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Get Your Mind Set for a Positive Mindset in 3 Easy Steps

January 20, 2015 by Lamisha

One of my super powers is helping women get really clear on the BS that is holding them back. Let’s be honest, we all have some thought or belief that keeps us hiding in the shadows afraid to share our light with the world.

I’m not good enough…

I’m not smart enough…

I won’t do it as well as them….

I don’t have the money to….

Whatever lies you are hearing in your head every time you think about taking the BIG LEAP into the life of your dreams…they are wrong.

100% Bullshit.

So, how do you reverse them and get our mind ready for success?

You do it with these 3 steps.

Tell a different story. It’s time to let the old story go and rewrite it. Instead of harping on the woes that you keep believing are true, tell the story as you wish it to be. Affirmations work wonders so start there. For instance, I’m AMAZING at what I do. People love connecting with me! I have a set of unique skills that connect with the right people. I have more than enough money to take care of all of my wants and needs.

Focus on the good…daily. You have control over your mindset every single day. You decide what you focus on and that determines how you feel and what you create in your life. Don’t like how things are going? Shift your focus to something better. Develop a practice that feels good to you and do it on a daily basis. Whether that is keeping a gratitude journal or writing a list of all the things you love about life, focus on the good and more good will flow to you.

Immerse yourself in inspiration. There is nothing more powerful than feeling inspired and allowing that feeling to take you away into the world of doing he impossible. Surround yourself with people, books, quotes, movies, media, music, and anything else that inspires and uplifts your soul. It will not only raise your vibration, but it will also keep your head in the clouds where anything you desire is possible. Build on that every day and before you know it those gremlin thoughts will be packing up their stuff and moving out because they can’t live in the world of magic and miracles.

Your mindset is everything. It’s the breath of your dreams and the thing that will hold you back or catapult your dreams into another stratosphere and the best part of all is you get to control it.

Let your mindset be your greatest manifesting ally and enjoy every moment of your dream life because with a positive mind, you can do anything.

P.S. If your mindset junk is giving you trouble and you need help busting the BS so you can finally manifest the magical life you’ve always wanted schedule a FREE 30-Minute Consultation here.

What’s Too Good for YOU?

January 16, 2015 by Lamisha

So, I’ve been thinking a lot about manifesting and creating a life we love and I keep coming up against this common theme. It’s something I remember thinking about a few years ago in a positivity training for a job I was working at the time. We were given an exercise to think of our dream car.

As my fellow co-workers were scribbling away on their note cards, I was stumped. I didn’t have a dream car per se. If it was reliable, had good gas mileage, and didn’t look too bad on the outside, it was a good option for me. Up until that moment I’d never thought about what my dream car might be.

The facilitator apparently had come across this before and encouraged us to come up with our dream car regardless of how tough it might be. Once I had an answer down (I don’t even remember at this point what that was), he asked a question that has stuck with me over the years.

What’s too good for you?

When we think about what we want in life, we often imagine what is ‘realistic’ and ‘logical’ for us based on what we know about our lives, income level etc. When I was thinking of my dream car, a Rolls Royce didn’t quite match my vision. In my mind that was something that was just too good for me. (It also isn’t something I would want to drive now anyways.)

Several years later that question has come up in many conversations with clients. Thinking of the life they would love to live, they begin using their logic to come up with what they desire. When I tell them to throw logic to the wind, sometimes it’s still difficult to come up with the ideal life because there are things that just feel too good for them.

Why is that?

What is it about a life that feels amazing inside and out that scares us or causes us to pull back a bit?

Is it the fear of disappointment?

The thought we don’t deserve it?

Or maybe it’s just a matter of wondering if it’s possible to really have it all?

For so long we’ve been taught some messed up lessons about abundance, love, and living a happy life that we grow up thinking it’s only meant for some people, but certainly not us.

Lessons like: If you have love, be happy you have it because very few have love AND money.

We’ve been taught that it’s possible for a select few…the rich and famous, the extremely talented people that we see on television every day, but not little ‘ole us.

That’s a LIE.

We all have the same abilities to create and craft the amazing life of our dreams. With love, abundance, success, joy, family, community, creativity, and freedom. ALL OF US.

And as soon as you decide that you can have it all and that there is nothing too good for you, you will begin to see shifts happen almost instantly in your life. I promise.

This isn’t about having all the money in the world or driving the most expensive car. This is about living a life that resonates with YOU. That illustrates what is most important to you. THAT is what the life of your dreams is about.

So, today I ask you…what’s too good for you to be, have, or do?

My answer? Nothing.

And if you are willing to make the decision to stand in your creative power to make your life all you have ever wanted, I have two things that may be of interest to you.

February 1st begins the Magical Manifesting journey where I will be taking a group of like-minded souls on a practical journey to tap into the creative manifesting power we all have within. To learn together, support one another, and to apply the Law of Attraction to craft and create the life of your dreams. 6-weeks together with amazing, magical results. You can learn more about the program and get signed up here.

For those of you looking for a more 1:1 approach, I have a few spots left for my signature Breakthrough Program. 90-Days to dig into what you want and what’s holding you back while providing support as you take the steps you need to begin living the life of your dreams today. You can learn more about that program and sign up for a free 30-minute consultation here.

There’s no reason to think that you have to settle for a life that doesn’t feel good. I want to help more women like you show up and embrace the life you deserve and feel good about it.

Now is your time..are you ready?

My Biggest Fear…

January 13, 2015 by Lamisha

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If you are on my VIP list you know I’ve been thinking about fear and how it’s a f–king liar.

It’s true. And even though I know this to be true, I have still struggled with fear myself in many ways.

The fear of being seen in my business was a big one for a long time that kept me playing small.

But, my biggest fear of them all has been…lack of control.

You see, for as long as I can remember, I’ve always tried to be 2-4 steps ahead of my current circumstances. Trying to make sure all things go as planned and that I don’t end up blindsided by some crazy disappointment in life, I would work out all the outcomes in my mind and figure out how to avoid the bad ones.

Simply put I worried…a lot!

I developed general anxiety because I was always trying to stay ahead of the moment. If I was making a decision about what to do, I would try to predict the outcome so I could strategize how to cope with it in advance. Needless to say I wasn’t mindful or present in any moment. I was always worrying about the future.

When it came to goal setting and setting intentions, I would torture myself! I needed to know how it was going to work out and while I had some positive focus that it would, if I didn’t see the way, then I wasn’t convinced.

I had zero faith.

It’s taken a long time for me to get over that general anxiety and to stop worrying so much, but there are times when I can feel myself slipping back into needing to know how things are going to work out as opposed to just trusting they will.

The truth is, if we expect a specific outcome and we are open to how the outcome is manifested, there is nothing to worry about. The perceived control I have over seemingly everything in my life is a bit misunderstood.

The only things we control are our thoughts & actions which in turn create our reality.

So, if being a control freak in how your dreams come true is something you struggle with, take a step back. Take a deep breath and grab a pen and notebook.

I want you to write down all the ways your dream (or another situation) could manifest perfectly. I’m not saying these are all things you might believe at the moment, but write down all the ways it could happen. Get creative and remember that the Universe has every resource available to use and we only know a very small portion of that. To expect that our way is the only way is a bit misguided and is the best way to lead to frustration and it may even cause a delay in manifesting what we want in our lives.

Be open to more than just the way you think is ‘realistic’ or ‘probable’. The Universe doesn’t work with reality…it works with magic & miracles and I assure you as soon as you open your mind to ‘how’ it can happen and let go of the outcome a bit, more magic and miracles will find you. It’s just how it works.

If you are still struggling with manifesting your deepest desires and want to learn about how to make that happen with ease, grace, and more flow, I encourage you to check out my 7 Secrets to Manifest the Life of Your Dreams. In this free video series, I share with you my biggest secrets to manifesting. Secrets I’ve learned after many years of trying to be realistic and logical.

Magical Manifesting is a wonderful way to create the life you have always wanted…not just in cash and things that you can buy, but in experiences, time, and freedom. Manifesting the beautiful experiences and feelings you’ve always desired and inspiring others to do the same is why I do this work.

I would love for you to join us on February 1st for a journey of Magical Manifesting. This 6-week group program will give you the steps, tools, and secrets you need to create the life you have always wanted and provide you the practical experience that will infuse you with the faith you need to keep going. Space is limited, so if you are interested I highly encourage you to reserve your place now!

Manifesting My Dream Life

January 9, 2015 by Lamisha

I am all about creating a life you love, because seriously if you aren’t loving your life, something needs to happen.

Life is short and there is enough mediocrity, pain, darkness, and general negativity in the world that you don’t need to look at your job, relationship, business, career, family, or anything else in your life and feel more of the same.

It’s time something changed.

Over the years the concept of what my dream life actually entailed has changed.

I’ve grown up a bit and while I’m older (only in age, definitely NOT in spirit), I have bigger more wild dreams than I ever had as a child.

At one time I simply wanted a ‘secure’ life, with a stable job, and love…lots of love (I’m a Leo after all). But as time wore on, I wanted more than that.

I craved freedom, family, love, passion, purpose, excitement, adventure, abundance, happiness, peace, community, creativity, support, inspiration…you know just a few things.

Through studying the Law of Attraction, I realized I could have it all…and I started manifesting the life of my dreams one piece at a time.

The first thing that came was love…I manifested my soul mate. I didn’t know at the time I was manifesting a soul mate per se, but I knew exactly what I wanted in a partner and shortly after writing a list of all the attributes I was looking for in a woman, I found her. Looking for love incidentally lead to a ton of adventure as I left my life at ‘home’ and moved 300+ states away…and never looked back.

A few years later, we had our son…which by a string of amazing synchronicities couldn’t have happened without clear focus and manifesting mojo for sure. (I won’t go into details, but it was a series of perfectly aligned energy.)

Not long after that, I manifested an opportunity to work from home to spend more time with my family. An opportunity that literally fell into my lap and it couldn’t have happened had I not made peace with my current position while focusing on what I was seeking, even though I had NO idea how it would happen.

9 months later, I manifested a brand-spankin’ new house (in 3 days)…in another state that we were moving too (and more adventures of course).

Then my dream career of coaching and did I mention money, connection, purpose, passion, and so much joy?

Yeah all that too…

When I write about living the life of your dreams, it isn’t some abstract idea or thought about what you might be able to achieve. I’m also not blowing smoke up your rear.

I’m 100% serious about the fact that you can be, have, or do anything you want.

Every woman I speak with has a vision and I know it’s possible…but my knowing isn’t enough. I teach you to actually utilize the amazing power you have within to create the life you’ve always wanted.

Want to sell everything off and live in a tiny house off the grid? Yes, you can do that.

Want a mansion with a staff to take care of you and your estate? Yes, you can do that too.

Want a business that provides financial freedom, joy, and passion for the rest of your days? Yep, you can have that too.

I’m not giving you the power, I’m just teaching you how to use it. You already have the power…we all do.

And that’s why I created the Magical Manifesting group program to reach more women like you who crave something more. A life that you aren’t just settling for…a life that you LOVE.

Manifesting is something we all can do..in fact you are already doing it in every action, thought, and feeling you have. It’s time to harness that power and to truly create the amazing life you’ve always wanted. This practical 6-week program does more than give you the steps to make it happen, it provides practical application so you not only know it works, but you have evidence in your own life.

Are you ready to manifest the life you’ve always wanted? Give me 6 weeks and I’ll give you everything you need to make it happen. You can check out the program HERE. If you aren’t sure about it just yet, but want to get a taste for what all this manifesting business is about, sign up to receive my FREE Video Series: 7 Secrets to Create the Life of Your Dreams. I promise you won’t be sorry you did.

Hello 2015: I’m Ready!

January 6, 2015 by Lamisha

Hey Gorgeous,

How’s 2015 treating you so far? Are you ready for this to be your best year yet?

I know I am.

Typically around this time of year, I am hitting the ground running on my planning, dreaming, and scheming for the year ahead. I grab my Leonie workbook and light some candles and get busy filling in all the details of 2014 and do a big release of everything that no longer serves me mentally and physically.

This year was a bit different. When the holidays rolled around, I was literally ill. My entire family got sick around the same time and it’s taken me a few weeks to get back to my normal, healthy self.

Thankfully, I’m on the mend and was able to get busy on some super exciting things coming up that I will share with you soon. (I know, I know secrets, secrets are no fun, but this one is worth the wait!)

So, since I didn’t get a chance to say a big goodbye to 2014 and hit the ground running right out of the gate in 2015, I’m playing catch up.

And I’m ok with it.

In fact, it seems that while this year is going to be about massive action, risk taking, and dreaming (and living) in a big way, I am easing into the year. Not only do I not make resolutions, but I am taking a bit more time to dream, set my intentions, and get clear on what 2015 means to me.

In years past, I’ve written a letter to my future self, created a vision board, and even set my theme for the year all before the new year even began. This year, I’m doing things a little differently.

I’ve picked my themes for the year and they are: Going Pro (for my business of course) and to Live Big (in my personal life). The underlying theme for both is to have FUN.

What’s life without a bit of fun, dreaming, and enjoying the ride right? Have you set your theme for the new year? Done some intention setting for what you want to manifest in the year ahead? It almost feels like a beautiful blank sheet of paper that is so perfect, you almost don’t want to paint on it, but where’s the fun in that?

I want to hear about your BIG, BOLD, Dreams for 2015. What are they? Share in the comments below and let us support you and add fuel to the flame as we all get into action for our dreams to come to fruition.

In the meantime, if you are interested in taking your dreams to another level by hiring a coach, let’s schedule a free 30-minute consultation to chat about your vision and what you want to create for 2015. It’s your time to shine! So, let’s get busy!