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Great expectations…

September 3, 2021 by Lamisha

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Are you prepared to succeed?

Better yet..do you expect that you will reach and achieve what you set out to do in your life?  Or are you like many people preparing to lick your wounds when things fall through as they have in the past? 

I ask, because I find that more often than not the vast majority of people are preparing for the let down. They are hedging their bets and creating plans B-H (and beyond) just in case this thing falls through and doesn’t work out. They are remembering, reciting and replaying the past over and over in their minds in an attempt to avoid the discomfort and potential disappointment. Unfortunately all this does is ensure they recreate it. 


So I want to ask you again…are you prepared to succeed? 


Are you practicing, playing and envisioning in your mind your inevitable success and magic that comes from you going all in? 

In this moment are you embodying and embracing the joy of things moving forward with ease while also taking the necessary steps you know to take because you’re committed to what you desire?

Are you intentional with your thoughts as you plant and cultivate the very beliefs that produce the fruits of abundance, peace, joy, success and expansion in your life? 

In this moment are you staying in the present moment while you tune into your intuition in preparation to take the next step with full trust that it’s all for a greater purpose? 

Are you actively working through the gremlin thoughts as they come up because you know that’s part of the path to your greatness? 

???

If you aren’t doing all of those things all the time, I have good news for you…you don’t have to check every box in every moment of every day. However…the more you live in the space of preparing, expecting and believing in your inevitable success…the easier, better and more magical your life will be. 


Belief is the backbone of your success and achievement of your goals, dreams and desires. Without the belief in yourself and your journey you won’t get very far, very fast. 


I once had a client ask me how much you need to believe in order to create positive shifts in your life and in the world. Do you need 100% unshakeable trust and belief in yourself 100% of the time?  Thankfully the answer is no. 

Your mindset is something you are ideally growing all the time and it takes practice, focus and intentionality. So, no you don’t have to believe in yourself 100% of the time, but you do have to commit to growing and expanding your belief consistently. 

When you do…incredible things happen like…

–> A new job you weren’t even actively looking for lands in your lap and it comes with all the magic & synchronicities you could ever imagine. (This happened for a client I worked with last year.)

–> Thousands of dollars pour into your life just after you follow your intuition and make the scary decision to take some much-needed and deserved time off of work. (This happened for a client just this week!)

–> You feel such immense gratitude for an amazing day/life that it brings you to tears because you realize that struggle doesn’t have to be a part of your story anymore. (A past client emailed me her experience this week!)

And truly so much more is possible…

When you trust yourself, the Universe & you truly believe in YOU, life gets better that you ever imagined possible. Money flows, answers show up out of the blue, opportunities abound but beyond all of that you realize YOU had the power all along. 

You have the power & now is the time to unlock it.

Ready to get some support to do just that? If so, hit the link below & let’s book a free chat to see if we are a good fit to work together.

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Do you accept this? I simply do not…

August 30, 2021 by Lamisha

Image by Marcel Gnauk from Pixabay

The other day I was having an exchange with a friend about the current state of our world.

As we spoke about racism in the U.S. she said…

“Some would say you can’t change a system that is working exactly as it was designed to.”

I’ve been thinking about that and the idea of creating radical change ever since. 

My first reaction to her comment was one of understanding to some degree. I can certainly see why some people might feel as though change is virtually impossible when we are looking at the current state of affairs around the US and the world. The current “reality” speaks loud and clear and with hundreds of years of history too, it’s often hard to ignore.

My second reaction was a very strong feeling around not wanting to live in a world where that is the reality. Meaning- I don’t want to live in a world where positive change isn’t possible individually OR collectively. In fact, it goes against everything I am and believe in so…nope. Not an option for me.  

And while the conversation was one related to systemic racism and oppression in the U.S. specifically, I can’t help but think about how many people must feel that way about change in general. 


How many people feel like no matter what they’ve tried to do to change their circumstances, they can’t quite get things to shift?


Try as they might, they falter, fall or feel like they are failing and end up reaching the very same conclusion…change isn’t possible for me. 

There are often some pretty intense moments in some of my coaching calls where clients will very powerfully tell me that “This is all there is for me. Can’t you see that?!” and some will follow that statement with a laundry list of the evidence to support their feelings… 

Life just doesn’t get to work out like that for me.
I don’t know what to do Lamisha! I’m all out of answers.
It hasn’t happened yet and if it were meant to be, wouldn’t it have happened already?

And you know what I say to just about every person?   

I refuse to accept that.


I refuse to accept that we…

–> Can’t change our lives for the better.
–> Can’t transform our life circumstances & situations.
–> We’ve run out of options & that all we have left is to settle.
–> Are indeed stuck in whatever struggle we are currently in.
–> Have no power in changing our own lives individually and collectively.

I simply refuse to accept that reality & my hope is that you do too. 

When we begin to accept things as they are and lose all hope of things changing for the better, things can get pretty dark pretty fast. We become complacent, comfortable and numb to what’s unfolding. 

The struggle, pain, depression and the like becomes “normal” and despite deep down wanting more, we simply shake our heads and let life take us wherever it takes us.

 
The way I see it…if you WANT change, it’s possible.
If you DECIDE to change, it’s all but done.
If you COMMIT to change, the evidence speaks for itself. 


And when you TRUST change & BELIEVE beyond what you see in front of you…that is when the magic happens. 

At the end of the day true change (on both individual and collective levels) boils down to what we accept, expect, trust, believe and how all of that bleeds over into our inspired actions. 

So what do you accept?
What do you expect?
What are you trusting & believing in for your life right now? 
And what changes are you committed to for the rest of the year and beyond?

If you’re unsure, consider this your unofficial assignment to dig a bit deeper and make changes as you see fit.

You were made for more & it’s about time you believed it. 


 P.S. If you’re interested in taking your TRUST & BELIEF to the next level and you are ready to get out of. your own way & CREATE more for yourself, I’d love to chat with you. Hit the button below & let’s book a free consultation.

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Proof of your power

August 18, 2021 by Lamisha

Image by Avi Chomotovski from Pixabay

Are you prepared to succeed?

Better yet..do you expect that you will reach and achieve what you set out to do in your life?  Or are you like many people preparing to lick your wounds when things fall through as they have in the past? 

I ask, because I find that more often than not the vast majority of people are preparing for the let down. They are hedging their bets and creating plans B-H (and beyond) just in case this thing falls through and doesn’t work out. They are remembering, reciting and replaying the past over and over in their minds in an attempt to avoid the discomfort and potential disappointment. Unfortunately all this does is ensure they recreate it. 

So I want to ask you again…are you prepared to succeed? 


Are you practicing, playing and envisioning in your mind your inevitable success and magic that comes from you going all in? 

In this moment are you embodying and embracing the joy of things moving forward with ease while also taking the necessary steps you know to take because you’re committed to what you desire?

Are you intentional with your thoughts as you plant and cultivate the very beliefs that produce the fruits of abundance, peace, joy, success and expansion in your life? 

In this moment are you staying in the present moment while you tune into your intuition in preparation to take the next step with full trust that it’s all for a greater purpose? 

Are you actively working through the gremlin thoughts as they come up because you know that’s part of the path to your greatness? 

???

If you aren’t doing all of those things all the time, I have good news for you…you don’t have to check every box in every moment of every day. However…the more you live in the space of preparing, expecting and believing in your inevitable success…the easier, better and more magical your life will be. 

Belief is the backbone of your success and achievement of your goals, dreams and desires. Without the belief in yourself and your journey you won’t get very far, very fast. 


I once had a client ask me how much you need to believe in order to create positive shifts in your life and in the world. Do you need 100% unshakeable trust and belief in yourself 100% of the time?  Thankfully the answer is no. 

Your mindset is something you are ideally growing all the time and it takes practice, focus and intentionality. So, no you don’t have to believe in yourself 100% of the time, but you do have to commit to growing and expanding your belief consistently. 

When you do…incredible things happen like…

–> A new job you weren’t even actively looking for lands in your lap and it comes with all the magic & synchronicities you could ever imagine. (This happened for a client I worked with last year.)

–> Thousands of dollars pour into your life just after you follow your intuition and make the scary decision to take some much-needed and deserved time off of work. (This happened for a client just this week!)

–> You feel such immense gratitude for an amazing day/life that it brings you to tears because you realize that struggle doesn’t have to be a part of your story anymore. (A past client emailed me her experience this week!)

And truly so much more is possible…

When you trust yourself, the Universe & you truly believe in YOU, life gets better that you ever imagined possible. Money flows, answers show up out of the blue, opportunities abound but beyond all of that you realize YOU had the power all along. 

You have the power & now is the time to unlock it. The Trust & Belief Event begins on Monday and it is going to help you do just that..and so much more. 

Over 3 days we are going to…

–>Transform your relationship with trust 
–>Cover how to trust your intuition more fully
–>Elevate your intuition for more ease in your journey
–> Identify your trust issues/goal trauma so you can heal it once and for all
–>Explore specific tools & practices to enhance your self-belief
–>Identify the inside/out rule of creating what you desire
–>Outline ways to activate faith & flow when you need it most
–>Unlock the power you already have to create what you desire with EASE

If you’re ready to lean into more trust & belief and see what life has in store for you when you do, I invite you to join us. 

A few things you need to know before you join….

1. Currently there are still **THREE** freebie sessions available for the next 3 people who sign up for the event. (Honestly, I don’t know why there are even that many left, but there are. Snag one while you can.)

2. After this event the only way you will be able to work with me for 2021 is through my 1:1 program. I will be using the rest of the year to get my book done & provide the best support to my 1:1 clients.

Now you know…let’s go! Click the link below to get signed up!

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3 Truths & 1 Lie

August 11, 2021 by Lamisha

Image by PDPics from Pixabay

**Read all the way to the end for a special announcement!**

3 Truths + A Lie we’ve all believed at some point…

Truthbomb #1- Your dreams & desires are your destiny.

Your desires are gifts from the Universe and because they are things you want in your life…they are meant to happen IF you allow them. The problem most of us have is that we don’t exactly allow them in because we lack the belief and trust that they are part of our destiny. The desire for more money feels too insignificant and selfish. The desire for a beautiful home or car feels superficial. The dream to have more time and financial freedom feels impossible.  So, we doubt it and ourselves and treat our dreams and desires as nothing more than pie in the sky ideals when in reality they are so.much.more. 


Truthbomb #2- You already have access to “how”. 

I know, when someone told me this truth before, I rolled my eyes too, but it’s true. Not only are your desires a gift from the Universe, but you, friend are an extension of the Divine. Your desires, dreams and intentions are not only empowered by Source/God/Universe, but they are the expression of it. And with that comes access to all the answers you need through your intuition. Your intuitive nudges and inklings literally pave the way for you to get to where you want to be, but again…you must trust it. You are the map. You have the answers. You just need to trust it and learn how to tap into that wealth of knowledge.

Truthbomb #3- All your power lies in the NOW. 

What you think now matters more than what you thought then. How you act now, has more power than how you acted then. The vibe you hold now is the power from which you create your future. All of your power lies in the now and yet far too many of us get caught up in what we did before or what will be doing in a time that has yet to come. When we lose focus of the present moment we split our energy and lose access to the most potent power we have…our mindset and intuition. As I said to a client just last week…Inspiration/intuition can’t reach you when you’re focused on the past or worried about the future. You must live, be, think and embody the vibe you wish to create from the NOW space. 

The LIE: What I see is *true* and it’s not working out for me. 

Oh is this a doozy! So many of us are living a false story and limited life because of what we see in the now. What you see is simply an OLD manifestation. It’s old news. It’s old thoughts turned to things. It’s past beliefs made manifest and literally has *no* bearing on where you are going…unless you believe it. 

The bank balance, weight on the scale, relationship status, work dynamics, health issue and the like are just past manifestations and they don’t matter *if* you want something different and can remember #3. Not only that, but it’s a limited representation of what is actually happening on an energetic level. We can’t see all the magic and synchronicities that are playing out.


There is so much going on behind the scenes and the very thought that what we see is ALL there is, negates all the magic and wonder waiting for you. 


THIS friends…is why TRUST & BELIEF is critical. 
THIS friends…is why I do this work. 
THIS friends…is why the Trust & Belief event is happening next week.


Here’s the truth…sometimes the only thing you’re “missing” is more Trust & Belief in the process and in yourself. 


So ask yourself today, on a scale from 1-10 how much do you really trust & believe in yourself, the process and the inevitability of your desires? If it’s a 7 or below (or you just want to strengthen your trust muscle even more), I highly recommend you join us for the Trust & Belief Event starting on Monday. I’ve included a post with all the details for you here, however if you *know* you’re ready to sign up, I encourage you to sign up here. 


Special Announcement!!!! For the next **FIVE** people who sign up, you will receive one of the Pay What You Can Birthday sessions for free. 

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Where did the trust go?

August 10, 2021 by Lamisha

Yesterday I hopped on a Facebook Live to chat a bit about trust and why so many of us struggle to trust the path, process and journey to what we desire. It’s something I see often enough that I thought it might be helpful for me to share with you here. 

Check it out!

So, let me ask you…

Is trust a challenge for you when it comes to believing that you can and will create and manifest the changes you desire in your life? If so, the August: Trust & Belief Event is perfect for you. Check out the details below to see if it feels like a good fit.
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Trust & Belief Event: The Details

When does it start?  This live event will run for 3 days on (Note the date change: August 23rd, 24th & 26th @ 6:30 pm EST each day. All calls will be recorded and emailed out after for those who can’t join live. 

Where is this taking place?  This is an online event that will be run via Zoom and email only. No Facebook group will be included this time around.

What are we going to cover?

Day 1:Trust – A deep dive into transforming your relationship with trust.  Here we will cover what trust is, why it’s required & how it impacts how and what you create in your life. We will also discuss how to overcome past trust issues & goal trauma as you learn to trust yourself, the process and the Universe again.

Day 2: Belief- Systems & processes for activating bigger belief more consistently. Here we will cover the truth of who you are and what you came to do, plus how you can remember that when you need it most.  We will also discuss the common challenges that keep you from believing & how to believe bigger/beyond where you are in any given moment.  Finally,  I will teach you the D-A-E formula for success & the inside/out rule for creating what you desire. 

Day 3: Faith Flow- Tapping into faith & flow in even the most challenging of times.  Here we will discuss how to keep the faith when it feels like it’s not working out. I will teach you how to anchor your belief, remember who you are & attune to your intuitive self so you can tap back into flow. 

Each day will also include 15 minutes of questions & coaching time so you can get specific support for whatever is coming up for you. I will also assign any combination of journal questions, prompts or other assignments in order to go deeper into the material.

How do I sign up?? Simply sign up here. Easy peasy! (Note: If you were one of the first 5 people to sign up for the Energy & Expansion event,  you should have already received a separate email with your special registration link.)

If you *know* trust is a challenge for you, this event is exactly what you need. If you doubt yourself, the path, your process and the signs & synchronicities around…this is for you. Let’s do it!

And if you *REALLY* want to double down on your results from this workshop, why not snag one of the Pay what you can 1:1 sessions in addition to registering for the event? I promise, you won’t be sorry you did!  There are currently 11 spots open for the PWYC sessions so if you want to snag one, email me here & I’ll send you the details. 

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