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Question for you...When life happens & things get hard…how are you showing up? It matters way more than you know…here’s why.

What you think & how you show up when shit gets hard in life & business writes the next chapter of your story.

Do you hold the line, remember who you are & show up in that power no matter what?

Or do you shrink, shrivel & take your ball & go home while you lick your wounds (aka your ego)?

What do you do when…

–>The revenue numbers dip & it looks like your emails/phone calls go unanswered?
–>Your basement floods & you’ve got a pile of unexpected bills to deal with?
–>You don’t have the answer or solution to the problem that’s consuming your mind?
–>It looks like NOTHING is happening & you need something, anything to move right now?

Life is gonna happen regardless of who you are & how far you’ve come. And YES…you need to feel the feels that come up when it does, but you don’t have to live there.
 

The transformation you’re seeking & the future you’re creating is built on how you show up today, particularly when things feel tough. (Read that again.)

It’s EASY to be in flow when things are flowing. It’s easy to feel rich when the $$$ is flowing like water. It’s easy to feel loved, valued & adored when the object of your affection is giving you all that & more. 

But your power lies in stepping into the flow when you don’t see the $$, love, answers etc. In fact, that’s *how* they come. 

Is it complicated? No. Is it always easy to do? Also, no but it’s damn sure worth learning. Because when you do…*poof* you…get a job offer that’s $30k more than your last, run into an old friend & are engaged 6 months later, sell out your program, have your dream job fall into your lap & so much more.

Also, it doesn’t always turn out the way you desire because it often turns out better, but how YOU show up in those moments is the catalyst. 

When life happens & it feels hard these 3 things are going to help you immensely…

1. Remember who the hell you are & why you’re doing what you’re doing. This simply means go within. Tap back into the beliefs you know to be true & look at your past results. This will remind you of your power & what you’re capable of.

2. Get curious. Instead of jumping into frustration or resistance, get curious about what’s happening. How might this situation actually be working out for you? What might be some golden lesson that comes from all of this & how might it work out better than you imagined. 

3. Show up as the next-level you would. I’m talking think, feel, act & BE the next level you in this current situation. How would she respond here? What is she taking away from this? Is she getting all out of sorts with the circumstance?(Probably not, so why are you?)

At the end of the day, the “hard” seasons are when you learn the most & create epic magic if you choose to show up accordingly. Remember, you’re planting seeds for your future right here, right now so be mindful of how & what you’re planting. 

This is your SIGN…If you’re tired of riding the roller-coaster of highs & lows based on what’s happening in your life & you’re ready to tap into the steady hum of your inner power/confidence/flow then I encourage you to book your consultation & let’s get to work.

6 months with me & you’ll be wondering why you didn’t do this sooner. (Want to see the magic in action before you commit to the big program? Book your single session here.) 

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Did you know that you already have your own success formula?

This is one of my favorite exercises to do with clients & it is absolute GOLD, so I’m giving it to you to use for yourself.

You want to find YOUR success formula to bring in the cash, clients, opportunities, jobs, ideas etc.? The following questions are going to help you do just that. 

Look at the last time you had a win that felt aligned/in flow/easy & ask yourself…how did I do that?

 What was I thinking/believing in the weeks leading up to that moment that created it?

 How was I showing up to the world (aka how was I feeling) that created that?

What was I doing? What actions was I taking that created that?

 Write it all down & then do more of THAT.

Listen, if you’ve had wins in the past (and you have.) then you’ve already done the things that work for you. The key is to unpack this a bit & figure out what you were doing that felt aligned & worked for you. 

This is the literal treasure map to everything else that you want for the future & it’s an exercise I walk my clients through every time they experience a win…big or small. 

Does your “secret sauce” change? Yes it does, so asking these questions with each win helps provide clarity around how your process is evolving and how you can use it intentionally as you move forward. 

Try it & let me know how it goes.

P.S. If you feel you’re too close to your situation & you’re not really sure how to mine for this gold on your own, that’s ok. Sometimes you can’t always see what’s in front of you & having someone else move through it with you is priceless. It’s also something you & I can do in a single session while they are still available. You in?

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When lack mindset shows up in your life, it has a sneaky way of limiting what you can receive in all areas of your life. This past week I found 3 ways lack mindset has been showing up for some of my clients. 

Do any of these resonate for you?

TIME- this commonly shows up if you’re always trying to ‘save’ time or make the most of the time you have. This shows up in time off, weekends or anything in your life where you feel pressure to “make the most” of  the time you have. This also often shows up as needing to be productive all the time.

The result- You always feel crunched for time, pressured & have a hard time resting/relaxing which limits your ability to receive. Rest allows you to receive & when you always feel crunched for time, you block what’s already on the way to you.

MONEY-  Thoughts related to the “right” or “wrong” way to spend, save or invest money. Feeling pressure around every thought & choice related to money even when you have more than enough. Feeling anxious anytime you deal with money in any capacity.

The result- Always feeling like there’s never enough money no matter how much you have. Younever feel a sense of ease/flow around money & have a hard time trusting it. This creates a block for more coming in.

STUFF- If you’re keeping things “just in case” even when you haven’t seen or used it in years. Holding onto things you “might” need in the future- this goes for ideas, products, clothing & other things that you know deep down you don’t need but are afraid to release.

The result- The energy around you is stagnant & you might feel a bit overwhelmed by it all without realizing it. The holding onto things keeps your energy closed off from receiving more. (Imagine a clenched fist that is completely closed, it’s not open to receive a gift that might be on the way to you.)

If you find that you’re doing one (or more) of the above, the good news is that you can shift it & you can shift it faster than you think. The key is shifting it in your thoughts AND your energy around it.

It’s time to step out of lack entirely & lean into the abundance that is literally trying to make its way to you now. (I’m talking money, love, opportunities, checks in the mail, job opportunities & more.)

Are you ready? Book your single session here & let’s make it happen. You’ll not only walk away with a clear plan for shifting your thoughts & energy, but you’ll also receive my 21-day guidebook to continue the work after our call. 

P.S. Things shift quickly with this work, so proceed with caution because good things are coming. Grab your spot & let’s see just how good it can get. 

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Quick Mindset Reminder: The life you’re living right now is old news. It’s the result of your thoughts, beliefs you have & actions you’ve taken over the last few weeks/months. 

And the thoughts/beliefs/actions you have today…are the seeds you’re planting/cultivating for the future. 

Isn’t that fun to know? Whether you like what you see right now or not, it’s good news because it means YOU have the power to create & change what comes next. And right now is a great time to take stock of where you are in all areas of your life vs where you want to be by the end of 2023. 

Here’s a quick assignment I gave a client last week: Make a list of all areas of your life (family, finances, career, relationships, health, personal etc.) & measure how you feel that area of your life is going. You can use a scale of 1-10 (1- awful/terrible & 10-exactly what you want & better than ever). Anything that’s less than 8, there’s some work to do. 

Look at those areas & consider what you’ve been thinking/believing/doing over the last 6 months vs what you feel you would be thinking/believing/doing if you were at a 10 already. Then…go do/think/believe those things (you would be if you were already at a 10) consistently starting now. I guarantee in less time than you think (I’m talking in just a few days/weeks) you’ll start seeing shifts happening that you didn’t think were possible. 

The exercise above is absolute GOLD if you do it…so do your future self a favor & do it….today.

Now…it’s time to celebrate! To celebrate my business turning 10 & Boss Baby turning 1 (& taking her first steps this weekend -yes my momma heart is melting) I’m bringing back a handful of single sessions for the month of July. 

These are 60 minute sessions where we will dive into one area of your life you’d like to see massive movement in asap. You’ll walk away with a customized plan/assignment to implement that will create quick shifts for on the call in the days/weeks following it. I pack a lot into these call so make sure you bring a pen/paper to take notes so you don’t miss a thing. 

Also…these are not magic sessions (though they often feel like it). You will experience a shift on the call & it’s up to you to implement the plan/assignment after. 

Are you ready to plant the seeds for what’s to come in the second half of 2023? Grab your session here. 

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I don’t know who needs to hear this but…

It doesn’t need to be perfect & neither do you. It’s valuable as it is & so are you. 

Your purpose, project, proposal, program & idea is ENOUGH (and, it just keeps getting better the more you do it.)

Listen…YOU are enough. (Let that sink in.) 

All the tweaking in the world to get it “just right” is just going to keep it out of the hands of the people who need it most…now. 

Your people are looking for your brilliance right this second. It’s time to give it to them.

And really…It’s not about you.

It’s about the people you came to serve.
It’s about the world you’re here to change.
It’s about your PURPOSE…even if you feel ill-equipped or not enough sometimes.

I know…you feel uncertain, doubtful and a bit frustrated that sometimes it feels like it’s not working.

But, what if it is?

What if it’s working just the way it needs to in order for you to own the visionary you ARE?

People like you don’t change the world by shrinking & questioning themselves.
People like you, figure it out because you’re resourceful & you KNOW this is bigger than you.

It’s time to put the procrastination, perfectionism & all the overthinking you’ve been doing lately to rest starting now. 

Click the link , book your slot & let’s get you back to the badass visionary who knows what she came here to do. You’ve got BIG things to do & you know it. This your next step.