Lamisha Serf-Walls

Feeling STUCK? You may be missing these 2 key ingredients

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If you’re NOT where you want to be in LIFE you’re likely missing 1 of 2 things…and maybe even BOTH.

There are 2 KEY ingredients to creating the life you desire and they might not be what you think.

It’s not money…

It’s definitely not luck…

It’s not who you know (though in some cases that doesn’t hurt)…

It’s MINDSET & ACTION…

In the work I do, I find that MOST of the women I work with are missing one of the two and there are quite I few who are missing BOTH.

MINDSET—>

If you can’t fathom your life being any better than it currently is…how can you think it will ever change?

If you can’t see your dreams coming true in the best possible way, how in the world are they supposed to?

Not sure it’s ok, acceptable, and you are worthy of living the life you desire?

Then how the hell are you going to ever make it happen?

You HAVE to be in ALIGNMENT mentally with your vision. You have to BELIEVE..TRUST…HAVE FAITH..and keep going!

And you know what trips most people up beyond anything else—->the HOW.

If you struggle with this remember, that’s not your job.

Your job is to CHOOSE your dreams, your new reality and your new normal and step into your reality daily through your mindset practice and when you do that you are half-way there.

You don’t need a map or a blueprint or a step-by-step outline of what you need to do.  The truth is, that would limit you more than you ever realize!

Get your mindset, SET for success, joy, peace, happiness, abundance, and anything you need and desire.  That is the first step!

ACTION—>

This is the OTHER part people often forget that is far more obvious but without the initial MINDSET work…seems impossible.

You don’t have to know the HOW as I said…that’s not your job.

But you DO have to take INSPIRED ACTION toward your vision and TRUST it. Entirely.

Staying paralyzed because you’re afraid you might not make it or maybe you will.

 

Maybe you will fail or maybe you will succeed beyond your wildest imagination and the thought absolutely terrifies you!

<—- FYI: These thoughts will NOT get you to where you are going. —>

 

Fear is going to be there anyway. Might as well make friends with it and the discomfort of expansion too.

When you step into the new reality you want to live, there will be expansion, discomfort, and stretching yourself to achieve the thing you were put here to do…YOUR PURPOSE.

That’s all there is to it and without these 2 incredible pieces of the puzzle…you won’t get anywhere.

 

So where are you on the spectrum?

Got your mindset work in order?

Taking inspired action toward your vision EVERY day?

If so, congratulations you’ve hacked the code and figured out the big ‘secret’ that has so many scratching their heads.  Also know that your success is inevitable.

 

However, if you are missing one or both of the key components above…it’s time for a great, big, massive overhaul of a change and it starts with the button below.

Now, I’ll be the first to tell you that you most certainly don’t NEED a coach to get to where you want to be in life, however if you want to get there faster, some support is definitely the way to go.

 

Hit the button below and let’s talk.

Remember it’s TIME to live the life your soul craves.

The question is…are you ready?

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Your PAST doesn’t matter…

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Consider this your TRUTH BOMB for the day—>

Your ‪PAST‬ doesn’t MATTER…unless of course you wish to repeat it!

The mistakes you’ve made, relationships you’ve been in, the money mishaps, crappy careers, and horrific failures you’ve had in the past DON’T FREAKIN’ MATTER…

THOSE things are NOT you. They are merely reflections of the thoughts, beliefs, and emotions you had streaming at the time.

That’s it!

It’s like opening a book and reading one page and thinking the entire book is about what you saw on that one page…that’s now how it works folks.

UNLESS of course you WANT that!

If you want more mistakes, money mishaps, dwindling bank accounts, shitty relationships, crappy careers, then by all means keep ranting, raving, and revisiting the past and telling anyone who will listen about your story of how you’ve been STUCK for so many years. (By the way if you’ve been stuck for that long, it’s time to get some support and I have JUST the program for you. )

The ONLY thing that will get is you is back in the SAME sinking boat with more stories to tell in the future.

BUT…if you want to actual create a new reality and experience your NEW NORMAL then you MUST tell a new story or in the least focus on what you want.

Seems obvious right?

Unfortunately too many of us get stuck in the story of who were were, how we were raised and what has stopped us that we can’t actually SEE that we are in fact perpetuating the same thing over and over again.

If you want to change your ‪reality‬…both current and future…START NOW.

Consider this your action plan:

  • Make a list of ALL the things you LOVE right now.
  • THEN add to that list all the things you WANT in your life as if they have happened.
  • THEN go out into the world and focus on the stuff you enjoy, like, love, etc.

That is how you create ‪‎positive‬ ‪#‎change‬ folks…it’s not by focusing on the problem.

Focus on the problem = more problems.

Focus on what you want and stay in a high vibe ‪mindset‬ and emotional state =creating what you want.

For some it’s easier said than done…believe me, I know.  That’s why I DO this work.

In the past I allowed myself to get so caught up in the bullshit story in my head about why it wasn’t working, what had happened to me, and pointing the finger to everyone and every thing else that I lost my power completely!

I really, truly thought life was happening TO me rather than me LIVING it and thriving.  I thought this was just my luck and when asked, I’d gladly bring up all the old baggage, proof, and evidence that supported my claim.

Many years later, knowing what I know now…I was simply STUCK in the past and repeating it in my future.

Lucky for me, I didn’t wait too long before owning my power and allowing it to work FOR me instead of against me.

The truth is, we are only limited by what we think and choose to believe in our minds and if you desire a different outcome and you no longer wish to revisit, rehash, and regurgitate your past, I sincerely suggest you step up and focus on what you DO want. 

You don’t have to do it alone, but if you choose to, you can totally use the action plan above.

You’re more powerful than you realize and that POWER comes from THIS moment…not rehashing your past.

P.S. If you DO want support and help moving into the right frame of mind to create massive change in your life instantly, schedule a chat with me and let’s make it happen, just hit the link below.

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The Conditional VS Creative Life

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If there is anything I have learned in this life it is that we have an incredible creative power to make our lives what we want, regardless of any external conditions.

I’ll be honest, though.  It took me a long time to get to that place.

For most of my life, I thought life was kind of a toss up.  You win some, you lose some and for most people, life was a jumble of the good, the bad, and the ugly.

Sure, there were people telling us we could be whatever we wanted to be, but the reality I lived in was so powerful, I’m not sure I believed it.

You can probably relate to this idea of ‘conditional living’ right?

There have probably been times when you allowed your external circumstances to dictate how you think and feel.

Bank account dipping close to zero=really crappy feelings and constant worry.

Relationship woes=feeling badly about yourself and your romantic future.

Struggling your way through a sucky job=suck it up buttercup, that’s just life.

But is that TRUE?

Do we just have to suck it up and hope for a better tomorrow or is there something we can actually do to create a better life?

The truth is, there is another way.

There is the infinite, powerful, creative way of living that changes everything.

Believe me…it changed my life.

Once I realized that *I* had control over how I think and feel and that those very thoughts and feelings had the power to shift and change my outer reality…magic happened.

I did things I never thought possible like start my business and help my clients change their lives.

I made more money.

I met my soulmate.

I bought a dream house.

Now, if you would have asked 16 year old me if this would ever be my future, I would have laughed at you because at that time, I didn’t think very highly of myself and I was living, eating, and breathing a life of lack.

I was merely trying to survive life…never mind THRIVING in life.

It’s actually kind of sad to think of, but it’s true.

My default setting was “I can’t…” and it didn’t matter what followed those words.

I didn’t think I could do anything.  I didn’t think I was worthy of love, abundance, joy, or very much really.

BUT…that all changed, when I began shifting my mindset. 

It took a few years of searching for the key to happiness before I landed in the world of personal-development and began doing some of the internal work necessary to change my life.

If ever you’ve wanted to change your life for the better, I can tell you first hand it all starts with your mindset.

We all have thoughts, beliefs, and old programming that we carry with us about ourselves, our lives, and how we interact with the world.  Our mindset powers our beliefs which powers what we expect to experience.  From there our reality is created.

But, what if with a bit of awareness, reprogramming, and a commitment to your new life, you could create instant shifts that would make you happier?

Would you be interested?

A huge portion of the work I do with my clients is based around mindset and helping them get out of the stinkin’ thinkin’ that keeps them stuck and unfulfilled and into the empowered, enlightened, life-giving space that creates miraculous shifts in their lives.

It’s also what inspired me to create a transformational Miracle Mindset Immersion program for YOU.

This is a 4 week group journey that has the potential to change your life forever.  Mindset work is something we all need, especially if you aren’t exactly where you’d like to be in your life right now.

It all begins May 2nd and I’d love for you to join us!  Early Bird pricing expires Monday April 25th at 11:59pm EST so if you are interested, get signed up asap!  Click the button below for more details!

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The Key to Your EVERY Desire is Closer than You Think…

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If I had a magic wand and I could deliver your every desire right this second, what would you ask for?

More money?  A better job?  New opportunities?

To meet your soul mate and live happily ever after?  More wishes like this?

What if I asked you WHY you wanted all of those things to begin with, what would you say?

Is it because you’d have more freedom?  More joy?

More peace of mind?  More happiness?

I’ve got some truly magical news for you.  Are you ready?

The key to ALL of those things you desire and everything you could ever want for the rest of your life is so much closer than you think.

(It’s not in my magic wand either.)

The KEY is YOU.

That’s right.  The key to unlock every single opportunity, desire, want, wish, or big dream of yours lies WITH YOU.

And more importantly the joy, happiness, freedom, and peace you are ready to experience once all of your wishes come true BEGINS and ENDS with you.

The thing is most people don’t understand that.  They don’t know how to access the key nor do they know what to do with it.

The truth is, the key appears when you…

  • Stand in your power.
  • Own your truth and live it unapologetically.
  • Give yourself permission to be brilliantly, YOU.
  • Open yourself to endless opportunities in this life.

AND…When you get rid of all the stories, beliefs, sabotaging behaviors, and blocks that keep you from being the strong, unique, and powerful soul you came into this life to BE.

Isn’t it funny how quickly we forget how powerful and magnificent we truly are?  I mean, we came from the very thing that created the world.  We are made of this incredible, universal energy that allows the world to spin, the sun to rise, and the waves to ebb and flow.

Do you think the Sun ever wonders if it’s GOOD enough, WORTHY enough, or even STRONG enough to shine bright and provide the powerful energy for all its living inhabitants?

Do you think Mother Earth ever questions her ability to go through the cycles of growth, death, and rebirth throughout the seasons?

Do you think the Ocean ever once worries about what we think of it as it does its thing?

Hell no!

All of the above simply ARE what they are.  No worries.  No fear.  No stories. No sabotage.

They are strong, powerful, beautiful, and they have a PURPOSE…as do YOU.

So why do we allow the past stories and what others think get in the way of what we are put here to do?

Why do we question ourselves in what we are capable of?

Why aren’t we JUST DOING IT already?

It’s because many of us have forgotten that we have the key to unlock incredible power, potential, and creative force that knows NO bounds and it all begins within your mind.

How you think and feel about yourself, your abilities, and the world all contribute to whether or not you use the key.

And depending on how you were raised, it’s safe to say you may not have been brought up with the proper tools to manage this incredible creative power you wield.

Let’s be honest…you want to be happy.  We all do. But the source, the fuel, the power that makes all things possible and your every desire worth creating LIES WITHIN YOU.

Your job is to…

  • Simply learn to tap into that creative power so you can BE, HAVE, & DO anything your heart desires.
  • Rid yourself of the stories, the drama, and the drudgery that creeps up when you set out to accomplish the BIG things you desire.
  • Build a belief system that KNOWS and never questions your ability to make magic happen in your life.

It’s that simple.

And contrary to popular belief, mindset work isn’t just for the entrepreneurial world, it’s for anyone who wants to stretch themselves outside their comfort zone and make their dreams come true.

Mindset work is for YOU and it will change your life…guaranteed.

So, if you don’t have a mindset practice or you don’t even know where to begin, I invite you to join me TODAY for my Miracle Mindset: Creating Your New Normal call.  It starts at 2pm EST and you can get all the details about how to join us by signing up to my VIP list.

Don’t worry if you can’t make it live for the call, it will be recorded and I’ll be sending out some awesome tools right after the call so you don’t want to miss this!

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The difference between “acting” as if and “living” as if…

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I get this question a lot especially from my followers who are into the Law of Attraction like I am.

Traditional LOA teachings talk about raising your vibrations and ‘acting’ as if your desires have manifested, but I’ve found an even better way to do it and I explain the very distinct difference in the video below.

 

If you’d like to join me for my free training Miracle Mindset: Creating Your NEW Normal that is happening next week Wed. April 20th at 2pm EST, you can get all the details regarding the call (and join me LIVE to ask your specific questions) by joining my VIP list if you haven’t already.  Hit the button below and I’ll be sending out details about the call soon!

 

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