Lamisha Serf-Walls

Feeling STUCK? You may be missing these 2 key ingredients

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If you’re NOT where you want to be in LIFE you’re likely missing 1 of 2 things…and maybe even BOTH.

There are 2 KEY ingredients to creating the life you desire and they might not be what you think.

It’s not money…

It’s definitely not luck…

It’s not who you know (though in some cases that doesn’t hurt)…

It’s MINDSET & ACTION…

In the work I do, I find that MOST of the women I work with are missing one of the two and there are quite I few who are missing BOTH.

MINDSET—>

If you can’t fathom your life being any better than it currently is…how can you think it will ever change?

If you can’t see your dreams coming true in the best possible way, how in the world are they supposed to?

Not sure it’s ok, acceptable, and you are worthy of living the life you desire?

Then how the hell are you going to ever make it happen?

You HAVE to be in ALIGNMENT mentally with your vision. You have to BELIEVE..TRUST…HAVE FAITH..and keep going!

And you know what trips most people up beyond anything else—->the HOW.

If you struggle with this remember, that’s not your job.

Your job is to CHOOSE your dreams, your new reality and your new normal and step into your reality daily through your mindset practice and when you do that you are half-way there.

You don’t need a map or a blueprint or a step-by-step outline of what you need to do.  The truth is, that would limit you more than you ever realize!

Get your mindset, SET for success, joy, peace, happiness, abundance, and anything you need and desire.  That is the first step!

ACTION—>

This is the OTHER part people often forget that is far more obvious but without the initial MINDSET work…seems impossible.

You don’t have to know the HOW as I said…that’s not your job.

But you DO have to take INSPIRED ACTION toward your vision and TRUST it. Entirely.

Staying paralyzed because you’re afraid you might not make it or maybe you will.

 

Maybe you will fail or maybe you will succeed beyond your wildest imagination and the thought absolutely terrifies you!

<—- FYI: These thoughts will NOT get you to where you are going. —>

 

Fear is going to be there anyway. Might as well make friends with it and the discomfort of expansion too.

When you step into the new reality you want to live, there will be expansion, discomfort, and stretching yourself to achieve the thing you were put here to do…YOUR PURPOSE.

That’s all there is to it and without these 2 incredible pieces of the puzzle…you won’t get anywhere.

 

So where are you on the spectrum?

Got your mindset work in order?

Taking inspired action toward your vision EVERY day?

If so, congratulations you’ve hacked the code and figured out the big ‘secret’ that has so many scratching their heads.  Also know that your success is inevitable.

 

However, if you are missing one or both of the key components above…it’s time for a great, big, massive overhaul of a change and it starts with the button below.

Now, I’ll be the first to tell you that you most certainly don’t NEED a coach to get to where you want to be in life, however if you want to get there faster, some support is definitely the way to go.

 

Hit the button below and let’s talk.

Remember it’s TIME to live the life your soul craves.

The question is…are you ready?

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Your PAST doesn’t matter…

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Consider this your TRUTH BOMB for the day—>

Your ‪PAST‬ doesn’t MATTER…unless of course you wish to repeat it!

The mistakes you’ve made, relationships you’ve been in, the money mishaps, crappy careers, and horrific failures you’ve had in the past DON’T FREAKIN’ MATTER…

THOSE things are NOT you. They are merely reflections of the thoughts, beliefs, and emotions you had streaming at the time.

That’s it!

It’s like opening a book and reading one page and thinking the entire book is about what you saw on that one page…that’s now how it works folks.

UNLESS of course you WANT that!

If you want more mistakes, money mishaps, dwindling bank accounts, shitty relationships, crappy careers, then by all means keep ranting, raving, and revisiting the past and telling anyone who will listen about your story of how you’ve been STUCK for so many years. (By the way if you’ve been stuck for that long, it’s time to get some support and I have JUST the program for you. )

The ONLY thing that will get is you is back in the SAME sinking boat with more stories to tell in the future.

BUT…if you want to actual create a new reality and experience your NEW NORMAL then you MUST tell a new story or in the least focus on what you want.

Seems obvious right?

Unfortunately too many of us get stuck in the story of who were were, how we were raised and what has stopped us that we can’t actually SEE that we are in fact perpetuating the same thing over and over again.

If you want to change your ‪reality‬…both current and future…START NOW.

Consider this your action plan:

  • Make a list of ALL the things you LOVE right now.
  • THEN add to that list all the things you WANT in your life as if they have happened.
  • THEN go out into the world and focus on the stuff you enjoy, like, love, etc.

That is how you create ‪‎positive‬ ‪#‎change‬ folks…it’s not by focusing on the problem.

Focus on the problem = more problems.

Focus on what you want and stay in a high vibe ‪mindset‬ and emotional state =creating what you want.

For some it’s easier said than done…believe me, I know.  That’s why I DO this work.

In the past I allowed myself to get so caught up in the bullshit story in my head about why it wasn’t working, what had happened to me, and pointing the finger to everyone and every thing else that I lost my power completely!

I really, truly thought life was happening TO me rather than me LIVING it and thriving.  I thought this was just my luck and when asked, I’d gladly bring up all the old baggage, proof, and evidence that supported my claim.

Many years later, knowing what I know now…I was simply STUCK in the past and repeating it in my future.

Lucky for me, I didn’t wait too long before owning my power and allowing it to work FOR me instead of against me.

The truth is, we are only limited by what we think and choose to believe in our minds and if you desire a different outcome and you no longer wish to revisit, rehash, and regurgitate your past, I sincerely suggest you step up and focus on what you DO want. 

You don’t have to do it alone, but if you choose to, you can totally use the action plan above.

You’re more powerful than you realize and that POWER comes from THIS moment…not rehashing your past.

P.S. If you DO want support and help moving into the right frame of mind to create massive change in your life instantly, schedule a chat with me and let’s make it happen, just hit the link below.

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What to do when no one believes in you…

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I am currently about half way through our Miracle Mindset Immersion program and I have to tell you how amazing it is to watch these participants rocking their mindset work like the rock stars that they are!

Today I had a participant as me an incredibly powerful question that I think we all could learn from and it got me so fired up Facebook actually kicked me off of my live stream!

The question was: What do you do when no one believes in you?

The truth is what people believe or don’t believe to be true about you has nothing to do with YOU.

It has everything to do with THEM and the fear, anger, frustration, disappointment, and any other emotion that lies within them.  What they think and feel about YOU is a direct reflection of what the belief they are capable of doing.

HOWEVER…

It is also a direct reflection of what shifts need to occur within you to get back into alignment.  The truth is if you were 100% on your mindset game and you never once were fearful or worried or wondered if XYZ would work, you wouldn’t be in the same vibration to hear that someone doesn’t believe in what you are doing.  In fact, you’d be vibrating so high that even if they did feel that way, they’d never say anything to you AND they may actually shift their vibration because yours is so strong.

So, what do you do when someone doesn’t believe in you and who should you get help from instead????

Watch my latest LIVE stream on Facebook HERE to find out.

Check it out and let me know what you think!

How bad do you want it???

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photo credit: sensitive noise / obvious 2 via photopin (license)

 

I’m going to shoot straight today and ask you flat out.

How bad do you want it?

It being…change, transformation, abundance, joy, peace, flow, love, compassion, adventure, etc.?

How bad do you want it?

 

Do you want it enough to get a little uncomfortable while you stretch outside your comfort zone?

Do you want it enough to look a the dark parts of your soul that feel a bit icky?

Do you want it enough to take BIG ACTION even when it scares the crap out of you?

Do you want it enough to NOT GIVE UP, no matter what your external circumstances tell you?

 

Well..do you?

If you said yes, then I have good news for you…you will get it.  It will happen for you and you will experience the sweet nectar that comes from standing out and taking ownership of what you desire.

If you said, “ummm, maybe”, I’ve got news for you.

It’s time to OWN it.

It’s time for you to step out and stand in your power for all that you desire and to stop pussy-footing around about what you may or may not be able to achieve.  There is no sugar-coating it friends.  When you want something and I mean REALLY want it…you keep going.

You get knocked down and you get up.  You keep writing, singing, acting, reaching, growing, evolving, living, sharing, and moving forward because you can’t not do it.

Your purpose is a part of you.  It IS you.  It’s who you are and what you were put here to do and if you aren’t owning it…I mean really owning it…what are you doing?

You have a God-given, Divinely inspired, Universally-assigned gift to be truly, magnificently, and unapologetically YOU.

Live it.  Love it.  Share it. Be it. And for the love of all things holy…OWN IT.

There is no one else like YOU and if you know anything about the state of our worldly affairs right now, you know we could use some kickass visionaries following their heart to make this world a better place.

If that is YOU…it’s time.

Your time to shine.

Your time to drop the excuses and step your game up.

And if you HAVEN’T been because you’ve been thinking all the crappy mind-mumbo-jumbo that has you playing small, it’s time for change.

Now.

Today.

Are you ready?

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Transform your life with this simple question…

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This is the amazing shift I experienced in the last week or so and it’s SO powerful I had to share it with you.

This is only ONE of the many tools I’ll be sharing in my Miracle Mindset Immersion program that begins May 2nd and I’d love for you to join us if you feel like you could use a bit of shifting in any area of your life.  Hit the button below to learn more about what the program entails.

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