If you are on my VIP list you know I’ve been thinking about fear and how it’s a f–king liar.
It’s true. And even though I know this to be true, I have still struggled with fear myself in many ways.
The fear of being seen in my business was a big one for a long time that kept me playing small.
But, my biggest fear of them all has been…lack of control.
You see, for as long as I can remember, I’ve always tried to be 2-4 steps ahead of my current circumstances. Trying to make sure all things go as planned and that I don’t end up blindsided by some crazy disappointment in life, I would work out all the outcomes in my mind and figure out how to avoid the bad ones.
Simply put I worried…a lot!
I developed general anxiety because I was always trying to stay ahead of the moment. If I was making a decision about what to do, I would try to predict the outcome so I could strategize how to cope with it in advance. Needless to say I wasn’t mindful or present in any moment. I was always worrying about the future.
When it came to goal setting and setting intentions, I would torture myself! I needed to know how it was going to work out and while I had some positive focus that it would, if I didn’t see the way, then I wasn’t convinced.
I had zero faith.
It’s taken a long time for me to get over that general anxiety and to stop worrying so much, but there are times when I can feel myself slipping back into needing to know how things are going to work out as opposed to just trusting they will.
The truth is, if we expect a specific outcome and we are open to how the outcome is manifested, there is nothing to worry about. The perceived control I have over seemingly everything in my life is a bit misunderstood.
The only things we control are our thoughts & actions which in turn create our reality.
So, if being a control freak in how your dreams come true is something you struggle with, take a step back. Take a deep breath and grab a pen and notebook.
I want you to write down all the ways your dream (or another situation) could manifest perfectly. I’m not saying these are all things you might believe at the moment, but write down all the ways it could happen. Get creative and remember that the Universe has every resource available to use and we only know a very small portion of that. To expect that our way is the only way is a bit misguided and is the best way to lead to frustration and it may even cause a delay in manifesting what we want in our lives.
Be open to more than just the way you think is ‘realistic’ or ‘probable’. The Universe doesn’t work with reality…it works with magic & miracles and I assure you as soon as you open your mind to ‘how’ it can happen and let go of the outcome a bit, more magic and miracles will find you. It’s just how it works.
If you are still struggling with manifesting your deepest desires and want to learn about how to make that happen with ease, grace, and more flow, I encourage you to check out my 7 Secrets to Manifest the Life of Your Dreams. In this free video series, I share with you my biggest secrets to manifesting. Secrets I’ve learned after many years of trying to be realistic and logical.
Magical Manifesting is a wonderful way to create the life you have always wanted…not just in cash and things that you can buy, but in experiences, time, and freedom. Manifesting the beautiful experiences and feelings you’ve always desired and inspiring others to do the same is why I do this work.
I would love for you to join us on February 1st for a journey of Magical Manifesting. This 6-week group program will give you the steps, tools, and secrets you need to create the life you have always wanted and provide you the practical experience that will infuse you with the faith you need to keep going. Space is limited, so if you are interested I highly encourage you to reserve your place now!
by Tama Kieves.
