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Why me? – Why NOT you?

September 24, 2015 by Lamisha

I shared this message with my newsletter folks this week and it was such a powerful message that I was inspired to share it (and the special offer) with you.

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There is a huge problem I am seeing lately and it’s stealing joy, spark, and the potential for dreams to come true from so many amazing women it makes me ill.

It’s an epidemic and I’m here to set the record straight.

The problem: Feeling unworthy of creating and living the life of your dreams.

Everyday I chat with women who somehow feel like they don’t measure up to the amazing visions they have in their minds about what they want their lives to be.

They make excuses about how they can’t have this or that because ‘Who am I to have the love, riches, community, joy, compassion, adventure etc. that I desire?‘

Who are you NOT to?

If there is one thing I have learned in the years I have been on this planet it is that we are here to experience life and enjoy it.

We are here to connect, serve, help, learn, love, and share our lives with others.

We are human beings for goodness sake! We have incredible senses that allow us to enjoy a multitude of experiences including food, sex, entertainment, and everything else life has to offer and yet there are far too many women denying themselves of the very dreams that keep them going because they feel unworthy.

I’ll give you that we often live in a warped reality where people think you must do something to earn your joy, but that’s a reality I’m not buying into.

I don’t believe in the idea that you have to work for 50 years in a job you hate to be able to spend a few years doing what you love.

I don’t believe that you must sacrifice your happiness now for more happiness later or that you have to work ‘hard’ for money to make a living.

I don’t believe you have to DO something in order to be worthy of the very desires that set your soul on fire.

Despite what you may have been taught by parents, teachers, society and the like, you are enough.

Let me say that again… YOU. ARE. ENOUGH.

You are worthy of your dreams simply by the air that you breathe and no I don’t particularly care about the past mistakes, mishaps, or misfortunes you’ve had because they don’t matter. What matters is your determination to move forward.

YOU get to decide what this life experience will be for you.

YOU get to decide when you take the leap and when you don’t.

And YOU get to decide if and when you are worthy to move forward and truly make a change in your life.

The truth is the only way you wouldn’t be worthy of being, having, and doing all the things you want to do in this life is simply by thinking that you are unworthy. That’s it.

Clearly this is a topic I am deeply passionate about and I know there are so many women dealing with this very issue that I want…better yet, I NEED to help.

So from now until the end of September, I am offering one-time single 60-minute sessions for $97.

These sessions are best used for one particular issue/struggle you have right now. If you need help around this idea of being ‘worthy’, a pep talk, uplifting, mindset work, need help making a decision, or you’ve been thinking of working with a coach and just want to give it a try, this is for you.

Now I don’t do this often and I’m not sure if/when I’ll do it again, so if this speaks to you then get on this before the offer goes away.

Want in? Hit the button below and grab your spot and I look forward to chatting with you soon!

Do something that scares you…

September 17, 2015 by Lamisha

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About a year ago I decided to take a leap of faith before I was entirely ready.

In September 2014 I submitted an article to the Huffington Post. To my surprise they liked my article and I became a regular blogger for their site.

(My latest article titled: 11 (More) Universal Truths that Will Change Your Life for the Better is here. Feel free to read and share it with those you think need to see it.)

The second article that I submitted got raving reviews and is still a HUGE hit on the site. A few weeks later it was such a big hit, they translated it to be published on Huffington Post Spain.

Talk about shocked!

Women from all over the world were reaching out to me after that article because they wanted my help. My words resonated deep within them and they wanted to create change in their lives.

I was in awe.

Amazed.

Humbled.

My words created a stir within so many souls and since then I’ve been writing, sharing, and creating programs from the heart to serve and inspire women like YOU.

Yesterday the sequel to the first article was published and I’m celebrating this huge moment by sharing the article with you in hopes that it inspires you to take a leap of faith of your own.

Your leap may look different than mine.

Maybe you decide to go back to school, start writing your novel, or reach out to a coach you’ve been wanting to work with.

Maybe it’s auditioning for a large (or small) role in a play or starting your own Etsy shop, or submitting your latest poems to be used on a greeting card.

Whatever it is…do it.

The truth is you may never feel 100% ready to take the leap. When I wrote the first article, I know I didn’t feel ‘ready’. I was inspired to do it and saw it as a challenge. Looking back it was exactly what I needed to do to continue to grow and evolve and I’m so glad I took the risk.

Today I want YOU to take your own risk. Don’t think about it, just do it.

Then let it go…

The truth is you are never truly ‘ready’ to do the big things, but when you feel it in your heart…you just know you HAVE to take the leap.

If you are looking for some inspiration and support for your very own leap, I’d love to chat with you. If you are READY to kick the doubts, fears, and other BS to the curb and make magic happen in your life & you are ready to invest in YOU. Schedule your FREE 30-Minute Consultation to chat with me about how I can help you make that happen.

Grow, Evolve, Become Guest Expert-Tracey McFadden

September 11, 2015 by Lamisha

Happy Friday Friends!

I am so excited to share our next guest expert for the Grow, Evolve, Become

Membership group, Tracey McFadden!

Tracey McFadden is a fabulous spiritual teacher and epic magic-maker who is sharing her gifts with our group starting next week. If you want to know anything about using Reiki, crystals, moon ceremonies, mantras, or are interested in oracle readings and spiritual support she is your lady!

I had the honor of chatting with Tracey a few months back and I can’t tell you how talented she is in all things spiritual. Her intuition is incredibly powerful and she is so tuned into Source and the power of the Universe that her readings are sure to knock your socks off!

She’s also got some new offers right now that YOU get first dibs on and not only that, but if you sign up for the Grow, Evolve, Become-Membership group now, you can experience her Soul Fire Energy Session which is a mixture of Reiki and communication with guides and angels about your goals and dreams. The focus is on healing, getting rid of blocks, activating the chakras, clearing negative energy from the aura, raising the energetic vibration and a gift from source. It’s going to be amazing!

If you join now, you get all this plus all of the amazing support, free coaching, tips, and tools we have covered in the last two months for $47/month (which you can cancel at any time).

And as if that isn’t enough, with Mercury Retrograde coming (again) Tracey has so graciously offered her Mercury Retrograde Survival Kit that you can sign up to receive for FREE here.

I can’t say enough about how awesome Tracey is, but really the best way to know is to experience her magic for yourself and whether you do so by signing up for the Grow, Evolve, Become Membership group or sign up to work with her 1:1 I highly recommend you check her out!

Thank you for sharing your magic with us Tracey! I can’t wait to experience your Soul Fire Energy Session next week. <3

Why are you settling??? It’s time to break FREE.

September 2, 2015 by Lamisha

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***Before I get into today’s post, I want to invite you to check out my latest article that has been a huge hit over at The Huffington Post titled : 6 Ways to Find Your Passion & Live Your Purpose. ***

Now for today’s post.

I’ve noticed something over the last few years and it’s really getting under my skin. In fact, it has become so prevalent and obvious in the last few months I want to set the record straight

Somehow, we have become a culture that believes that while you can have a mostly awesome life, you can’t have everything you want no matter how how hard you try.

There are many people who have come to accept that if you have a fabulous career you love, your relationships have to suck.

OR If you have an amazing relationship, you can’t have all the riches your heart desires.

OR If you have all the money you desire, you might have to enjoy it all alone. (The list goes on. )

It’s as if they believe they are undeserving of having it all and living the life of their dreams is some myth that only happens in fairy tales.

Well I call bullshit.

Who are you not to have it all?

Who are you not to have the love, the riches, the joy, the career, the family, the fame, and anything else your heart desires?

That is what life is all about. Living, loving, sharing, expanding, and experiencing all that life has to offer.

Do you know what happens when you believe that you can’t have it all?

You settle.

You settle for the parts of your life that aren’t working because you believe that if most of your life is going well, who are you to complain?

But I’m here to tell you this; You don’t have to settle and you certainly don’t have to accept that because 80% of your life IS working that the remaining 20% has to remain a struggle.

Now, I’ll be honest and say that I USED to think that way.

I thought that if my business was booming and money was flowing that my relationship had to take a fall. Or if things were really amazing in my love life, then my business and income had to tank.

And you know what happened? I manifested those very things.

When things were running smoothly in my relationship and in life in general, I somehow sabotaged things in my career. And when I had a really amazing month in my business, I’d start an argument with my partner.

It as as if I just couldn’t handle all the good at once and I had to have something to worry about.

It took a few years of learning, growing, and lots of life lessons to get to this point, but now I see it and can make changes in my mindset and in my beliefs when I start feeling myself settling.

The truth is, you CAN work through the BS that is holding you back no matter how long you’ve struggled with it…but it’s difficult to do alone.

Lucky for you, this is my specialty and is the EXACT reason I set up the 30-Day Break Free From Stuck program.

If you feel:

Like you are settling in your career, relationship, or life in general
STUCK in one area of your life that just isn’t working for you
Like you’ve done all you can and still can’t make that last 20% of your life work for you

It’s time we had a chat. I am a firm believer in reaching out and asking for help and I’ve seen amazing miracles happen when I’ve done that myself.

If you are ready to break free and make magic happen in your life once and for all, schedule a free 30-Minute Consultation to chat about what’s going on.

5 Reasons You Aren’t Living the Life You Truly Desire

August 26, 2015 by Lamisha

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Every single day I speak with women all over the world who are feeling just plain stuck in life. They dream of an amazing life with lots of love, abundance, beautiful experiences, and adventure only to find they have no clue how to make it happen.

When we first chat, they list all the things they’ve tried to make their dreams a reality. They’ve pushed, pulled, planned, and done everything they can think of to make their desires real, but find that something is stopping them along the way.

The thing I notice about all of these scenarios is that the reasons these amazing women aren’t living a life they absolutely love has nothing to do with action and has everything to do with things they just can’t see.

If you are in the same boat or have found yourself in a similar situation before it’s likely because of one of these 5 reasons.

You don’t believe it’s possible. We all have had some bullshit story about why what we desire isn’t possible. It might be so far outside what you’ve actually accomplished in your life that you just don’t see any way that what you desire could come to fruition and even though you dream of it becoming your reality, there is a bit of doubt about whether it can actually happen. The answer is this: Yes it can and will happen, but ONLY when you decide it’s possible.
You’re letting fear lead the way. Fear is a f–king liar and it will try to convince you more often than not that what you are attempting to do is not safe or smart. It will try and convince you of all the reasons it won’t work instead of highlighting all the magical ways it will. Fear feeds off your insecurity (see #1) and the best way to combat that is to take a step forward despite the fear and prove to yourself over and over again that it’s not as scary as you think.
You think you need to know all the steps from where you are to where you are going. As much as you would like to believe that you are 100% in control at all times and have the power to find the best possible route to your dream life, the truth is you don’t. All you need to do is take the next step and trust that the Universe is going to inspire the one after that. You only have the capacity to see 1 possible way your dreams can become reality and it’s likely not even the best way. The Universe on the other hand has so many amazing resources at its disposal and can orchestrate connections, opportunities, and chance meetings you never imagined. Let go of the how and just listen to your intuition.
You are stuck in your current reality. Your current reality is merely an indication of where your thoughts have been in the past. It in no way means that what you desire is impossible or improbable unless you decide to continually reflect on what is right in front of you instead of focusing on where you want to be. When you stop playing the victim to your current ‘reality’ you make a new reality possible and the Universe paves the way for you to make your life amazing.
You think it has to be hard and self-sabotage when things get too good. You likely were taught that everything comes with a price tag and if you want to live the life of your dreams you have to work hard. That’s a lie. Do you have to be persistent? Yes. Do you have to be willing to believe in yourself when others don’t? Yes, but that in no way means it has to be hard. When things get easy and you manifest circumstances that feel amazing with ease, you may also find yourself sabotaging the situation to shake things up a bit. Because honestly, who are we without problems to solve and challenges to overcome? Let the good things be good and the easy things be easy. I guarantee there will be other problems for you to solve, so don’t mess with the good stuff to make yourself feel more comfortable.

The truth is there are lots of reasons we aren’t always creating the life experience we want and if you are finding yourself struggling with one or more of the above, it’s time to get some support.

Reach out and schedule a FREE 30-Minute Consultation below and let’s have a chat about how I can help you clear the junk holding you back and help you step more fully into the amazing life you deserve.