Lamisha Serf-Walls

This is your sign…

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This week I shared something with my VIP list (which you can sign up for to receive my free video series: 7 Secrets to Manifest the Life of Your Dreams) that I am also sharing with you because I have a feeling there are a few of you that really need to read it.

If you are looking for a sign, this is it.

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18 months ago, I took the biggest leap of my entire life…into the life of my dreams.

For about 5 years prior to that moment, I knew in my heart what I was meant to do, yet I ignored the calling of my soul because…well I was afraid.

Afraid to fail.

Afraid to succeed.

Afraid that the life I was living by society’s standards was what life was about and that I would forever be sucked into the vortex of paper-pushing-soul-sucking-mediocre-work.

What I craved?

Passion. Purpose. Creativity. Joy. Bliss. Abundance. Adventure.
And the ZING that comes with doing what you love.

It took 5 long years for me to stop making the excuses that I didn’t have the money, the time, or the background to make my dream a reality and from the moment I took the leap, I knew I had made the right decision.

Looking back over the last 18 months, I’ve changed in a variety of ways.

I feel the fear and do it anyway.

I’m a risk-taker, a heart-follower, and now a life-changer, doing what I was put on this earth to do…work that lights my soul on fire!

Now, I am reaching out to women like you who may be struggling to find that passion and ZING that your soul craves.

Are you ready for a change? Ready to manifest and create the life your soul is aching for?

Before you answer that…answer this.

How will your life feel in 10, 15, 20 years if nothing changes right now?

If you cringe at the thought or feel that sick feeling in your stomach, it’s time for a change and this is your chance.

0001-23099893I currently have 2 spots left in my 90-day Breakthrough Program for February before my rates increase March 2nd. If you’ve been waiting for the right moment to move forward and make your dream life a reality, this is your chance.

I have opened my calendar to accommodate as many Free 30-Minute Consultations as possible before this offer expires and I invite you to schedule yours today.

This is your chance to make your dreams come true in spite of the fear that is trying desperately to hold you back.

Are you ready?

I’m Afraid to Tell You This…

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photo credit: Nebel via photopin (license)
photo credit: Nebel via photopin (license)

There have been many moments in the last 2 years when I’ve wanted to share something with you but have been afraid of what you might think.  I’ve held back and decided it might not be the right time or a good idea for fear of how it might change what you think of me.

But, I know I’m not doing you or myself any favors by not sharing the not so happy parts of my journey and as I was thinking over the last few months, I realized it’s time to share this with you.

I’ve been afraid to tell you about the 5-month period in 2014 when I thought I was going to have to close my business and give up on my dream.  It was something I never thought I would do, but there were moments when I didn’t think I had a choice.

Lucky for me, I did.

From May – September last year, I struggled to make my business work.  I had a handful of clients and the number was slowly dwindling down to almost nothing.  But it wasn’t just that,  I was struggling with something far worse…my identity.

I knew I wanted to coach.  I knew I was meant for this work and I knew without a shadow of a doubt that this was my path.  The problem came when I couldn’t quite figure out what I wasn’t doing ‘right’ in order to make my business thrive.

Looking back it became completely clear:  I was allowing others to be my guru instead of listening to my intuition.

In fact, it got so bad at one point, I was questioning my skills, my coaching, and my dream of helping other women make their dream a reality.

On more than one night I cried out of fear, worry, and pure disappointment that somehow my entire path was being thrown off and I had somehow missed the mark.  What was true was I had missed the mark, but it wasn’t in my path, it was by allowing someone else to throw me off it.

My heart and soul knew exactly what I needed to do, but I didn’t trust it.  I allowed certain mentors and coaches lead the way because I was so new to it all, I thought they knew everything.  And the truth is, they did…for their own path, but not for mine.

It took 5 months of desperation, fear, and distracted worry to lead me back to what I set out to do in the beginning…change lives.

It took many tearful nights and a whole lot of doubt for me to get to a space of clarity to see that yes I did know how to make things happen and I could listen to that inner voice inside that was telling me all along it would all work out.

Turns out she’s pretty smart.

Looking back on those moments, I am so glad I didn’t give up.  I’m glad that I reached out to the right mentors that didn’t tell me what to do or try to convince me to do it their way.

I found people that would support me in my vision, who believed in me, and helped me tap into that power deep inside that helped me stay the course and not give up.

Did they question me when I became too fearful to fly?

Yes, but out of love and the desire to see me soar.  But what they did for me more than anything else is remind me that above all else, I have to follow my heart-the very thing I teach all of my clients.

You see coaching isn’t about leading you in one direction or another or telling you how to do something.  It’s a co-creative journey that when done well, will lead you back to the power you have had all along to create the amazing life of your dreams.  Coaching is about clarifying your desires, uncovering your fears and other blocks, and empowering you in a way that reminds you, anything is possible.

I learned early on with the right support, you can make anything happen and it’s exactly why I do what I do.

After those scary 5 months of uncertainty, I now stand taller and more proud of my decisions because I know I am making them from the heart and honestly, there is nothing better.

0001-23099893If you have a dream that you aren’t ready to let go of and you need someone to support you along the way, I have 2 spots left in my Breakthrough program for February before my rates increase March 1st.  Now is the time to make the commitment to yourself and the dream that has been following you for years. Are you ready to take that next step? If so, I invite you to sign up for a free 30-Minute Consultation to chat about how I might be able to help you.  If I am not the right coach for you, I promise to help you find one that is.

 

 

The Truth About Living the Life of Your Dreams

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photo credit: DayDreaming via photopin (license)

When I talk about living the life of your dreams, it comes with a certain spark and twinkle about what may be.  Having a beautiful life full of amazing people, love, abundance, joy, and for me a career that I adore doing what I love.  But, something I don’t often talk about is the not so sparkly stuff…you know the ‘life’ stuff.

I may have set up a pre-conceived notion that when you finally attain the life of your dreams then life is nothing but rainbows and sunshine.  That money flows, your health is amazing, and your love life-well it’s better than ever before.  And while yes that may be part of your story, it’s not all made up of rainbows and sunshine.

The truth is…shit happens.

I was reminded of this fact just last week.

My internet was down, my modem died, my dryer wasn’t working properly, and I ended up late to a client appointment because I mis-read my schedule…all on the same day.

The old me would have pitched a fit, complained, and made an annoying situation even worse by turning it into a bad day.

The new-growing-living-and-learning-me responded differently.

I handled all of the glitches with as much ease as I could and then I took the rest of the day off.

I like to think that I am living the life of my dreams.  I am doing work I love, from home, and I have a beautiful family that I love with all my heart.  Sure I have new goals and big things I want to accomplish this year and I know I will, but for now, I’m happy.

The difference between my pre-dream life living and now is that I used to allow my outer circumstances dictate how I think and feel about everything. 

I am growing in that way because now I don’t do that nearly as often.  Sure, there are times when I forget and have a moment or two where my vision is blurred and I react as opposed to respond to life, but I am still learning.

So, why am I telling you all this?

I’m telling you because there are SO many wonderful changes that come with living the life of your dreams aside from the ‘stuff’.  Your mental shifts are worth more than the money, the house, the car, the job etc.  Your mental shifts are incidentally what help you create the life of your dreams and help you when shit happens afterward.

In addition to ‘having it all’, you will:

  • Learn to respond to life in a loving way
  • Enjoy life so much more even with the ups and downs
  • Know that when shit happens, it doesn’t last forever
  • Be the example for others to do the same

And when I think back to those very important details about living this life, I find them to be far more valuable than the ‘stuff’.

There is so much to be gained in living the life of your dreams and if you aren’t currently living a life you love, what are you willing to change?

0001-23099893I currently have 2 spots left in my Breakthrough Program for February!  This is my signature program that will not only shift your mindset, but help you create the life you’ve always wanted.  If you’ve been thinking about how to take the next step toward your dream life, this is it!

Schedule your 30-Minute Consultation today to see if we are a good fit.  I look forward to connecting with you!

 

When Things Don’t Work Out…

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Let’s be honest.

We all have expectations, goals, intentions, opportunities, insights, and a vision for how we want things to work out.

We set our hearts on a specific outcome with the painted picture in our minds of how things will all come together. Not only do we know what we want, we know exactly how we want it to happen.

Seems simple enough right?  Maybe even wise, but what happens when our exact vision doesn’t work out the way we wanted it to?

If you are like me (the old me), you might fall into a pit of despair wondering how in the world it could’ve happened and what you did wrong.

You might feel deep disappointment for what didn’t work out, all the while discounting everything that did.

You might even lose sight of the bigger picture and allow one tiny mis-step or perceived failure become the way you view your path and the world.

But here’s something to consider…

When it seems things aren’t working out, it often means something better is coming down the pike.

We can’t possibly know all the ways our dreams can come true.  Each and every day we have a very limited view of ‘how’ things can happen for us.  We look at our reality, the stuff right in front of us and find a logical path to take because we often believe we are in control.

The fact of the matter is we aren’t entirely in control.  We don’t know all the ways money can flow to us.  We don’t know all the contacts & opportunities that are in the world in any given moment so to believe we can find the BEST option on our own is a bit mis-guided.

Our job is not to figure out HOW all the time.  It’s to simply follow our intuitive guidance and to be open to all possibilities.

I’ll give you an example.

When I was working in the corporate world (in a job I hated I might add), I had this deep desire to work from home.  I had a co-worker at the time that was teaching online classes and I so desperately wanted to be able to work from home, I started applying.  I had zero interest in teaching, but the idea of working from home was so amazing, I couldn’t help but give it a try.

I applied & failed.

So, I kept looking.  I found it difficult to find a job that was happy to allow me to work from home without it being all spammy and used car salesman-like.  I got to a point where I just gave up my search altogether thinking I would never find a job I desired with the freedom I craved.

Turns out I was right.  I wasn’t going to FIND one…one was about to land in my lap with ease and grace.

About a month or two after I quit looking for the right work from home opportunity, I got a call from a previous coworker.  He had moved to another organization and they had an opening he thought I might be interested in.

I applied for it even though it was for a company located in another state…a state I had no plan on moving to.  Turns out the company was more focused on finding the right fit for the job and were willing to allow me to work from home.

THAT is what happens when you sit back and allow better things to come.  Had I been open to that option earlier on, it might have come sooner, but I am deeply grateful that it happened when it did.

You see, this manifestation stuff is amazing.  Things are ALWAYS working out for you as long as you believe it is and this isn’t just what I teach my clients, this is how I live on a daily basis.

I want to share that experience with you.  If you’re ready for a big change and want to learn how to manifest the life of your dreams, let’s chat.

Schedule a FREE 30-Minute Consultation with me below and let’s see if we are a good fit!

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Manifesting My Dream Life

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I am all about creating a life you love, because seriously if you aren’t loving your life, something needs to happen.

Life is short and there is enough mediocrity, pain, darkness, and general negativity in the world that you don’t need to look at your job, relationship, business, career, family, or anything else in your life and feel more of the same.

It’s time something changed.

Over the years the concept of what my dream life actually entailed has changed.

I’ve grown up a bit and while I’m older (only in age, definitely NOT in spirit), I have bigger more wild dreams than I ever had as a child.

At one time I simply wanted a ‘secure’ life, with a stable job, and love…lots of love (I’m a Leo after all).  But as time wore on, I wanted more than that.

I craved freedom, family, love, passion, purpose, excitement, adventure, abundance, happiness, peace, community, creativity, support, inspiration…you know just a few things.

Through studying the Law of Attraction, I realized I could have it all…and I started manifesting the life of my dreams one piece at a time.

The first thing that came was love…I manifested my soul mate.  I didn’t know at the time I was manifesting a soul mate per se, but I knew exactly what I wanted in a partner and shortly after writing a list of all the attributes I was looking for in a woman, I found her.  Looking for love incidentally lead to a ton of adventure as I left my life at ‘home’ and moved 300+ states away…and never looked back.

A few years later, we had our son…which by a string of amazing synchronicities couldn’t have happened without clear focus and manifesting mojo for sure.  (I won’t go into details, but it was a series of perfectly aligned energy.)

Not long after that, I manifested an opportunity to work from home to spend more time with my family.  An opportunity that literally fell into my lap and it couldn’t have happened had I not made peace with my current position while focusing on what I was seeking, even though I had NO idea how it would happen.

9 months later, I manifested a brand-spankin’ new house (in 3 days)…in another state that we were moving too (and more adventures of course).

Then my dream career of coaching and did I mention money, connection, purpose, passion, and so much joy?

Yeah all that too…

When I write about living the life of your dreams, it isn’t some abstract idea or thought about what you might be able to achieve.  I’m also not blowing smoke up your rear.

I’m 100% serious about the fact that you can be, have, or do anything you want.

Every woman I speak with has a vision and I know it’s possible…but my knowing isn’t enough.  I teach you to actually utilize the amazing power you have within to create the life you’ve always wanted.

Want to sell everything off and live in a tiny house off the grid? Yes, you can do that.

Want a mansion with a staff to take care of you and your estate? Yes, you can do that too.

Want a business that provides financial freedom, joy, and passion for the rest of your days? Yep, you can have that too.

I’m not giving you the power, I’m just teaching you how to use it.  You already have the power…we all do.

And that’s why I created the Magical Manifesting group program to reach more women like you who crave something more.  A life that you aren’t just settling for…a life that you LOVE.

Manifesting is something we all can do..in fact you are already doing it in every action, thought, and feeling you have.  It’s time to harness that power and to truly create the amazing life you’ve always wanted.  This practical 6-week program does more than give you the steps to make it happen, it provides practical application so you not only know it works, but you have evidence in your own life.

Are you ready to manifest the life you’ve always wanted?  Give me 6 weeks and I’ll give you everything you need to make it happen. You can check out the program HERE.  If you aren’t sure about it just yet, but want to get a taste for what all this manifesting business is about, sign up to receive my FREE Video Series: 7 Secrets to Create the Life of Your Dreams.  I promise you won’t be sorry you did.