Lamisha Serf-Walls

Giving you a peek behind the curtain…

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I want to be completely transparent and real with you (as always) and let you know that sometimes the path to the most amazing things you ever imagined isn’t all rainbows and unicorns.

At least that’s been my experience.

There IS ease, grace, flow, and beauty on the path, but there is also a fair amount of resistance, crunchiness, and “tests” that come up too.

And it’s during those “tests” that we need our mindset work the most!

I know there are a lot of people out in the world looking for the quick fix and the magic bullet to make life 1000% better and while working on your mindset and learning to LIVE by the #2 secret I shared on the webinar the other day (go have a listen if you don’t know what that is) will absolutely improve your life 1000%—> it doesn’t always feel easy.

Sometimes it feels downright HARD.

I know this because I live it…daily.

I am not perfect.  My mindset isn’t that of a Tibetan Monk and I have my share of freak outs (hello all of January and part of February), but I have experienced some truly incredible shifts by turning my focus to the ONLY thing I (we) have control over…my mindset.

  • I’ve overcome daily, general anxiety after suffering with it for years
  • I’ve consistently taken on new challenges that scare the bejesus out of me and succeeded in many of them.
  • I’m happier, healthier, and less of a control freak

And if I could name the greatest change of all it would be the fact that I actually have a framework and practice to get back to when I fall off the deep end.

  • When my son (who was recently diagnosed with ADHD) was kicked out of his private school last year due to some ADHD related challenges…my mindset work saved me from completely losing it.
  • When my mother in law had to move in with us unexpectedly due to some personal challenges…my mindset work saved me.
  • When I feel like I’m “failing” (yes, even coaches feel this) and like I may never recover…my mindset work saves me.
  • When I’m triggered by the uncertainties in life and business…my mindset work saves me.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that even as a coach, I have challenges and when I find something that works to help me rebound from those challenges and decrease the frequency of them…I want to share it.  It’s what I’m here to do.

So, if you are looking for a quick fix or a magic bullet…this isn’t that (and frankly there is no such thing).

However, if you are looking for a strategic plan to help you move through life with more ease, grace, and knowing-ness for miracles to unfold on your path…the Miracle Mindset Immersion Program is for you.

I promise it will transform your life…if you do the work. <3

It all starts May 1st and if you sign up in the next 48 hours you are still eligible for not only the early bird rates, but you are also eligible for the BONUS week on Money Mindset (which I have to say is pretty amazing).

If you are ready to adopt a miracle mindset in order to transform your life then I invite you to join us for this round (and likely the ONLY live round I am doing in 2017).  Find out more about the program here. 

If, however you are ready to dive in and snag the Early Bird rate + the bonus week on Money Mindset then make sure you click the links below to get signed up!

Regular Program + Bonus Money Mindset Week = $127

or

VIP (Includes 4 week program + 1- 45 Minute Coaching session) + Bonus Money Mindset Week = $227

I can’t wait to get started with you!!!

P.S.  If you missed the call the other night, check out the replay below and make sure you check out the details below regarding the BONUS that expires in 24 hours! (It’s a steal!)

5 Secrets to Unlock Your Miracle Mind AUDIO recording

5 Secrets to Unlock Your Miracle Mind- Free Training

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To be honest, this post was supposed to go out to you on Monday, but as you can see that did NOT happen.

Yep, on the last day of spring break for my son- we got to spend a few hours in the local ER because he accidentally slammed his thumb in the car door. (YIKES!). Luckily it wasn’t broken and he’s fine now, but man alive it caused me to really lean on my mindset work in order to go with the flow as much as possible instead of worrying about what I needed to get done.

With that said, I apologize for not getting this to you sooner!

So, we just finished up the FREE 5-Day Mindset Challenge on Friday and I wanted to check in with you to see how it went for you?

I know many of you probably opted out of sharing your insights in the MindPower Collective group which is cool, but I do hope you took advantage of the free challenge in order to really see what’s lying within your subconscious mind.  If your mind is anything like mine, it can be a scary place to be sometimes.

One of the things I noticed during the challenge, is how many people simply felt like they may not be good enough in some way for the things they desired and how many people found themselves staying where they are (even if it’s uncomfortable) because it feels SAFE.

I gotta admit, I’m not all that surprised though.  That is one of the main things I see that is limiting my clients when it comes to mindset.

When you don’t feel worthy of your desires, you are shooting your dreams down before they even leave the ground. 
The crazy thing is that there is a vast majority of people in the world who truly feel unworthy of the very desires that are burning within.

So, what’s the only way to get around that?  It all begins in the mind. (Come on, you knew I was going to say that right?)

When we get down to the nuts and bolts of it all, it’s never about being worthy or not.  It’s simply a matter of our mind habits and how we’ve been trained to think and believe, and how we view the world.

When you understand that and are committed to shifting those old stories, miracles unfold. 
This whole idea of miracles got me thinking about how many people are so jaded by “reality” that they lack the faith and trust that is necessary for magic and miracles to unfold—> which by the way is a key piece of mindset work that so many people miss.

Instead of believing in what they can’t quite see yet, they speak their “truth” based on a limited focus of what is directly in front of them and cut themselves off from the magic.

And you know what? I used to be one of those people before I ever knew anything about what mindset is and how powerful it can be, which is why I decided to put together this free training that is happening tomorrow night at 7:30pm EST.

So, if you could use some more miracles in your life, I invite you to join us LIVE for this incredible training.  I will be sharing my secrets for unlocking your miracle mind as well as taking your questions on all things mindset and miracle related.  You do NOT want to miss this!

Let’s be honest, who couldn’t use a few more miracles in their life right?

To make sure you receive all the call details, please make sure you are signed up on my VIP list HERE. 

Losing Millions….

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I have a confession to make and it’s probably something you might not be able to guess about me, though after I share the whole story, it will make total sense.

My secret guilty pleasure is that I LOVE watching documentaries about where Lottery winners are now.

—> It’s not because I play the lottery, though I do on occasion.
—> It’s not because I want to be up to date with the latest high ticket items to purchase.
—> And it’s not even because I want to use it as a way to envision myself as a millionaire.

Honestly, I watch it because I am incredibly fascinated by the MINDSET behind each winner and how it ties into where they are now.  (I’m a mindset nerd, I know!)

I’ve watched a ton of these shows and what’s amazing is I can see a common thread in all of them as it relates to who still has their money (or even more) and who has squandered it away and is now broke. Can you guess what it is?

It’s all about their growth mindset and upper limit set point.

You see, every one of us has an upper limit set point based on our current mindset.  Based on our past experiences and the mindset work we have done (or not done) we have a certain amount of love, joy, peace, abundance, health, excitement etc. that we can comfortably allow in our lives.

Once we approach that upper limit, our ego gets a bit frightened and feels unsafe.  It immediately wants to bring us back down to our “normal” range, even if what’s been normal for us is incredibly uncomfortable.

Imagine for a moment you want to lose 50 lbs but in reality you only imagine that you can really lose about 25.  As you approach that 25lb marker or a bit beyond that, your ego gets a bit snarky and scared and you find some reason (usually subconsciously) to sabotage your progress to bring you back down to what is “normal” for you.

The same thing happens with money (or anything else for that matter).  The reason many lottery winners go bankrupt after winning millions of dollars is because their mindset didn’t change when they won that money.

Their reality shifted dramatically, but their mindset didn’t and so they had to go back to what was “normal” for them.

It seems a bit crazy, I know, but think back to your life for a moment.

Have you ever noticed that there are times when things are going really good for you, it feels a bit uncomfortable?  Or maybe when things get too good you find yourself sabotaging it in some way, shape, or form and before you know it you are back to where you started?

Maybe it’s with money, weight, relationships, your career, or something else entirely, but no matter what the topic is…the issue is the same.  You’ve hit your upper limit.

So what do you do to make sure you don’t lose your proverbial millions?

It boils down to these three things…

  • Become aware of your upper limit set point
  • Understand your sabotaging behavior when things get too good
  • Actively grow your mindset so as you approach that upper limit, it actually transforms to a new level

Believe me when I say that the upper limit problem that Gay Hendricks discusses in his book The Big Leap is a very real thing.  I’ve experienced it over and over again with each new level I’ve reached in my life and business and understanding how it works and actively working on your mindset is the key to limiting the effects of the ULP in your life.

And you know what?  It’ ALL leads back to MINDSET.

Yes, I know.  I talk about mindset until I’m blue in the face, but I promise it is more important than you know and it is where all your power lies.  It’s also why I decided to put together this FREE 5-Day Mindset Challenge for my tribe starting Monday.

Starting Monday, we are going to help you understand what is going on in that beautiful mind of yours and give you some tools to transform those thoughts so you can continue to grow and expand your life in truly magical ways with or without your upper limit.

If you sign up, everyday next week you are going to be receiving the challenge step of the day in your inbox with an exercise for you to complete that day.

If you choose, you can also join us in the MindPower Collective group on Facebook to share your experiences and enter yourself to win some 1:1 coaching and free entry into the next round of the Miracle Mindset Immersion group program coming soon!

The challenge kicks off on Monday!  Are you ready?

Join us over in the MindPower Collective group and remember to post your exercises in the challenge threads to enter yourself to win some awesome goodies!

Stuck is a choice…but so is freedom.

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I know what you’re thinking.  No one chooses to be stuck.  It just happens.

Wrong.

Sure, life happens and there may be certain circumstances that lead you to feeling stuck, but YOU are always in control of how long you stay there.  It’s a choice.

That may sound a bit harsh, but it’s true.

No matter where you are or what your life circumstances are right now, you always have options. 

  • There is no such thing as being “stuck” between a rock and a hard place.
  • There is no such thing as having NO options.
  • There is no such thing as STUCK.

Now, there are some people reading this who would beg to differ.

But Lamisha…

“I’m stuck in a dead-end job that I hate and there are no other options for me.”
“I’m stuck in a loveless marriage, but I don’t see any way out.”
“I’m stuck in debt and I’m so far in, there’s no way I can make enough money to get out.”
“I’m stuck in feeling worthless and hopeless and I’ve tried it all!”
“I’m stuck!!!”
 
 

Stuck is a feeling, but it’s not your reality unless you choose for it to be.  (Go back and read that sentence again…it’s important.)

I know this because I’ve been there.

–> I’ve been in the dead-end job with no options, no hope, and no viable way to escape.
–> I’ve been in the loveless relationship, but didn’t feel like I could leave because I had no self-worth.
–> I’ve felt the dark night of the soul with no vision or hope for the future as far as I could see and you know what…it ALL felt so REAL.

Back then, you couldn’t tell me STUCK wasn’t real.  (In fact, I’d be pretty pissed if you told me that back then, because that’s who I WAS and to me it was as real as it gets.)

I get it.

But, what I now know is that in all of those situations I had choices that I wasn’t willing to make and a mindset that caused me to shrink my thinking to only what I could see in front of me.

Back then, I lived a very small life and it took me YEARS to get out from under my limited view of the world and to do the mindset work to believe in unlimited possibilities and KNOW that no matter where I am or what I am going through, I always have a choice.

I can choose STUCK or FREEDOM.
I can choose to feel HOPELESS or HOPEFUL.
I can choose to be UNWORTHY or  WORTHY.
I can choose DOUBT or FAITH.

And you know what?  NONE of that has anything to do with what is going on outside of me.

Not my relationship, business, bank account, or the man who runs this country, because I always have a choice.

Do I choose to feel stuck, hopeless, unworthy, and doubtful from time-to-time…you bet I do.  I’m human.

But I don’t stay there long because I know it doesn’t yield the life I choose to live.

When I finally figured out what mindset work was all about and what people actually meant by “think happy thoughts” (it’s so much more than that), my life transformed!

  • I had a dream job that literally fell out of the sky and into my lap.
  • I ditched the bad relationship(s) (there were many) and found my soulmate.
  • I climbed out of the dark night and into the light, knowing that while at times I may have feelings of unworthiness creep in, my truth is that I AM worthy of everything I desire.

And that was just the beginning….

There is always an action you can take to move you forward and shake you free from whatever thought habits have you feeling stuck.

That’s what your mindset is ya know…thought HABITS.

You’ve grown so accustomed to telling the same story over and over again that it is now your default setting.  But like any amazing piece of technology, you can always override the default and your mind is no different.

Today do you choose STUCK or do you choose FREEDOM?

Make the choice and follow it up with action because you’ve been “stuck” for far too long.  Am I right?

Wondering what action to take?  How about committing to get your mindset habits on track and break Free From Stuck??

If you’re ready to choose differently and would like some 1:1 support to make that happen, check out my Free From Stuck 30 day program. 

If you’re ready to choose freedom, sign up for your free 30-minute consultation now to see if we are a good fit.  I currently have 2 openings for this program for the month of April, so if you’re interested, let’s chat.

 

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Feeling a bit uncertain about life? Read this….

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One of the things I hear a lot from my clients is how often they find themselves in the place of uncertainty.

They feel stuck between a rock and a hard place (my mom’s favorite saying) and they can’t quite figure out how to move forward.

Are you feeling like you are living between worlds at the moment?

 

If so, I invite you to check out my latest article over on Purpose Fairy titled: 5 Ways to Break Free From a Life of Uncertainty.

This article is full of great tips on how to help you finally break free….