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Manifesting My Dream Life

January 9, 2015 by Lamisha

I am all about creating a life you love, because seriously if you aren’t loving your life, something needs to happen.

Life is short and there is enough mediocrity, pain, darkness, and general negativity in the world that you don’t need to look at your job, relationship, business, career, family, or anything else in your life and feel more of the same.

It’s time something changed.

Over the years the concept of what my dream life actually entailed has changed.

I’ve grown up a bit and while I’m older (only in age, definitely NOT in spirit), I have bigger more wild dreams than I ever had as a child.

At one time I simply wanted a ‘secure’ life, with a stable job, and love…lots of love (I’m a Leo after all). But as time wore on, I wanted more than that.

I craved freedom, family, love, passion, purpose, excitement, adventure, abundance, happiness, peace, community, creativity, support, inspiration…you know just a few things.

Through studying the Law of Attraction, I realized I could have it all…and I started manifesting the life of my dreams one piece at a time.

The first thing that came was love…I manifested my soul mate. I didn’t know at the time I was manifesting a soul mate per se, but I knew exactly what I wanted in a partner and shortly after writing a list of all the attributes I was looking for in a woman, I found her. Looking for love incidentally lead to a ton of adventure as I left my life at ‘home’ and moved 300+ states away…and never looked back.

A few years later, we had our son…which by a string of amazing synchronicities couldn’t have happened without clear focus and manifesting mojo for sure. (I won’t go into details, but it was a series of perfectly aligned energy.)

Not long after that, I manifested an opportunity to work from home to spend more time with my family. An opportunity that literally fell into my lap and it couldn’t have happened had I not made peace with my current position while focusing on what I was seeking, even though I had NO idea how it would happen.

9 months later, I manifested a brand-spankin’ new house (in 3 days)…in another state that we were moving too (and more adventures of course).

Then my dream career of coaching and did I mention money, connection, purpose, passion, and so much joy?

Yeah all that too…

When I write about living the life of your dreams, it isn’t some abstract idea or thought about what you might be able to achieve. I’m also not blowing smoke up your rear.

I’m 100% serious about the fact that you can be, have, or do anything you want.

Every woman I speak with has a vision and I know it’s possible…but my knowing isn’t enough. I teach you to actually utilize the amazing power you have within to create the life you’ve always wanted.

Want to sell everything off and live in a tiny house off the grid? Yes, you can do that.

Want a mansion with a staff to take care of you and your estate? Yes, you can do that too.

Want a business that provides financial freedom, joy, and passion for the rest of your days? Yep, you can have that too.

I’m not giving you the power, I’m just teaching you how to use it. You already have the power…we all do.

And that’s why I created the Magical Manifesting group program to reach more women like you who crave something more. A life that you aren’t just settling for…a life that you LOVE.

Manifesting is something we all can do..in fact you are already doing it in every action, thought, and feeling you have. It’s time to harness that power and to truly create the amazing life you’ve always wanted. This practical 6-week program does more than give you the steps to make it happen, it provides practical application so you not only know it works, but you have evidence in your own life.

Are you ready to manifest the life you’ve always wanted? Give me 6 weeks and I’ll give you everything you need to make it happen. You can check out the program HERE. If you aren’t sure about it just yet, but want to get a taste for what all this manifesting business is about, sign up to receive my FREE Video Series: 7 Secrets to Create the Life of Your Dreams. I promise you won’t be sorry you did.

Wishing you all the best…

December 24, 2014 by Lamisha

As we approach Christmas and the New Year, I have been doing lots of reflecting. Reflecting on the past year and dreaming big for the year ahead. I have lots of new posts brewing and ideas for how I want to show up in the world in the future. But before I do all that, I want you to know how grateful I am to you for supporting me through this journey. For reading my posts, commenting, sharing, and allowing me to be part of your journey. We are in this together and I am looking forward to an amazing year.

Wishing you all the best for the holidays and beyond. May you fill your heart with an amazing vision for what you want to create in 2015. I will be here supporting you every step of the way.

Big love to you all and Happy Holidays!

The World of Infinite Possibilities…

November 4, 2014 by Lamisha

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I live in a world of infinite possibilities and you do too.

You may not think you do, but I assure you for everything you want to create, be, have, or do, there are an infinite number of ways to get there. The only thing holding you back from the many paths is you.

Now, this isn’t a blame game where I tell you it’s all your fault, because honestly it’s not. We have been taught a lot of things that aren’t true and the idea that there are only a handful of ways to get from point A to point B is but one.

It’s time to learn something new.

It’s time to see the bigger picture and all the amazing ways your dreams can come true and to allow the forces of the Universe to work for you, not against you.

It’s time to break free from your monkey brain that is running 100 miles a minute in order to make things happen for you.

It’s time to accept the truth that there are an infinite number of ways your dreams can come true.

I’ll use myself as an example.

When I set out on this path to becoming a life coach, I did what any responsible and logical person would do. I googled how.

I found a ton of information on various programs, certificates, coaches, professionals, organizations, books, etc. that were sure to help me get from where I was (in a job I hated) to where I wanted to be (and incidentally where I am now). I decided that the fastest way from point A to point B would be to find a program, get certified, and start my practice.

It seemed simple enough, but I quickly learned it wasn’t.

I had some road blocks that were popping up all over the place. For 2 years I was struggling to find the right program at the right price, with the right focus and I was desperate to get on with my plan.

No matter how hard I tried to make this one way work, it didn’t. The programs were too expensive, not close enough, too long, or just plain off. And while I was given every indication that this was not the way to do it, I kept pushing. I kept trying. I kept forcing it to be that way because it had to be, right? I mean let’s be honest, google is rarely wrong.

It was the thought that there was only one way to get there that was holding me back. That’s it.

I couldn’t see another way. All I could think about was how to get the money, find the program, and get certified already.

What I ignored was my innate talent, knowledge, and expertise that I used every single day. I was using it with co-workers, friends, and family members. In fact, I even had my Masters in Psychology and still didn’t believe it was enough.

Once I was willing to see another way and entertain the idea that I hadn’t exhausted all possibilities, my eyes were open and I was ready to leap. I started my coaching practice within just a few months of this realization and have been working at it ever since.

The same goes for you.

In fact, when you take your hands off the wheel and let go of the one track mind of ‘how’ your dreams will come true, you allow the Universe to work its magic to bring you amazing opportunities you never thought possible.

And by simply brainstorming other ways you can reach your dream, you put energy out into the world that opens the door to some truly magical experiences. The things that happen as a result will blow your mind. They will seem too good to be true, but I promise they aren’t. They will be the result of you opening your mind and your heart to the infinite possibilities that lie before you.

We are only human and as such, we can only imagine a few ways our dreams can become reality and if you are like most, you are likely looking at the logical or realistic paths to what you desire.

Action Step: Today I want you to do something a little different. I want you to grab your journal or a notebook and write your big dream at the top. Below that I want you to get creative and think of all the amazing ways your dreams can come true. Try to quiet the logical mind that is sure to try to get in the way. Write them all down and then lean back a bit and watch the magic occur in your life. I promise you will be amazed.

P.S. Are you having a little trouble getting outside of your logical brain? I know it’s not always that easy for us to do, but lucky for you I am really good at brainstorming and helping clients break free from reality and dive head first into the magical ways you can create the life of your dreams. In fact, I’ve created a community on Facebook to keep you motivated and inspired so you can Love Your Life. Join us! And if you are interested in working with me one-on-one, but aren’t exactly sure what you need, feel free to schedule your 30-Minute Consultation here. I have a few spots open this week so let’s chat!

A Look Into Your Future…

October 17, 2014 by Lamisha

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Where will you be in 2015? I know it’s an odd question for the middle of October 2014, but think about it.

Imagine where you will be. What will you be doing? What doors are opening for you? What dreams are you achieving?

For you, it might look like the unveiling of your new business website or booking your very first client.

Or maybe the book you’ve always wanted to pitch is now being sent to the publishers for a final edit.

Maybe you find yourself booking your flights & accommodations for spending 6 months traveling the world.

Or you see yourself quitting that job you hate and stepping into the career of your dreams with more money, more purpose, and passion than ever before.

Maybe you just signed the lease for the brick & mortar shop of your dreams and are filling it up with all kinds of creative goodies that people will love.

Or you see yourself drawing, painting, writing, and creating amazing pieces that people are just breaking down your door to buy.

Maybe you are doing what you have always dreamed and that is spending time at home with your children while your creative business takes flight.

Or you see yourself putting the finishing touches on your home art studio and getting ready for your very first art showcase.

Maybe your dream is something else. Maybe it’s a bit smaller or much bigger than any of the things I’ve listed above, but the common denominator in all of those examples is that they are all possible. Every single detail. Anything you can imagine for your ideal life is possible.

But, you must first take the leap.

I want you to take a moment today and look at where you are. Not where you have been or what opportunities you have missed in the past. Look at where you are today.

Without the leap you will stay where you are. Where life is ‘ok’ and you settle for what you have. Your heart will push you and your desires will pull you, but without that leap, you stay exactly where you are. Dreaming of…one day, when all the pieces fit together and your dream is delivered magically to your front door.

But it doesn’t happen like that. You have to decide to take the first step. To utilize your freedom of choice to decide to stay where you are where it’s “safe” or leap out of your comfort zone and embrace the life you have always wanted.

I want you to ask yourself this question: What do I want most out of life? What is my vision for the future? Think about it. Paint the picture. Enjoy the feeling of having it already done.

And then ask yourself this: Am I ready? Am I ready to do what needs to be done? To take the leap and trust that the how will be revealed to me? Am I ready?

And if you answered “YES” then I invite you to schedule a 30-minute clarity call to find out how we can make that happen and the options that are available to you for getting started on that amazing dream of yours now. Not when the clocks strikes 12am on December 31st and we enter a new year, but right NOW.

You have the chance to move into 2015 living your dream, but you have to take the first step. I have a few coaching spots open for 2014, so if you are ready to get moving and live the freedom that the life of your dreams will bring, schedule your 30-minute clarity call below.

Investing in YOU

September 25, 2014 by Lamisha

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Do you know the difference between the people living the dream and those stuck just dreaming?

It boils down to one word: Investment

The people living the life of their dreams made a choice to invest in themselves.

The people that are stuck in dreamland didn’t.

It’s that simple.

Whether it is time, money, or energy, investing in yourself is a MUST if you are going to get from where you are to where you want to be.

So, when was the last time you invested in yourself?

Hmm…that long huh?

How’s that worked out for you? Are you living the dream or stuck in dreamland?

There are probably 100 excuses you can give me this very second as to why you haven’t invested in yourself. Maybe you think you don’t have the money, the time, or the energy to invest. Maybe you have children, a family, commitments, a day job etc. that you think restrict your resources and you just aren’t sure how you can fit something else in.

I know better. Those are just the excuses.

The truth is when you want something bad enough and you are ready to take the leap, you will find a way to make it happen.

You will carve out the time, hustle up the money, and you will be so inspired by the life you are living, energy won’t be a problem.

But it also comes down to value.

How much do you value YOU and what life can be for you?

Living the life of your dreams is possible as long as you don’t settle.

Close your eyes and imagine what you truly want out of life. Not what you think you can get or what you think is possible. What do you want?

What’s the first step you can take to invest in YOU?

Not sure?

Start by investing your time in a 30-minute consultation to chat about your vision and how I can help you make it a reality because you ARE worth it.