When it comes to creating the changes you want in your life aside from taking action, it often boils down to simply getting your brain on board with your desires.

Your brain (as brilliant as it can be) is reactionary at best when left to its own devices. It’s also wildly dramatic & creative in how it convinces you that the sky is falling. It can go from zero to “Omg, I’m going to be homeless living on the street.” in the blink of an eye without any real evidence. 

But- the *best* part of it is that when you get it on board with your desires & goals, it snaps to attention & can help you create some of the most incredibly mind-blowing experiences. It helps you see the opportunities around you that you didn’t know existed & with a few intentional thoughts it can help you feel better quick, fast & in a hurry. 

The key is getting it on board with your desires intentionally & consistently.

Here’s how…

1. Notice what you’re thinking & if you don’t like how it feels…change it. Your mind is constantly creating, repeating & cycling through thought patterns faster than you realize. So when you aren’t feeling great, ask yourself…what am I thinking about XYZ? Then ask…what do I WANT to think about this XYZ & intentionally sit with that thought. Rinse, repeat.

2. Look for the evidence. Your brain looooves some good old fashion evidence to support what it’s thinking. So, when you want to think more abundant & successful thoughts, look for the evidence that you are abundant & successful NOW. Make it a game & write down all the things that provide evidence for whatever new thought you want to adopt. You will not only find tons of evidence, but the focus on that will create even more like magic!

3. Be it ’til you see it. BE that version of you who is already doing the things you are working toward. Own that identity & stop telling the same worn out story of the “hot-mess-express-who-can’t-ever-get-her-shit-together” about yourself. Where you are going that version of you doesn’t exist and in fact, you *must* own the next version of you before you ever see the results of it. Remember, the millionaire becomes a millionaire in her mind before she becomes one in her account. (Replace ‘millionaire’ with whatever other thing you wish to be & the same goes for you.)

Remember mindset is a practice. It’s a lifestyle. It’s not some fad diet you do for a couple of weeks to kick the crappy thoughts to the curb and you’re forever “cured”. (Also, you don’t need to be fixed, cured or otherwise. You are not broken. You’re human. )

The tips above are part of what I teach my clients as it helps them (and YOU) to coach yourself because you don’t need me from here until the end of time.

You have so much power & wisdom to tap into & my job is to help you access it. The results my clients get is because they are tapping into that power, intentionally & consistently.

Million $$ deals, new relationships, massive confidence, finding their passion, new careers etc. are just the beginning of what this work can do & it’s ALL possible for you too.

You can keep riding the highs & lows of your reactionary brain & just take whatever life throws at you.

You can keep mulling it over & doing more research as you try to find the key to reinventing yourself, finding your passion or starting that project.

OR you can take the short cut & hire me & let me teach you how to get your brain on board to create results that blow your mind wide open. 

Your short cut starts here with a quick chat.  I promise you won’t be sorry. 😉

PSA: If you want to change your life…you have to be all in. If you’re not all in, you’re all out. If it’s not a hell yes I’m doing that thing, it might as well be a hell no.

Wishy-washy energy nets wishy-washy results.

Go ahead and ask me how I know…(It’s because I’ve been there.)

When you’ve got wishy-washy energy about maybe, kinda, sorta, trying to do this thing to change your life- you tend to jump ship the moment things get a little rocky. And even if you don’t jump ship, your results will be lack-luster & sub-par at best.

But when you’ve decided you’re all in because this is the thing you want & you’re not only willing to do the work (even when it’s rocky), but you commit it day-after-day…that’s when things really change.

Things change because YOU show up in a completely different way for yourself & your desires. And your results??? They end up being bigger than you imagined possible.

Your energy matters more than you realize. It matters in what you say, what you do & even in the investments you make.

In my coaching work, things shift quickly because the people I work with are ALL IN when they decide to change their life & work with me. They are committed to making their desires a reality & decide they are going to get massive value out of our work together. 

I’m not the coach for people who kinda sorta want to make a change…I’m here for the people who simply *decide* they’re making a change right now & are committed to blowing their own minds with what they plan to achieve.

Those who have worked with me know, I challenge you in the best way possible & celebrate every single win with you as if it were my own. Of course, I meet you where you are while also showing you the version of you I KNOW is possible (which happens to be the version of  you that you want to see more of too.)

I’m the first person you reach out to when you’ve got the amazing…”Omg you’re never going to believe this thing happened” moments because I get it. I know your desires, challenges & all the things you are capable of doing. AND I know how to help you level up and do the thing…YOUR thing. 

Rebuilding your life after divorce…I got you.
Figuring out next steps after retirement…done.
Launching the business or other project…easy.
Identifying your passion & purpose in this world…it’s my fave.

It’s all inevitable for you when your energy is all in. 

So, do yourself a favor today & do a quick energetic inventory to see where you are when it comes to the changes you want to make in your life.

Feeling a bit wishy-washy? Own it & let that desire go for the time being. You may just find that you didn’t really want it anyway. 

Know you’re all in now? Great, book a chat & let’s begin. I promise you won’t be sorry. 😉

Recently one of my clients had a really big breakthrough & while what I’m about to say may blow your mind, I want you to know that your “big” thing can happen too.  

The big thing…

One of the things I’ve been working with this client on is a multi-million $$ opportunity. This is something she wanted to do & had been working on prior to working with me but had no idea how or if it could happen. As we worked on her mindset around this project & some other projects she had on her mind, I shared with her that this “big” thing could happen by the end of the year. She didn’t exactly believe me at the time, but she was willing to play in her imagination a bit & yesterday she shared that the opportunity popped up seemingly out of the blue!

This is HUGE…and not because it’s a potential 7-figure project, but because this is a thing she’s wanted for a long time & wasn’t sure, how or if it could happen and yet…she did that! Talk about a win!

Listen, I’m genuinely over the moon excited every single time my clients celebrate a win.

Yes, yesterday my client is celebrating multi-million $$ opportunity that we’ve been working on & that’s big, but EVERY client win is big.

–>Feeling comfortable in your own skin as you venture out on your first date in ages..big win!

–>Hitting send on an email to set up a coffee chat with someone who can potentially help with a future venture…big win!

–>Setting boundaries & making your yes mean yes, and your no mean no without guilt…big f-king win!

–>Booking your first client, launching your first product or finally finding your purpose…hello, big win!

–>Choosing not to participate in the the toxic back & forth dynamic in the name of “family”…big win.
 

These are ALL big wins in my book & I genuinely grin from ear to ear every single time I hear a client share their wins because they are all evidence of the power of this work.

I see you shaking your head thinking…

“Yeah but…Lamisha, you don’t know my story/history/failures/problem. I’ve been dealing with this my whole life!”

Yep…so have most of my clients and I DO get it…and I can help you just like I helped them.

If this work can help call in a multi-million $$ deal, you think it can’t help you do your “big” thing? It definitely can & I guarantee that it will, but YOU have to make the decision to do the damn thing.

Imagine knowing exactly what to do to overcome the doubt & mind gremlins that attack every time you think of doing your thing. Better yet, imagine what it will feel like to have your thing DONE. <—That’s the exercise I had my client do a few weeks ago & now, she’s about to LIVE it.

Feels good doesn’t it? The good news is THAT feeling is just the beginning. There’s so much more to show you 

Drop the excuses & get in here so we can start celebrating YOUR big wins (& might I suggest celebrating the hell out of the wins you’ve had this year so far?). Yep, do that too!

The moral of the story is this…it doesn’t matter how “big” it feels or whether you  know ‘how” it will happen or not. All of that is irrelevant. The question is, are you willing to believe in the possibility and potentiality of it? If so…you’re well on your way to make it happen.

Now, get out there and do your big thing friends! The world needs you too.

A few weeks ago, I said that YOU are the magic & you are. 

AND coaching is *absolute* magic too.

There’s nothing like feeling like a jumbled up hot-mess-express in your brain & walking away from a coaching call feeling free as a bird & knowing exactly what you need to do next. <—This is worth its weight in GOLD & exactly how I felt after the call with my coach yesterday.

–> Sometimes you just need to know that what you are feeling/thinking is totally normal…10 times out of 10 it probably is because you’re human.

–> Sometimes you need to know that nothing is actually wrong even if everything in your mind is telling you that the sky is falling!

–> Sometimes you need to be reminded of who the hell you are so you can get back to being your badass self already.

And of course there are times when you need someone to highlight the blindspots you can’t see & give it to you straight because you’re just too close to your own sh*t to see it.

I say all of this as a kickass coach who coaches people & a client who has a kickass coach.

Trust me when I say that your “problem” isn’t special, unique or so wildly different that you can’t be helped. (I know what your brain is telling you & I promise it’s not as unique as you might think.) <—We as coaches are well versed on your problem…trust & believe.

Coaching works when you decide it’s going to & you go all in on the work. It just works in a way that other things don’t. (No shade to therapy, I work with a therapist too!)

All I’m saying is if you don’t have a coach but, you DO have a desire/goal/dream/aspiration that you want to achieve sooner rather than later…ask yourself why not?

I promise it will take your self-identity, confidence & your life to new heights you didn’t think you could reach. And who couldn’t use a bit more of that in their lives…am I right?

Moral of the story—> work with me, do the work & let’s blow your mind & life wide open with the results that will have your friends begging you to tell them your secret. 😉 

Book your free consultation & let’s go. You really have nothing to lose.

Just a little reminder that there is nothing special about January 1st or any other day that month.

There’s nothing you can do on that day by starting “fresh” that you can’t also start now…today…or even next week.

I get it. The end of the year is “busy” with all the things…holidays, get togethers, a ton of other stuff to focus on and do, not to mention the often complicated feelings that can come up around all that right?

The idea that January 1st brings a clean slate and opportunity to finally focus on you and your goals seems legit. But it’s really not.

It’s just your brain’s way of putting it off again for a later time and making excuses about why you’ll be more ready then.

“I’ll have more time to focus.”
“I’ll have more energy available.”
“I’ll have more money to invest.”

I don’t know about you, but for me it seems that life is moving at break-neck speed & while we *think* we will be more ready/available/focused/energized to do the thing “then”, there’s likely always something else that’s going to get in the way. 

You are ready when you decide you are, not with the clock strikes 12:00am on 1/1/2023.

And listen…I love a fresh new month & new year like anyone else, but the real successes I’ve seen come from deciding  you’re ready regardless of the day or month.

Life is just too short to wish it away or waste a single day of it waiting for some arbitrary future date to do your thing.

Can you imagine how much further along you’ll be in January by simply deciding you’re ready today?

You’d be surprised what you can do in the next 6 weeks…holidays or not. Just ask my clients. 😉

Imagine if you could get a jumpstart on that book you want to write, launch that product, feel more peace & calm about this next phase of your life & finally start putting your dreams/goals first..all before the new year even gets here?

You absolutely can do all of that & a lot easier than you think. So, if you’ve been thinking of waiting until January to take the leap & do your thing…this is your sign to start now instead.

You’ve got big things to do. Now, let’s get busy shall we?