Lamisha Serf-Walls

For when you are feeling lost in life…

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If you are feeling lost in life, this message is for you…

 

I’ve been thinking a lot about my journey that has allowed me to do the amazing work I do helping people who are feeling a bit lost in life.

Thinking back, I remembered that it wasn’t always so “great”.  In fact, there were MANY times when I thought I would never get to do any of the things I get to do daily.

There were times when I never imagined I’d have the ability and opportunity to work from home, build a thriving business, be available for my son in whatever way he needs, and still be able to contribute to my family.

Honestly, there were times when I wasn’t able to do all those things and I wondered if those dreams would ever come true.  Eventually, they did.

 

  • I remember times when I wanted to simply throw in the towel because the road was rough and all I could see was what was directly in front of me….a near empty bank account, no clients, no hope, and bills that needed to be paid.

 

  • I remember having really difficult conversations with my wife about how I just KNEW this could/would work if I had a bit more time because I could feel the desire and passion and I knew that couldn’t be wrong.

 

  • I remember wondering what the next steps were because I had literally tried everything that others were doing and none of it was working for me.

 

I was lost, scared, broke, broken, and tired.  

 

But…I had a dream, a desire, and a purpose that was much bigger than all those feelings that simply wouldn’t let me slink away and lick my wounds.  I had to keep getting up and trying again.

Was it easy? Nope.
Was it swift? Not always.
Was it worth it.  Hell YES!

Each time I got up and “tried again” I learned something new.

I learned to empower my mindset more everyday.  I learned to listen to my intuition and act on those ideas immediately.  I learned to take action after action after action and surrender when needed.  I also learned when to slow down and lean back when I was too attached to the outcome.  I learned to find my flow and always honor my truth.  I learned to ask for help and implement the help that was given.

But above and beyond all of that, I learned that everything I desire to be, have, and do is mine for the creating. 

And the same is true for you.

I know that there are many of you who feel lost, confused, and frustrated about where you are in your lives and you just want the blueprint, the map, and the guide to get you moving forward.

Some of you are feeling stuck about what you want, where to go, or how to break free from the limiting beliefs and circumstances that have haunted you for way too long.

And I get it.  I’ve been there.  But, I also know that YOU have the power to change your situation and at times that means taking what feels like a “risk”.

  • Doing something that scares you.
  • Taking action that feels right, but doesn’t necessarily “look” right.
  • Asking for support when you are usually the one giving support.
  • Investing money in yourself that to others seems “frivolous”.

No matter where you are or what you desire, you always have a choice and opportunity to make those desires a reality.

If fact, if you were looking for ONE thing to focus on at this very moment that would transform all areas of your life in amazing ways it would be to do the MINDSET WORK.

Shifting my mindset and learning mindset hacks to deal with worry, doubt, frustration, and feeling stuck has been paramount in my journey and the work I do with my clients.

It is at the core of everything we do and IT WORKS.

So, if you had one choice to make today that would move you forward on your path…get your mindset back on track. 

And if you need support in identifying what exactly is going on in that beautiful mind of yours and you want to explore what working with me is like, I invite you to schedule a free 30-minute consultation. 

 

You might also be interested in the HeadCase Program: 1:1 Coaching for Mindset Mastery that includes:

  • 7-45 minute sessions
  • Unlimited video messaging support
  • Incredible transformations in your life that you didn’t think were possible
  • FREE copy of my 21-Day Expansion Experiment Guidebook for additional support

Investment: $777 (Note: This program will soon become part of my signature offerings and the rate will be going up to $997)

The struggle doesn’t last forever, but you DO have to choose something different and you can start here. This is your chance to choose a different story.

What does your new story include?  You get to decide.

Isn’t it supposed to be EASY?

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Wait a minute, isn’t it supposed to be EASY?

Isn’t it supposed to be EASY when you are in flow and following the subtle nudges of the Universe?

Isn’t it supposed to be EASY when you are doing what you were put on this planet to do?

Isn’t it supposed to be EASY when you are in alignment with your soul purpose and mission?

My answer is an interesting one and unfortunately it’s not as cut and dry as you might think.

I have been having this very conversation with SO many clients this month and maybe it’s because of the Solar Eclipse energy, Mercury Retrograde, or any combination of the many energies unfolding at once.  But, one thing I know for sure is that MANY people have been having a rough go of it lately, myself included.

So, to answer the very convoluted question “isn’t it supposed to be easy”, I want to share the video below.

(Spoiler Alert: The answer is yes & no.) Click the video below to see what I mean.

 

 

Interested in how you can make things a bit more easy for yourself?

 

Let’s schedule a Free-30-Minute Consultation to chat. 

 

 

 

 

 

Aligned Action + Your BIG Vision

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Happy Thursday friends!

It’s been awhile since I last posted and I’m happy to be back!

Today I want to talk to you about Aligned Action + Your BIG Vision and why that is so important.

If you’re like me, you probably already know what you want in life.  You can see it pretty clearly in your mind, but when it comes to actually doing it…well that may be a different story.

You see MOST people are pretty clear on what they want, but are less clear on the action piece.

It’s time to get crystal clear on what your aligned action is and how to do it consistently!

Are your actions in alignment with your desires?

If after watching the video above you realized your actions are not in fact in alignment with your desires and you need a bit of support and accountability to help you, I want to chat with you!

For a very limited time, I am offering a 6-Week Shot Coaching Program that will give you a quick shot of coaching, mindset work, accountability, clarity, and a plan of action to continue to use beyond our work together.

What you get…

  • 3- 45 Minute Coaching Sessions to do the deep work
  • 6 Weeks of email and video messaging for support between calls
  • Unlimited daily support for accountability, questions, challenges that pop up, and anything else you need support around
  • A plan of action for moving forward beyond our work together

Your investment: $597

So, if this is something you’re interested in exploring, I encourage you to hit the link below to schedule a FREE-30 Minute Consultation so we can see if we are a good fit.  I can’t wait to chat with you!

Book a free consultation here.

Change is coming…It’s time to step up!

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Can you feel the change that’s in the air?

It’s not necessarily a new feeling, but the changes are definitely feeling much more urgent and powerful these days.

The energy of our world as we know it is shifting in a BIG way and I’m not just talking in the political arena (though how can you miss that right now?).  I’m talking in the hearts and souls of every one of us.

It’s almost as if we are simply fed-up with settling for less than what we deserve and are no longer willing to just go along with the way things have been in the past.

We desire MORE…

More love, connection, passion, healing, support, purpose and compassion.

I’m finding more and more people feeling unsettled with the way things are and who are searching for something else.  Something that at this time they can’t quite put their finger on, but who are feeling called to DO something.

Many are finding the things that used to fulfill them no longer fit the bill and they are on a quest for more.  You may be feeling it too.

Are you finding that what used to feel comfortable, now feels grossly too small for your big dreams, desires, and goals?
 
Do you find your thoughts and desires shifting away from the mundane “stuff” as you focus on something that feels so much bigger than you? 

Maybe you feel a bit scattered with all the things that are catching your attention and while you’re not quite sure what lies ahead…you’re feeling something powerful bubble up from within.

Like a volcano threatening to explode, your inner world is aching to be seen, heard, and understood so you can finally get on with the big stuff.

You might even be feeling a bit bored, frustrated, or just plain confused as to what’s going on.

Let me explain a bit.

You see…where you are right now is in the middle of a major vibration shift.  We are all going through it and are being called to BE who we truly are and to STEP UP into the powerful, purposeful, incredible beings we were created to be.

  • No more excuses, delays, or playing follow the leader.
  • No more waiting for the right time, better time or a time when we have more time.

 

The time to follow your heart is NOW.

I’m not just talking about following your heart to a better career either.  I’m talking about following your heart to do the things you’ve been wanting, needing, and desiring to do for the longest time, but have been too afraid.

It’s way past time for us to be honest with ourselves and to own that incredible power that lies within to MAKE our lives (and even bigger our WORLD) the incredible, healing, powerful, compassionate, love-filled space that we came here to build.

For some of us that means doing the deep emotional work to clear the baggage that has up to now caused us to feel like that kind of change (purpose, prosperity, leadership and showing up) was meant for other people but surely not us.

For others it means stripping away all of excuses, fears, inadequacies, and the noise of the inner gremlins in order to tune into that quiet urging deep within that has been trying to get your attention.

One thing that is true for ALL of us is this…

Expansion is inevitable.

You get to decide how you’re going to handle the coming breakthroughs.

Are you going to lean into them, ask for support when you need it, and enjoy the ride?

Or

Are you going to hold onto the discomfort of the past while the expansion takes you away kicking and screaming.

The choice is always yours.  Believe me, in the time I’ve been doing this work, I’ve experienced both and leaning in is a far better choice.

Is it challenging at times?  Yes.

But when you immerse yourself in the peace that comes from finally listening to the call of your soul, you’ll wonder why you didn’t do it sooner.

It’s like coming back home to the entire Universe that lives within you.

It’s powerful, majestic, and it feels so good!

So, let me ask you.  Have you been feeling the changes coming, but haven’t been sure what to do with them?

If you’ve been feeling sick and tired of being sick and tired of the same old cycles repeating themselves in your life then YOU my friend are ready for change. 

You probably already knew that and you’ve been feeling it deep within your soul for awhile, but the question is…what steps have you taken?

If you’re not sure what steps to take or you feel stuck in a rut (and have been for awhile) then it may be time to reach out for assistance.

I’m working on some new ways for you to work with me this summer so I can help more people get through this transformation with as much ease and support as possible.  Incidentally, I’m also doing a bit of research to find out what YOU need the most support with so I can customize programs to fit those needs.

AND if you haven’t already completed the survey to share your thoughts and enter to win a free coaching session with me, you can do that here...+ I’d love you forever!)

If support is what you need and you want to chat about how I can support you on your path forward AND (this is a big one)…you are ready to COMMIT to the process, then hit the link below and let’s get you scheduled for a chat.

I look forward to chatting with you my friend!

Schedule your FREE 30-Minute Consultation HERE

 

Top 5 limiting beliefs that may be holding you back…

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When it comes to our mind habits and limiting beliefs, there’s likely not a belief I haven’t seen or heard at this point.  In fact, there are quite a few that I hear over and over again and today I’m sharing them with you.

To be honest, many of these I’ve struggled with a lot over the years so I completely understand how difficult it can be to shift them…but it IS POSSIBLE.  I’m living proof and so are my clients.

Top 5 Limiting Beliefs (that may be holding you back)

  • I’m not enough.  This is your run of the mill belief that can stop any new venture, decision, opportunity, or potential success in its tracks.  It’s likely the one I hear the absolute most from people (many women in particular) and it runs DEEP.  The not enough-ness many times has no basis other than feeling like you aren’t good enough, smart enough, ready enough, strong enough, prepared enough, thin enough, rich enough…you name it.  It’s also the belief that keeps people playing small and ultimately paralyzed by fear of failure.
  • I’m not worthy.  This one runs a close second to the one above.  Somehow, somewhere along the lines many of us have internalized the message that we aren’t worthy of amazing things happening to us and for us.  We often believe that somehow we are ultimately flawed and thereby don’t deserve the riches, success, joy, love, excitement, adventure, ease, and flow that we desire.  And if by chance we allow a little bit of that into our lives…we feel guilty and shut that shit down, because who are WE to have all the good stuff?
  • It has to be hard.  Likely drilled into us from past generations, far too many of us struggle with the belief that anything worth doing has to be hard and if it comes easily, it’s just not worth it.  Easy feels like cheating.  Hard is where you prove to yourself just how strong, powerful, and worthy you are because isn’t that what life is all about? (Spoiler alert: No, it’s not.  Life is meant to be enjoyed.). Yes, there are times on your path that may feel difficult, but that’s not the way it always has to be.
  • It’s not meant for me. When it comes to success, love, money, and happiness, many people believe that they are somehow different from the next guy.  Sure they can have the success, adventure, and ultimately happy life, but it’s just not in the cards for me.  I’m meant to suffer.  (Wrong!) This belief causes us to believe that somehow we are so different in who we are that the miracles and magic of the world are set aside for a select few and we just aren’t a part of that crowd.
  • You can’t have it all.  This belief has been one of my biggest struggles by far.  For a long time I believed that “having it all” was a myth.  I thought that if you had the riches and success, you couldn’t have true love.  If you had a happy, humble home life, you couldn’t also have the powerful career and money.  You had to simply choose what is most important and allow that to be the “good” you allow into your life.  The truth is that is total BS.  You can have it all, the moment you nip this gnarly belief in the bud.
And let’s not even talk about the Money Beliefs we carry with us…actually, let’s talk about them for a moment!

Money is such a funny topic (not funny-haha, but funny as in weird) for people.

Whether you realize it or not, you likely are carrying some really heavy money-related junk with you from your parents, grandparents, and family.  We all have some money stuff (or had it at some point in our lives) and it has a direct effect on how we view, manage, receive, manifest, earn, and handle money today.

Here are a few common ones that you might resonate with…

  • “Money is hard to make.”
  • “Money doesn’t grow on trees.”
  • “No matter what I do, there’s never enough.”
  • “Rich people are jerks, selfish, and self-serving.”
  • “I don’t have enough.”
  • “Money isn’t important.”
  • “Money is the root of all evil.”
  • “To make a lot of money you have to sacrifice other things.”
  • “I’ll never be rich.”
Do any of these resonate for you?  (If so, I’d love to hear which ones, hit ‘reply’ and share a few that you carry around with you.)

If some of these resonate for you, I’d like you do a little experiment.  Take a look at your financial picture for a moment and notice what you see.  Are the numbers where you want them to be or do you find that you typically hover around a certain number?

Maybe you are like I was…struggling to make it from paycheck to paycheck or always feeling stress when it comes to money.  That was my reality for a very long time, until I started learning about my money mindset and changing the thoughts I was practicing within my mind.

The way you feel about money (and anything else) directly affects how money (or anything else) shows up for you in your life.

YOU have the ultimate creative power over your life when you accept that your mindset is what helped you to create where you are.  It’s nothing to be ashamed of, it’s just where you are now.  The key is deciding what you are going to do about it.

All of the beliefs I’ve listed above are things that have impacted my life and it was only when I was willing to do the work (the mindset work that is) to clear them out and began building positive habits in their place was I able to see the changes happening in my life.

Mindset work isn’t “magic”, but it sure feels that way once you begin.  You’ll ask yourself why you ever waited.

I don’t want you to wait anymore.
I don’t want you to struggle anymore.
And I certainly don’t want you to have regrets about not getting support when you needed it most.

So…if any or all of the beliefs above resonate for you then the Miracle Mindset Immersion Program is absolutely the program for you.
You’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain.

So what do you say?  Are you in? If so, hit the info below and get signed up!

Sending massive love your way!