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Massive Message & Birthday Surprise!

August 12, 2016 by Lamisha

Dreamer, Life-Lover, Change-Maker & Fellow-Visionary,

I see you questioning your actions. Wondering if what you’re doing is “right”.

You’re lost and maybe a bit scattered. Second guessing yourself and wondering if you are even worthy of living the life you so desperately desire.

I see you.
I hear you.
I watch you playing small or in some cases not at all because “what if it doesn’t work???”

Holding back, limiting your vision, and staying safe and sound in your comfort zone while everyone else is seemingly kicking ass and taking names.

You watch, debate, step out a bit-then immediately back in because (GASP) what if you actually fail?

What if you actually succeed beyond your wild imagination and you can’t handle it all?

I see you. I know you because I WAS YOU—> and sometimes I still AM YOU.

I get scared. I let fear drive the bus and I fall victim to victim thinking!

My mindset gets scattered and I allow my OLD programming to take over because if I’m not actively working on expanding and upleveling my vision of what I want my life to be, I go back to my old normal.

More specifically…

Money dries up
I question my self worth
I feel like I have nothing to give to anyone and I should just close up shop because what’s the frickin’ point?! (<—usually happens once a month if you know what I mean.)

But worst of all….I WONDER IF I CAN ACTUALLY DO THIS.

And by “this” I simply mean all the things I’ve come here to do…empower, lead, teach, write, inspire, uplift, and change the world to be exact.

But then I REMEMBER…

I remember the thing that I see you have forgotten and that is this…

YOU are an UNLIMITED BEING and you have the ABILITY to create your reality as you wish.

Bells, whistles, bows, and nice handbags?….Done.
Partner of your dreams, amazing love, and endless chocolate?…Done.
Health, wealth, and adventures galore?…It’s YOURS.

You don’t have to worry about HOW, or WHEN or IF it’s going to happen, because when you create an unshakable mindset that flows and grows and expands your experience on a DAILY basis—> YOU CAN’T GO WRONG

When you know you are unlimited in what you can achieve and you OWN that power—> you become a force to be reckoned with and you actively create a life that is unlike anything you’ve ever imagined.

Will there be challenges?

Absolutely, and lots of lessons too, but they won’t last long because you KNOW how to harness the power of your mind to CHOOSE a different reality.

You always have a choice about what to think, how to respond, and where you place your focus. So, why not spend a bit more time working intentionally with your mindset so you accept AND expect miracles to happen for you regularly?

A few ways you can do this now:

Identify what you WANT to be your reality– Get into the knitty gritty. Be crystal clear and totally honest with yourself about what it is you want to create in your life. Imagine you had one wish that would grant your every desire…what would you ask for in this 1 wish?
Make a conscious and daily effort to embody that vision. OWN that reality like it was your job and feel what it would feel like to have it all right now. Get comfy with that process and every time your mind wanders into worry or you get yanked back into your old thinking, remind yourself that you are an unlimited being.
Unapologetically identify & clear limiting beliefs. Your beliefs are like an onion and while the process will get easier, there will likely always be new beliefs to uncover and shed. We are always growing and expanding and like Abraham Hicks says- you never get it done, so keep doing the work and get rid of the thoughts and beliefs that are keeping you playing small. YOU are meant for greatness as we all are, never forget that.

I get that you may feel lost right now and you may wonder how the hell you are supposed to imagine all the things you desire and LIVE from that place when your actual “reality” is far less than you desire.

You begin by KNOWING that what you see in your external ‘reality’ is merely a reflection of what you’ve been thinking and accepting.

Let me say that again.

What you SEE in your current reality aka your bank account, how you feel, your business, relationships, body, mind, and everything else is merely a REFLECTION of what you are THINKING & BELIEVING.

So…if you don’t like what you are seeing, then it’s time to do the INNER WORK.

The dirty work of digging up the beliefs that are keeping your current reality less than what you desire and replacing and reprogramming your mindset to one that expects all the amazing things you want to unfold in your life.

THAT’S the work and it’s where change begins.

The process is simple, but it’s not always easy to do on your own. The steps outlined above are pretty clear-cut and “simple” but I can already hear you say “Yeah, Lamisha but HOWWWWWW???”

So, today I have a little gift for you to celebrate my birthday (it’s tomorrow!) AND to celebrate 3 years being on this magical and wonderful journey in business (I can’t believe I missed it on the 1st).

From NOW through Monday August 15th, I am offering a one-time DEEP DIVE Miracle Mindset Intensive Session for anyone ready to whip their mindset into shape once and for all!

Here’s what you get:

90 Minute DEEP DIVE into all things mindset related
Customized mindset practice to help you create your new normal NOW
1 week of email support and check-ins
PLUS FREE ACCESS to the Miracle Mindset Immersion Program Self-Study Course when it’s released in September (specific date TBA)

Your Investment: $197

If you’re tired of feeling lost, dis-empowered, and frustrated with how things are going for you, this is your chance to get 1:1 support, a customized mindset practice, PLUS access to the entire Miracle Mindset Program at an incredible rate.

It doesn’t get any better than this friend!

If this is a no-brainer YES for you, hit the link below to get signed up and let’s make magic happen shall we?

I WANT ONE

Your PAST doesn’t matter…

May 18, 2016 by Lamisha

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Consider this your TRUTH BOMB for the day—>

Your ‪PAST‬ doesn’t MATTER…unless of course you wish to repeat it!

The mistakes you’ve made, relationships you’ve been in, the money mishaps, crappy careers, and horrific failures you’ve had in the past DON’T FREAKIN’ MATTER…

THOSE things are NOT you. They are merely reflections of the thoughts, beliefs, and emotions you had streaming at the time.

That’s it!

It’s like opening a book and reading one page and thinking the entire book is about what you saw on that one page…that’s now how it works folks.

UNLESS of course you WANT that!

If you want more mistakes, money mishaps, dwindling bank accounts, shitty relationships, crappy careers, then by all means keep ranting, raving, and revisiting the past and telling anyone who will listen about your story of how you’ve been STUCK for so many years. (By the way if you’ve been stuck for that long, it’s time to get some support and I have JUST the program for you. )

The ONLY thing that will get is you is back in the SAME sinking boat with more stories to tell in the future.

BUT…if you want to actual create a new reality and experience your NEW NORMAL then you MUST tell a new story or in the least focus on what you want.

Seems obvious right?

Unfortunately too many of us get stuck in the story of who were were, how we were raised and what has stopped us that we can’t actually SEE that we are in fact perpetuating the same thing over and over again.

If you want to change your ‪reality‬…both current and future…START NOW.

Consider this your action plan:

Make a list of ALL the things you LOVE right now.
THEN add to that list all the things you WANT in your life as if they have happened.
THEN go out into the world and focus on the stuff you enjoy, like, love, etc.

That is how you create ‪‎positive‬ ‪#‎change‬ folks…it’s not by focusing on the problem.

Focus on the problem = more problems.

Focus on what you want and stay in a high vibe ‪mindset‬ and emotional state =creating what you want.

For some it’s easier said than done…believe me, I know. That’s why I DO this work.

In the past I allowed myself to get so caught up in the bullshit story in my head about why it wasn’t working, what had happened to me, and pointing the finger to everyone and every thing else that I lost my power completely!

I really, truly thought life was happening TO me rather than me LIVING it and thriving. I thought this was just my luck and when asked, I’d gladly bring up all the old baggage, proof, and evidence that supported my claim.

Many years later, knowing what I know now…I was simply STUCK in the past and repeating it in my future.

Lucky for me, I didn’t wait too long before owning my power and allowing it to work FOR me instead of against me.

The truth is, we are only limited by what we think and choose to believe in our minds and if you desire a different outcome and you no longer wish to revisit, rehash, and regurgitate your past, I sincerely suggest you step up and focus on what you DO want.

You don’t have to do it alone, but if you choose to, you can totally use the action plan above.

You’re more powerful than you realize and that POWER comes from THIS moment…not rehashing your past.

P.S. If you DO want support and help moving into the right frame of mind to create massive change in your life instantly, schedule a chat with me and let’s make it happen, just hit the link below.

Schedule FREE 30-Minute Consultation

7 Ways to Cope When Life Just SUCKS

April 5, 2016 by Lamisha

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Sometimes life just sucks and no matter how much you know you ‘should’ slap on a happy face, shift your thoughts, and get into the feeling place of a great life…you’d much rather scream, rant, and complain.

I get it. Believe me I do!

Over the past few months, I’ve had my moments of zen-calm-peaceful-warrior as well as my moments (more like weeks) of everything-is-falling-apart-before-my-very-eyes-and-life-sucks.

Yep, I’m human.

And I just so happen to be a human who is a mother, wife, business owner, and I’m selling a house at the moment. (There’s more to the story, but I’ll just leave it at that.)

To put it simply, things haven’t felt exactly easy. They’ve been challenging and chaotic and to be honest…sometimes life has been rather sucky.

But, as I am beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel, I’m realizing that if I had to do it all over again, there are a few things I’d like to remember. (You know, in case things ever feel like this again. I mean it is life after all and while I’d love to be lotus-posed-zen-calm-peaceful-warrior all the time, I’m not.)

How to cope when life just SUCKS:

Feel the feels. I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again, I’m a BIG believer that emotions are generally better out than in. I’m a heart-felt, emotional person so when I’m frustrated, angry, sad, depressed, or even happy I tend to cry. It’s the overwhelm of emotion that tends to get to me and I have to let it out! So, when life sucks…feel what you feel and own it. By allowing it to flow, you let go of any resistance and things begin to look up much faster than you thought possible.

Flip the script. When shit hits the fan and life gets a bit sucky, it can be all to easy to ask “Well what’s gonna happen next?” I beg you to NEVER ask this question. When you do, life (ahem and the Universe) shows you exactly what else can happen next. A better question to ask is…’How can it get any better than this?’. Even if you are feeling a bit snarky and ask it sarcastically, the Universe WILL show you how it can and will get better.

Find the miracle. (Putting my zen-cap back on.) One of the most simple ways of shifting your mindset when things really suck is to find the miracles and magic all around you. I don’t care how small it might seem in the moment. A miracle is a miracle and it can be something as simple as finding a penny on the ground or seeing a sunset. Notice it. Write it down and keep looking for more. Eventually the miracles will multiply and life will go from being sucky to lucky. (ya see what I did there?)

Screw “reality”. I say this a lot and for some it’s a bit confusing, but let me explain. When things in life feel a bit or just down right shitty, the LAST thing you want to do is keep focusing on the very things that make you feel bad. For instance, looking at your bank balance when you know that it’s teetering around zero (or when it’s in the red) or reading the statistics about health conditions, job statistics, or whatever people deem to be ‘hard-core-facts’ about your given situation. Allowing your outer reality to set your inner vibration is a surefire way to keep attracting more of the same. Focus on the problem, you get more problems or in the least more crappy feelings that then attract equal vibration problems. You don’t need that kind of negativity in your life, so ignore reality for a bit. Shift your focus completely and go back to finding the miracles around you. I promise the sooner you do, the easier things will become.

Own the manifestation & shift it. This one hurts a bit, but it’s true. YOU are a powerful creator and as such, you have the power to manifest the best of things and the worst of things. Your thoughts, feelings, inner dialogue, beliefs, experiences etc. all feed into the overall vibration of who you are and it creates your reality. YOU manifest for yourself…not anyone else, so when life gets sucky, it’s best to own it and shift it. In fact, anytime you begin to feel a bit of negative emotion or when things get challenging check-in and see how you’ve been feeling overall. What are your dominant thoughts? Then shift them. The sooner you do, the sooner life shifts too!

Activate your mindset practice. If you don’t already have a mindset practice, now is the time to create one and use it! While it is typically best used as a daily practice, using it during times when you desperately need to shift your mindset and beliefs to something a bit more positive can be just the thing you need. Your mindset practice may include reading/writing affirmations, meditating, visualization, using EFT tapping or something else entirely, but when you use it as a daily practice AND as an anchor to raise your vibration when you need it most, it’s priceless! If you don’t already have a mindset practice, create one today!

Reach out and ask for help. Listen, you weren’t meant to live life on your own nor were you meant to solve all the problems by yourself. Sometimes reaching out to a friend, mentor, coach, or family member to vent can be just what you need to see that things really aren’t as bad as you think. You don’t have to go it alone. Reach out and ASK for help.

I want to hear from YOU! How do you cope when life gets a bit sucky? What is your go-to method for turning the corner and getting yourself back on track? Post in the comments below!

5 Reasons You Aren’t Living the Life You Truly Desire

August 26, 2015 by Lamisha

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Every single day I speak with women all over the world who are feeling just plain stuck in life. They dream of an amazing life with lots of love, abundance, beautiful experiences, and adventure only to find they have no clue how to make it happen.

When we first chat, they list all the things they’ve tried to make their dreams a reality. They’ve pushed, pulled, planned, and done everything they can think of to make their desires real, but find that something is stopping them along the way.

The thing I notice about all of these scenarios is that the reasons these amazing women aren’t living a life they absolutely love has nothing to do with action and has everything to do with things they just can’t see.

If you are in the same boat or have found yourself in a similar situation before it’s likely because of one of these 5 reasons.

You don’t believe it’s possible. We all have had some bullshit story about why what we desire isn’t possible. It might be so far outside what you’ve actually accomplished in your life that you just don’t see any way that what you desire could come to fruition and even though you dream of it becoming your reality, there is a bit of doubt about whether it can actually happen. The answer is this: Yes it can and will happen, but ONLY when you decide it’s possible.
You’re letting fear lead the way. Fear is a f–king liar and it will try to convince you more often than not that what you are attempting to do is not safe or smart. It will try and convince you of all the reasons it won’t work instead of highlighting all the magical ways it will. Fear feeds off your insecurity (see #1) and the best way to combat that is to take a step forward despite the fear and prove to yourself over and over again that it’s not as scary as you think.
You think you need to know all the steps from where you are to where you are going. As much as you would like to believe that you are 100% in control at all times and have the power to find the best possible route to your dream life, the truth is you don’t. All you need to do is take the next step and trust that the Universe is going to inspire the one after that. You only have the capacity to see 1 possible way your dreams can become reality and it’s likely not even the best way. The Universe on the other hand has so many amazing resources at its disposal and can orchestrate connections, opportunities, and chance meetings you never imagined. Let go of the how and just listen to your intuition.
You are stuck in your current reality. Your current reality is merely an indication of where your thoughts have been in the past. It in no way means that what you desire is impossible or improbable unless you decide to continually reflect on what is right in front of you instead of focusing on where you want to be. When you stop playing the victim to your current ‘reality’ you make a new reality possible and the Universe paves the way for you to make your life amazing.
You think it has to be hard and self-sabotage when things get too good. You likely were taught that everything comes with a price tag and if you want to live the life of your dreams you have to work hard. That’s a lie. Do you have to be persistent? Yes. Do you have to be willing to believe in yourself when others don’t? Yes, but that in no way means it has to be hard. When things get easy and you manifest circumstances that feel amazing with ease, you may also find yourself sabotaging the situation to shake things up a bit. Because honestly, who are we without problems to solve and challenges to overcome? Let the good things be good and the easy things be easy. I guarantee there will be other problems for you to solve, so don’t mess with the good stuff to make yourself feel more comfortable.

The truth is there are lots of reasons we aren’t always creating the life experience we want and if you are finding yourself struggling with one or more of the above, it’s time to get some support.

Reach out and schedule a FREE 30-Minute Consultation below and let’s have a chat about how I can help you clear the junk holding you back and help you step more fully into the amazing life you deserve.

Grow, Evolve, Become- Guest Expert Allison Moss

August 20, 2015 by Lamisha

I am so excited to share how our amazing Grow, Evolve, Become Membership Group is sharing, shining, and evolving. We have just had our first of many guest experts and I just had to share the scoop with you!

When I first connected with the lovely Allison Moss in my Love Your Life Tribe, I knew she ‘got’ it. Her spark and inspiration for manifesting, energy, and clearing out the things that no longer serve us was palpable and I knew she would be fantastic as an expert for our lovely tribe. Thank goodness she agreed!

After having her and her amazing knowledge in our fun-filled group for the last week, I can tell you with absolute certainty that she’s magnificent at what she does and everyone, I mean EVERYONE needs a bit of her magic in their lives. Not only did she share with us some awesome tips on clearing out the physical and emotional clutter in our lives to make room for the magnificence we are manifesting each day, but she also gave us a bit of her feng shui love bombs to help us lift the stagnant energy in our spaces.

Now, I know all about clearing out the mental and mindset clutter, but my physical space could always use an extra dose of clearing and uplifting, but Allison gave us so many awesome tips and tools to really create a space that looks and FEELS good. Simply put, she’s amazing and I’m so excited that she was our first guest expert!

Now, if you aren’t yet a member of Grow, Evolve, Become but are interested in all the amazing goodies that you can have instant access to as soon as you join, you can make that happen HERE.

When you sign up you will have instant access to:

111 Affirmations for Abundance & Success

Bonus Manifesting Money Audio

A Guided Visualization for Abundance

Belief Busting 101

Getting Clear on What you WANT

4 Steps to Bust Through Your Fear Factor

Free Abundance Audio

Monthly member’s only calls

Access to Allison’s Clutter to Clarity material

AND my latest Mini-Manifesting Toolkit loaded with bonuses

You can also connect with Allison and her awesome wisdom in a variety of ways. Check her out on Facebook, Twitter, her website, or her Facebook Tribe. You can also check out her Mastermind here.

A HUGE thank you to Allison for being our first guest expert and sharing all of your wonderful wisdom with the group!