanted to put together a call to help you do more of what you love..now!

During this call we are going to chat about:

  • How I define a “Ho-Hum” life.
  • What’s holding you back from doing what you love.
  • What you can do to start living a life that makes you scream “Hell Yeah!”

And I am going to open up some spots for questions at the end to give you some quick, on the spot coaching, for free!

So if your life could use a bit more “Hell Yeah” sign up here to receive all the call details and the recording.  Light, bright, and fun to help you do more of what you love.

 

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P.S. I also wanted to remind you about a fabulous Facebook Group that is just taking off with some wonderful inspiring women in it called Love Your Life Tribe.  This group is for you if you want to share ideas, find inspiration, connect with like-minded souls, and get occasional free coaching from yours truly.  We are growing and would absolutely love for you to join us!

Filed Under: Coaching, Inspiration, Intention, Life purpose, Tips Tagged With: be happy, do what you love, Facebook, Facebook group, Free call, life

Your Dream Life In 3 Simple Steps

September 29, 2014 by Lamisha

photo credit: "The Wanderer's Eye Photography" via photopin cc
photo credit: “The Wanderer’s Eye Photography” via photopin cc

Your dream life is a mere 3 steps away…

Sound too good to be true?

It’s not.

Take a moment and evaluate your life right now.  Would you say you are living the life of your dreams or do you feel stuck?

Maybe you are like a lot of people and have the dream floating around in your head as an ‘if only’ thought.

But I’m here to tell you it doesn’t have to be that way.  It can be your reality right now.

Here’s how.

Step 1:  Know what you want.  Do you know what your dream life looks like for you?  Have you taken the time to get clear on what you truly want out of life? I’m not talking about what seems realistic or logical.  I’m talking about what you really want.  What gets you excited about life? What lights your fire? What is it that you want out of life?  Is it freedom? A career you are passionate about? Family time? Travel? Writing? What is your dream? Identify that and the rest is easy.

Step 2: Clear the junk.  To live the life of your dreams you have to know without a shadow of a doubt it is possible.  Any thought or belief that contradicts that fact must be cleared.  Any block or barrier in your thoughts about your worthiness or value to live the life you deserve, must be released and getting help identifying your blind spot is more valuable than you know.

Step 3: Listen with your heart and take inspired action. There is no doubt you have to take action to move along your path, but the key is allowing your intuition and inspiration to guide you.  This isn’t about setting the most logical plan of action.  This is about getting out of your head and into your heart and allowing that to be your guide which isn’t always easy.  Following the logical steps or trying to outline your entire journey will result in the blood, sweat, and tears kind of hard work we have been taught.  But the heart path feels effortless and almost too easy.  It’s fun, inspiring, and will lead to more expansion and growth than you have ever known.

Here’s my challenge to you today.  Look at the steps and see where you are, but better yet, what you are going to do about it.

If you aren’t living the life of your dreams it is likely because you are stuck in one of the 3 steps and it really doesn’t matter where you are stuck as much as much as it matters what you are going to do about it.

Don’t know what you want? I can help.

Got some junk to clear? I can help.

Need to learn the inspired way? I can help with that too.

If you are ready to drop the excuses so you can live the amazing life you were made for, do yourself a favor and invest in yourself.

So? What are you going to do?

I have a few spots left in my 3-Month Program and in my Blind Spot Discovery Sessions so if you want in, now is the time!

Not sure you are ready to take the leap? Schedule a 30-Minute Consultation to find out.

Filed Under: abundance, Coaching, Goals, Happiness, Inspiration, Joy, Life, Life purpose, Peace, Practices Tagged With: 3 simple steps, 3 steps, Blind Spot, Blind Spot Discovery, Blocks, clear beliefs, dream life, dreams, easy dreaming, heart, inspiration, inspired action, life of your dreams, listen to your heart, live your dreams, what you want

Worst-Case Scenarios & Why I Have No Plan ‘B’

July 9, 2014 by Lamisha

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Throughout my life I learned early on that if I could plan for the ‘worst-case scenario’ then I would be fully prepared for anything.  If something better happened, I would be delighted, but if the worst case actually occurred, well then I would have a plan of action.  Or in the least, I wouldn’t be disappointed.

It worked for a while (and by ‘worked’ I mean life went on and I didn’t question my thoughts too much).

Looking back now, I realize by planning for the worst case scenario, I actually created it.

I’ll give you an example.

Several years ago I was planning a big move for love (I’m such a romantic and lucky for me it worked out because we are now happily married).  Being the planner that I was, I didn’t want to move to a new place without a job lined up especially since I was moving 300+ miles away from home and I had no idea what the employment situation was like.

For months I searched from afar and got little to no feedback.  I was discouraged and distraught until I finally decided to move anyway.  I decided that if I couldn’t find a job right away, my worst-case scenario was that I would simply get a job at Starbucks.

I repeated those same words over and over again to my friends and family members.

“Oh it’s fine. Worst-case scenario I’ll just get a job at Starbucks.”

(You know where this is going right?)

While it wasn’t an absolutely terrible worst case situation, I manifested it exactly.

After a month or so of applying with no luck, I got a job at Starbucks.

Depending on how you look at it you can view this as an incredible manifestation.  I fully believed that if all else failed, I would just work at Starbucks…which I did for 6 months.

What’s my point?

Planning for worst-case scenarios have the power to actually create the situation you ‘planned’ for.  But do you really want to create a ‘worst case’?

I have learned from that very clear example of my manifestation abilities and no longer plan for those types of situations.

At this stage in my life and business, it means having no Plan B.

There is no ‘worst case scenario’ or alternate plan if my business doesn’t work.  It’s not even a thought in my mind because I know that by planning for it, I am giving my very specific and creative power to something I don’t want.

My plan is to succeed and have my business continue to flourish and thrive.  That’s my plan…all of it.

So, the thoughts of getting a ‘real job’ are no more because that isn’t an option.  The ONLY option is my business and you know why?  It’s because it is what I am meant to do.

Sure it’s risky.  It’s scary at times. It’s a bit outside the box. Hell, it’s unpredictable more often than not and I am still learning a ton about myself and my business as I go.

BUT

It’s also freeing, fantastic, and the best thing I have ever done…aside from moving for love.  Every day I wake up with a purpose.  I love my work. I love my clients. And I love the freedom that this journey provides for me.

Yep, this is my purpose and my heart-centered gift to share with the world and despite what seemingly difficult roadblocks I encounter, succeeding in my business is the only option. No more Plan B or worst-case scenarios for this girl.

Nope, I’m putting my all into my business and by doing that there is no way I can fail.

Your Actionable Item: Today I want you to take a look back over your life to see where you might have planned for the ‘worst-case’.  Did it happen?  Are you planning for one now?  Is it something you want to create?  If not, what DO you want to create?

Do you have a Plan B for if your dreams don’t come true? I want to know your thoughts so share them in the comments below.

And if you have a heart-centered business that you are ready to bring a bit of brilliance to, I have good news for you.  My 90-Days to Biz Brilliance group coaching program is open for registration!  The program officially begins August 7th and I am so excited to finally bring this to life.  I know that your work is important to you and if it is feeling less than brilliant at the moment, it’s time for a change.  Why not get together with other amazing souls going through a similar experience to grow and transform your biz?  This is your chance! If you register by July 21st, you are also going to receive my Invest in Yourself self-study program (valued at $97) before it is even available for sale.  

I want this program to reach as many amazing biz beauties as possible so will you help me by sharing this with your network and tribe?

Filed Under: Authenticity, Awareness, Challenges, Coaching, Decisions, Inspiration, Life, Life purpose, Planning, Practices, Reflection Tagged With: alternates, business, dream, dreams, Learning, life, life coaching, plan B, planning, reflection, scenario, succeeding, success, worst case, worst-case scenario, worst-case scenarios

Recent Lessons & Major Breakthroughs

May 5, 2014 by Lamisha

Let your light shine!
Let your light shine!

Being a coach, I am not exempt from life lessons and major breakthroughs that I help my clients through and this past week has been a pretty big week for me.  Not only am I stepping more into who I really am as a business owner and coach, but also who I am as a wife, a mother, and all the other shoes I fill.  It’s both liberating and sometimes downright scary to look at all the things I am doing in my life and where I want to be.  I stand in awe as I look how far I have come and am amazed at the progress while still looking ahead to everything that I want to do.

I wanted to take a moment to share with you my recent life lessons and ‘aha’ moments that have come from my conversations with clients and my dear spiritual soul sisters who have shared their amazing gifts with me.  I hope that by reading this you are able to identify with some (if not all) of the lessons and feel your own transformation and healing begin to take place.

  • Have Fun: This is such a good reminder not just for me but for any of you wonderful business-minded souls who are working, striving, and making moves in the business world.  We are too often caught in the building phase of our empire that we forget what it’s like to truly LIVE and have FUN!  In fact, I was given the assignment to do something fun every single day and I had a hard time thinking of what I would do!  How silly is that?!  Fun is a huge piece of the happy life puzzle and it is what opens us to the magic that is in the world.  So, I ask you: What have you done for fun lately?

 

  • Recognize and Celebrate Your Own Brilliance: As a coach, I am able to immediately see the light and brilliance that my clients have.  I see it, connect with it, and reflect it back to them in ways that they can see and feel it.  It can be far more difficult for me to stand back and view myself in that same way which at times results in doubt, frustration, and dare I say fear? A wonderfully talented soul sister of mine reminded me that I don’t have to compare my talents and gifts with any one else nor do I have to place anyone on a pedestal while viewing myself as ‘below’ them on the totem pole of power and authority.  When we are stepping onto our true path, it can be far too easy to compare ourselves with those around us.  We take note of their success and all that they have conquered while tallying up our ‘successes’ that never seem to amount to much. But when we can step back from our ego and view our life, our accomplishments, and our gifts through fresh eyes, we see that comparison is not necessary.  We are all brilliant in our own way and simply knowing that is the first step to truly seeing it.  I want you to know that you are brilliant as well!  Whether you are an artist, coach, healer, yoga instructor, or you are an amazing parent, partner, animal-lover etc.  YOU are brilliant and have a light and many amazing gifts that the world needs.  See it! Embrace it! Celebrate it! 🙂

 

  • Take Risks: This one is a HUGE message I have been getting in the last few weeks but I only recognized it last week.  Most of my life I have had this internal fight inside of myself.  Logic vs Dreams, Stability vs Freedom, Comfort vs Adventure.  I haven’t ever really been the risk-taker in life and have spent much of my life taking calculated risks while worrying about the best decision to make to keep things ‘stable’.  Since I started my business I have been playing it safe too which translates to playing small.  I have put my toe in the water of uncertainty and slowly eased in when what my heart really wants to do (and what my soul is aching to do) is dive in clothes and all!  I have been in my own way and while it may not seem like that on the outside, there are many ways it is manifesting in my life.  Procrastination, timidness, fear, and more uncertainty.  But here is the flip side of all that.  I KNOW that in order for me to be wildly successful and do all the work I am truly meant to do, I must stop with the fear, stop with the calculated risks and listen to my heart again.  The same heart that told me to leap into my business.  The same heart that said, I don’t know how but I will figure it out.  The same heart that at one point told me to move over 300 miles away from my home, my friends, and my family for love.  THAT is the heart I am listening to.  So risks I shall take and I encourage you to do the same.  So what if you don’t have all your ducks in a row, some ducks may show up to the party fashionably late, but that doesn’t stop the party.  Jump! Leap! Dive in and watch what happens to your life!

 

  • Ask For Help: I don’t know if this is because I am the oldest child or if I have developed a sense of ‘I can do it all myself’ syndrome, but somewhere along the way I decided I didn’t need help.  Not only that, but even if I did, I wouldn’t ask for it. And I am not exactly talking about asking my fellow neighbors and friends for help, I’m talking asking the Universe and the Divine for assistance.  I am a firm believer that part of what makes our amazing lives so great is the amount of support we receive from other realms.  Call it Heaven, God, Goddess, Angels, the Universe, or whatever it is you believe in, but I know that we are not meant to travel along our paths alone and yet there are times I don’t ask for help. So, I am getting back to my daily connection with Spirit (both mine and the Universal Spirit of all things) through meditation and prayer to bring that wonderfully supportive energy back into my life and business.  We don’t have to do everything on our own, nor do we have to know how, who, what, when, and all the extra details that go with it.  We can simply ask and be open to receive the answer.  It’s that simple! So, what could you use a little help with that you have been doing all on your own?  Ask, and you shall receive!

I hope that my recent breakthroughs and life lessons resonate with you and open your eyes to your very own blissful breakthroughs.  The more I grow, learn, and evolve, the more I realize life is a series of lessons that further uncover our greatness, beauty, and purpose.

May you have a bit of fun, recognize your own brilliance and light, take a few risks, dream big, and ask for help from the amazing and always loving Universe today and always.  Things are changing and life is too good to stay in one place and play small.  Reach beyond your comfort zone daily and expand into every corner of your greatness and watch as your life transforms into the most amazing ride you never thought possible.

Sending you lots of love,

Lamisha

Filed Under: Authenticity, Awareness, Being, Challenges, Coaching, Decisions, Inspiration, Intention, journey, Life, Life purpose, Practices Tagged With: aha moments, ask for help, blissful breakthroughs, brilliance, business, coaching, faith, fun, joy, life coach, life lessons, my journey, risks, transformation

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