Lamisha Serf-Walls

Mindset Monday: Before you react…Consider this

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Happy Monday!

Picture this…It’s January 1st and you’ve done all the planning, creating, envisioning, and intention-setting for your year ahead and you KNOW that this is going to be YOUR year to up-level and take over the world (insert evil laugh).

You’ve done the dreaming and scheming, the visualizing and meditating and you know like you know like you know that THIS YEAR is just going to ROCK…starting on day 1 of the year.  NOTHING is going to get you down…until…something does.

Your well laid plans go awry and you get hit with what feels like a boulder right in the gut of your big dreams and see all the cards come tumbling down before your eyes.  Communications get mixed up, plans you set forth fall apart, and you crumble…at least that’s what it feels like.

You have 2 choices.  You can either REACT in a fit of fury, depression and very dramatic “WHY ME!” (and go down the rabbit hole that it brings) OR you can choose to respond to the situation and adjust your mindset according to what you want to create.

Which do you choose?

Hit the video below to find out which to choose and why. (I know it seems a bit obvious, but do me a solid and hit the link anyway.)

Does the story above sound a bit too dramatic for your liking?  Well, it is and it’s 100% TRUE.

In January that’s exactly what I went through only I didn’t make the best choice in the end.  Instead of responding to the situation, I totally (over) reacted and in turn created a 6-week cycle of doubt, fear, frustration, and found myself thinking the very dramatic thought that my business was going to end in 2017. (Insert eye roll- I’m a Leo, drama is what we do.)

Since then, I’ve been practicing the art of managing my mindset and emotions and sharing my best tips and tricks with my clients.  Let me tell you…it is LIFE-CHANGING.

When you know that YOU are in charge of creating the very experiences that unfold next based on your response, why NOT decide that regardless of how things appear, things are always working out for you?

I guarantee that is one of the most empowering and uplifting things you can do for yourself.  Give it a try and let me know how it goes!

Big love to you!

P.S. Are you interested in transforming your mindset to one that supports you in creating the very powerful vision you have for yourself?  If so, let’s chat.  I am opening 3 spots for my HeadCase Program for June at the original beta-rate of $777.  After those spots are officially filled, I won’t be taking anymore at that rate.

If you missed out on that program before, this is a 1:1 Mindset Transformation program that includes 7-45 minute coaching sessions over 7 weeks for $777 (which is roughly 1/2 off what it would normally be to work with me for that long.)

If you’re interested, simply hit the link below to get scheduled for a free consultation and include a note about the HeadCase Program in the notes section.

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The Doubt Factor: The real reason other people doubt you

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It’s not YOU, it’s THEM.

That’s the easy answer.  But let me back up a moment.

Have you ever had an experience where you share your biggest, brightest, most expansive dream with a loved one only to have them crap all over it?

What started out as a celebratory conversation turns into a self-loathing, dream-crushing, doubt-filled experience that sends you back to the “logical” drawing board for your life.

I have had this experience more times than I can count and recently I had a client share with me her experience.

Hit the link below to find out what I told her.

 

Are you ready to build a solid, unshakeable belief system and mindset within yourself?  Schedule a free 30- minute consultation below and let’s chat about how we can do that together.

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The biggest belief holding you back when life gets tough..

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Hey friends!

The other day I was in a total funk.  I couldn’t quite put my finger on what was going on, but I DID know that I didn’t like it!

 

As I sat with my feelings for what felt like forever, I did my normal routine of trying to shake this mood loose.  Unfortunately, nothing seemed to work and my mind was running wild with worry.

I found myself worrying about a particular “problem”, I’d been dealing with and after a few hours of trying desperately to shift that feeling a HUGE realization hit me like a ton of bricks.

Immediately, I jumped on a Facebook live to capture the moment and share with YOU my aha moment. Check it out below!

The biggest belief that is likely holding you back in the midst of a life struggle.

Top 5 limiting beliefs that may be holding you back…

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When it comes to our mind habits and limiting beliefs, there’s likely not a belief I haven’t seen or heard at this point.  In fact, there are quite a few that I hear over and over again and today I’m sharing them with you.

To be honest, many of these I’ve struggled with a lot over the years so I completely understand how difficult it can be to shift them…but it IS POSSIBLE.  I’m living proof and so are my clients.

Top 5 Limiting Beliefs (that may be holding you back)

  • I’m not enough.  This is your run of the mill belief that can stop any new venture, decision, opportunity, or potential success in its tracks.  It’s likely the one I hear the absolute most from people (many women in particular) and it runs DEEP.  The not enough-ness many times has no basis other than feeling like you aren’t good enough, smart enough, ready enough, strong enough, prepared enough, thin enough, rich enough…you name it.  It’s also the belief that keeps people playing small and ultimately paralyzed by fear of failure.
  • I’m not worthy.  This one runs a close second to the one above.  Somehow, somewhere along the lines many of us have internalized the message that we aren’t worthy of amazing things happening to us and for us.  We often believe that somehow we are ultimately flawed and thereby don’t deserve the riches, success, joy, love, excitement, adventure, ease, and flow that we desire.  And if by chance we allow a little bit of that into our lives…we feel guilty and shut that shit down, because who are WE to have all the good stuff?
  • It has to be hard.  Likely drilled into us from past generations, far too many of us struggle with the belief that anything worth doing has to be hard and if it comes easily, it’s just not worth it.  Easy feels like cheating.  Hard is where you prove to yourself just how strong, powerful, and worthy you are because isn’t that what life is all about? (Spoiler alert: No, it’s not.  Life is meant to be enjoyed.). Yes, there are times on your path that may feel difficult, but that’s not the way it always has to be.
  • It’s not meant for me. When it comes to success, love, money, and happiness, many people believe that they are somehow different from the next guy.  Sure they can have the success, adventure, and ultimately happy life, but it’s just not in the cards for me.  I’m meant to suffer.  (Wrong!) This belief causes us to believe that somehow we are so different in who we are that the miracles and magic of the world are set aside for a select few and we just aren’t a part of that crowd.
  • You can’t have it all.  This belief has been one of my biggest struggles by far.  For a long time I believed that “having it all” was a myth.  I thought that if you had the riches and success, you couldn’t have true love.  If you had a happy, humble home life, you couldn’t also have the powerful career and money.  You had to simply choose what is most important and allow that to be the “good” you allow into your life.  The truth is that is total BS.  You can have it all, the moment you nip this gnarly belief in the bud.
And let’s not even talk about the Money Beliefs we carry with us…actually, let’s talk about them for a moment!

Money is such a funny topic (not funny-haha, but funny as in weird) for people.

Whether you realize it or not, you likely are carrying some really heavy money-related junk with you from your parents, grandparents, and family.  We all have some money stuff (or had it at some point in our lives) and it has a direct effect on how we view, manage, receive, manifest, earn, and handle money today.

Here are a few common ones that you might resonate with…

  • “Money is hard to make.”
  • “Money doesn’t grow on trees.”
  • “No matter what I do, there’s never enough.”
  • “Rich people are jerks, selfish, and self-serving.”
  • “I don’t have enough.”
  • “Money isn’t important.”
  • “Money is the root of all evil.”
  • “To make a lot of money you have to sacrifice other things.”
  • “I’ll never be rich.”
Do any of these resonate for you?  (If so, I’d love to hear which ones, hit ‘reply’ and share a few that you carry around with you.)

If some of these resonate for you, I’d like you do a little experiment.  Take a look at your financial picture for a moment and notice what you see.  Are the numbers where you want them to be or do you find that you typically hover around a certain number?

Maybe you are like I was…struggling to make it from paycheck to paycheck or always feeling stress when it comes to money.  That was my reality for a very long time, until I started learning about my money mindset and changing the thoughts I was practicing within my mind.

The way you feel about money (and anything else) directly affects how money (or anything else) shows up for you in your life.

YOU have the ultimate creative power over your life when you accept that your mindset is what helped you to create where you are.  It’s nothing to be ashamed of, it’s just where you are now.  The key is deciding what you are going to do about it.

All of the beliefs I’ve listed above are things that have impacted my life and it was only when I was willing to do the work (the mindset work that is) to clear them out and began building positive habits in their place was I able to see the changes happening in my life.

Mindset work isn’t “magic”, but it sure feels that way once you begin.  You’ll ask yourself why you ever waited.

I don’t want you to wait anymore.
I don’t want you to struggle anymore.
And I certainly don’t want you to have regrets about not getting support when you needed it most.

So…if any or all of the beliefs above resonate for you then the Miracle Mindset Immersion Program is absolutely the program for you.
You’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain.

So what do you say?  Are you in? If so, hit the info below and get signed up!

Sending massive love your way!

Mindset Monday: 2 Beliefs To Transform Your Life for the Better

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Happy Monday Friends!!!

Today I’m bringing you another Mindset Monday episode and this one is POWERFUL as I’m sharing with you the 2 most powerful beliefs I had to adopt in order to transform my life for the better and how you can too!

Check it out below!

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2 Beliefs to Transform Y our Life for the Better

 

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