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Fun fact about your mind…

July 12, 2022 by Lamisha

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One thing your brain is really good at is that it will *always* find evidence to support what you believe.

Good, bad or indifferent. Your brain is always seeking to confirm what you think & believe in your mind. 

–> Think you can’t afford it? Your brain & bank account will show you just how right you are.

–> Believe no one will ever love or respect you? Yep, you’ll be connected with people who appear not to care about you at all & it will seem like they are multiplying!

–> Think that this, that & the other thing will *never* work out for you…you’re going to prove it time & again.

–> Believe that only *other* people get to succeed & win at life. You will find yourself on the losing end every.single.time.


BUT…the beauty of all of this is that YOU> GET>TO> CHANGE> IT.


When you believe it’s always working out for you, you see just how right you are as things come together with more ease than you ever imagined possible.

When you know that you can be, have & do whatever you choose, you prove it to yourself as you do more, create more & live more from the authentic peaceful place.

When you trust that the process can be more fun & joyful than you previously thought, you find yourself having incredible interactions & joy everywhere you go!

And if you’re wondering *how* to make these seemingly magical mind shifts that create more clarity, confidence, ease & peace as you create that big life you crave…know that it doesn’t take a huge life overhaul.


It requires only that you are willing to do the inner work…consistently.


Yes, sometimes it means healing old woulds & working through some stories you’ve held for far too long, but it doesn’t have to take a long time. 

In fact, most of the women I work with begin to see the power of these shifts within the first few sessions because they (and you) already *have* the power…you just need someone who can help you step into it more fully, consistently & completely. 

Take a look at your life currently & ask yourself if the evidence you see in front of you is where you want to be or are you ready for more? If you’re ready for MORE…the news below is for YOU. 

BIG NEWS…This is *not* a drill! 

I am filling my final 4 spots for my 1:1 program until Sept./Oct. In order to make sure I am giving everyone the time & focus they deserve, I am being extra mindful of how many 1:1 clients I have through the end of this year. So, again…if you’ve been thinking about signing up or just having the conversation to find out what this whole coaching thing is about…now is the time. In order to take advantage of the snag one of the remaining 4 spots, you *must* get on my calendar for a consultation ASAP. 

You + Me together for 4+ months of work to shift, change & transform the very thoughts that are making your life harder than it needs to be so you can finally live with more ease, confidence & joy. Want in? Get on my calendar asap & let’s do this!

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Say it with me…

June 8, 2022 by Lamisha

Say it with me friends….It’s ALWAYS working. 

This is a belief I’ve been adopting recently that is a shortened version of my fave “Things are always working out for me even & especially when it looks & feels like they aren’t.”

The thing is, life can often “look” like things aren’t working out in the details of it all. And to some, what they *see* with their eyes is the only reality & potential that exists. But hear me when I say, there is SO much more going on that we can’t quite see & there’s way more potential for it to *work* for you than you realize…IF you believe it.

Things can feel off & out of sorts but when you stop believing based on what is going on around you & you choose your beliefs first…your life shifts to match those beliefs.

In fact, by simply choosing your beliefs first everything else shifts to match it. Your mind, your energy, opportunities you find along the way & the actions you take as well.
To some…this is airy-fairy nonsense, but to the clients I’ve coached through this concept..they’ve seen & felt the changes in their own lives…it’s what happens when you get your brain on board with what you *actually* want to create in your life individually & contribute collectively.

It’s not “magic”, it just feels like it sometimes & it’s the kind of feeling you deserve to have in your life. Think about it for a moment..what if you trusted & believed that it is ALWAYS working out for you???

What if it was always working in your career, finances, business, relationships etc.?


Are you ready to see what can happen?

Your beliefs create your reality so isn’t it time to choose the ones you actually want to manifest? ⤵️ If you’re ready to tap into this kind of magic and *ensure* that the next 4 months (and beyond) are the best they can  possibly be…get on my calendar ASAP & let’s chat. 

(Trust me, you want to get started working with me sooner rather than later. Announcement coming Monday!)

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Mindset Monday: Start with this *one* belief

May 23, 2022 by Lamisha

Happy Monday Friends!

I know that sometimes the idea of doing mindset work & building new beliefs can be a bit overwhelming, but today I want to share with you just *one* belief that has the power to shift so many areas of your life quickly. I guarantee, if you simply start here things are going to start shifting quickly. 

You may not know “how” it can happen or what all the specific steps are but if you’re willing to adopt this belief, it will change your life. 

Remember, we get to choose our beliefs. We get to choose what we allow to be true in our minds & what we choose to know and believe on a regular basis. I’m not saying it always feels *easy*, but I am saying that with some practice & intention, it makes a huge difference in our lives. 

So, are you willing to believe that it is possible for you too? 


Are you willing to believe that the desires of your heart have the potential to be reality? 


If so, you are well on your way to seeing just how possible it is. You know more than you think & have more power than you realize. 

Belief work doesn’t have to be hard, but it does require a bit of intention & consistency. If that’s something you could use more of in your life, let’s chat. 

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You deserve this too…

May 14, 2022 by Lamisha

Happy Friday Friends…

I wanted to share something with you that’s been rolling around in my mind over the last few weeks. Something that I’m realizing more for myself & sharing with my clients recently. It’s something that I think you might need to hear as well. Ready? 


You deserve to be supported. 


Whether it’s in your work, home life, health arena, business or that new idea that has only ever existed in your head…you deserve support. 

Apparently we have this wild idea that we are meant to do it all alone and that if we “can” do it alone, we should do it alone. Or your thought might come across as…others are doing it alone & so I should too, but I’m really struggling with this so what’s wrong with meeee??? <—The answer is nothing. Nothing is wrong with you.

We, unfortunately live in a society that has lost the sense of seeking support, connecting, giving/receiving and building a community within and amongst one another. We see the never-ending to-do list of boxes to get checked and feel like it is our job to do the things…all of the things. And only when we do- do we get the validation and feeling of “enough-ness” that we all so desperately want.

Only we don’t. We don’t get it, feel it or receive it because it’s not something we get “out there” it’s something we create within ourselves…most often with help. 

Last week, I had a chat with my coach & I heard the ever familiar voice in my head that said “But I should be able to do this by myself! I’m a coach for goodness sake!” Then I remembered that yes, I am a coach but I can’t see my own stuff. I can only do so much & I too need the loving reminders and occasional kick in the ass to get to the level I was made for. 


And you know what…so do you. 


As the days, weeks and months tick by, I’m acutely aware of the amount of support I need, deserve & more importantly desire. I am learning to flex the muscle of receiving support (with ease) in an entirely new way & I have to tell you it’s like a breath of fresh air! This isn’t something that comes naturally for me & it’s not always comfortable, but the feeling of knowing you have someone in your corner when you need them most is the best feeling in the world. 

And you know what’s funny? Not having the support we deserve has less to do with the lack of said support and more to do with the fact that many of us don’t allow ourselves to ask for or receive it. The beauty is that it’s a pretty simple thing to fix and it starts with identifying where you want/need support.


Where in your life could you use a bit more support?


Maybe it’s with getting out of your own way in mindset & getting some accountability to do the thing you can’t stop thinking about (If so, let’s chat.)

Maybe it’s getting your health & self-care in order or getting some help at home so you can have more ease. Maybe it’s getting support with various tasks and to-do items that will save you time, energy & mental bandwidth. 

Whatever it is…you deserve support. The question is, are you open & ready to receive it?

If so, I encourage you to take the steps now to reach out and receive that support. Even if at first it is uncomfortable, I promise, your life will never be the same (in the best ways possible). 

What do you need support with right now? Comment below & let me know!

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Feeling held back? This is why…

April 25, 2022 by Lamisha

Image by Ryan McGuire from Pixabay

The truth is, I don’t know who specifically needs this, but if you’re reading these words let’s just assume this is for you. 

As I’ve been working on my book this week & chatting with clients, one thing has become crystal clear. 

The thing that is often holding you back more often than not is this…

You are not deciding to make the change, go all in and create the thing you ultimately want to create right now. 

Instead you are…

–> Waiting for the “right” time, moment & space to make it happen.
–> Analyzing the thing to death & spinning your wheels in the process.
–> Giving into fear, anxiety & worry over if it will happen & be worth it.
–> Letting your mind run wild with ‘yeah buts’ around why it can’t happen.
–> Living in the past or future tripping without ever “being” in the present.
–> Making excuses about not having the time, money or resources to commit.

At the end of the day, it just boils down to excuses that are painted as logical reasons you can’t do that thing that you say you want to do. 


I want to remind you that the thing you feel held back from at the moment, begins with a powerful decision to do the thing. 


You don’t have to know ‘how’ it’s all going to come together or even have all your mind gremlins put to rest in order to begin. 

But you do have to decide & follow it up with some action…consistently. 

And yes, sometimes that means deciding daily AND following it up with action daily. (Truth be told, it’s how my book is currently getting written.) 

Whatever that means for you, it all begins with a decision to go all in on that life (career, business, relationship, creative project, previous pipe-dream vision etc.) that you actually want to create.

If you’re willing to decide it AND willing to commit to taking consistent action & learn as you go…I promise, your desires will unfold in some of the most magical ways possible. 


So, if you’re tired of feeling held back…it’s time to DECIDE & DO the damn thing. 

Are you ready to decide????

If not, give yourself permission to let that desire go for the moment & stop beating  yourself up over it. Sometimes, a lack of decision is a decision in and of itself right? 

If you’re ready to decide & ready to get the hands on support, guidance, reminders & training to make it happen…it’s time we chat. 

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